DepartureToday at 12:31 AM
Fastest way to change states?
NesterToday at 12:32 AM
Change states?
Why?
DepartureToday at 12:35 AM
I don't want to exist, and changing states lets me be myself
NesterToday at 12:35 AM
What about your girl?
DepartureToday at 12:36 AM
She lied about me last night
Has been acting and mentally running as if its true
I feel like I'm in the twilight zone
NesterToday at 12:36 AM
Didn't you want to stick with her?
You have to make a firm decision that you won't back out from later on.
DepartureToday at 12:37 AM
I did, but she doesn't want to stick with me over shit that didn't even happen
I'm not going to kidnap her
NesterToday at 12:37 AM
What's your decision now?
DepartureToday at 12:37 AM
Now I just want her gone
NesterToday at 12:37 AM
Remember this.
You can't get back with her a week later.
You have to stick with this.
DepartureToday at 12:37 AM
If I could forget, I would
NesterToday at 12:38 AM
Whatever your plans are, if you're not resolved about her, you'll screw yourself over.
DepartureToday at 12:38 AM
I don't care bro
I just want to forget who I even am
NesterToday at 12:38 AM
You have to care if you're going to make big decisions.
DepartureToday at 12:38 AM
Or who I knew
NesterToday at 12:39 AM
Your problems up to this point were due to you being a bitch boy.
So you'd have to stop being that.
Have to stay true to your word.
DepartureToday at 12:39 AM
My problems are because I trusted a woman
NesterToday at 12:39 AM
You can't see her again.
You have to look forward to the future.
You have to believe you can overcome your problems.
DepartureToday at 12:40 AM
Not my word, her word. I know for a fact that I'd take her back instantly
And that, is what hurts me
NesterToday at 12:40 AM
Bro, you can't be helped if this is your attitude.
DepartureToday at 12:40 AM
Ik, and idfk how to even change it
NesterToday at 12:41 AM
So you switch states, and she calls you again, you come back to her, and now you're back in square one.
I'll tell you how to change it, but you have to man up.
Otherwise nothing could be said to you will be helpful.
Whatever progress you make, you'd reverse in moments of weakness.
Are you ready to man up and take a hard stand?
neck timeToday at 12:42 AM
i am standing hard rn
DepartureToday at 12:42 AM
I have to be by tomorrow
NesterToday at 12:42 AM
Ok.
Where are you right now?
DepartureToday at 12:43 AM
I love her, but I have no idea as to why.
NesterToday at 12:43 AM
dude
Shut the fuck up about her.
Where are you right now?
DepartureToday at 12:43 AM
Next to he
On couch
NesterToday at 12:43 AM
Are you staying at her place or something?
DepartureToday at 12:43 AM
She's here
Staying for a week
NesterToday at 12:43 AM
Are you at your apartment or what?
DepartureToday at 12:44 AM
Yes
NesterToday at 12:44 AM
How much money do you have?
DepartureToday at 12:44 AM
Idt enough for her ticket home
NesterToday at 12:44 AM
How were you planning to switch states then?
How were you going to get another apartment, food, ...etc.
DepartureToday at 12:45 AM
I could call my dad
Dad has an extra house he's always said I could live in
NesterToday at 12:45 AM
How long have you been staying in this apartment?
DepartureToday at 12:45 AM
4 months
NesterToday at 12:46 AM
What are the costs of your moving into your father's house?
What do you think might happen?
DepartureToday at 12:46 AM
$0, potentially
NesterToday at 12:46 AM
Are you working right now?
DepartureToday at 12:46 AM
Yes
Took a week off for her
Visit
NesterToday at 12:47 AM
How long have you been working in this job?
DepartureToday at 12:47 AM
All she does is taunt me
4 months
NesterToday at 12:47 AM
How long will it take you to get another job when moving into your father's house?
DepartureToday at 12:47 AM
No clue
NesterToday at 12:47 AM
Could your father help you with that?
DepartureToday at 12:48 AM
He could
NesterToday at 12:48 AM
What do you think will happen?
DepartureToday at 12:48 AM
I'll move in, delete my discord, mingle exclusively with my church
NesterToday at 12:48 AM
About your dad helping you out, I meant.
