Nostalgia

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Subtitles by explosiveskull

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Can I get you
anything else today?

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That's a nice necklace.

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Thanks.
It was my grandmother's.

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My mom gave it to me.

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Beautiful ring, too.

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Thanks.

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It seems valuable.

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I don't know about that.

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But it is to me though.

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I've worn it every day
since she passed it on to me.

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When are you due?

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In January.

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Do you know
if it's a boy or girl?

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No.

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It's a surprise.

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A mystery.

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Yeah.

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Well...

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I can get you change.

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It's all yours.

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Thank you.

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God bless.

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You, too.

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Thanks.

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- Yes?
- Hi.

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I'm Daniel Coleman,
from Assembly Mutual.

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What are you looking at?

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If there is anything
you want specifically noted

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as being in need of proper
appraisal, just let me know.

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I thought that's
what you were here to do.

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I'm here to make sure
the value of your home

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is more or less what your
granddaughter Bethany assumes.

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Anything like furniture or art.
You know, little odd pieces...

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- Rare books would have to be...
- Rare books?

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Yeah.

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Come on.
Have a look around.

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You think I got anything
like that laying around?

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I don't know.
You probably don't know either.

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We'd have to get somebody
who deals more with appraisals

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to come in and let me know
what the value is.

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Well, the place itself,

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it's gotta be worth
more money.

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Now, certainly.
But it doesn't matter.

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You know why?

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Because they'll just tear
it down and build it again.

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I just went through that.
On both sides of me.

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You still live here, though.

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Well, what am I
supposed to do, move?

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Because they closed
my spots?

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Sure.
People have moved for less.

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I raised my family here.

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My wife, my two kids.

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My wife died here.

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It was not easy.
And you know what?

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It's home,
and I still like it.

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What are you writing?

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Just that,
as best as I can tell,

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nothing conflicts with what
Bethany claimed was here.

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I told her,
"Get a Dumpster."

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There are things
she might want to keep.

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For sentimental reasons.

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Well, then she
should be here.

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She was going to be. Last-minute thing.
I couldn't reschedule...

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Of course. Last-minute thing.
She had to change her schedule.

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How come nobody thought to ask
me if I'd change my schedule?

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You know, there's no need. In fact,
you don't even need to be here.

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A lot of the times I'm not
even brought in until after.

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After?

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After I'm dead?

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That, uh...

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You could put that one down.
I haven't read that yet.

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I thought everything
was trash.

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Well, it is, or will be.

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Do you mind
if I take a picture of you?

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Why?

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- I don't know.
- Be my guest.

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I'm not a relic.

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Wow.

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- What, I break your camera?
- No.

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It's a great shot.

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Thank you.

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Why are you still
looking around?

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Isn't all the stuff
adding up?

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It all adds up, Mr. Ashmore.

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Everything
is mathematically consistent

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with a widower in his 80s
who collects pension regularly.

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And what if it all turns out
to be nothing?

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You still get paid?

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I still get paid.

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The next guy, the appraiser,

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he only gets a percentage
of whatever this stuff is worth.

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But he only comes if I
determine it'll be worthwhile.

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And is it?

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There are a few pieces
that should be looked at.

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Well.

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Then it ain't
all trash, is it?

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Thank you for having me,
Mr. Ashmore.

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Hey, you got
a handshake, bud.

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No one
shakes hands anymore.

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Might you
be coming back?

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No, I don't think so.

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You can take that.
You can have it.

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I think
I read this one already.

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Have a good day.

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I knew he wasn't gonna be able
to deal with this on his own.

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I knew it.

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I knew he wasn't gonna be able
to go through all of his stuff.

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I mean, no one's gonna fly
in there and do it for him.

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"Thanks, Bethany."

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You gotta understand
where he's coming from, though.

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I don't want us to end up
with every single little thing...

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I wasn't talking
about every single piece.

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I was talking
about one thing, okay?

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Just... Just one thing
that he could maybe say,

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"Hey, this means a lot to me, and
I'd like for you to have it."

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Just one thing. It doesn't
even have to be of value.

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There could
still be something.

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I'm recommending a walk-through
with an appraiser.

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I probably can't be there, but you
guys should be there for that.

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Nothing major, but...

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You know, with folks
like your grandfather,

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there's always a chance that
underneath ten years of magazines,

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there's a table
worth $10,000.

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I don't like to think
about my grandfather dying.

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I really, really don't.

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And you being here can only
reinforce the notion that...

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sometime soon
that's gonna happen.

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Have a seat.

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Thanks.

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So let's say he does decide there's
something he wants to bestow.

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While that's all warm and fuzzy,
I have to ask the question:

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Is anything worth anything?

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What, um...

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What do you want
from your grandfather?

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I don't think
there's anything left.

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I mean, I got all of it.
Or Dad did.

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And I couldn't really say

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when the whole "if you want it,
take it" attitude started.

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But, boy, I'll tell you.

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His whole "you can't even
wait until I'm dead" period started

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right around
the time Grandma died.

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He's not a very generous man.

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Honestly...

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I think he's probably right.

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It's all just trash, you know.

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It's all just become part
of the decor of the place.

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That's why it's so easy
for him to be...

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surrounded by it.

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I don't think any specific thing
has a particular meaning,

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an individual meaning.

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But it doesn't mean
it's not related.

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You know? Just...

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It's some, um...

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some middle.

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You know?

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Maybe that's, um,

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one of the advantages
of living a long life...

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is you outgrow the tendency
to assign emotional meaning

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to a piece of paper.

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Well, we should
all be so lucky.

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You don't have
to outgrow.

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Me, I'm hardly the person
to tell people

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that it's wise to accumulate
more things in their homes,

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but you should remain open to the
possibility that something...

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it could be anything...

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of your grandfather's has
remained unseen by him for years.

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And you...

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maybe forever.

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Undiscovered.

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A box of love letters.

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Diaries.

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Photographs.

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Lives lived.

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So it all falls on me
because I live the closest?

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That seems to be
the way it works.

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He's lucky
to have you nearby.

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- I'll walk you out.
- Yeah.

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- Hey. Pleasure.
- Oh.

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- Thank you. Have a good day.
- Thanks.

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- Everything will be okay.
- Thanks.

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Oh! Are you
the insurance man?

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Daniel Coleman.
You must be Helen Greare.

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Yes.

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I'd invite you in,
but there is no "in."

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- So?
- So sorry.

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Yeah. This is my home.

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This is my kitchen.

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This is the living room.

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This is
the powder room here.

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So, uh, what happened?

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You know...

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I used to be
very sloppy about...

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changing the batteries
on the fire alarms.

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Ned was always the one
that did it.

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I would wait until I heard
the beeping and then say,

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"Oh, the batteries
ought to be changed."

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But he did it
before they started beeping.

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Every 90 days,
like it says on the package.

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But I'm better now.
I've had to learn how to do it.

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So, the fire department
still doesn't know

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if it was just, like,
a spark that went wrong

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or, you know,

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roll of paper towel left
too close to the pilot light,

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or what.

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You probably know
all this already.

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Well, the details,
they're helpful.

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Okay.

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Do you know why the fire
department was so delayed?

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Something about
an electrical malfunction.

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Oh. They were called,
like, 20 minutes

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before the O'Bryans
came home, 11:00 p.m.

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Response time is supposed to be...
Oh, I don't know.

