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(11:33:04 AM) sadakumu: also, so fourth of july?
(11:33:05 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Interesting! Beef makes sense because of religious beliefs and all
(11:33:22 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) What about it?
(11:33:34 AM) sadakumu: ...are you spending it with alexi's family?
(11:33:37 AM) sadakumu: like.. what else?
(11:33:40 AM) sadakumu: IS IT A HOLIDAY?
(11:33:53 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) I honestly don't know yet.
(11:34:21 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) We kind of had an argument this morning so I don't want to ask what her plans are again
(11:34:38 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) I imagine she hasn't had a chance to ask her family what they're doing.
(11:35:12 AM) sadakumu: jeez, what did you guys even argue about
(11:35:18 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) What all do you guys want to do?
(11:35:30 AM) sadakumu: uhh, blow shit up drink possible pool party?
(11:35:33 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Haha, uh...
(11:35:40 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Pool party at Faridah's?
(11:35:54 AM) sadakumu: thats the initial idea, mostly cause then i can eat their food *__*
(11:36:06 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) I'd love to show off my fat rolls, I need to even out my tan
(11:36:07 AM) sadakumu: but doesnt matter, fireworks are the main event
(11:36:13 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) True facts, lol
(11:36:30 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) And that means I can cook!
(11:36:34 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Anyway.
(11:36:53 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) So she's trying to find a place to live.
(11:37:18 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) And yesterday she tried to call the place she settled on and apparently the management/staff suck ass
(11:37:30 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) And she's not finding anything decent in her budget, blah blah blah
(11:38:31 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) But she got kind of angry or frustrated at me this morning because apparently I've been pushing the place with shitty management too much because it's a 4 minute drive from my house.
(11:39:01 AM) sadakumu: do you agree with that assessment?
(11:41:02 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) I don't agree with how overbearing she made it out to be
(11:41:31 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) And I think she's reading too much into my commentary on places
(11:42:09 AM) sadakumu: im trying to keep an open mind, but i kind of really am not super pleased with her as a person
(11:42:45 AM) sadakumu: i assume she's stressed, but she's kinda mad bitchy D:<
(11:43:41 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) She is quite stressed. And I'm not exactly an impartial person to hear things about her from.
(11:44:05 AM) sadakumu: i mean its not just you, its not like i havent met her
(11:44:21 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Lol, she's come off as bitchy to you otherwise?
(11:44:24 AM) sadakumu: mostly just one thing thats bugged me from this weekend
(11:44:31 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Please tell!
(11:44:53 AM) sadakumu: like when we asked about fourth of july plans and you said you didnt have plans, and then she laughed and was like aww you dont think my family does stuff
(11:45:07 AM) sadakumu: like.. i dont give a fuck about you or your family, you dont get automatic precendence
(11:45:18 AM) sadakumu: it just screamed condescending to me
(11:45:26 AM) sadakumu: cause the voice she said it in just really pissed me off
(11:45:30 AM) sadakumu: like POOR BABY, SO STUPID
(11:46:51 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Well, for what it's worth, when I answered I was speaking for both Alexi and me.
(11:47:06 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Without actually asking.
(11:47:58 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) I guess I assumed that she was going to be doing something with me or whatever
(11:51:09 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) And whatever her family is doing, I don't know whether I'm supposed to be going to that or what
(11:51:49 AM) sadakumu: propriety aside, spending it with someone elses family is squandering an important holiday D:<
(11:52:36 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Yeah, I don't know that I really want to go
(11:52:52 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) But I can't tell if that's this morning speaking or what.
(11:53:38 AM) sadakumu: well, we asked first, soooo fuck that shit
(11:53:47 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) True, true.
(11:53:53 AM) sadakumu: seems like an ordeal, like her mom has cut her off, and now its a family thing?
(11:53:57 AM) sadakumu: sounds groooosssss
(11:54:10 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) What does that have to do with anything?
(11:54:18 AM) sadakumu: i dunno, just seems awkward
(11:54:31 AM) sadakumu: since her relationship with her mom is kinda weird?
