Teresa Morden <teresa.morden@gmail.com>




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Fri 8/30/2013, 10:59 AM
Jason Lind;
External-Amanda Morden







Yeah, we'll do that next week when I have some free time. But that's the last thing we'll do.


On Fri, Aug 30, 2013 at 10:45 AM, Jason Lind <jason@lind-i.com> wrote:
While I didn't specifically apologize for that I will now. That was completely out of line and I'm lucky you weren't home as you probably would have called the cops.

I don't claim that you're responsible in any way for my mental health, I was merely stating an observation. That it might be healthier for me if we were to cease our relationship.

That said while the recent past has been mostly negative, and I take full responsibility for that, I think you're forgetting the not-so-distant past where we have been very positive for each other.

I guess I can't blame you for wanting to end things and I will accept that.

Just a bit of house keeping, what do you want to do about your website? I just paid to have the domain name renewed and i've been paying $30 every 3 months to have the hosting account renewed, we should migrate these accounts into your name. Let me know so we can close things out.

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From: Teresa Morden<mailto:teresa.morden@gmail.com>
Sent: 8/30/2013 10:14 AM
To: Jason Lind<mailto:jason@lind-i.com>
Cc: External-Amanda Morden<mailto:a.morden@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: I'm so sorry

I'm not going to give you a second chance.

"when we're functioning you're a stabilizing force in my life, although when we're not you're equally destabilizing." - I am not responsible for whether you're stable or not.

Last I heard, you saw nothing wrong with your behavior the night you came to my house when I was not home.

If you come here again, I will call the police.

I do not want you calling me, emailing me or contacting me in any way. You are a negative influence in my life.

I am not going to change my mind this week, next year, 20 years down the line, or ever.

In case you read some ambiguity in the above, I am clearly telling you to leave me and the kids alone, from now until forever.

Teresa


On Thu, Aug 29, 2013 at 3:28 PM, Jason Lind <jason@lind-i.com<mailto:jason@lind-i.com>> wrote:
I regret that and I don't blame you for, it has not been very productive as of late but I think that we can change that.

My life is going to be very complicated over the next few months as I look for work and try to get out of my parent's.

I'm not sure I deserve another chance from you but I am going to ask for one, when it's been good between us its been great and we do have a real connection.

I want to get back to where we were, totally casual, no pressure and just start again and go from there. I think it's possible but you're going to need to forgive me for my past behavior.

I swear to you there will be no repeat of my past behavior. I value your friendship immensely and when we're functioning you're a stabilizing force in my life, although when we're not you're equally destabilizing.

Anyhow I'm out now, if you want give me a call, I'm going to keep my distance for now. I wish you and the kids all the best.

-J

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From: Teresa<mailto:teresa.morden@gmail.com<mailto:teresa.morden@gmail.com>>
Sent: 8/24/2013 7:29 PM
To: Jason Lind<mailto:jason@lind-i.com<mailto:jason@lind-i.com>>
Subject: Re: I'm so sorry

Thank you for your apology.

I'm making a strong push to sever the relationships in my life that are not serving me in a wholesome and nourishing give-and-take, and yours with me is definitely on the chopping block.


Jason Lind <jason@lind-i.com<mailto:jason@lind-i.com>> wrote:

>I want to put into writing how much I regret how I've treated you over the past several months. You deserve better than my behavior and I will make a substantial effort to do better in the future.
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>I am starting to accept that I have a disease that needs to be professionally managed, I'm still not convinced medication is the long term answer but the new meds they have me on seem to be working with limited side effects.
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>I miss you and the kids, but I know I only have myself to blame for that. I'm going to beg you for one last chance at having a normal friendship, well normal by our definition. I will always have feelings for you, but I think that now that I am in better place mentally I will be able to deal with those without you even getting involved with my internal dialog.
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>So that's what I have to say, I get out Thursday or Friday, I will wait the weekend to call you and if you don't answer I will give you another couple weeks and just stick to calling you every couple weeks until you feel like picking up.
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>I hope all is well with you and the kids,
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>J