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I understand.

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When the wind took
the fire to the O'Bryans...

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that was when I had this moment.

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You know, just an awful feeling.

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I knew...

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I need to go inside
and do that thing

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that people wonder about
their whole life.

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Decide what you take
from a burning building.

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I mean, it's easier when it's
just a hypothetical question...

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instead of when you see the...

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the tree...

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that touches both your home
and the one next door

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is on fire.

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It's just chaos at that point.

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People in their yards,
screaming.

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The police were here,
but a lot of good that did.

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They were the ones
that came in after me.

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I got, like, one minute
in my house...

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before they came
and took me out.

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Felt like ten seconds.

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Well, the rings and broaches
belonged to my great-grandmother.

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Standing out here, they were
the first things I pictured.

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I made for them like it
wasn't even a conscious decision.

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So now I'm upstairs,

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and already I can hear
the police calling my name.

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They're inside, downstairs.

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So, wouldn't
it have been smart

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for me to take
this whole chest?

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Oh, God. I don't know.
I can't tell you why.

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I knew that if I was gonna take
anything else, it had to be now.

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From this room,
our bedroom.

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And that's when I...

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saw this on the mantel.

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It was Ned's baseball.

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He wasn't a player
or anything.

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It just was
family history.

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The ball.

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His father gave it to him.
It's from the '40s.

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You know?

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If you asked me now who won what
game with it, I couldn't tell you.

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It was just "the ball."

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He always spoke about it
with such pride.

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Such value.

257
00:21:43,217 --> 00:21:44,187
Um...

258
00:21:48,689 --> 00:21:51,992
It was instinct.
It fit in my pocket.

259
00:21:51,994 --> 00:21:54,664
That's when they came in
and took me.

260
00:22:00,067 --> 00:22:03,705
When Ned died...

261
00:22:04,939 --> 00:22:09,809
um, the first thing
that Henry, my son,

262
00:22:09,811 --> 00:22:11,977
said was,
"What about the ball?"

263
00:22:11,979 --> 00:22:15,581
I mean, when we sat down
to go over the estate, you know.

264
00:22:15,583 --> 00:22:18,017
He said, "What about
the ball?"

265
00:22:18,019 --> 00:22:19,721
He wanted it.

266
00:22:21,122 --> 00:22:24,991
It was his birthright,
as far as he was concerned.

267
00:22:24,993 --> 00:22:26,926
I said,
"Well, he could have it,"

268
00:22:26,928 --> 00:22:30,597
but I just needed to keep
on looking at it for a while.

269
00:22:30,599 --> 00:22:32,735
I wasn't ready
to not see it there.

270
00:22:34,636 --> 00:22:38,040
It's been in some prominent place
in every home we've ever had.

271
00:22:39,908 --> 00:22:44,910
I told Henry when I moved,
it would be his.

272
00:22:44,912 --> 00:22:49,518
'Cause I knew that this house,
eventually, would be too much for me.

273
00:22:51,786 --> 00:22:55,024
I just didn't know that there
wasn't gonna be an "eventually."

274
00:23:00,595 --> 00:23:02,896
It could be worth more
than the house.

275
00:23:02,898 --> 00:23:04,598
For claim purposes.

276
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:08,801
If it is insured and you
would have left it behind,

277
00:23:08,803 --> 00:23:12,237
I'd be writing you a check next
week for the amount of, uh...

278
00:23:12,239 --> 00:23:14,174
Well, it'd be substantial.

279
00:23:14,176 --> 00:23:15,311
Ah.

280
00:23:18,246 --> 00:23:22,752
Things that mattered more to
me, to the children, are gone.

281
00:23:24,620 --> 00:23:28,088
But I have Ned's ball.

282
00:23:28,090 --> 00:23:31,894
I don't understand it
or know what to do with it.

283
00:23:32,861 --> 00:23:34,296
I have it.

284
00:23:37,765 --> 00:23:39,799
- Helen?
- Oh, hi.

285
00:23:39,801 --> 00:23:43,637
This is Mrs. Singer. Jane Singer.
This is the insurance man.

286
00:23:43,639 --> 00:23:47,640
Oh, very nice to meet you. Would you both
like to come and have a cup of coffee?

287
00:23:47,642 --> 00:23:50,644
We've been kind of playing
welcome center these days.

288
00:23:50,646 --> 00:23:53,312
- Oh, that'll be nice. Okay.
- Good? Oh, good.

289
00:23:53,314 --> 00:23:56,081
- Thanks.
- Oh, our pleasure. I'll just leave the door open.

290
00:23:56,083 --> 00:23:58,019
Okay.
Thank you, Jane.

291
00:24:04,325 --> 00:24:08,029
The insurance covers the
home, the car, the valuables.

292
00:24:09,063 --> 00:24:14,167
It's the stuff
that's left out.

293
00:24:14,169 --> 00:24:19,304
We've lived here, um,
just over four years.

294
00:24:19,306 --> 00:24:25,078
So our restructuring and cleansing
and pawning off to the kids

295
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,213
was done then.

296
00:24:27,215 --> 00:24:30,250
We didn't get the worst of it.

297
00:24:30,252 --> 00:24:33,990
Helen, I... I can't imagine
how it is for you.

298
00:24:38,325 --> 00:24:41,261
Thirty years.

299
00:24:41,263 --> 00:24:43,929
We moved here
when Lisa was three

300
00:24:43,931 --> 00:24:46,134
and Henry was seven.

301
00:24:50,839 --> 00:24:52,805
Did anything make it out?

302
00:24:52,807 --> 00:24:55,041
Well, we were very lucky

303
00:24:55,043 --> 00:24:58,712
because Riley had
a safe in his office.

304
00:24:58,714 --> 00:25:01,851
And not a small one either.
It was about this big.

305
00:25:03,884 --> 00:25:08,021
And our valuables and irreplaceable
heirlooms, and, um...

306
00:25:08,023 --> 00:25:10,122
My family's...

307
00:25:10,124 --> 00:25:13,827
My family's immigration papers.
Things over a hundred years old.

308
00:25:13,829 --> 00:25:16,161
We put them all in there.
Thank God.

309
00:25:16,163 --> 00:25:18,330
It was
a Father's Day gift.

310
00:25:18,332 --> 00:25:21,269
Kind of frivolous,
but I-I wanted it.

311
00:25:23,170 --> 00:25:26,741
I always dreamt of having
a nice study with a safe.

312
00:25:28,176 --> 00:25:31,043
Well, when I got the study,
they bought me the safe.

313
00:25:31,045 --> 00:25:33,279
It was mostly
entertaining.

314
00:25:33,281 --> 00:25:38,051
I love pushing
the buttons and...

315
00:25:38,053 --> 00:25:40,790
resetting the code
out of boredom.

316
00:25:42,224 --> 00:25:45,958
Never dreamed it
would come in handy.

317
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:50,062
I'm usually listening to people lament
that they never bothered to lock it.

318
00:25:50,064 --> 00:25:53,099
What you're describing
is actually quite uncommon.

319
00:25:53,101 --> 00:25:57,870
Not that there was anything
of extreme monetary value,

320
00:25:57,872 --> 00:26:00,976
aside from my rings
and silver.

321
00:26:02,977 --> 00:26:06,314
But you know how it is.
It's the personal things.

322
00:26:07,282 --> 00:26:08,514
Personal things.

