AhrielDrakonYesterday at 3:37 AM
Hey Yakob, you there this morning?

Yakob, Ace AttourneyYesterday at 9:16 AM
Sorry ahriel had a late night last night and was asleep still

AhrielDrakonYesterday at 9:16 AM
It's all good.

Yakob, Ace AttourneyYesterday at 9:17 AM
What's up?

AhrielDrakonYesterday at 9:19 AM
I just wanted to thank you. You might be mad to know, but I was shown the chat logs between you and Joe. Reading all that really helped me make a decision for myself that I was on the fence about. A lot of your points were valid and I saw the same, but was paranoid that I was wrong about it.

Yakob, Ace AttourneyYesterday at 9:28 AM
It doesn't irritate me, they were Joes logs to share too. Everything I said to him was shared with the Staff as well for the sake of transparency. I know that you were in a kind of relationship with him that I won't ask you to elaborate on, but I'm glad that you were able to find some clarity or understanding from what I said to him.

AhrielDrakonYesterday at 9:30 AM
Thank you. It was just a really stressful time because some BS happened again where it was IC into OOC things. Obviously denying it. I just, yeah. Left a bad taste in my mouth. Can't deal with that sort of thing with people. So I really appreciate that you talked to him even though I'm not sure if he completely gets it.

AhrielDrakonYesterday at 9:38 AM
Also, on another note, Ryza and Co and now Gan'gor and Ryza and Co.

Yakob, Ace AttourneyToday at 8:00 PM
Ahriel, I want you to know that I've been informed about how you've been treating Joe in the wake of my conversation with him, and the nature of your relationship with him. I'm not yours or Joe's moral compass, and I have no desire to ever be. You're both adults and able to make your own decisions, but what I don't appreciate is you using my conversation and personal grievances with him to justify ghosting him and validate how shitty you are to him. Me being cross with Joe and his behaviour isn't an excuse for you to act in the way that you have been, and trying to spin it to me as some kind of liberation from him is equally as bad or worse than my grievances with him. Logs have been shared with me and others, and I'm glad that they have been. I hope you use this chance to change your behaviour too. I'm not doing this on behalf of Joe either, I'm doing this because if I don't, then I legitimize and validate your behaviour towards him. My issues with him and what you did are completely seperate, and I won't be a bystander to this kind of emotional abuse. I'm also doing this because I don't want toxic behaviour like this infecting the community. We don't need pot-stirrers here, so if you can't behave like an adult, then I suggest you learn. Words cannot express how much I don't want to be involved in your relationship with Joe, but this is a matter of treating someone with dignity and respect, which you've thoroughly missed on.

AhrielDrakonToday at 8:39 PM
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1nBv3wsH2X-DethvhpjR8qlbdMpcL4OaS/view?usp=sharing
Google Docs
Text.odt

Literally all my contact with him
I ended it and I needed time to mend.
Then he approaches me.
So please tell me where exactly and how I've been treating him badly?

AhrielDrakonToday at 8:55 PM
I'm going to block him. I don't need this kind of stuff. I'm sorry to cause a rift or a problem.

Yakob, Ace AttourneyToday at 9:01 PM
Forgive me for my skepticism, but I find it hard to believe that you reached out to me with completely innocuous intentions. I do know that what you've linked me isn't your full conversation, and it only furthers my skepticism towards your intentions. I'm not going to waste my night dissecting each line of dialogue to try to prove a point, I'm confident in my point of view.

I wouldn't have even bothered to talk to you if you hadn't reached out to me. Like I said I don't ever want to be involved in your relationship in any small measurement. What you did do, however, is choose to intentionally involve me and implicate that I was the reason why you chose to end your relationship with Joe. Thus my pot-stirring comment. I'm not blind to what's going on, neither is the community or the staff, with whom I will be sharing these logs.

You've preyed on someone who is emotionally compromised, promising them the love and attention that they need and want, then threw them away when they didn't suit your needs. I'm not a perfect person, but what I see there really irritates me. If you choose to block him as you've just said, you've only proven me right. Maybe that's what you should have done in the first place instead of stringing him along.
And know that Joe never once spoke to me about this, I'm doing this fully of my own volition. If you're doing this to try and get back at him in some way, you are sorely mistaken

AhrielDrakonToday at 9:08 PM
You have all rights to think what you think, but that's all the conversation between him and I after a certain point of seeing those logs. I have to respect myself too when it comes to people trying to paint me as a terrible person in their head. I cannot fix people, especially those who probably need real professional help. I removed myself from his negativity which from what I read was real because I was thinking it was all something I imagined and second guessing myself. Yes, I probably shouldn't have liked him, knowing that I may of gotten deeper into an emotional rabbit hole I wasn't prepared for. And I'm glad that Joe did not approach you because I thought he did and it upset me because I've caught wind of a couple negative things he's been trying to say about me. And I have zero intention of that last part. I'm done with him and at this point I'm only trying to heal the hurt that he did to me.
I'm sorry for the distress and whatever opinion you may have of me now. I shouldn't have reached out to you like I did.

Yakob, Ace AttourneyToday at 9:16 PM
I agree, you should not have reached out to me the way you did. What this looks like to me is an attempt by you to damage Joe's credibility, when frankly I see you with at least equal part blame in this.

You should know I'm not going to hold this over your head, and I'm not going to try and shit talk you behind the scenes. Ver-batem of what I said to Joe, I don't have time to be dishonest or to sneak around like that. You have to understand that I have a responsibility to this server and community to prevent and rectify situations like this, whether or not I or anyone else likes it.