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[2021-09-06 03:23:29] <JiuYi> Yes, which is the reason "superstraight" exists
[2021-09-06 03:24:12] <+mildcannibal> the only issue the straights dont understand is that if you are that straight you actually curve back around to being gay
[2021-09-06 03:24:31] <+mildcannibal> they dont understand lgbtq+ theory
[2021-09-06 03:25:58] <+mildcannibal> why is tripsit this active at 3:25 am est on monday morning lol
[2021-09-06 03:26:00] <JiuYi> And I guess that's fine. I don't think we should force men that don't like dicks to date MtF pre-ops. Same the other way around
[2021-09-06 03:26:06] <+mildcannibal> yeah i agree
[2021-09-06 03:26:36] <JiuYi> But how does the "curve back around to being gay" work for people that are that straight? I'm not well versed in lgbtq+ theory myself, either
[2021-09-06 03:26:54] <+mildcannibal> like i dont really like the term superstraight, it is kind of silly and unnecessary, i dont think every conceivable variation of every possible sexuality needs a label, hence why i dont identify as demipansexual
[2021-09-06 03:27:16] <+mildcannibal> okay so being straight or gay is like a mobius strip right
[2021-09-06 03:27:23] <+mildcannibal> one side is gay, one side is straight
[2021-09-06 03:27:27] <JiuYi> Oh yeah, that's one of my main complaints, the many many labels
[2021-09-06 03:27:46] <+mildcannibal> and if you are one or the other, you stay on your side
[2021-09-06 03:28:24] <+mildcannibal> but like if you are super either one you actually end up overextendig and winding up at least partially the other one, cause you are taking up too much space on the strip
[2021-09-06 03:29:04] <+mildcannibal> this is called the radical reverse rubrik of sexuality
[2021-09-06 03:29:56] <JiuYi> I'm not sure whether I agree with that theory
[2021-09-06 03:30:11] <+mildcannibal> i can prove it
[2021-09-06 03:30:30] <+mildcannibal> it is a known fact that all "superstraights" like pegging
[2021-09-06 03:30:52] <JiuYi> Why does being superstraight automatically take up more space instead of being a subset?
[2021-09-06 03:31:04] <JiuYi> Hm, I might need some sources on that :P
[2021-09-06 03:31:13] <+mildcannibal> and that all "supergays" admire their mothers, which according to freud makes them attracted to at least one woman
[2021-09-06 03:32:13] <+mildcannibal> well the thing is not all superstraights have TRIED pegging, because they perceive it as gay
[2021-09-06 03:32:16] <+mildcannibal> but they do all like it
[2021-09-06 03:32:26] <+mildcannibal> it's' an inmutable fact
[2021-09-06 03:32:34] <JiuYi> I'm pretty sure most men would like it
[2021-09-06 03:32:53] <JiuYi> But "MuH BuTtHoLE iS EXiT ONlY"
[2021-09-06 03:33:07] <+mildcannibal> yes, but if you are regular straight then you arent trying so hard to seem straight, so you are more likely to be okay with pegging and not have it impact your sexuality
[2021-09-06 03:34:25] <JiuYi> I think most people in my friend group are more accepting towards pegging than dating a trans person
[2021-09-06 03:34:36] <+mildcannibal> it's kind of like if you kick a kickball into the sides you are out (gay) but also if you kick it out of the field you are out (gay)
[2021-09-06 03:34:56] <+mildcannibal> by attempting to seem even more straigt they overcompensate and kick the ball outof the field
[2021-09-06 03:35:33] <+mildcannibal> then your friends must be staight and just happen to not be attracted to trans people
[2021-09-06 03:35:44] <+mildcannibal> see superstraight is a self applied label
[2021-09-06 03:35:48] <+mildcannibal> it isnt a descriptor
[2021-09-06 03:35:53] <+mildcannibal> it's anidentity
[2021-09-06 03:36:21] <+mildcannibal> if you assume that identity, you are attempting to signal to everyone around you that you are even straighter than other straight people
[2021-09-06 03:36:37] <+mildcannibal> hence the super
[2021-09-06 03:36:49] <+mildcannibal> as in above, beyond what is commonly known as straight
[2021-09-06 03:37:27] <JiuYi> "Straighter than thou"
[2021-09-06 03:37:31] <+mildcannibal> exactly
[2021-09-06 03:38:05] <+mildcannibal> and have you ever noticed that the namesake of that is oftentimes in fact far less holy than they attempt to appear to be?
[2021-09-06 03:38:49] <+mildcannibal> like it's like saying "im not black, im superblack"
[2021-09-06 03:38:51] <JiuYi> I just believe it's made up by some rightist folks who created is a response to the "Straight means you date women, trans women are women, so you should also date trans women"-philosophy
[2021-09-06 03:38:54] <+mildcannibal> like how much sense doesthat make?
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[2021-09-06 03:39:13] <+mildcannibal> how can you be more of a latent thing you naturally are?
[2021-09-06 03:39:17] <+mildcannibal> than other people
[2021-09-06 03:39:23] <+mildcannibal> who are also latently that thing
[2021-09-06 03:39:47] <JiuYi> It's kinda cringe ngl
[2021-09-06 03:40:03] <+mildcannibal> yeah like you can be straight and not attracted to trans people imo
[2021-09-06 03:40:07] <+mildcannibal> nothing wrong with that
[2021-09-06 03:40:37] <+mildcannibal> i am totally fine when someone tells me they arent interested in me romantically/sexually due to me being trans
[2021-09-06 03:40:42] <+mildcannibal> because they uh
[2021-09-06 03:40:47] <+mildcannibal> cant help it?
[2021-09-06 03:40:47] <+mildcannibal> lol
[2021-09-06 03:40:58] <+mildcannibal> nobodyc an just control their sexuality
[2021-09-06 03:41:19] <JiuYi> Yeah, exactly, much like I'm not attracted to women who think the finale to Game of Thrones was fine
[2021-09-06 03:41:21] <+mildcannibal> it's a non-issue for people to not be attracted to me due to their sexuality