Black Heart Modeus🖤Today at 12:24 PM
Marcy is extremely uncomfortable because of Cata's behavior and it's making me very uncomfortable as well.
I thought I should bring it up with you because I don't want to see this poor girl leave us.
I also think that Cata low key breaking rules shouldn't be tolerated.
Wherever he goes, she feels like she has to leave.(edited)
I personally think that an example needs to be set but yeah. I wanted to see what you think, it's really making me mad and I'm sorry to have to bring it to you. I didn't want it to come to that.
ZenToday at 3:23 PM
This has already been brought up to me multiple times
he's not breaking any rules
if she wants to be left alone, block him and leave it at that
Black Heart Modeus🖤Today at 3:33 PM
Well honestly if it's been brought up so much, why is it not a problem? He low key bullies people then acts like he's a victim.
I'm just curious.
ZenToday at 3:34 PM
who is he bullying
and we addressed it with both of them
Black Heart Modeus🖤Today at 3:34 PM
Marcy for one, indirectly making statements in a VC that triggered her and upset her.
ZenToday at 3:34 PM
yes but this is an issue OUTSIDE of the haven between two adults
Black Heart Modeus🖤Today at 3:35 PM
Actually it happened during a Haven VC.
I was witness to this.
ZenToday at 3:35 PM
be that as it may, it was a prior relationship
Black Heart Modeus🖤Today at 3:36 PM
I guess if you wanna have someone who drives others away, so be it. I dunno what else to do here.
I gave her advice and said I'd be here. I did say block him.
ZenToday at 3:36 PM
why is this coming up again
Black Heart Modeus🖤Today at 3:37 PM
Because it's a problem?
ZenToday at 3:37 PM
did that vc thing just happen or something
Black Heart Modeus🖤Today at 3:37 PM
A night or two ago.
ZenToday at 3:37 PM
i can't do anything about vc a night or two ago...
Black Heart Modeus🖤Today at 3:37 PM
I guess not :
:/
ZenToday at 3:37 PM
like if somethiing happens and you guys want stuff to happen you have to bring itu p right away
everything is being sat on
until later
Black Heart Modeus🖤Today at 3:38 PM
Well I guess just keep an eye on him.
ZenToday at 3:39 PM
what do you think my job is lol
Black Heart Modeus🖤Today at 3:39 PM
If I'm not the first to say anything, then I see it's a real problem.
I'm surprised actually.
ZenToday at 3:39 PM
the other two people to say things are cata and marcy
and we cannot possibly move on "he said she said"
so if you would have a little faith
considering i run a healthy community
i do actually sort of know what i'm doing
Black Heart Modeus🖤Today at 3:39 PM
I hope so.
ZenToday at 3:40 PM
don't be mean cmon
Black Heart Modeus🖤Today at 3:40 PM
I'm not familiar enough to go based on faith.
That's all I mean.
Thanks for your time either way.
Sorry to bother you about it again.