Greedforce - Yesterday at 9:04 PM
Hi. Do you have a moment?
Chewy - Yesterday at 9:30 PM
For you, just one of them
B)
Whats up
Consider me anxious.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 9:39 PM
Yeah, I'm just trying to find a good way of phrasing this. Give me a second
That... didn't make it sound any better
Chewy - Yesterday at 9:39 PM
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Greedforce - Yesterday at 9:46 PM
Well, I'd like to start of my saying that I think it's great that you've joined InfG and I hope you find yourself at home there, but your appearance ther sort of caught me of guard as it came out of nowhere, and as such it has complicated some other situations a bit.

As you may or may not know there are three people who paid for the ARK server. Me, my sis and Karuu.

Now I know you and Karuu weren't exactly on good terms last time you were on the same server and Karuu is feeling kinda akward and sort of undermined by the fact that you're on our server now all of a dsudden, especially after she wasn't allowed on Hammy's ARK server after you left trustables.

The reason I'm telling you this is cause Karuu never had anything against you as a person. She just felt attacked as apparently someone (I'll try not to involve names) had said that you had told them that you found out Karuu was some old fat dude who's profile you had found on facebook. She has mentioned a couple of other similar scenarios, but nvm that. My point is that she's not exactly comfortable with the way you just appeared on the ARK server, and she'd like to do something about that.

She proposed that, if you are willing to, you could start over and begin your friendship anew, if you will. You invite her and Tirell to Paradise/Hell (I forget the name of your discord server) and we continue playing and generally just give all this a second shot.
The reason I'm the one writing this, btw, is because I know she's not exactly comfortable with the situation, so I offered to be a medium between the two of you.

I really wish we could have had this discussion before you joined though. It would have saved a lot of akwardness I feel. :confused:
Chewy - Yesterday at 9:48 PM
I'm sorry, but.
" apparently someone (I'll try not to involve names) had said that you had told them that you found out Karuu was some old fat dude who's profile you had found on facebook."
Is a full blown fucking lie.
So whoever has said that you need to fucking tell them to stop spreading rumors.
That does NOT bode with me well. At all.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 9:49 PM
Well, I've heard that person say that myself, so in that case it would seem someone was trying to pit you guys at each other
Chewy - Yesterday at 9:49 PM
That person can fucking blow me and stop spreading shit.
I'd like to speak with them.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 9:50 PM
I'll make sure to tell Karuu that as well. I'm really hoping you guys can become friends again.

