[8:03 PM] Archdiocese: im sending something to both you and skir.  Please read it for me.
[8:03 PM] Archdiocese: Ok so I know that Tryst gave you two the go ahead, but I have to be honest with you both.  Its not ok.  Its not saying that something will go bad, but if it did it puts her in a very tough spot, one being a kid of ours, one being a best friend.  and the fact she does not want to ever have to pick between the two of you has put so much on her that its literally making her sick. She expressed to both her fears, to not flirt, and not go after someone she cared about, in both of you.  I wish you both would think about this before you go forward.  I love you both but I will always put Trysts interests before everyone elses, and I hope you understand that.
[8:15 PM] Violet: I appreciate you voicing your concerns. Both Skir and i have talked extensively about this and the situation. We both agreed to be adults about this. We're both not sure what will come of us but we are enjoying each others company. Neither of us want drama or to put mom in a situation where she feels uncomfortable. I love you both and I hope that you can trust me enough to make an adult decision. I get her fears, I really do. We're not taking those lightly so don't mistake us for just jumping into something head first.
[8:22 PM] Archdiocese: I just wish you both would have taken your moms words to heart when she tried to get you both to stop before it ever started.  and actually paid attention to the fact she cares about you both so much and never wanted to be in this place to start.
[8:23 PM] Violet: At this point y'all are freaking out over nothing. We're literally just talking and hanging out.
[8:25 PM] Violet: I mean right now you know what we're doing? Play greedy with some friends and shit talking each other. Please just trust that I'm not a whore or an airhead and I can make adult decisions.
[8:32 PM] Archdiocese: I do trust that, and im not implying you are a whore or an airhead.  I just wish you would have listened to your mom so that way she didnt feel the way she does.  And I dont think eather of you thought of that or looked at how that was going to play out.  I have been the one listening to her stress out over it just as it is now.  on top of the fact she already have to go threw a friendship once with kate and that is barely even a friendship now.  to me it just showed that you both didnt care about her feelings at all.  so its not freaking out over nothing IMO.
[8:33 PM] Archdiocese: I need to go afk for a bit.
[8:36 PM] Violet: We did listen then she gave us her blessing.so we nerded out and talked about comics n' stuff in our area. We've talked about the what ifs extensively and we didn't take her feelings lightly. Neither of us want to hurt her in any way. I'm not Kate. Not even close. So please stop thinking we're going to follow that same path. Just kind of hurts I guess.
[8:37 PM] Violet: I don't want to fight with either of you. I just want to be happy. I'm sorry if that happiness made mom panic.
[8:42 PM] Archdiocese: You listened when she gave you her blessing, you both didnt listen when she said no before that, hell 24 hrs before that. or a blessing would not have mattered. and even then I feel she only did so, soy ou two didnt do anything behind her back and then she got caught in teh fall out IF something went wrong.  Anyways I am going to go put my kids to bed.  I don't want to fight with either of you also.  I was just hoping you both would have had your eyes open towards someone who really cares about the both of you.  ill be back later or in the morning
[8:43 PM] Violet: We literally didn't talk besides in a group setting until she gave us her blessing.
[8:45 PM] Violet: Have a good night. Love you dad.




8:04 PM] Archdiocese: im sending something to both you and vivvy, please read it for me
[8:04 PM] Archdiocese: Ok so I know that Tryst gave you two the go ahead, but I have to be honest with you both.  Its not ok.  Its not saying that something will go bad, but if it did it puts her in a very tough spot, one being a kid of ours, one being a best friend.  and the fact she does not want to ever have to pick between the two of you has put so much on her that its literally making her sick. She expressed to both her fears, to not flirt, and not go after someone she cared about, in both of you.  I wish you both would think about this before you go forward.  I love you both but I will always put Trysts interests before everyone elses, and I hope you understand that.
[8:08 PM] iNflictiOn_Games: hey man
[8:08 PM] iNflictiOn_Games: read it, im working but i will respond as i can
[8:09 PM] Archdiocese: ok.  Power and net s been flickering due to ice but if I dont see it ill see it when it comes up again.
[8:09 PM] iNflictiOn_Games: all good i just didnt want you to think i was ignoring it
[9:17 PM] iNflictiOn_Games: listen man, i respect the absolute hell out of you and tryst, and i love both of you, and that is 100% real no lie.  i am a very private and closed of individual and youre the only ones ive ever really let in. I did listen to tryst and when she told me absolutely not right off the bat, i didnt argue or fight her wishes and didnt talk to vi and basically avoided her except the one night her tee anthony and i hung out and that was because tryst wanted me there that day so i was, she went for food and we thought she would be back so we all stayed and hung out. It made me curious and interested in Vi after seeing how fun she was, so i asked her, and when she said no, i absolutely told her i respect it and i did, she told us that if we think things could work, then alright but dont involve her, and thats exactly what we are and have done, we are being very upfront and clear about things, we arent rushing or jumping in, we have talked pretty heavily on what could happen if things dont work out, but we in the end are both adults, and there needs to be some level of trust and respect. From us toward you guys, but also from you guys to us. I wont lie, i like the girl. but at this point we are just talking and taking things extremely casual and slow. goofing off mostly and sharing stories or just plain being dumb. I 100% understand trysts worries and fears. i accept that with kate things got muddy, and i played a part in that. But it also bothers me its thrown in my face. Kate is the one that complicated the situation, with her actions and what she did, i got upset in my reaction and involved tryst wrongfully so, but their relationship has not been a product of me being with her, its a product of kate being kate. my involvement in that relationship stopped about 2 weeks after her and i broke up and you messaged me and repaired things. Tryst has to have some faith and trust in our abilities to be adults in the matter.
[9:18 PM] iNflictiOn_Games: wall of text, apologes for how long that was
[9:18 PM] iNflictiOn_Games: lol