SF_CitadelSF_Citadel 95
San Francisco, California
written about 8 hours ago:
Your recent behavior and actions are not in line with the community standards and values of our venue, it's hosts, and owners. Including creating multiple accounts to circumvent your volunteer suspension and multiple allegations of consent consent violations. As a result, effective immediately, you (including ALL Iterations and Persona's) are no longer welcome or allowed to attend any and all things that are held at or put on by the SF Citadel, such as Play Parties, Classes, and Discussion Groups.

Sincerely,
SF Citadel

serius007serius007 37GF
San Francisco, California
written about 7 hours ago:
Who is sayin thi? I will not go away quietly.

serius007serius007 37GF
San Francisco, California
written about 7 hours ago:
Why cant we discuss this like rational adults. This is ridiculous.

SF_CitadelSF_Citadel 95
San Francisco, California
written about 4 hours ago:
The Decision to Ban you has been made and is Final. Our decision to do so was not made by any single person but rather by a group of people involved with running the SF Citadel, including other volunteers, party hosts, management, and the owners themselves.

As stated in the original message Effective immediately (July 1st, 2016) You (including ALL Iterations and Persona's) are no longer welcome or allowed to attend any and all things that are held at or put on by the SF Citadel, such as Play Parties, Classes, and Discussion Groups.

As such if you attempt to enter the SF Citadel you will be denied entry and asked to leave. If you refuse to do so then you will be escorted out of the building.

A further explanation on why you were banned. Initially you were suspended from volunteering for 6 months for a few different reasons (per our records). Shortly there after you created a second FetLife account, Tiamat2112 and used that account to request volunteer shifts in a attempt to circumvent your suspension. That action alone is enough to warrant you being banned from SF Citadel.

In regards to the allegations of Consent violations, we are unable to disclose the details about them. Some of them you have already been talked to privately by others. What we found while looking into them fully supports the allegations.

So in addition to breaking the rules at SF Citadel, your overall behavior and actions were neither appropriate or in line with the community standards and values of our venue, it's hosts, and owners. Thus resulting in our final decision to Ban you from Citadel.

Sincerely,
SF Citadel

serius007serius007 37GF
San Francisco, California
written about 4 hours ago:
And what about doing the adult thing and talking to me in person. I didnt agree to the suspension. Again the concent allegations. This is sentencing without a trial. I did not create the other account soley to circumvent the suspension.

I created it because I felt like it and it was an added Idea from being distraught of a 6 month suspension that I would embody a different role, character, identity, there by not being the person suspended but a whole new persona. It could even be a pyschotic break because of lack of sleep and the stress of being isolated from the community I was used to belong ing to. I cant justify paying for a party when volunteering is an option.

Then I was caught regarding the other identity and so said my apologies. You dont accept that, I made a mistake in that regard.

I still am not ok with the suspension. What about getting my side of the story?

Being an adult and talking to me in person.

It's a messed up thing to be counting all the infractions secretly and not telling the person, then when they get one last straw of infraction suspended for 6 months. Even though I had 18 other flawless positions.

And the coward behind the screen why wont you at least identify yourself?

Then you ask me to do something regarding alchemy. Where was I wrong in saying I am a host to that party. I talked to alia on sunday about hosting and finding a co host. The co host wasnt necessarily going to be an alter ego. I can still find a co host. I thought it was fun to give my baby dragon an identity like we do in this community. Littles, furries etc.

Concsent violations that have no facts are just made up things. How can I improve my behaviour without knowing where I made a mistake.

You have no heart, compassion, empathy. I was stressed to hear I was suspended. I did show up to the party granted late but it wasnt a no show. And as I explained to anubis the party wasnt that busy. Cyn blew it oyt of proportion. She was upset that the party was low attendance and other no shows. What if I got into a car accident would that be a valid excuse, heart attack?

Jamie

serius007serius007 37GF
San Francisco, California
written about 4 hours ago:
I can not respect and honour a decision communicated by a nameless faceless person. If you call me voice maybe but it seems you are not a rational, or empathetic, reasonable person.

Do you have the honor to at least call me and tell me over the phone?

925-360-5179