Morning, I have a plate that I hook up with 1-3 times a week if our schedules permit. We talk everyday tho via text. I texted her at 3am that  I wanted to see her and I’d pay for a room  halfway from where we both live. We live 40 miles away from each other but Work near each other. anyway. She was awake but she said she couldn’t sleep. She threw out an excuse or two about meeting. The day before she was telling me she was stressed out because she’s being investigated at work for some incident. She did seem upset by it. Then later that night she gave me the whole “what are we?” conversation. I smoothed that out and everything seemed coo. After overcoming her objections she agreed to meet and even offered to pay for some of the room fees and she was going to call off work. However, she told me I had to pay for her parking at the room. Her objections and the paying for parking thing rubbed me the wrong way. So I cancelled.  She texted me back saying “you’re so mean to me”. I didn’t respond.   I’m thinking of hard nexting her but I don’t know if I’m being too vigilant. She’s usually consistent with meeting to fuck. This has not happened before. I’m quick to hard next a chick when they show the tiniest bit of inconsistency. I often times reflect and think maybe I’m too harsh. Should I take it easy and give her a break or continue and hard next.