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Subject: [forum] what the fuck? cw sexual assault mention
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From: Emma Kervel <emma.kervel14@ncf.edu>
Date: Sat, Oct 31, 2015 at 9:27 PM
To: forum <forum@ncfforum.com>


So this was taped to the door into the water fountain area in ham? If this is your poster, take any others down please because it's weird and fucked up.


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From: Rory Sharp <rory.sharp14@ncf.edu>
Date: Sat, Oct 31, 2015 at 9:37 PM
To: Emma Kervel <emma.kervel14@ncf.edu>
Cc: forum <forum@ncfforum.com>


what. the. actual. fuck. This is beyond fucked up.

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From: Shannon Lumpkin <shannon.lumpkin12@ncf.edu>
Date: Sun, Nov 1, 2015 at 1:42 AM
To: Rory Sharp <rory.sharp14@ncf.edu>
Cc: Emma Kervel <emma.kervel14@ncf.edu>, forum <forum@ncfforum.com>


This was also taped DIRECTLY ON TOP of a consent poster near Dort. I ripped it down and I entreat all of ya'll to do the same.

If this was someone on campus who put these up, you are a disgusting human being and this is not funny.

If these have triggered you, make sure you seek out support and help and take care of yourselves because you should not be forced to look at this stuff somewhere that should be a safe space for you.



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From: Kristy Jones <kristine.jones12@ncf.edu>
Date: Sun, Nov 1, 2015 at 1:10 AM
To: Shannon Lumpkin <shannon.lumpkin12@ncf.edu>
Cc: Rory Sharp <rory.sharp14@ncf.edu>, Emma Kervel <emma.kervel14@ncf.edu>, forum <forum@ncfforum.com>


+1 Shannon
This is disgusting.

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From: Marley DiSalvo <marley.disalvo13@ncf.edu>
Date: Sun, Nov 1, 2015 at 4:25 AM
To: Kristy Jones <kristine.jones12@ncf.edu>
Cc: Shannon Lumpkin <shannon.lumpkin12@ncf.edu>, Rory Sharp <rory.sharp14@ncf.edu>, Emma Kervel <emma.kervel14@ncf.edu>, forum <forum@ncfforum.com>


this is literally an act of violence and is just beyond appalling. I'm actually speechless

Sent from my iPhone

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From: Logan Schulman <logan.schulman13@ncf.edu>
Date: Sun, Nov 1, 2015 at 10:42 AM
To: Marley DiSalvo <marley.disalvo13@ncf.edu>
Cc: Kristy Jones <kristine.jones12@ncf.edu>, Shannon Lumpkin <shannon.lumpkin12@ncf.edu>, Rory Sharp <rory.sharp14@ncf.edu>, Emma Kervel <emma.kervel14@ncf.edu>, forum <forum@ncfforum.com>


what is happening to new?

major thefts? sexually aggressive posters OVER consent posters? posters for clubs being torn down/stolen? graffiti? like what the fuck is up?

I am most appalled at this most recent act.
--
Logan Schulman

New College of Florida Black Box Theater Senior TA
New College of Florida Student Admissions Rep. Captain
Fundraising Coordinator to the Windmill Theater Company

Cell: (407) 488 6486 Email: logan.schulman13@ncf.edu


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From: Lena Santos <lena.santos14@ncf.edu>
Date: Sun, Nov 1, 2015 at 12:16 PM
To: Logan Schulman <logan.schulman13@ncf.edu>
Cc: Marley DiSalvo <marley.disalvo13@ncf.edu>, Kristy Jones <kristine.jones12@ncf.edu>, Shannon Lumpkin <shannon.lumpkin12@ncf.edu>, Rory Sharp <rory.sharp14@ncf.edu>, Emma Kervel <emma.kervel14@ncf.edu>, forum <forum@ncfforum.com>


*omw back to new*
"Ok so nvm can we turn around now"

This is literally the most overtly threatening and offensive thing I've seen here in a while that is most likely FROM the student body

idgaf whether or not the person actually believes this or is just trying to be a massive troll (or both most likely), there is no circumstance or context in which rape will ever be a joke
Fuck and I don't even say that about many things ugh

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From: <margaret.owens14@ncf.edu>
Date: Sun, Nov 1, 2015 at 1:03 PM
To: Lena Santos <lena.santos14@ncf.edu>
Cc: Logan Schulman <logan.schulman13@ncf.edu>, Marley DiSalvo <marley.disalvo13@ncf.edu>, Kristy Jones <kristine.jones12@ncf.edu>, Shannon Lumpkin <shannon.lumpkin12@ncf.edu>, Rory Sharp <rory.sharp14@ncf.edu>, Emma Kervel <emma.kervel14@ncf.edu>, forum <forum@ncfforum.com>


I agree 10000% with what everyone is saying.
However.
I'm concerned this may be the exact reaction the shithead was looking for. I just want to express my concern that we may actually be encouraging them.