323
00:26:08,516 --> 00:26:10,917
I'm really glad
we put 'em in there.

324
00:26:10,919 --> 00:26:15,455
It's fine. We used to
hide little surprises in there.

325
00:26:15,457 --> 00:26:17,991
As a... As a joke.

326
00:26:17,993 --> 00:26:23,263
So if anybody needs a bobblehead
from the 1995 All-Star Game,

327
00:26:23,265 --> 00:26:26,499
Anna put two in there to get back
at me the day before the blaze.

328
00:26:29,537 --> 00:26:31,937
I shouldn't laugh.

329
00:26:31,939 --> 00:26:33,808
Well...

330
00:26:35,476 --> 00:26:38,077
- We should hit the road.
- No. Don't be silly.

331
00:26:38,079 --> 00:26:40,282
Please, stay,
as long as you want.

332
00:26:42,249 --> 00:26:45,019
We're staying about 50 miles
away, with our daughter.

333
00:26:46,188 --> 00:26:48,521
You're...
You're welcome to stay.

334
00:26:48,523 --> 00:26:52,992
I've got a drive to look forward to.
Thank you.

335
00:26:52,994 --> 00:26:55,765
- Daniel, can I ask you something?
- Please.

336
00:26:57,966 --> 00:27:02,505
What does it do to a person
to take all of this in?

337
00:27:03,839 --> 00:27:05,508
All due respect to Helen...

338
00:27:07,309 --> 00:27:10,042
this is pretty common,
right?

339
00:27:10,044 --> 00:27:13,413
You're clearly not hearing anything
that you haven't heard before.

340
00:27:13,415 --> 00:27:16,014
You're just sitting there. You're
barely reacting to anything of this...

341
00:27:16,016 --> 00:27:18,150
- Jim, Please. That's rude.
- No.

342
00:27:18,152 --> 00:27:20,219
It's okay. I understand.

343
00:27:20,221 --> 00:27:21,420
You're right.

344
00:27:21,422 --> 00:27:24,456
It's best to not become
terribly invested.

345
00:27:24,458 --> 00:27:27,126
I'm not a doctor or anything.

346
00:27:27,128 --> 00:27:31,630
My proximity to tragedy
is a smidge further away

347
00:27:31,632 --> 00:27:35,270
than somebody who truly
has to develop a barrier.

348
00:27:36,237 --> 00:27:38,807
But to be honest...

349
00:27:40,074 --> 00:27:42,311
it never
hurts me personally.

350
00:27:44,278 --> 00:27:46,414
And it never gets old.

351
00:27:48,650 --> 00:27:52,153
Every story has details
I've never heard before.

352
00:27:53,487 --> 00:27:57,092
Every person I talk to,
I learn something new.

353
00:28:00,394 --> 00:28:03,097
Not many people get to say that
about their jobs.

354
00:28:08,637 --> 00:28:11,040
You will never replace
your things.

355
00:28:13,675 --> 00:28:15,311
Or lives.

356
00:28:20,247 --> 00:28:21,283
But...

357
00:28:22,117 --> 00:28:25,321
I find something...

358
00:28:27,288 --> 00:28:29,121
magnetic...

359
00:28:29,123 --> 00:28:31,957
talking to people like yourself,

360
00:28:31,959 --> 00:28:36,465
who could have easily have been
trapped inside a burning house...

361
00:28:37,532 --> 00:28:38,634
and know it.

362
00:28:41,101 --> 00:28:44,169
Or people who feel some relief

363
00:28:44,171 --> 00:28:48,611
that the belongings they've accumulated
have avoided similar fates.

364
00:28:51,111 --> 00:28:52,413
And here's the thing.

365
00:28:55,950 --> 00:28:58,621
Nobody wants
to be talking to me.

366
00:29:00,255 --> 00:29:02,224
And I think
knowing that...

367
00:29:04,191 --> 00:29:06,428
makes my job a lot easier.

368
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:54,736
Lives lived.

369
00:31:58,332 --> 00:32:00,166
Hey, Mom. We're getting
ready to hit the hay.

370
00:32:00,168 --> 00:32:01,801
You need anything else
for tonight?

371
00:32:01,803 --> 00:32:03,272
No, thanks.

372
00:32:04,471 --> 00:32:05,840
Everything okay?

373
00:32:07,374 --> 00:32:09,678
What do you think?

374
00:32:12,546 --> 00:32:14,679
- Good night, Mom.
- Good night.

375
00:32:14,681 --> 00:32:15,784
Good night.

376
00:33:26,787 --> 00:33:29,254
You'll never
be able to get me!

377
00:33:33,594 --> 00:33:36,561
Hey, boys, settle down.
Shh, shh, shh.

378
00:33:41,401 --> 00:33:43,602
- There you are.
- Hi.

379
00:33:43,604 --> 00:33:46,371
I wanted to ask you. Um...

380
00:33:46,373 --> 00:33:49,908
That photograph in the
guest room of Christmas,

381
00:33:49,910 --> 00:33:51,977
is that 2008?

382
00:33:51,979 --> 00:33:54,480
Uh, actually,
I think it was 2010.

383
00:33:54,482 --> 00:33:56,919
Oh. Yeah.

384
00:33:58,785 --> 00:34:01,753
I was looking at it
this morning when I woke up.

385
00:34:01,755 --> 00:34:04,523
Holidays have
been nice here, though.

386
00:34:04,525 --> 00:34:06,958
Oh, yeah. But...

387
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:10,997
Well, I love coming here
to see the boys.

388
00:34:10,999 --> 00:34:14,966
But, you know,
Ned never had Christmas here.

389
00:34:14,968 --> 00:34:21,774
His... I mean, you bought the
house after he was here.

390
00:34:21,776 --> 00:34:24,876
It's been long enough
that I...

391
00:34:24,878 --> 00:34:28,847
I just assumed
I was through giving things up.

392
00:34:28,849 --> 00:34:30,952
Now this morning I realized...

393
00:34:32,052 --> 00:34:33,919
more to give up.

394
00:34:33,921 --> 00:34:38,724
It's the second Saturday. You know,
we had second Saturday cards.

395
00:34:38,726 --> 00:34:44,296
So I guess there'll be no more
cards with friends at my house.

396
00:34:44,298 --> 00:34:46,465
Hmm. But cards are light.

397
00:34:46,467 --> 00:34:48,566
You can
take 'em anywhere.

398
00:34:48,568 --> 00:34:49,704
Yeah.

399
00:34:50,704 --> 00:34:53,338
But it's...

400
00:34:53,340 --> 00:34:54,842
not about the cards.

401
00:34:55,809 --> 00:34:57,878
Okay. Thank you.

402
00:35:09,923 --> 00:35:11,726
I didn't mean it like that.

403
00:35:12,994 --> 00:35:14,760
You could've fooled me.

404
00:35:14,762 --> 00:35:17,430
I'm not
being insensitive.

405
00:35:17,432 --> 00:35:20,802
You're just reacting because
you're afraid it's inevitable.

406
00:35:21,903 --> 00:35:23,702
Assisted living?

407
00:35:23,704 --> 00:35:27,673
It is completely
independent cottages.

408
00:35:27,675 --> 00:35:30,675
But in a facility
with employees, staff.

409
00:35:30,677 --> 00:35:33,646
Only if you need anything
or want something.

