let exporter = {}
global.exporter = exporter

const imports = function(module, callback) {
  return new (function(module, callback) {
    Object.defineProperty(exporter, 'use', {
      enumerable: false,
      configurable: true,
      set: function(exportFile) {
        console.log('Setting export file:', exportFile.name, ':', module)
        callback(exportFile)
      },
    })

    console.log('loading module: ', module)
    require(module)
  })(module, callback)
}

exporter.use = {
  name: 'File1',
}

function load(name) {
  imports(__dirname + '/modules/' + name, function(exportFile) {
    console.log('Module loaded: ', exportFile.name)
  })
}

load('1') // instant
load('2') // 2 second timeout
load('3') // 1 second timeout

loading module:  .../modules/1
Setting export file: File1 : .../modules/1
Module loaded:  File1
loading module:  .../modules/2
loading module:  .../modules/3
Setting export file: File3 : .../modules/3
Module loaded:  File3
Setting export file: File2 : .../modules/3
Module loaded:  File2