chelsLast Sunday at 10:37 PM
Hey, it's been a couple of days. I'm following up to see if you found those logs yet.
AlexbaeLast Sunday at 10:49 PM
I've had other priorities including work, Chels. Please be patient.
I don't have a normal work week like most people.
chelsLast Sunday at 10:51 PM
That's fine, I can wait. Im just following up like I said I would - I'll check back later.
May 23, 2019
chelsToday at 8:49 PM
Hey there, it's been around a week - checking back to see if you've found those logs.
AlexbaeToday at 8:52 PM
No, Chels. I haven't so feel free to drop it for now.
chelsToday at 8:56 PM
I'm sorry - this is not something I can simply drop. I was accused of some pretty significant things, and you said "To me this is aggression and I see it pop up all the time with you. The way you phrase things in chat, the way you speak to other mentors."
As well as: "I will find the logs that I have spoken to you about however this conversation still stands as is because I have seen how you speak and how you have shown disrespect."

If I've actually been toxic, hostile or aggressive in mentor chat, I'd like to see how so I can not be. But - as of now, I have to believe these logs ever existed, if they have, I'd like for you to provide me with the conversations.
AlexbaeToday at 8:57 PM
Chels, drop it.
I haven't found them, I will let you know when I have time for you and right now I don't. You aren't the only thorn in my side at the moment so just leave it.
I have bigger fish to fry than your attitude right now.
chelsToday at 9:00 PM
If I'm being honest, I don't feel entirely respected or valued by the way you're handling this interaction right now. You told me you would find the logs in that conversation, and then failed to do so, and said you would find them and send them to me; now you're telling me to drop it. What's more you accused me of some pretty heavy things, and - I'm simply asking for evidence so I know how to change, but you have none. You told me you had "pinned things about the conversation." I don't understand how something you've seen "all the time" would be so hard to find.
And then calling me a "thorn in your side" and saying you don't have time for me. I've been willing to spend time finding logs for you, conversing with you; I'd expect the same respect is shown back.
AlexbaeToday at 9:03 PM
Look, right now. I really don't have the time. I told you I would leave it be until I had found the logs. YOu need to stop because I really don't have the time right now. I'm in the middle of preparing a dungeon build, I'm working on a new hud update, I'm handing adjudication issues and anything else on the back end. If you'd like to continue, feel free but I'm done responding to this till later. I'm sorry that you feel disrespected but right now ... I'm at my wits end. So drop it. If there's no logs, there's no logs. Watch what you say to people and how you say it. That's all.
chelsToday at 9:08 PM
To be frank, I feel like you're not really upholding the spirit of your own notice. "Respect goes both ways and you are NOT going to be walked over. This is a volunteer job that we do, we give our time and effort for these people." Yet I feel walked over and writing me off, calling me a thorn in your side; telling me I have attitude, but then failing to provide logs, which you previously asked of me, and also told me it was something you saw "All the time." Now you're saying "If there's no logs, there's no logs." Which one is it? I told you I want to see the logs to see where the attitude is so I can improve, but you're not working with me there or simply aren't willing to spare the time.

I've been civil this entire time, but you've been curt, saying "drop it" multiple times, passive aggressive by calling me a "thorn in your side," and honestly the only attitude I feel is coming from your side.
AlexbaeToday at 9:12 PM
Chels, I have told you, time and time again. If I can find the logs that I am talking about. I will present them to you. Now it's time to stop. I'm serious. If you continue I will be muting you in my IMs because I honestly have other things to do other than argue with you because you cannot seem to just leave it. I have retracted part of the warning until the logs are found. I'm hardly being passive aggress, because I'm downright being aggressive since you cannot seem to just LISTEN. You are a thorn in my side because you have continued even though I have told you that I will tell you when I find the things that I am talking about. It's time that you actually listen rather than keep talking and talk and talking. Stop arguing with people and start listening because you clearly cannot seem to understand that I work a lot more than the average admin and I have other duties than dealing with you and your constant attitude which I see presenting here and now.
If you think I have attitude, bring it to Daewin. Because I'm done with you.
chelsToday at 9:17 PM
Alright. I can see you're not open to continue discussing, so we can end this conversation here. I do want you to know I feel incredibly disrespected after this conversation though, so I'll be asking for an admin to review this in mentor chat.
AlexbaeToday at 9:18 PM
No, you won't
I have passed this to Daewin
You will not be bringing this to any other admin. He is going to be your point of contact.
chelsToday at 9:18 PM
Excuse me?
AlexbaeToday at 9:19 PM
Daewin is handling this from here on out.
chelsToday at 9:20 PM
I don't believe you to dictate how I try to resolve this. You shouldn't be adjudicating your own disagreements. I feel you've been hostile and aggressive, and I'd like to bring this to another admin, now. If Daewin wishes to address it he can as well.
AlexbaeToday at 9:20 PM
I'm not adjudicating my own arguement, Chels. I'm giving it over to Daewin so that as an owner he can handle it.
I'm not bringing another admin in on this because it doesn't involve them. I have lifted it to owner status.
They also know that this is going to owner status.