410
00:35:33,648 --> 00:35:36,981
Even just a ride somewhere. Sometimes
maybe you don't want to drive yourself.

411
00:35:36,983 --> 00:35:41,454
I like driving myself.
I'm fine driving myself.

412
00:35:41,456 --> 00:35:43,988
You have to have thought about
where you're gonna live.

413
00:35:43,990 --> 00:35:46,124
- The insurance money is...
- Yeah, you're right.

414
00:35:46,126 --> 00:35:48,561
It's a lot.
It's quite a bit.

415
00:35:48,563 --> 00:35:50,829
But you're cash poor.

416
00:35:50,831 --> 00:35:53,966
I am accustomed
to having my own house.

417
00:35:53,968 --> 00:35:56,535
Well, your house
burned down,

418
00:35:56,537 --> 00:35:58,570
and you can't
live there anymore!

419
00:35:58,572 --> 00:36:02,041
I don't mean to yell.
But come on.

420
00:36:02,043 --> 00:36:04,477
Mom, things are not the same
as they were before.

421
00:36:04,479 --> 00:36:08,012
Things have changed.
You need a plan. We need...

422
00:36:08,014 --> 00:36:10,149
Well, you know,
I can sell some things.

423
00:36:10,151 --> 00:36:12,921
Stop. Don't sell anything.

424
00:36:16,990 --> 00:36:19,892
I mean,
the jewelry alone is...

425
00:36:19,894 --> 00:36:21,760
You don't want it.

426
00:36:21,762 --> 00:36:24,065
I mean, Lisa might, but...

427
00:36:25,432 --> 00:36:26,932
We can take care of you.

428
00:36:28,903 --> 00:36:31,570
You've just been saying
that you won't.

429
00:36:31,572 --> 00:36:34,943
That's not what I said. And you
know that's not what I said.

430
00:36:38,713 --> 00:36:40,782
Those belong to you.

431
00:36:41,749 --> 00:36:43,749
Lisa wants 'em.

432
00:36:43,751 --> 00:36:47,019
She's never admitted to you
how badly she wants 'em.

433
00:36:47,021 --> 00:36:48,856
Trust me.

434
00:36:54,961 --> 00:36:56,995
You're just like him.

435
00:36:56,997 --> 00:36:59,568
Always telling me what to do.

436
00:37:17,718 --> 00:37:19,488
I love you, Mom.

437
00:37:21,856 --> 00:37:25,727
Don't feel like you have a limit
on how long you can stay here.

438
00:37:30,164 --> 00:37:31,633
Thanks.

439
00:37:57,057 --> 00:37:59,191
She just needs more time.

440
00:37:59,193 --> 00:38:01,129
She has to process it.

441
00:38:02,762 --> 00:38:04,632
I know, but how much?

442
00:38:05,566 --> 00:38:07,666
She has to understand by now

443
00:38:07,668 --> 00:38:13,204
that pretending things will somehow go back
to the way they were before is ludicrous.

444
00:38:13,206 --> 00:38:14,840
She's an old lady

445
00:38:14,842 --> 00:38:19,144
who spent decades
looking at these objects.

446
00:38:19,146 --> 00:38:22,717
She still thinks of herself as
living in or with these objects.

447
00:38:26,521 --> 00:38:29,021
I just wish she could have
gotten more of Dad's things.

448
00:38:29,023 --> 00:38:32,461
Then maybe she wouldn't feel
so untethered.

449
00:38:33,961 --> 00:38:37,095
You know, she told me
that the logs in the fireplace

450
00:38:37,097 --> 00:38:39,298
still had kindling
under them and everything

451
00:38:39,300 --> 00:38:41,901
- from the last fire that your dad built.
- Mm-hmm.

452
00:38:41,903 --> 00:38:45,037
She thinks that because
they'd been there for ten years,

453
00:38:45,039 --> 00:38:47,640
it somehow made the fire worse,
like a bomb.

454
00:38:47,642 --> 00:38:50,742
She loved that fireplace.

455
00:38:50,744 --> 00:38:52,611
She loved everything.

456
00:38:52,613 --> 00:38:55,314
Once he was gone,
she'd never let it be used.

457
00:38:55,316 --> 00:38:57,048
Dad's fire.

458
00:38:57,050 --> 00:38:58,953
The last fire he built.

459
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,089
Such a bummer.

460
00:39:05,892 --> 00:39:07,195
I know her.

461
00:39:08,996 --> 00:39:11,129
I know she can't have
half the jewelry

462
00:39:11,131 --> 00:39:13,832
without thinking
of the other half.

463
00:39:13,834 --> 00:39:18,236
She can't have the car without
thinking of everything in the garage.

464
00:39:18,238 --> 00:39:20,939
- She won't get rid of it.
- She's insinuating.

465
00:39:20,941 --> 00:39:24,776
I know she'd never
go through with it.

466
00:39:24,778 --> 00:39:29,347
She's too attached
to everything it represents.

467
00:39:29,349 --> 00:39:31,816
It's just like his ball.

468
00:39:31,818 --> 00:39:35,854
It's some thing
that makes no sense to her

469
00:39:35,856 --> 00:39:40,061
but that she doesn't have the
ability to detach herself from.

470
00:39:44,599 --> 00:39:46,030
No.

471
00:39:46,032 --> 00:39:47,932
I'll know for certain

472
00:39:47,934 --> 00:39:52,070
the day she seriously considers getting
rid of the jewelry or the ball

473
00:39:52,072 --> 00:39:53,974
is the day I eat my hat.

474
00:39:55,977 --> 00:39:57,876
I almost wish she could.

475
00:39:57,878 --> 00:40:01,914
I'd like the ball, just as Lisa
would like everything else.

476
00:40:04,352 --> 00:40:06,184
But for Mom's sake,

477
00:40:06,186 --> 00:40:08,989
I almost wish she'd get rid
of the stuff.

478
00:40:11,726 --> 00:40:15,126
She's gonna drag it around
with her, like an albatross?

479
00:40:15,128 --> 00:40:17,765
I'd be happier for her
to see it all gone.

480
00:40:19,166 --> 00:40:21,100
Riley?

481
00:40:21,102 --> 00:40:23,301
Hi. It's Helen.

482
00:40:23,303 --> 00:40:25,403
I-I hope
I didn't wake you up.

483
00:40:25,405 --> 00:40:27,207
I'm sorry to call so late.

484
00:40:28,275 --> 00:40:29,975
Oh, good.

485
00:40:29,977 --> 00:40:31,580
Listen, um...

486
00:40:32,813 --> 00:40:35,713
I wanted to ask you
about that gentleman

487
00:40:35,715 --> 00:40:37,850
that you mentioned
the other night,

488
00:40:37,852 --> 00:40:41,323
the re-saler
that your daughter found.

489
00:40:42,356 --> 00:40:44,659
Appraiser. I see. Yeah.

490
00:40:46,026 --> 00:40:47,294
Oh, sure.

491
00:40:52,967 --> 00:40:55,235
And you found him
really helpful?

492
00:40:59,173 --> 00:41:01,209
Las Vegas?

493
00:41:02,276 --> 00:41:03,345
Oh.

494
00:41:05,311 --> 00:41:06,780
Uh-huh.

495
00:41:08,715 --> 00:41:10,682
Well, no, I wouldn't...

496
00:41:10,684 --> 00:41:14,221
I wouldn't send anything really
valuable in the mail either.