(11:54:37 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) I mean, I spent the weekend at her mother's house after her surgery
(11:54:45 AM) sadakumu: pre or post cutting off?
(11:54:46 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) And that was after she was cut off
(11:54:48 AM) sadakumu: eww
(11:55:17 AM) sadakumu: though i guess its not that unreasonable to cut off your 22 year old daughter...
(11:55:23 AM) sadakumu: but advanced notice is nice i guess
(11:56:11 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Yeah, mostly the complaint is that for the two or three weeks prior she was told "not to worry about money" and then was cut off
(11:56:52 AM) sadakumu: what a stand up lady
(11:57:04 AM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Yeah, her mom is kind of shit
(12:00:27 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) We also had a weird thing on Saturday or Friday
(12:00:48 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) I guess Lianne had texted me and it showed up on my watch or something
(12:02:51 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Alexi doesn't really like that I'm "friends" with Lianne and probably doesn't really trust me in that capacity.
(12:03:23 PM) sadakumu: does she know your history with lianne?
(12:03:57 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Yeah, pretty much.
(12:04:57 PM) sadakumu: kinda a little early for distrust
(12:05:22 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) I don't know what the correct emotional response there is, so I'm not saying she's wrong for t in general

(12:07:05 PM) sadakumu: so she's just going to get upset every time lianne texts you? ?__?
(12:07:15 PM) sadakumu: or when you respond? or dont respond? or make any plans with her?
(12:10:34 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) I have no fucking clue.
(12:10:49 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) I get the feeling she has a lot of trust issues.
(12:11:07 PM) sadakumu: is it possible that you are actually dating a cray bitch?
(12:11:24 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Oh, you mean like every other person I've dated
(12:11:26 PM) sadakumu: i mean its lianne, but its not like you ever slept with her
(12:11:28 PM) sadakumu: uhhhh
(12:11:42 PM) sadakumu: this one is less straight forwardly crazy...
(12:12:25 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) She brings up the California trip.
(12:13:04 PM) sadakumu: where you didnt sleep with lianne?
(12:13:11 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Yeah.
(12:13:23 PM) sadakumu: how is that like.. a point of contention?
(12:13:23 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) But I was alone with her for so long...!
(12:13:29 PM) sadakumu: whoaaa
(12:13:44 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) No she didn't actually say that, haha
(12:14:01 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) But I don't fucking know.
(12:15:33 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) On the plus(?) side, Alexi seems to have a specific way of texting when she's upset or something
(12:15:37 PM) sadakumu: i mean i dont understand the entire situation, lianne has never wanted to be with you
(12:15:49 PM) sadakumu: so.... even if you wanted to be with her, lianne isnt like out to seduce you
(12:15:53 PM) sadakumu: what is she worried about?
(12:16:12 PM) sadakumu: with punctuation?
(12:16:22 PM) sadakumu: oh wait, 1 word answers!
(12:17:48 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Close, it's more like dropped punctuation and short answers
(12:17:56 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) 2-3 words.
(12:19:27 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) I was going to say that it's less about jealousy and more about worried that I'll cheat on her
(12:19:38 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) But I guess those aren't necessarily different?
(12:20:21 PM) sadakumu: again, still too early for distrust
(12:21:02 PM) sadakumu: either she's been cheated or she's crazy
(12:21:11 PM) sadakumu: cheated on**
(12:21:18 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) She's been cheated on. (A couple of times? I think)
(12:21:36 PM) sadakumu: jesus
(12:21:50 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Something happened in a similar situation, apparently.
(12:21:53 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) What?
(12:22:39 PM) sadakumu: a couple times seems like a lot, clearly has been dating the wrong kinds of dudes
(12:25:14 PM) sadakumu: but its still wrong to project your insecurities based on peoples past actions on someone else
(12:25:20 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) By her own words, yes. She very much has been.
(12:36:34 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) And you're absolutely right about the projecting.
(12:36:37 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) Shrug!
(12:36:42 PM) [GAYEST CHAT ROOM EVER]: (shadow545@gmail.com) We're working through it