DepartureToday at 12:49 AM
And hopefully prevent the mental breakdown
No clue
NesterToday at 12:49 AM
If you get her out of your apartment, and stay in it, what do you think will happen?
How far is where she lives from where you live?
DepartureToday at 12:49 AM
I'll be walking still
Life will be usual
NesterToday at 12:50 AM
You've been talking with her since December, right?
DepartureToday at 12:50 AM
Except, I am having serious mental problems
Off and on
NesterToday at 12:50 AM
When did she start developing feelings for you?
DepartureToday at 12:50 AM
Then, she says
But she also says a lot of things
NesterToday at 12:51 AM
2 months ago, 3 months ago, when?
DepartureToday at 12:51 AM
And now she hates me over something that never happened
Back in december
Is when
@Nester
NesterToday at 12:52 AM
Do you think she will come to your apartment by her own after you kick her out?
DepartureToday at 12:52 AM
No
NesterToday at 12:52 AM
Why do you think that?
HagelToday at 12:52 AM
She hates you because she is shizophrenic
don't deal with this, get out
The only hope was to change her diet which would remove the symptoms, but she thinks her disorder is a blessing
it's not going to work
NesterToday at 12:53 AM
We're already past that point, @Hagel
We're looking at his options going forward.
DepartureToday at 12:53 AM
Yeah, I'm shipping her back
NesterToday at 12:54 AM
Option #1: Move in with your father. You'll be short in money, might take a while to get a new job. Would be breaking out of social circles if you were in any in your old state. If you have family issues, they would be a factor here too. But you'd be away from her, and that's a good thing, as you're weak. ===
Option #2:

Stay in your apartment. Keep your current job. But you might have to deal with more shit from her.
===
I suggest option #2
Get her a ticket, kick her out.
Then delete her number.
HagelToday at 12:56 AM
Don't run away because she might show up again
NesterToday at 12:56 AM
And NEVER talk to her again.
HagelToday at 12:56 AM
just turn her away if she does
NesterToday at 12:56 AM
This is crucial.
Never talk to her again. Never ever ever.
HagelToday at 12:57 AM
Tell her that she is an insane shizophrenic and she can't be in your life because she hallucinates that you commit deeds you don't
NesterToday at 12:57 AM
Delete your discord account too.
HagelToday at 12:57 AM
and hang up
if she calls you
NesterToday at 12:57 AM
But please make another one and join this place again. :frowning:
Pack her stuff up, get her out immedietly.
And never look back.
Delete phone, discord, and don't talk to her again.
Block her number.
neck timeToday at 12:58 AM
stand your ground
tell her gtfo
NesterToday at 12:58 AM
And don't falter.
You have to stick by this decision.
If you don't, you're going to make your life hell.
And this clear, @Departure ?
If she's sleeping right now, pack her stuff for her.
Don't negotiate with her.
Kick her straight out.
Give her her ticket and lock yourself up.
DepartureToday at 1:00 AM
I have to wait until Wednesday
NesterToday at 1:00 AM
No.
Don't wait.
Do it now.
DepartureToday at 1:00 AM
No bus routes
She's broke
NesterToday at 1:00 AM
Give her money.
DepartureToday at 1:00 AM
Don't have enough to ship her back yet, it seems
NesterToday at 1:01 AM
Are you lying about this?
If you don't, let her deal with it.
Give her her stuff, and kick her out.
DepartureToday at 1:01 AM
Dude, I'll send her back, and then forget ger
Her*
NesterToday at 1:02 AM
You're a bitch boy.
Can't count on that.
Maybe you'll warm up to her tomorrow, who knows.
That's why you have to do it now, and you can't listen to whatever she says.
She'll tell you she loves you or whatever other bullshit.
Lies.
DepartureToday at 1:03 AM
I won't bite
If she wants to fuck
She's not getting it
bikeToday at 1:04 AM
.gim what is the cure for such disorders beatings
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neck timeToday at 1:05 AM
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NesterToday at 1:05 AM
Then isolate yourself until tomorrow, @Departure
If you're set on not kicking her out today, which I highly suggest you do.
DepartureToday at 1:16 AM
I need to sleep for a little while