497
00:41:16,691 --> 00:41:18,356
Well...

498
00:41:18,358 --> 00:41:20,191
I'm... I'm not sure.

499
00:41:20,193 --> 00:41:23,128
It's not definite yet.
I just...

500
00:41:23,130 --> 00:41:26,932
Well, you know,
I just thought that I...

501
00:41:26,934 --> 00:41:30,839
What could it hurt if I gave him a
call and see what he says, right?

502
00:41:32,907 --> 00:41:34,338
Okay.

503
00:41:34,340 --> 00:41:36,140
Yeah, thanks a lot, huh?

504
00:41:36,142 --> 00:41:39,179
And listen, tell Anna...
You know, send her my love.

505
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:41,983
Okay. Thank you.

506
00:41:42,450 --> 00:41:44,015
Bye.

507
00:43:19,046 --> 00:43:21,381
These are our remainders.

508
00:43:25,218 --> 00:43:28,553
Of our lives, of many forms.

509
00:43:28,555 --> 00:43:30,224
Emotional.

510
00:43:31,191 --> 00:43:32,392
Physical.

511
00:43:35,296 --> 00:43:38,133
These are our artifacts.

512
00:43:40,534 --> 00:43:42,470
Our scars.

513
00:43:44,604 --> 00:43:46,273
Objects.

514
00:43:49,343 --> 00:43:50,979
Memories.

515
00:43:56,883 --> 00:43:59,219
Items that are tangible.

516
00:44:00,220 --> 00:44:01,789
Memorable.

517
00:44:03,523 --> 00:44:05,559
We live our lives and ask...

518
00:44:07,260 --> 00:44:09,530
"What do we leave behind?"

519
00:44:11,331 --> 00:44:14,298
When we look at the pictures
long enough,

520
00:44:14,300 --> 00:44:16,236
they reappear.

521
00:44:18,005 --> 00:44:20,874
What is the value of anything?

522
00:44:30,985 --> 00:44:34,255
Can what we hold in our hands
be the same...

523
00:44:35,389 --> 00:44:38,055
as what we hold in our hearts?

524
00:44:57,311 --> 00:45:01,082
Um, hello, Mr. Bleam.
This is Helen Greare...

525
00:45:03,082 --> 00:45:08,289
calling to confirm what time
it would be good for us to meet.

526
00:45:28,508 --> 00:45:29,644
Can I help you?

527
00:45:32,146 --> 00:45:34,345
I'm Helen Greare.

528
00:45:34,347 --> 00:45:37,515
Oh, yes. Oh, my gosh.
I'm so sorry. Of course.

529
00:45:37,517 --> 00:45:39,216
It's nice to meet you.

530
00:45:39,218 --> 00:45:40,519
- Hi. Welcome.
- Thank you.

531
00:45:40,521 --> 00:45:42,354
Will Bleam.
Come on in, please.

532
00:45:42,356 --> 00:45:45,157
Uh, have a seat.
Let's see what you've got here.

533
00:45:45,159 --> 00:45:47,425
- I know it's a lot.
- It's a lot.

534
00:45:47,427 --> 00:45:48,961
Right?

535
00:45:48,963 --> 00:45:52,030
Most of the stuff I get
is from people like you.

536
00:45:52,032 --> 00:45:54,599
But I also get, you know,
some conventions,

537
00:45:54,601 --> 00:46:00,472
and, uh, you know, trips I take
and other stores, what have you.

538
00:46:00,474 --> 00:46:02,740
And sometimes the families
of players reach out...

539
00:46:02,742 --> 00:46:06,345
- Please, please, have a seat.
- Thank you.

540
00:46:06,347 --> 00:46:08,546
But honestly, mostly my
reputation, at this point,

541
00:46:08,548 --> 00:46:11,385
gets most of the heavy
lifting done, so...

542
00:46:12,619 --> 00:46:14,521
Uh, let's take a look
at what you have.

543
00:46:16,256 --> 00:46:18,256
People my age
come to Las Vegas

544
00:46:18,258 --> 00:46:22,697
to gamble away their pensions
and their life savings.

545
00:46:24,030 --> 00:46:27,365
Mm-hmm.

546
00:46:27,367 --> 00:46:30,369
Well, you have come to unburden
yourself in a different way, huh?

547
00:46:34,541 --> 00:46:36,678
So, why don't you tell me...

548
00:46:37,778 --> 00:46:40,012
how you came across this.

549
00:46:40,014 --> 00:46:45,017
Um, my husband's father
got it,

550
00:46:45,019 --> 00:46:47,651
um, from his father.

551
00:46:47,653 --> 00:46:50,555
And I think it was given
to him at a game.

552
00:46:50,557 --> 00:46:53,225
And it's been
in the family ever since.

553
00:46:53,227 --> 00:46:58,062
Huh. Well, the good news is I can
almost guarantee you it's authentic.

554
00:46:58,064 --> 00:47:02,033
- Yeah.
- Um, you know, there's not a lot of things like this

555
00:47:02,035 --> 00:47:06,671
that are in families for generation after
generation that turn out to be fake.

556
00:47:06,673 --> 00:47:08,673
Yep. Why is that?

557
00:47:08,675 --> 00:47:11,108
Well, honestly,
something like this,

558
00:47:11,110 --> 00:47:13,544
it was just a more
honest time back then.

559
00:47:13,546 --> 00:47:15,814
There wasn't as much money
to be made from collectibles.

560
00:47:15,816 --> 00:47:17,783
That sort of thing.

561
00:47:17,785 --> 00:47:20,651
The only thing we generally have to be
careful for is a situation like this,

562
00:47:20,653 --> 00:47:22,620
where somebody passes away.

563
00:47:22,622 --> 00:47:26,158
They're going through their
valuables, and it's mostly artwork.

564
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:29,160
You know, I just can't go
out 10,000, $20,000 out

565
00:47:29,162 --> 00:47:31,562
on something that might
be proven to be false.

566
00:47:31,564 --> 00:47:33,564
- Oh, no, there's no chance.
- Of course not.

567
00:47:33,566 --> 00:47:35,633
Not with this.
I understand.

568
00:47:35,635 --> 00:47:38,503
Uh, that said, if we're looking
at something like this,

569
00:47:38,505 --> 00:47:42,744
we are probably looking at
something like 80,000 to 100,000.

570
00:47:44,378 --> 00:47:46,278
Um...

571
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,245
it's in excellent
condition,

572
00:47:48,247 --> 00:47:51,483
and, uh, Ted Williams
autographs are very scarce,

573
00:47:51,485 --> 00:47:54,419
especially on an
actual piece of equipment.

574
00:47:54,421 --> 00:47:56,390
- Do you know who Ted Williams is?
- No.

575
00:47:57,523 --> 00:48:01,626
Well, it's a terrific piece.

576
00:48:01,628 --> 00:48:04,729
And the people who specialize
in collecting this era,

577
00:48:04,731 --> 00:48:07,769
they know what price point
they're getting into.

578
00:48:09,802 --> 00:48:13,204
I guess everything here
has a story, huh?

579
00:48:13,206 --> 00:48:14,409
Yes.

580
00:48:15,508 --> 00:48:16,707
Yes. And, you know,

581
00:48:16,709 --> 00:48:19,778
I try to relate that
to the buyers.

582
00:48:19,780 --> 00:48:22,247
And some of them
are actually eager to learn.

