SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 10:57 PM
cHelseaa
psst
Mercury - Today at 10:57 PM
yess
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 10:58 PM
fuck idk how to properly phrase this so
take this extremely out of place question with a light pinch of salt okay so
say, one of your best friends were to date me, would that affect you at all?
Mercury - Today at 10:59 PM
yes it would
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 10:59 PM
how so
Mercury - Today at 10:59 PM
because i dated you...
Mercury - Today at 11:00 PM
duhh
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 11:00 PM
but how does that affect anything
like, im just trying to understand this mentality
Mercury - Today at 11:01 PM
it affects my friendship with them
cus like i fucking dated you
how do you not understand
thats a problem
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 11:03 PM
i dont know
like, if you dated someone im close to
i wouldnt have any problem with that
so i dont get how
it is a problem the other way
Mercury - Today at 11:04 PM
i guess girls are more attached to their exes emotionally
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 11:07 PM
i still dont
understand
Mercury - Today at 11:17 PM
hmm
so when you break up with someone you just discard all your feelings for them?
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 11:19 PM
i would say yea but i cant say all my feelings for them go away
but i understand if we just broke up and they got with me
thats a cunt move and i understand the
conflict thatd cause right but its been a while
i just cant get what kind of
attachment thered be
Mercury - Today at 11:21 PM
hmm
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 11:22 PM
pleas explain
Mercury - Today at 11:24 PM
i guess you still have strong feelings for someone you dated especially if you loved them..and then your friends goes and fucking date that person even though they know you were really sad about the breakup
its fucked up
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 11:26 PM
yes yes yes i get that
Mercury - Today at 11:26 PM
there we go
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 11:26 PM
no
im trying to say that
over time, you get over it
Mercury - Today at 11:27 PM
some people take longer than others
some people think they are over it but they arent
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 11:29 PM
but isnt it selfish to break up with someone when you still have feelings for them
to then put fucking
caution tape on them and say
you cant date them
Mercury - Today at 11:30 PM
well
maybe your relationship was shit and you thought the best thing for both of you was to break up
doesnt mean you like them less
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 11:35 PM
not necessarily
if you thought your relationship was shit and you still had feelings, you woulda fixed it
if you care enough to stop your friends from dating someone because youre too afraid of being jealous
you woulda cared enough to fix it in the first place
Mercury - Today at 11:37 PM
what if
fixing it didnt make any sense
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 11:39 PM
how?
Mercury - Today at 11:40 PM
idk
maybe it couldnt have been fixed
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 11:43 PM
everything can be fixed
your relationship probably wasnt failing because of some unsolvable problem
Mercury - Today at 11:44 PM
hmm
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 11:46 PM
?
Mercury - Today at 11:48 PM
idk
SenpaiDeoxys - Today at 11:49 PM
nice