🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 8:50 PM
Hey emm! If its ok to ask, why was my post deleted?

emmToday at 9:02 PM
I don't think advertising in the photoshop channel was the right place to post?

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:03 PM
ahhh okay. Well, i woud've appreciated being warned or told that you were deleting it so i could move to the promos channel or make a new channel.
I figured it was photoshop stuff, so it belonged there? if that makes sense?
but yeah, would've liked to be told it was deleted instead of finding out for myself hours later

emmToday at 9:05 PM
Right okay fair, but why would we make a new channel?
it is photoshop you're right, but it's commissions and  i don't know if that has a place to belong in the server? like it's a place for chilling and chatting about our muses .

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:07 PM
maybe this just comes from my viewpoint as an illustrator but i see supporting artwork related to writing as supporting writing? like its providing a related service, its not like its a random gofundme for whoknowswhat, its a rp related service?
besides people could always mute any channel they don't wanna see

emmToday at 9:10 PM
again a fair point, and yes it's good to support artwork in the similar field. i'm not against it but does it belong in the server?

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:10 PM
i say yes, imo.

emmToday at 9:10 PM
okay, no. that comment about people muting is unfair

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:10 PM
plenty of servers im in have channels like that

emmToday at 9:10 PM
why would we create a channel for it tho?

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:10 PM
how is it unfair? I have quite a few channels muted

emmToday at 9:11 PM
im trying to organise the server and keep channels manageable no one wants to wade through 100 channels to find what they are looking for its why ive been rearranging them for.
but what am saying is why would we have a whole seperate channel - what would it be for? why?

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:12 PM
I don't think we need a seperate channel, id just group it in with either promos or photoshop
but i suggested a seperate channel because i thought that's what you wanted?
and the server is perfectly organiszed from where i see it :heart: you've been doing good

emmToday at 9:14 PM
yeah, i know im trying with the channels whilst working on other servers at the same time.
but im saying is the photoshop channel is for showing off what you are working on, for help and advice or to exchange tips the members promos channel is meant for blog promotions so i dont see how advertising commissions fits in.

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:15 PM
I don't see why a commissions blog doesn't fall under blog promotions?
but im not looking for a big fight about this
im just wondering why now of all times its  a problem when ive advertised before with no issue, and other people have advertised their friends with no issue

emmToday at 9:18 PM
i don't think it's a fight? it's a discussion.
and i'm just saying i don't know if it's the best place to advertise?
but you know what - idc do what you like.

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:20 PM
servers where your friends are are the best place to advertise imo
are you okay? you seem upset

emmToday at 9:24 PM
right . no. okay advertise where your friends are do what you like fine, link it in your bio w.e but just make sure its not the only thing you post about.
tbh, im completely fed up - hence the now not caring.

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:25 PM
why are you fed up?

emmToday at 9:27 PM
the last, what - two? times you've messaged my is because you have a problem with the way i'm trying to run the server.

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:29 PM
Well, i didnt feel comfortable messaging for non-server related matters just yet so soon after what happened. Otherwise there would've been friendly chats in between.
When you have a co-admin there need to be group desciesions too

emmToday at 9:30 PM
oh yeah i know, ibut right now i don't feel like there's co-admining at all.
that's why im doing it, myself.

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:31 PM
I didn't think any changes had to be made, thats why i didnt make any. things seemed fine

emmToday at 9:31 PM
i get not wanting to talk outwith server matters, get that and i know there must be "group decisions"
things seemed fine? the place was disorganised.
rules and intros outdated.
it was neglected.

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:31 PM
i clean up intros when i notice someone left
i manage server events and keep track of that area
i didnt see a  need to archive a bunch of channels, it seemed fine to me? maybe its just creative differences?

emmToday at 9:33 PM
i know a lot of people didnt like the unneeded channels?
images, video, music - is all media is can go in one place.
im a simple person.

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:33 PM
i didnt know there were complaints? no one told me?

emmToday at 9:33 PM
server events? you mean the truth or dare games that frequently get out of hand ?

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:34 PM
they got out of hand  IC not ooc. Truth or dare is supposed to get out of hand IC

emmToday at 9:35 PM
not to the point where people feel uncomfortable?

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:35 PM
no one expressed any complaints to me

emmToday at 9:35 PM
well they have been voiced clearly before both in server and through actions.

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:36 PM
the only complaint i remembered was the nsfw one, which i moved to a separate channel.
since someone didnt want to see nsfw
and, if you feel like you're doing everything on your own, you could always ask me for help?
sometimes i need a little direction

emmToday at 9:42 PM
it's not about asking - its a shared responsibility?
but just leave it,.

🎀🍺🔥🌹Today at 9:43 PM
but i clearly dont see the same issues you do in the same way you do, it'd help us both if they were pointed out to me
ok