And as for that rumor or whatever, I think that was way back when I joined the trustables server 2 years ago or so.
Chewy - Yesterday at 9:51 PM
I don't see any point in inviting them to my server. We never were that close and the majority of people there started as those who I held incredibly close to me.
They're on this server, so I don't see a point.
But no, I want to know who this person is now.
I'm fine with being on neutral ground with Karuu.
But either way. I need to speak to that person.
That's a breach of fucking trust.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 9:53 PM
I'll ask
Chewy - Yesterday at 9:54 PM
Ask?
Greedforce - Yesterday at 9:54 PM
Karuu
Chewy - Yesterday at 9:54 PM
You said you'd heard them say it personally
Greedforce - Yesterday at 9:54 PM
Yes, I mean about the discord server
the person who said that was Ferrous
Chewy - Yesterday at 9:56 PM
That don't sound fucking right but okay.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 9:56 PM
I think that's why she took it the way she did.
but yeah, idk if he was trying to joke or something. I find Ryan to be a bit odd at times, if you don't mind me saying. But that seemed a bit much even for him.
Chewy - Yesterday at 9:58 PM
Eitherway I've never found a page to Karuu's facebook. I don't know why I would make such a fucking extroadinary comment like that
I had outbursts but I'm not out to get people like that.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 9:59 PM
Fair enough.
Chewy - Yesterday at 10:02 PM
Here I was thinking everyone could just get on with it instead of bringing old scars up
Not gonna lie it's not exactly made me feel good, this conversation.
But you go ahead and relay whatever has been said here, if shes okay with it then thats fine. If not I'll leave.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 10:05 PM
I mean that was kind of why I started this conversation. Karuu wants to give it another go. If half the reason you guys split is because of someone else trying to pin you against each other, then I suppose in some twisted way, that is a relief. But yeah I'll talk to her and hopefully we can work something out
Chewy - Yesterday at 10:11 PM
Mm.
I left the other server because I no longer fit in nor felt welcome. Not because of her.
Make that much known atleast .
Greedforce - Yesterday at 10:27 PM
I did, and the reason Karuu wants to join Paradise/Hell (seriously, which one is it again? They're not exactly close to each other in nature. lol) was because InfG isn't exactly a personal server. It's ment to be a big gaming hub and if you're indeed gonna start anew and give it another try, she felt that you should be on the same page, and server I suppose. :slight_smile:
Chewy - Yesterday at 10:27 PM
It's both. I guess.
Might not be personal but there's still a place to chat.
If you get me
Greedforce - Yesterday at 10:29 PM
It is, but I still feel like it'd be a smart move to invite her.
As a sort of token of peace, I suppose.
Chewy - Yesterday at 10:30 PM
I can't.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 10:30 PM
Why not?
Chewy - Yesterday at 10:30 PM
I know people who are not comfortable with that move
I don't want to cause any commotion
Greedforce - Yesterday at 10:30 PM
I mean, it's not like anyone is comfortable with this whole ordeal tbh. :confused:
Chewy - Yesterday at 10:31 PM
If anything it's a smarter move to put me in the trustables.
But damned if that's ever going to be the same.
That's my compromise.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 10:34 PM
I mean, Karuu's peaceoffering is that you're playing on the ark server. Inviting you to the trustables would be much the same as inviting her to paradise I'd say.
Chewy - Yesterday at 10:35 PM
Would it? Are there that many people there who truly find me uncomfortable?
Actually, that does not surprise me.
I'm trying to make the smart move here. Nobody hardly fucking speaks in there these days anyway.
And when they do it's drama.
But if that doesn't work, again, I can leave.
Which, I doubt anyone wants to be the end result
Greedforce - Yesterday at 10:42 PM
I mean it'd be as bad as inviting her to paradise for sure. It's not that people on trustables hate you, or anyone on paradise hate karuu. I mean hell, at this point I think I've spoken to everyone involved on both servers and the only person that are still uncomfortable are you two.
Or is there someone on Paradise that I've missed that you'd think be uncomfortable, cause I can't think of anyone tbh? :confused:
Chewy - Yesterday at 10:43 PM
I can think of one at the very least
At the end of the day though
My server = smaller version of trustables
all the people from there are pretty much on trustables.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 10:53 PM
sorry, went to get tea for my throat (Got the flu). And in the sense that both trustables and paradise are small personal servers, yes. but the people on them aren't the same anymore. People change, and quite frankly I think it's about time you and Karuu do too.

Now I hate being the messenger that gets shot, but considering Karuu wouldn't be let on to your ark server when you guys left the trustables, and she has now decided to let you stay on ours, that seems like she's willing to compromise. So why aren't you?

Now, hate me if you want, but for the love of god, just give it a try.
Chewy - Yesterday at 10:54 PM
Because James is the new owner.
I'm trying to compromise, you're just not seeing it because it's not what anyone wants from the opposing side.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 10:55 PM
So make me understand
Chewy - Yesterday at 10:56 PM
My current mental state is not one for debates like this, infact it's not making me feel good that you are doing your damndest into persuading me into something I genuinely dont feel comfortable in deciding. I've told you what I'm more than willing to do and if that isn't enough then as I said I can damn well leave.
I'm no longer the server owner as I left in a fit of rage and despair, and everything is in James's hands.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 10:57 PM
I'm not trying to get you to do something you don't want to. I want to understand the situation and get you and Karuu to be friends again
and I wasn't aware of that. sorry
Chewy - Yesterday at 10:57 PM
I made an offer in order to reconnect and communicate again, and that was to join the trustables. If doing that isn't fucking good enough then I don't know what is
Because "my" server is fucking dead.
THAT is my point.
All my friends who aren't on my server are still in trustables.
That is also my point.
It's a chance to reconnect with THEM, too.
Again, if that's not enough, then I will pack up and leave.
All this stupid beat around the bush bullshit is fucking killing me inside.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 11:07 PM
Well, see it from my point of view then. Bringing you onto trustables again would have the exact same effect as bringing Karuu onto paradise. You feel attacked, Karuu feel attacked. From her point of view she is trying. :frowning:
Chewy - Yesterday at 11:08 PM
I'm trying too.
I'm also trying to get the point across
What the hell is the point of inviting someone to a dead server
I just wanted to play with everyone. Regardless of our past feuds.
Holy shit that's all I fucking wanted.
I'm lonely as fuck.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 11:10 PM
The point is that it's a sign of faith, even if I understand now that you're not in charge and I have a James messaging me on the side who has also made that abundently clear.
And I realise that, which is why I want to solve this dispute once and for all.
Cause it's gone on for longenough
Chewy - Yesterday at 11:10 PM
Because he knows the situation is making me uncomfortable. The very second you said "Have you got a second" my stomach grew cold and fucking empty
You're making a mountain out of a molehill, in the sense that I've practically said I'm willing to start anew.
I'm not sure what else there is to say apart from the server dispute shit
If it's really that important to start a fresh leaf by inviting her to what used to be my -dead- server this back and forth just isn't worth it and I'd rather just leave as quietly as I entered.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 11:13 PM
Well, I'm sorry about that, but it needs to be talked about. And so far you've given me nothing more than words. How am I supposed to convince Karuu that you're as willing as her if all I can say is that you said you're willing to try again. She asked to join paradise and that's not possible. You want to join trustable and that's not possible for the same reasons.
Chewy - Yesterday at 11:15 PM
Then I suppose that's all I can do.
I'll not bother any of you again.
Have a good evening.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 11:34 PM
Well, as much as I hate to say it, and ther is no easy way of saying it, could you please stay off the ARK server for now.

