why are cis people like this

I apologize if it came off that way. I clearly worded my position poorly and that’s on me. I’m speaking purely from a sexual compatiably mindset. No matter how you identify, if you don’t have certain anatomy we’re just not going to work sexually and there’s nothing that I can do to change that. I’m attracted to… idk what the proper terminology is here, if not male anatomy then masculine anatomy? Anatomy one would find on a cisgender male? There’s no other way around that, and if I could be with a man with a vagina then yes, I could be with a cis woman. Not that I’m saying trans men and cis women are the same, but body wise they’re similar enough pre- transition where if I could make it work with one I could feasibly make it work with another.