if(first) { // first packet, server sends to proxy
				Cipher cii = Cipher.getInstance("Blowfish/CFB64/NoPadding");
				Key key = new SecretKeySpec(STATIC_KEY.getBytes("ASCII"), "Blowfish");
				cii.init(Cipher.DECRYPT_MODE, key, new IvParameterSpec("        ".getBytes()));
				ByteBuffer bb = ByteBuffer.wrap(cii.doFinal(packet.array())).order(ByteOrder.LITTLE_ENDIAN);

				int len = bb.getInt(11);
				int junkLen = bb.getInt(15);
				int index = 19 + junkLen;
				byte[] serverIV = new byte[bb.getInt(index)];
				index+=4;
				System.arraycopy(bb.array(), index, serverIV, 0, serverIV.length);
				index+=serverIV.length;
				byte[] clientIV = new byte[bb.getInt(index)];
				index+=4;
				System.arraycopy(bb.array(), index, clientIV, 0, clientIV.length);
				index+=clientIV.length;
				int strLen = bb.getInt(index);
				index+=4;
				String p = new String(bb.array(), index, strLen);
				index+=strLen;
				strLen = bb.getInt(index);
				index+=4;
				String g = new String(bb.array(), index, strLen);
				index+=strLen;
				strLen = bb.getInt(index);
				index+=4;
				String pubKey = new String(bb.array(), index, strLen);
				System.out.println("Client IV Len: " + clientIV.length);
				System.out.println("Server IV Len: " + serverIV.length);
				System.out.println("Key Len: " + pubKey.length());


				// key exchange shit here right


				cii.init(Cipher.ENCRYPT_MODE, key);
				return ByteBuffer.wrap(cii.doFinal(bb.array())); // encrypt it and send it back.