I also realised you left InfG, which is your choice I suppose, but I want you to know that InfG is seperate from the ARK server and you will allways be welcome there. And if anyone else tells you otherwise, they won't be.

It's just that the ark server isn't just my server, but also shared with others, who pay for it, so I have to take into consideration what they think. :frowning:
Chewy - Yesterday at 11:35 PM
fine.
i already assumed that fucking much.
now if you'll excuse me im off to go drink excessively and fucking break down.
clearly the best i can do is not enough for people.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 11:36 PM
Well, if you want to shoot the messenger, I suppose that is understandable in this situation. Do know that I actually care about you as well though and I am in fact trying to work something out here, whether you believe that or not.
Chewy - Yesterday at 11:37 PM
i was aiming it at karuu. so its fine.
she doesnt want to accept that im trying.
so by all means fucking relay it to her.
but i am done. as i see my place is obviously nowhere near her.'
tell her word for word my fucking offer still stands.
but you might wanna come back when im not a volatile fucking blob of shit who feels completely fucking defeated and angry.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 11:40 PM
But what is the offer? That's what I was trying to work out. and I am sorry to have caused you to feel this way, it was never my intention, but I do believe the discussion I brought up to be necessary.
Chewy - Yesterday at 11:40 PM
the same offer you keep telling me is pointless
whats so damn hard to understand? im willing to come back into contact and start a fucking new page and join trustables as im in no position to invite her to what use TO BE MY SERVER
HOW HARD CAN IT BE  PLEASE
TELL ME WHATS SO HARD PLEASE
ITS FUCKING KILLING ME.
I AM LITERALLY BREAKING AT THE FUCKING SEAMS HERE BECAUSE IM TRYING MY FUCKING BEST
EVERYTHING I DO GETS FUCKING SHOT DOWN
I literally CANNOT do anything more than say im willing to start a fucking gain and join that server
theres LITERALLY nothing I can do else
and if all I can do is not efuckingnough then wha the fuck else am I supposed to say
TEll me how hard that is for her to understand Emil
cuz if I dumb it down anymore it'll be caveman speak
Greedforce - Yesterday at 11:44 PM
Sorry, I'm juggling messages from all over. I've told her what you've told me, but from her point of view you're saying it, but not giving anything in return. Send her a PM or something, literally anything will do. She's in the same position you're in and I've encouraged her to send a PM as well. She's said she wants to try as well, but you're taking that the same way she's taking you saying it. You are literally mirroring each other right now
Chewy - Yesterday at 11:49 PM
fine.
done.
NOW im off to go drink and sulk.
whatever happens next is on the opposite side.
Greedforce - Yesterday at 11:51 PM
I'd just like to point out again that I am the medium here because I asked to be, not because Karuu wanted me to be. So if I've said something that angered you, please don't blame that on her. I'd rather my words not make things even worse
March 19, 2018
Chewy - Today at 12:03 AM
she was never going to contact me anyway, had you not offered. thats obvious.
sent her a message havent got anything back.
so i guess that's that. i've done all i can.