583
00:48:22,249 --> 00:48:23,881
- Mm-hmm.
- You know?

584
00:48:23,883 --> 00:48:29,287
But also sometimes my buyers
come in looking for a gift.

585
00:48:29,289 --> 00:48:32,657
You know? And so,
to that person,

586
00:48:32,659 --> 00:48:34,595
the object
just sort of appears...

587
00:48:36,497 --> 00:48:38,762
on their birthday
or their anniversary

588
00:48:38,764 --> 00:48:40,365
or their retirement.

589
00:48:40,367 --> 00:48:41,302
You get what I'm saying?

590
00:48:43,570 --> 00:48:46,204
- Well...
- Saying good-bye is hard.

591
00:48:46,206 --> 00:48:47,508
I know that.

592
00:48:49,510 --> 00:48:53,245
And you-you shouldn't, you know,
feel ridiculous about that either.

593
00:48:53,247 --> 00:48:57,615
- No.
- It's... It's-It's difficult.

594
00:48:57,617 --> 00:49:00,353
What was your husband's
name, if I may ask?

595
00:49:02,356 --> 00:49:03,424
Ned.

596
00:49:05,291 --> 00:49:07,427
Edward Roger Greare.

597
00:49:11,197 --> 00:49:12,930
I bet Ned liked
to talk about the ball.

598
00:49:12,932 --> 00:49:14,399
Oh!

599
00:49:14,401 --> 00:49:16,734
I bet he... I bet he liked
to talk about it a lot.

600
00:49:16,736 --> 00:49:18,702
Tell the same story
over and over again.

601
00:49:18,704 --> 00:49:19,803
- Yes.
- Right?

602
00:49:19,805 --> 00:49:21,907
And it's my understanding

603
00:49:21,909 --> 00:49:23,675
from the brief conversations
that we've had

604
00:49:23,677 --> 00:49:25,876
that you didn't retain
the legend of the ball.

605
00:49:25,878 --> 00:49:27,178
- Is that correct?
- No.

606
00:49:27,180 --> 00:49:29,213
No. Right.
And that's okay too.

607
00:49:29,215 --> 00:49:31,216
- It's not your ball.
- Mm-hmm.

608
00:49:31,218 --> 00:49:33,852
Ned loved the story
of the ball.

609
00:49:33,854 --> 00:49:38,423
And you selling it to me doesn't... doesn't
change that, doesn't take it away.

610
00:49:38,425 --> 00:49:39,360
You know?

611
00:49:41,227 --> 00:49:42,359
Yeah.

612
00:49:42,361 --> 00:49:44,863
Um, do you have
any children?

613
00:49:44,865 --> 00:49:46,530
Two.

614
00:49:46,532 --> 00:49:49,236
You know, would either
of them maybe want this?

615
00:49:50,803 --> 00:49:53,370
Perhaps. Maybe.

616
00:49:53,372 --> 00:49:57,742
Okay. Well, when you...
If you decide to...

617
00:49:57,744 --> 00:50:00,881
But when you
tell them, uh...

618
00:50:02,515 --> 00:50:03,847
Worst-case scenario,

619
00:50:03,849 --> 00:50:07,755
they may be upset
with you for a moment.

620
00:50:09,923 --> 00:50:12,356
But...

621
00:50:12,358 --> 00:50:16,727
best-case scenario,
I think they will understand

622
00:50:16,729 --> 00:50:20,267
and realize that you doing this
was the best for you.

623
00:50:21,767 --> 00:50:25,269
Because you have so many
other things to remember Ned

624
00:50:25,271 --> 00:50:26,671
other than this ball.

625
00:50:26,673 --> 00:50:28,508
Right?

626
00:50:32,412 --> 00:50:33,648
Right.

627
00:50:39,519 --> 00:50:41,686
Do you have children?

628
00:50:41,688 --> 00:50:42,956
No.

629
00:50:43,990 --> 00:50:45,659
Are you married?

630
00:50:47,727 --> 00:50:49,426
Not recently, no. No.

631
00:50:49,428 --> 00:50:51,863
Uh, she...

632
00:50:51,865 --> 00:50:53,832
she left me.

633
00:50:53,834 --> 00:50:55,469
Why?

634
00:50:57,271 --> 00:50:59,539
Well, uh...

635
00:51:01,340 --> 00:51:03,675
She came in one day and said
that she had had enough.

636
00:51:03,677 --> 00:51:04,812
She didn't love me anymore.

637
00:51:08,814 --> 00:51:12,383
It was right around the time
when I started with this place.

638
00:51:12,385 --> 00:51:13,688
And I was...

639
00:51:15,488 --> 00:51:17,824
pretty unavailable,
to say the least.

640
00:51:19,425 --> 00:51:21,561
But still a bit of a shock.

641
00:51:25,731 --> 00:51:28,666
Uh, about nine years ago.

642
00:51:28,668 --> 00:51:30,704
Still trying
to make sense of it.

643
00:51:38,778 --> 00:51:40,447
Well...

644
00:51:42,448 --> 00:51:44,316
it's just a thing.

645
00:51:46,385 --> 00:51:48,019
You've never
seen it before,

646
00:51:48,021 --> 00:51:51,555
and by tomorrow,
it'll be up on that shelf.

647
00:51:51,557 --> 00:51:56,093
And maybe by next week,
it'll be gone already.

648
00:51:56,095 --> 00:52:00,501
Or maybe it'll sit here
for a year or maybe two years.

649
00:52:03,503 --> 00:52:04,705
And...

650
00:52:07,807 --> 00:52:09,610
you won't remember me.

651
00:52:11,644 --> 00:52:14,611
When people come
and sit where I'm sitting

652
00:52:14,613 --> 00:52:16,448
and feel what I'm feeling...

653
00:52:20,019 --> 00:52:23,687
you'll just be able to tell them,
with a little more confidence,

654
00:52:23,689 --> 00:52:27,794
that what they're feeling
is common.

655
00:52:29,796 --> 00:52:31,032
Yeah.

656
00:52:32,365 --> 00:52:34,634
You won't remember Helen.

657
00:52:35,735 --> 00:52:36,903
Ned's wife.

658
00:52:39,439 --> 00:52:41,375
With Ned's ball.

659
00:52:44,010 --> 00:52:46,914
You'll just know
that these things happen.

660
00:52:48,414 --> 00:52:52,950
And widows and... and children

661
00:52:52,952 --> 00:52:54,986
have a hard time.

662
00:52:54,988 --> 00:52:57,421
And you give them money.

663
00:52:57,423 --> 00:52:58,659
And...

664
00:52:59,825 --> 00:53:02,063
the money does make it easier.

665
00:53:03,130 --> 00:53:04,532
A bit.

666
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:08,336
And that's okay.

667
00:53:10,736 --> 00:53:12,539
Because, um...

668
00:53:18,644 --> 00:53:20,514
Ned's gone.

669
00:53:27,854 --> 00:53:30,424
And now so is his ball.

670
00:53:33,894 --> 00:53:35,129
Oh.

671
00:53:45,472 --> 00:53:47,742
- Thank you.
- Mm-hmm. Thank you.

672
00:54:05,791 --> 00:54:07,727
Bleam Collectibles.
This is Will speaking.

673
00:54:09,061 --> 00:54:10,997
Hey, Chris,
how's it going?