Joan

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From: Hannah Bowlus <hannah.bowlus12@ncf.edu>
Date: Sun, Nov 1, 2015 at 1:43 PM
To: "margaret.owens14@ncf.edu" <margaret.owens14@ncf.edu>
Cc: Lena Santos <lena.santos14@ncf.edu>, Logan Schulman <logan.schulman13@ncf.edu>, Marley DiSalvo <marley.disalvo13@ncf.edu>, Kristy Jones <kristine.jones12@ncf.edu>, Shannon Lumpkin <shannon.lumpkin12@ncf.edu>, Rory Sharp <rory.sharp14@ncf.edu>, Emma Kervel <emma.kervel14@ncf.edu>, forum <forum@ncfforum.com>


Honestly I don't care what this person wants I just want to know who they are so we can eject them from the community

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From: Carley Culmo <carley.culmo13@ncf.edu>
Date: Sun, Nov 1, 2015 at 3:56 PM
To: Hannah Bowlus <hannah.bowlus12@ncf.edu>
Cc: "margaret.owens14@ncf.edu" <margaret.owens14@ncf.edu>, Lena Santos <lena.santos14@ncf.edu>, Logan Schulman <logan.schulman13@ncf.edu>, Marley DiSalvo <marley.disalvo13@ncf.edu>, Kristy Jones <kristine.jones12@ncf.edu>, Shannon Lumpkin <shannon.lumpkin12@ncf.edu>, Rory Sharp <rory.sharp14@ncf.edu>, Emma Kervel <emma.kervel14@ncf.edu>, forum <forum@ncfforum.com>


+1 hannah

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From: Bo Buford <taylor.buford12@ncf.edu>
Date: Sun, Nov 1, 2015 at 4:13 PM
To: Carley Culmo <carley.culmo13@ncf.edu>
Cc: Hannah Bowlus <hannah.bowlus12@ncf.edu>, "margaret.owens14@ncf.edu" <margaret.owens14@ncf.edu>, Lena Santos <lena.santos14@ncf.edu>, Logan Schulman <logan.schulman13@ncf.edu>, Marley DiSalvo <marley.disalvo13@ncf.edu>, Kristy Jones <kristine.jones12@ncf.edu>, Shannon Lumpkin <shannon.lumpkin12@ncf.edu>, Rory Sharp <rory.sharp14@ncf.edu>, Emma Kervel <emma.kervel14@ncf.edu>, forum <forum@ncfforum.com>


i would be amazed if we ever found out who this was

imo the most productive thing that can be done is to make it very clear to each other that this kind of shit is unacceptable
we need consent culture in every facet of our lives (ask before touching people, don't pressure people into doing literally anything, be sensitive to energies outside of our own flesh vessels)
we all gotta oppose rape culture visibly and meaningfully and really demonstrate that joking about rape and sexual violence is not en vogue or whatever the fuck
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Bo Buford
Student-Police Liaison ||
T.A., American Foreign Policy: History and Practice
New College of Florida
(407) 754 8390

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From: Nicole Rockower <nicole.rockower12@ncf.edu>
Date: Sun, Nov 1, 2015 at 8:48 PM
To: Margaret Owens <margaret.owens14@ncf.edu>
Cc: Lena Santos <lena.santos14@ncf.edu>, Logan Schulman <logan.schulman13@ncf.edu>, Marley DiSalvo <marley.disalvo13@ncf.edu>, Kristy Jones <kristine.jones12@ncf.edu>, Shannon Lumpkin <shannon.lumpkin12@ncf.edu>, Rory Sharp <rory.sharp14@ncf.edu>, Emma Kervel <emma.kervel14@ncf.edu>, forum <forum@ncfforum.com>


do any of these locations have cameras on them that we could pull the tapes from?

