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My wife thinks I am one of these.
She believes I 'play with her emotions' because i am too straight forward telling her mistakes on her face. i do not shy away to tell her because i want her to realize and understand life, she is 30 now and still immature so this has to be done.
She believes i am control freak because i do tell her to tell her to do things time to time whether it be asking her for waking up early, being active instead of wasting time in front of tv, switch off electricity equipment’s when not in use because she has habits like running fans in 4 rooms, keeping Geyser ON frequently, letting AC and taps run while leaving house for some other work for hours. And I tell her what to do.
She believes I am avoiding responsibilities because I hold her responsible for most of things she does out of lack of simple common sense, may it be drying water spilled on bedsheets by keeping fan ON entire day or microwaving single 1 inch round papad one by one in oven for 1 minute each because she thinks 10’s of those won’t get cooked unless she puts 10 minutes timer and its too much time for her. Out of 5 vegetables that I bring for 1 week (bottle guard, brinjols, ladies finger, spinach and fenugreek) she cooks brinjals bottle guard first and keeps the leafy for rest days. This much is her common sense So yes I hold her responsible for rotting those vegetables in fridge and for all the non-sense she spills over and over again.
She believes I twist facts because whatever I tell her about herself and ask to rectify she believes it’s all wrong. She is in her content feeling and belief that she is perfect. And she can say that because she is a good dietician and all her patients appraise her for her consultancy. And there is this one fucking guys who keeps her telling she is wrong in so many ways so it’s obvious this guy twists facts right?
So yes of course I deny her lot many things because I know my money is going to go waste and honestly I cannot see it. I work 5 days a week for 50-60 hours vs her 4 hrs consultancy on 3 days a week and she believes she is most exhausted. I fill rations, pay all bills, house and car installments including pay for two housemaids one for cooking cone for cleaning out of the money I earn and she believes she is actually the one drained out of her money that she earns from that 12 hr consulting job.
So yeah, it’s definitely a sign that I am that evil person. I thank both you and my wife for this honor.