674
00:54:14,568 --> 00:54:16,604
Yes, I did. I thought
you'd be interested.

675
00:54:17,938 --> 00:54:20,874
Yeah, it's very fresh.
It's still warm, in fact.

676
00:54:23,776 --> 00:54:26,544
I think it was
on her husband's side.

677
00:54:29,115 --> 00:54:31,886
Uh...

678
00:54:33,019 --> 00:54:33,954
Yeah.

679
00:54:35,155 --> 00:54:36,490
Yes.

680
00:54:37,858 --> 00:54:40,660
Well, she knew
it was worth something.

681
00:54:41,827 --> 00:54:43,596
Mm-hmm.

682
00:54:44,831 --> 00:54:46,064
Mm-hmm.

683
00:54:46,066 --> 00:54:47,966
I was very fair.

684
00:54:47,968 --> 00:54:50,167
Yes. Very fair for me.

685
00:54:50,169 --> 00:54:51,936
Uh...

686
00:54:51,938 --> 00:54:54,508
Listen, I got
another call. Can...

687
00:54:56,809 --> 00:54:58,709
What do you mean, no?

688
00:54:58,711 --> 00:55:00,046
I'm gonna take...

689
00:55:02,849 --> 00:55:05,182
Okay, that's $10,000 more
than I'm asking.

690
00:55:05,184 --> 00:55:07,053
And you know I'm asking
more than it's worth.

691
00:55:10,624 --> 00:55:11,992
Uh...

692
00:55:13,626 --> 00:55:15,693
Yes.

693
00:55:15,695 --> 00:55:18,798
I mean, you've seen the pictures.
It's absolutely perfect.

694
00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:23,166
No. No, no, no.
That won't work.

695
00:55:23,168 --> 00:55:26,105
I'm, uh... I'm flying out
tomorrow afternoon.

696
00:55:28,909 --> 00:55:31,642
I'm going home.
I'm going to my old home.

697
00:55:31,644 --> 00:55:34,814
I'm gonna help clean out my
parents' house with my sister.

698
00:55:36,282 --> 00:55:38,084
Yeah.

699
00:55:40,220 --> 00:55:42,320
Yeah, well, look,
nobody knows more than me

700
00:55:42,322 --> 00:55:46,090
that when it's time for it all to
go, you gotta get rid of it all.

701
00:55:46,092 --> 00:55:47,695
That's right.

702
00:55:50,095 --> 00:55:53,030
All right.
I'll talk to you Monday.

703
00:58:45,838 --> 00:58:47,273
Have you talked
to them recently?

704
00:58:48,775 --> 00:58:51,508
I did. I called to say
that I was coming here.

705
00:58:51,510 --> 00:58:55,012
They were less interested in that fact
than I thought maybe they would be.

706
00:58:55,014 --> 00:58:56,981
Come on. Take it easy.

707
00:58:56,983 --> 00:58:58,883
No. This is important to me.

708
00:58:58,885 --> 00:59:00,218
- I flew here.
- Just don't be...

709
00:59:00,220 --> 00:59:01,986
I flew here for this.
That's more than they did.

710
00:59:01,988 --> 00:59:05,388
You always fly here.
Just don't be negative.

711
00:59:05,390 --> 00:59:08,258
- I travel twice a month for work.
- I know that.

712
00:59:08,260 --> 00:59:10,428
So flying here twice a year
is not that big a deal.

713
00:59:10,430 --> 00:59:12,765
I have a very favorable
mileage situation.

714
00:59:14,834 --> 00:59:18,336
I just... I can't believe they didn't
take more of their stuff, you know.

715
00:59:18,338 --> 00:59:19,937
- That...
- Well, duh.

716
00:59:19,939 --> 00:59:22,405
It's not their stuff anymore.
You know what I mean?

717
00:59:22,407 --> 00:59:26,244
At this point. They took what they
wanted and they left the rest.

718
00:59:26,246 --> 00:59:30,814
That's the whole point of why old
folks move from a house to a condo.

719
00:59:30,816 --> 00:59:33,486
There's less space,
less stuff.

720
00:59:36,789 --> 00:59:39,990
You talk down to me so much.

721
00:59:39,992 --> 00:59:42,059
- I don't talk...
- You think I'm an idiot.

722
00:59:42,061 --> 00:59:44,394
- I'm not... I don't. I don't.
- Yeah, you do. Yeah.

723
00:59:44,396 --> 00:59:45,732
And I'm not talking
down to you.

724
01:00:00,180 --> 01:00:02,379
I wish you
would stay with us.

725
01:00:02,381 --> 01:00:04,182
I don't want
to inconvenience you.

726
01:00:04,184 --> 01:00:06,184
Besides, maybe staying here
a couple extra nights

727
01:00:06,186 --> 01:00:08,952
might make me actually
feel something.

728
01:00:08,954 --> 01:00:10,923
Doesn't sound like you.

729
01:00:14,927 --> 01:00:16,262
Oh!

730
01:00:17,930 --> 01:00:19,932
- Whoa.
- Right?

731
01:00:20,900 --> 01:00:22,302
Yeah, no joke.

732
01:00:23,336 --> 01:00:24,772
Uff-da.

733
01:00:29,575 --> 01:00:32,475
This is difficult.
I love this house.

734
01:00:32,477 --> 01:00:35,515
I love this place too,
but, you know...

735
01:00:37,916 --> 01:00:40,153
Got a lot of good memories here.
It's just a house.

736
01:00:41,387 --> 01:00:44,258
- That we grew up in.
- Mm.

737
01:00:46,358 --> 01:00:48,526
Boy.

738
01:00:48,528 --> 01:00:50,928
I think Tallie's having
a really hard time with it.

739
01:00:50,930 --> 01:00:52,533
- Hmm?
- Yeah.

740
01:00:53,867 --> 01:00:55,135
And every...

741
01:00:56,369 --> 01:00:58,001
Christmas
and Thanksgiving...

742
01:00:58,003 --> 01:01:01,606
Every memory she has
is in here.

743
01:01:03,409 --> 01:01:04,975
Yeah, well,
she'll get over it.

744
01:01:04,977 --> 01:01:06,313
I mean, she still
has the memories.

745
01:01:08,581 --> 01:01:10,249
Make new ones.

746
01:01:12,418 --> 01:01:16,120
I think it's harder
on her them moving away

747
01:01:16,122 --> 01:01:18,088
than...
than she even knows or...

748
01:01:18,090 --> 01:01:19,155
I don't know.

749
01:01:19,157 --> 01:01:20,591
She was really lucky

750
01:01:20,593 --> 01:01:23,260
to have gotten to grow up so
close to her grandparents.

751
01:01:23,262 --> 01:01:25,264
There's gonna be
other holidays.

752
01:01:26,499 --> 01:01:28,001
Mm.

753
01:01:40,046 --> 01:01:42,012
God, it was easy
to sneak out.

754
01:01:46,184 --> 01:01:48,486
I don't want
to spend Christmas in Florida.

755
01:01:48,488 --> 01:01:52,455
Well, better get your serving trays
out, 'cause it's on you now.

756
01:02:01,267 --> 01:02:03,035
Oh, geez.

757
01:02:25,557 --> 01:02:31,062
But it's so weird to stay in a house
that's been empty for too long.

