"Realistic" action singleplayer games list

Listed from lowest to highest in scale:
-Stranded deep(?)
-Green Hell
-The Forest(?)
-The Long Dark
-Dayz arma 2 mod
-Kingdom come deliverance
-Insurgency mod
-Red Orchestra 2(?)
-Insurgency(?)
-Insurgency kurdstorm(??)
-Swat 3
-Swat 4
-Project I.G.I.
-I.G.I. 2(?)
-Hidden and dangerous
-Hidden and dangerous 2
-Vietcong
-Far Cry 2
-Arma 2(?)
-Stalker SoC
-Stalker CS
-Stalker CoP
-Stalker CoC/whatever fork you like
-SOCOM 1
-SOCOM 2
-SOCOM 3
-SOCOM Combined assault
-Rainbow Six/with expansion
-Rainbow Six: Rogue Spear/with all expansions
-Rainbow Six: Lone Wolf
-Ghost Recon/with all expansions
-Freeman Guerilla Warfare (?)
-Freedom Fighters
-Operation flashpoint: cold war crisis
-Operation flashpoint: Red River
-Operation flashpoint: Dragon Rising/open-world mod(if it still exists)
-Arma
-Arma 3(?)
-Radio Commander
-Sid Meiyer's pirates
-Jagged Alliance/deadly games
-Jagged Alliance 2/with all expansions
-Tropico games/pirates one (I have no idea which are good/the best)
-Company of Heroes 2/with all expansions
-Company of Heroes
-Stronghold HD
-Stronghold 2
-Stronghold crusader HD/stronghold crusader extreme
-American Conquest/with all expansions
-Rebels Inc: Escalation
-Dawn of Man
-Kingdoms and Castles
-Medieval Kingdom Wars
-Cossacks 1/with all expansions
-Cossacks 2/with the expansions
-Cossacks 3
-Age of empires (Old one)
-Age of empires 2/with all expansions
-Age of empires 3/with all expansions
-Hearts of Iron 4(?)