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From: Kira Thoenes <kira.thoenes14@ncf.edu>
Date: Sun, Nov 1, 2015 at 8:56 PM
To: Nicole Rockower <nicole.rockower12@ncf.edu>
Cc: Emma Kervel <emma.kervel14@ncf.edu>, Shannon Lumpkin <shannon.lumpkin12@ncf.edu>, Kristy Jones <kristine.jones12@ncf.edu>, Lena Santos <lena.santos14@ncf.edu>, Rory Sharp <rory.sharp14@ncf.edu>, Margaret Owens <margaret.owens14@ncf.edu>, Logan Schulman <logan.schulman13@ncf.edu>, forum <forum@ncfforum.com>, Marley DiSalvo <marley.disalvo13@ncf.edu>


I wonder if they printed it in the mac lab ? are cameras over there?

Also kinda gross that they used a cop shop pamphlet about riding with a helmet (the listen to ed thing).. I wouldn't be surprised if they got the other stuff from places on campus too


I'm not sure if anyone has shared this with housing but I just sent them an e-mail to see if they can somehow address it.

this is honestly beyond sick. who finds this shit funny...

Best,
Wilmarie Ríos Jaime

On Mon, Nov 2, 2015 at 2:30 PM, Aubrey Neher <sarah.neher12@ncf.edu> wrote:
+1 hannah

On Mon, Nov 2, 2015 at 2:03 PM, Bradley Baker <bradley.baker12@ncf.edu> wrote:
++support to all of the dissent and anger on this thread

There is a very toxic attitude among some people at this campus (and outside of it), which strives to trivialize and ridicule efforts of support for victims of assault, to mock critical efforts against institutions of violence, to make fun of the traumatic experiences of others, ...

On Mon, Nov 2, 2015 at 1:39 PM, Shelby Statham <shelby.statham13@ncf.edu> wrote:
I have never felt more disappointed in New College than I have in this moment. These posters are disgusting. Whoever did this is disgusting. These signs were made with bits and pieces of the resources we provide in SHARE for survivors of violence. What kind of message do you think this sends?

This isn't the first incident of someone disrespecting this space. Someone vandalized the center last year, someone chalked a fucked up assault joke on the wall a couple of weeks ago, and now this.

I don't want to keep reiterating the great points everyone else has said in this thread about these posters. I do want to point out that this isn't an isolated event and might not be just one person. Please, please do what you can to support survivors on campus after this. If anyone feels uncomfortable going by themselves, I'd be more than willing to go with you to the cops about this. I'm so, so disappointed.

On Mon, Nov 2, 2015 at 8:19 AM, Bo Buford <taylor.buford12@ncf.edu> wrote:
+1 vin


On Monday, November 2, 2015, Vinushka Schalk <stefan.schalk12@ncf.edu> wrote:
instead of destroying them keep them as evidence and go to the cop shop

On Mon, Nov 2, 2015 at 2:18 AM, Nicole Rockower <nicole.rockower12@ncf.edu> wrote:
I want to go to the campus police about this either tomorrow or Tuesday

if anyone who has seen one of these posters hanging up feels comfortable coming with me, pm me?

On Nov 2, 2015 2:10 AM, "Lara Grauerholz-Fisher" <lara.grauerholz12@ncf.edu> wrote:
heads up: if you're going to destroy a poster, please actually dispose of it!!! Shannon and I walked into the Dort elevator a few minutes ago and found a soaking wet poster on the wall (with like blue ink water on the floor, which gave it a weird crime scene feel ick) and it actually felt super menacing and stuff (we threw away the wet poster btw)

so basically yeah please destroy AND dispose of these posters!!

On Mon, Nov 2, 2015 at 1:53 AM, Hannah Procell <hannah.procell14@ncf.edu> wrote:
THIS ISNT OKAY

NOT OKAY

NO MORE OKAY

NOT. OKAY.

PLEASE STOP YOU FUCKED UP HUMAN GET YOUR KICKS ELSEWHERE!

On Mon, Nov 2, 2015 at 1:21 AM, Logan Starnes <logan.starnes12@ncf.edu> wrote:
Hey all!
We were just in the Dort elevator and there wasn't any of those posters and we were just in the elevators again a few minutes ago and they were there which means this person is out putting more of these disgusting posters up around campus right now!

(Ps, we destroyed the poster so dont worry about that one)

On Sun, Nov 1, 2015 at 8:56 PM, Kira Thoenes <kira.thoenes14@ncf.edu> wrote:
I wonder if they printed it in the mac lab ? are cameras over there?

Also kinda gross that they used a cop shop pamphlet about riding with a helmet (the listen to ed thing).. I wouldn't be surprised if they got the other stuff from places on campus too








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