Katelin Benedict

So I thought this shit was over, but Kate has these niggas dick riding her just like always sending her screenshots of my shit, and always she's being dramatic and going overboard.

Now usually I don’t post shit on Facebook, but since she has half of downriver on her Facebook and she’s making threats to lie and make a bad name of me, just like she “exposed” Tim, I figured I have the right to defend myself.

She threatened to post on Facebook saying I cheated when I really didn't because she’s mad that I posted a status saying I finally slept an entire night in two weeks after being single. So here's the story. Kate and I did shit before we started dating, about 45 mins after I texted my girlfriend at the time and said we should break up because I felt like she wasn’t feeling me, putting in the same effort, and wanted to break up. She (ex before Kate) later texted me clearing everything up and started explaining why she’s been acting the way she was, we stayed broken up for a few days then decided to get back together after telling her what went down between Kate and I. We then broke up again for a final time, and she went to my niggas house to stn and ended up getting a hickie on her neck and lying saying her friend pinched her. (None of this is to slander my ex before Kate and put her personal information out there, so I’m not revealing her name on this post.) But I even talked to my ex last night and she said it’s (me and kate sleeping together) not considered cheating because we weren’t together at the time.

So now let’s clear something else up. I can admit I did something greasy. When I found out that my ex was stn with one of my closest niggas and he left hickies on her shit, (which I recently found out he did it to her in her sleep), I had planned to hurt her the way she hurt me, so I had her pick me up and I told her that I love her and I kissed her and bit tf out of where the hickie was on her neck, and made it a lot worse. During that time Kate and I were flirting and knew we liked each other but we had NO tie downs, we weren’t talking, or in a relationship until THE MORNING AFTER I did the petty shit to my ex because I thought she was fucking one of my boys, when really the nigga was lying and being manipulative, which is a completely different story. In NO way did I EVER cheat on Katelin Benedict, and she kept saying I did while we were dating and I eventually ate it because I explained everything I just did in one of our fights and she completely disregarded it and continued to say I cheated, so I ate it and didn’t say shit every time she tried throwing it in my face because I wanted to avoid a pointless argument that would go in circles and because I knew I was right.

In our relationship, Kate went to parties with her single friends who wanted to fw guys, to a party full of guys in a house all the way out in Milan, 45 mins away from her house, knowing they had no ride home, they let these guys Uber them there, and if I didn’t wake my PREGNANT mom up at 2-3am to come get them, she would’ve stn with those guys while shitfaced. While we were dating. She constantly put herself into positions where she’d be around guys who wanna fwh, disrespecting our relationship, and when I confronted her, she used the excuse saying she’s young and she’s gonna party and I can’t relate because I’m out of high school now. I voiced reasons on why shit she does offends me and worries me and that I have a gut feeling, and every time I’ve had a guy feeling, I was right.

Her friend Stephani CONSTANTLY tried throughout our relationship to get Kate to cheat on me with a dude named Reggie in a threesum with them, and when Kate and I were at an off moment, she even told me she considered it. Then she got pissed because I wasn’t comfortable with her going on vacation to panama for a week or however long to rent a house with her friend Stephani, and the guy Steph wants her to cheat on me with, to get super fucked up every night, and go back to the house they rented to do whatever.

Now, I’ve never been controlling in any of my relationships and anyone can feel free to ask my exs lmao, I’m a chill ass person when it comes to relationships, but she did a lot of shit during our relationship that made me uncomfortable and sketched me out and she placed blame on me saying I have no reason not to trust her.

The thing I find funny is she constantly surrounds herself with people she shit talks, which also made me uncomfortable because I didn’t know if she was doing it to me too, because these are supposed to be her friends and she’s always throwing shade. She constantly bitches because Steph doesn’t wanna cut off their friend Relic, and she wants her to cut Relic off because she claims Relic is giving a bunch of guys herpes and afterwards asking Kate and Steph “Should I tell him I just gave him herpes?”

I had a talk with Kate and I brought up things like “Guys are only bringing you to these partise to fwy, you’re out here partying like you’re single, you’re putting yourself into bad situations” etc etc etc, I even offered to throw parties at my crib so her and her friends can party safely and be in a safe environment.

I typed out a lot of shit I wanted to talk to her about in person so we could fix shit so I could remember, but she refused to talk in person. If I post this (because I’m pretyping it on Word in case she does some bulslhit) then I’ll attach the screenshots in the top comments of the post.

Now that you know the things that slowly destroyed our relationship, lemme tell you guys the reasons for our break ups. The first time Kate dumped me, was because she was afraid that I’d break up with her and waste her time, then we finally worked shit out and got back together, then later on the same week she dumped me again because she couldn’t trust me (back to where she accused me of cheating, and even my ex can come forward with the time frames and say I didn’t cheat on her or my ex.) and then we got back together, and the third time a week later she dumped me because I was at a party with her and my boys, and my boys were on my phone trying to find us a ride home, and they contacted my ex (which happens to be my first love) trying to get a ride, called her off my phone, didn’t even talk to her on the phone, it went to voicemail and they left it at that. The next morning I woke up and looked at my call logs and thought it said she called me, so I called her back to see what she wanted and she told me we called her, and that was pretty much it, and then she asked how Kate and I were doing and we made small talk. Now for Kate, that’s the day the world ended. The rivers ran red with blood, cats and dogs were getting married and taking out mortgages on houses, etc etc etc. Some end of the world Ghost Busters type shit. She dumped me and flipped tf out on me saying a bunch of shit, and we eventually got back together, up until this last time I broke up with her for the reasons I earlier listed were damaging our relationship, and a lot more that I didn’t list in the post or even bring up to her because in the middle of me bringing up shit I didn’t like while we were trying to talk shit out, she went ballistic and started freaking tf out before I could finish and let her tell me what she doesn’t like that I do, which I assume is just responding to girls who text me, and the 0 bullshit call-you-on-your-shit attitude I had gained for her because of how high the tension was between us, and the started acting really toxic in the end, so I knew to end it because I knew I didn’t want that because I’ve had that before and wanted to end it. Everything happens for a reason and one door closes for another to open. I left a situation that I would otherwise be miserable in.