ArrayList<String> ServiceToDelete = R.OffrirService();
List<String> seup = se.stream().filter(elem -> !ServiceToDelete.contains(elem)).collect(Collectors.toList());
                for (int x = 0; x < seup.size(); x++) {
                    String g = seup.get(x);
                    li_se.getItems().removeIf((t) -> {
                        return ((JFXCheckBox) t).getText().equals(g);
                    });
                    //System.out.println(li_se.getItems().indexOf(ServiceToDelete.get(x)));
                }

// observe item's on property and display message if it changes:
item.onProperty().addListener((obs, wasOn, isNowOn) -> {
    System.out.println(item.getName() + " changed on state from " + wasOn + " to " + isNowOn);
    if (isNowOn) {
        listView.getItems().remove(item);
    }
});

listView.getItems().removeIf((t) -> {
    return ((Item) t).getName().equals("Item 9");
});

import javafx.application.Application;
import javafx.beans.property.BooleanProperty;
import javafx.beans.property.SimpleBooleanProperty;
import javafx.beans.property.SimpleStringProperty;
import javafx.beans.property.StringProperty;
import javafx.scene.Scene;
import javafx.scene.control.ListView;
import javafx.scene.control.cell.CheckBoxListCell;
import javafx.scene.layout.BorderPane;
import javafx.stage.Stage;

public class ListViewWithCheckBox extends Application
{

    @Override
    public void start(Stage primaryStage)
    {
        ListView<Item> listView = new ListView<>();
        for (int i = 1; i <= 20; i++) {
            Item item = new Item("Item " + i, false);

            // observe item's on property and display message if it changes:
            item.onProperty().addListener((obs, wasOn, isNowOn) -> {
                System.out.println(item.getName() + " changed on state from " + wasOn + " to " + isNowOn);
                if (isNowOn) {
                    listView.getItems().remove(item);
                }
            });

            listView.getItems().add(item);
        }

        listView.setCellFactory(CheckBoxListCell.forListView((Item item) -> item.onProperty()));

        removeItem(listView);

        BorderPane root = new BorderPane(listView);
        Scene scene = new Scene(root, 250, 400);
        primaryStage.setScene(scene);
        primaryStage.show();

    }

    public static class Item
    {

        private final StringProperty name = new SimpleStringProperty();
        private final BooleanProperty on = new SimpleBooleanProperty();

        public Item(String name, boolean on)
        {
            setName(name);
            setOn(on);
        }

        public final StringProperty nameProperty()
        {
            return this.name;
        }

        public final String getName()
        {
            return this.nameProperty().get();
        }

        public final void setName(final String name)
        {
            this.nameProperty().set(name);
        }

        public final BooleanProperty onProperty()
        {
            return this.on;
        }

        public final boolean isOn()
        {
            return this.onProperty().get();
        }

        public final void setOn(final boolean on)
        {
            this.onProperty().set(on);
        }

        @Override
        public String toString()
        {
            return getName();
        }

    }

    public static void main(String[] args)
    {
        launch(args);
    }

    public void removeItem(ListView listView)
    {
        listView.getItems().removeIf((t) -> {
            return ((Item) t).getName().equals("Item 9");
        });
    }
}

import com.jfoenix.controls.JFXCheckBox;
import com.jfoenix.controls.JFXListView;
import java.net.URL;
import java.util.ResourceBundle;
import javafx.event.ActionEvent;
import javafx.fxml.FXML;
import javafx.fxml.Initializable;
import javafx.scene.control.Button;
import javafx.scene.control.ListView;

/**
 *
 * @author sedri
 */
public class FXMLDocumentController implements Initializable {

    @FXML
    JFXListView listview;
    @FXML ListView<String> lvAddNew;
    @FXML Button btnAddNew;


    @Override
    public void initialize(URL url, ResourceBundle rb) {
        // TODO
        for(int i = 1; i < 100; i++)
        {
           JFXCheckBox tempJFXCheckBox = new JFXCheckBox("item " + i);
           tempJFXCheckBox.selectedProperty().addListener((obs, oldValue, newValue)->{
               System.out.println(newValue);
               if(newValue)
               {
                   listview.getItems().remove(tempJFXCheckBox);
                   lvAddNew.getItems().add(tempJFXCheckBox.getText());
               }
           });

           listview.getItems().add(tempJFXCheckBox);
        }
    }

    @FXML private void handleBtnAddNew(ActionEvent event)
    {
        //Remove selected item
        String tempList = lvAddNew.getSelectionModel().getSelectedItem();
        lvAddNew.getItems().remove(tempList);
        listview.getItems().add(new JFXCheckBox(tempList));
    }
}

<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>

<?import com.jfoenix.controls.JFXListView?>
<?import javafx.scene.control.Button?>
<?import javafx.scene.control.ListView?>
<?import javafx.scene.layout.AnchorPane?>
<?import javafx.scene.layout.VBox?>

<AnchorPane id="AnchorPane" prefHeight="700.0" prefWidth="320" xmlns="http://javafx.com/javafx/8.0.141" xmlns:fx="http://javafx.com/fxml/1" fx:controller="javafxapplication2.FXMLDocumentController">
   <children>
      <VBox alignment="CENTER" prefHeight="200.0" prefWidth="100.0" AnchorPane.bottomAnchor="0.0" AnchorPane.leftAnchor="0.0" AnchorPane.rightAnchor="0.0" AnchorPane.topAnchor="0.0">
         <children>
            <JFXListView fx:id="listview" />
            <ListView fx:id="lvAddNew" prefHeight="200.0" prefWidth="200.0" />
            <Button fx:id="btnAddNew" mnemonicParsing="false" onAction="#handleBtnAddNew" text="Add New" />
         </children>
      </VBox>
   </children>
</AnchorPane>

yourCheckBox.setID("yourIdHere");

listView.getItems().removeIf(checkBox -> "yourIdHere".equals(checkBox.getId()));

CheckBox yourCheckBox = new CheckBox();

// ...

listView.getItems().remove(yourCheckBox);

ListView<CheckBox> listView = new ListView<>();