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Nowdays, a lot of young people do not decide to get married in their twenties, in contrast to the last century. They prefer to wait until they reach their thirties or even older. Is it a good idea or not? I think that it’s a good idea to wait with having children and getting married when your young.

First of all, teenagers and young adults know that marriage and having children would spell the end of their professional career. There are really few parents who are able to successfully combine work with family life and there are very few understanding employers. Nowadays, we all have to choose between family or career and the majority of us chooses the latter.
Also, young people first want to make some money and ensure in future they will be financially independent and able to support their family and children, not having to constantly borrow money form relatives.
Besides, the older the people are, the more emotionally mature and responsible they are and these are all qualities indispensable when having a family.
On the other hand, when someone decides to marry in their 30s and then have children, they may encounter some fertility-related problems. This especially concerns women who often find it difficult to get pregnant. Their biological clock is at its best when they are in their 20s and the older they are, the greater the risk of miscarriage or birth defects.


Taking everything into account, I think lovers shouldn’t be too young when they get married or have children because when they are older they will be more mature and financially stable. Personally I believe, that one day everyone will feel readiness to put on a wedding ring