I feel the same. a friend of mine always boast about his gf's BDSM submissiveness when he is drunk.
one day he told me that he had tied his gf in the public toilet on the building he currently owns.

he describes her to standing still, arms tied back, wearing kill heel to control her moving, putting eye patch and duct tape, with headphone that only loops records of her own mourning sound. then he puts dozens of viverators on her pussy, nipples, and even on the ass. he just ababdom him until 8 hours passed