My experience with SuccinctAndPunchy/Punchi

I've had a number of people tell me to come out saying this now, so I'm going to come forward. I didn't want to draw attention to this account as it's just to post Switch screenshots, but my actual account got deleted a while ago. I'm sick of this guy taking the moral high ground like he has an impeccable record because it's not true.

This is NOT a case of sexual or physical abuse like many other stories. It is a case of emotional abuse. I just want to say that out of the gate.

I used to be called FactoriesFarAway, and people may know me better by that name. In June 2017 I began dating Drakodan. At the time, SuccinctAndPunchy (now goes by just Punchy/Punchi) lived with him. To be fair on him, I got off on a bad footing with him. I am Autistic, for the record, and I'm bad with people and knowing the level of comfort I'm supposed to have with people. I thought, since he was my boyfriends roommate, it was ok to be friendly with him. He didn't like this, and grew to realise he's extremely standoff-ish and anti-social.

I was way too open and personal with him, again, to be fair on my part, but I thought this was ok, as I've said. He also didn't really get my sense of humour, and would take my comments intended in jest as mega seriously. In retrospect, I wasn't all that funny back then, but I was young and stupid. Either way, a joking comment I made about using personal items of his led him to threaten to punch me in the jaw until "my teeth were knocked out". Bare in mind, I'm 5ft tall and a woman. I had no any intention of touching his personal belongings - it was a joke, just a bad one.

From that point on, I was absolutely terrified of him. I took this threat in seriousness, because I came across as such. He later told me it was hyperbole... but how is telling someone you'd smack their teeth out hyperbole, exactly? I would avoid him whenever possible because of this, despite us being in the house together a lot. This led him to interpret me as sneaky and suspicious, and once he accused me of trying to steal the keys to the house as he thought I was going home despite me clearly telling him my train got cancelled. He followed me outside, came up to me, asked to give me the keys. I just gave him the keys, because I was scared of him, unconfrontational, and frankly, he threatened me once, and if he really wanted to, he probably could beat me up. I had to call up Drakodan's mother to let me back into the house, as I had no way to get in after this, and no way of getting home. I got locked out at about 4pm-ish, and didn't manage to get back into the house until around 7pm. I had to sit in a cafe for hours into she was out of work.

Drakodan was pissed after this. Was on the verge of threatening to kick Punchy out. Later that evening, he apologised to me and bought me chocolate to try and make up for it. We sat and talked for a bit. I thought things were going to get better from there, I was wrong.

For context of this next part, I was trying very hard to move out. I did not have a good relationship with my parents and social services directed me to disability housing due to my condition - the problem is said housing was clinical, almost hospital like, and whilst living there I would not be allowed to have a job (or I'd lose the "benefit" of living there), have people over... basically have a life at all. So that fell through, but I still needed to get away from home.

So the prospect of me actually moving in came onto the table, and Punchy flipped his shit, basically. He was extremely aggressive and mean to me, and said he refused to have me live there. In fact, he knocked on the bedroom door at 3am one night causing a fuss how he didn't want me to live here. Drakodan put his foot down, said "it's not your house, you don't get to decide". He was not content sharing the same living space as me, even if we never had to interact. He kept bringing up a medical condition he had as to why he couldn't live with me, he wouldn't specify further. He said if I was here, he'd leave, to which Drakodan bid his adieus. Said that I meant a lot more to him than Punchy did.

He then basically accused me of being a homewrecker, which although is a weird phrase to use in this circumstance, there isn't a... better one? Basically, Punchy and Drakodan had this entire plan out of moving out together and living together, and I got in the way of that, in his eyes. He very much resented me over this. I got in the way of his "dream life". I was a third wheel.

A few weeks later, he left, didn't speak to either of us on a one-to-one level ever again as far as I know. He blocked me on Twitter and Discord.

My own mother got super aggressive with me about how I handled the situation. Saying I should understand how he feels because I'm also autistic, and that he doesn't hate me, he's just bad at expressing his feelings like I am. No, shut the hell up, he hated me and knew fully well what he was doing.

A while later, there was a Sonic Adventure 2 180 emblems race going on (it may have been 171 actually, but thats besides the point), and a bunch of people were in the call, for several hours, as the run takes a very long time. I was watching one of the streamers that was part of the race - Punchy was NOT party of this race, it must be clarified. Punchy who was in the discord, then, for some reason, started going off on a tangent about me, things I'd done, why he thought I was weird and a bad person. In a race voice channel. So it was getting broadcast to MULTIPLE people's Twitch channels, and he was essentially smearing me, exposing a lot of personal details, for what purpose? What gain? So if Punchy talks about me being too personal here, you did it first. And I have clips of this as proof:

- https://clips.twitch.tv/FairHumbleMonitorRiPepperonis?tt_content=url&tt_medium=clips_api
- https://clips.twitch.tv/CorrectFragilePizzaItsBoshyTime?tt_content=url&tt_medium=clips_api

I want to also add that what stated in these clips aren't even true. I never took up any of the living space he occupied - he spent 90% of his time in his room. He only left to eat and go to work. I spent all of my time in Drakodan's room OR the spare bedroom, and sometimes Drako and I ate together in the dining room. Pretty much whenever I wasn't in Drako's room, I was downstairs WITH Drako anyway. I also didn't use the living room AT ALL. He had plenty of space.

To add to this, as you can hear, the two of them lived with Drakodan's mum, which as aptly described, was awkward. Punchy treated Drako's mother like trash. She would go out of her way to make him food and he would just leave it. As far as I'm aware, or at least I never saw, he didn't ever do anything around the house. Whenever Drako's mother would ask me, on the other hand, I'd put the washing out, use the washing machine, load the dishwasher, wipe the tables down - I never saw Punchy do anything of the sorts.

Anyway, we didn't speak for a long time following this. He was very anti-social towards Drakodan at GDQ, though I was not there and can't confirm it. I 100% would believe it, knowing the kind of person he is.

Then the prospect of him running Celeste at UKSM, and as I've stated before, I'm TERRIFIED of Punchy. UKSM at the time was a fairly small event. I warned staff that him and I have a bad history together, and that he should be watched out for. That I was scared of him saying/doing something to me. He probably wouldn't have - as stated, he's very standoffish, but I don't trust him, and I don't know what he is capable of. I don't know if he'd be willing to be confrontational. He ended up not even coming for unrelated reasons, so that became not an issue at all.

But yeah, that's my history with SuccinctAndPunchy. I've been asked to come forward about this by a number of people, so there, I'm doing it.