758
01:02:32,264 --> 01:02:34,064
Well, if I don't make it
through the night,

759
01:02:34,066 --> 01:02:36,269
you can tell everybody
that I died as I lived...

760
01:02:37,403 --> 01:02:39,238
in my childhood home.

761
01:02:41,006 --> 01:02:42,608
Uh... Yeah, well...

762
01:02:44,376 --> 01:02:47,577
You're a puzzle, little Bro.

763
01:02:47,579 --> 01:02:50,381
You're gonna meet me
at 10:00, right?

764
01:02:50,383 --> 01:02:55,218
Yes. You know, I should refuse
to do that out of principle.

765
01:02:55,220 --> 01:03:00,256
- Why? You have a principle against storage lockers?
- No. I love storage lockers.

766
01:03:00,258 --> 01:03:05,095
In fact, I've probably found hundreds of
thousands of dollars worth of sales in them.

767
01:03:05,097 --> 01:03:08,631
- I just don't think you should be renting one.
- Oh, God.

768
01:03:08,633 --> 01:03:13,303
You know, just because you have nothing
in your life that you love or care about

769
01:03:13,305 --> 01:03:17,041
doesn't mean
that we all should be the same.

770
01:03:17,043 --> 01:03:20,012
- I care about things. I care about things.
- Sure, so you say.

771
01:03:21,314 --> 01:03:23,717
- Okay. See you in the morn.
- Drive safely.

772
01:03:25,218 --> 01:03:28,285
- Drive safely.
- I'll try.

773
01:03:28,287 --> 01:03:30,220
- All right. Later, gator.
- Bye.

774
01:03:30,222 --> 01:03:31,691
- Ooh!
- You got it.

775
01:06:03,809 --> 01:06:05,475
Oh, man.

776
01:06:05,477 --> 01:06:08,245
I bet that the cost of your
two-year lease on this thing

777
01:06:08,247 --> 01:06:10,914
is worth three times more than
anything you're putting in here.

778
01:06:10,916 --> 01:06:13,684
It's not about the money.

779
01:06:13,686 --> 01:06:15,718
But you have an attic.

780
01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:18,888
You have a basement. You have a house.
Can't you put this there?

781
01:06:18,890 --> 01:06:22,626
Well, then I'd have to fucking see it
every single day, and I don't want to.

782
01:06:27,332 --> 01:06:31,669
Maybe I just don't want
to go downstairs every day

783
01:06:31,671 --> 01:06:33,736
and see all this stuff.

784
01:06:33,738 --> 01:06:36,606
Maybe it'll remind me of something
that's a little too hard,

785
01:06:36,608 --> 01:06:38,209
and I just...

786
01:06:38,211 --> 01:06:40,213
It would get to me. Do you understand?
No, you don't.

787
01:06:43,782 --> 01:06:47,785
Well, just saying, what is this,
25 percent of their stuff?

788
01:06:47,787 --> 01:06:49,919
They took 25 percent
of it with them.

789
01:06:49,921 --> 01:06:51,722
You take whatever
you're gonna take.

790
01:06:51,724 --> 01:06:54,992
So we just throw 50 percent
of it into a Dumpster?

791
01:06:54,994 --> 01:06:56,595
I guess so.

792
01:06:58,697 --> 01:07:00,866
Well, this is
exploitation of labor.

793
01:07:01,968 --> 01:07:04,401
People usually
get paid for this.

794
01:07:12,878 --> 01:07:15,678
I know why Carol left you.

795
01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:17,715
Wow. What a shitty thing
to say.

796
01:07:19,751 --> 01:07:21,654
You're such a shit, man.

797
01:07:22,655 --> 01:07:23,957
I love you.

798
01:07:26,258 --> 01:07:27,858
God, this is all junk.

799
01:07:27,860 --> 01:07:30,693
We don't need any of this,
all right?

800
01:07:30,695 --> 01:07:33,530
You wanted my professional opinion.
This is all junk.

801
01:07:33,532 --> 01:07:35,798
Look through this and see
if there's anything valuable.

802
01:07:35,800 --> 01:07:37,300
There's nothing valuable
up here.

803
01:07:37,302 --> 01:07:39,602
That's why it's been
in the attic our whole life.

804
01:07:39,604 --> 01:07:42,673
- These were their wedding present.
- Who cares?

805
01:07:42,675 --> 01:07:45,975
No, because...
From Grandma and Grandpa.

806
01:07:45,977 --> 01:07:48,379
And if it meant
anything to them,

807
01:07:48,381 --> 01:07:50,414
they would have taken it
down to Florida with them.

808
01:07:50,416 --> 01:07:51,948
Oh, come on.
These are nice.

809
01:07:51,950 --> 01:07:54,751
I'm gonna save them. Give them
to Tallie to take to college.

810
01:07:54,753 --> 01:07:57,588
What? You don't send
a kid off to college

811
01:07:57,590 --> 01:07:59,722
with bowls and plates
from the '50s.

812
01:07:59,724 --> 01:08:02,760
You buy her 60 bucks worth of plastic
shit that she'll throw away in two years.

813
01:08:02,762 --> 01:08:05,629
All right.
I know. But, I mean...

814
01:08:05,631 --> 01:08:07,798
Just shut up. What am I
supposed to do with it?

815
01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:09,432
- Donate it. Get rid of it.
- No.

816
01:08:09,434 --> 01:08:11,669
Give it to Goodwill. Send it
to the church donation center.

817
01:08:11,671 --> 01:08:14,305
That is the solution
to all of this stuff

818
01:08:14,307 --> 01:08:16,573
that isn't
direct family ephemera.

819
01:08:16,575 --> 01:08:18,309
Mom!

820
01:08:18,311 --> 01:08:19,877
You're just... sad.

821
01:08:19,879 --> 01:08:22,413
- Uncle Will.
- Oh, my God, that's me!

822
01:08:22,415 --> 01:08:24,547
- Tallie! Hi.
- Hi.

823
01:08:24,549 --> 01:08:25,682
Mwah.

824
01:08:25,684 --> 01:08:26,850
How'd you know?

825
01:08:26,852 --> 01:08:29,520
"Uncle Will arrives
this weekend."

826
01:08:29,522 --> 01:08:31,454
- About 1000 times.
- I get it. Right.

827
01:08:31,456 --> 01:08:34,958
- Hi, babe. How was school?
- I don't know. The same.

828
01:08:34,960 --> 01:08:38,861
"The same, Mom. It was the same.
School was the same."

829
01:08:38,863 --> 01:08:40,698
But, uh, how long
is this gonna take?

830
01:08:40,700 --> 01:08:43,370
But you just got here.
You got somewhere else to go?

831
01:08:45,437 --> 01:08:46,970
Okay. Uh...

832
01:08:46,972 --> 01:08:50,474
- Wait a second. Did I show you these?
- Oh, God.

833
01:08:50,476 --> 01:08:54,011
Dad's rackets. Did I tell you that
she got a scholarship to Vanderbilt?

834
01:08:54,013 --> 01:08:56,913
Yes, you told me that. You've told me
1000 times. Of course you told me.

835
01:08:56,915 --> 01:08:58,047
Congratulations, Tallie.

836
01:08:58,049 --> 01:09:00,383
- That's very impressive.
- Thank you.

837
01:09:00,385 --> 01:09:02,819
Yeah, these are cool.
I'm gonna save these for you.

838
01:09:02,821 --> 01:09:04,922
I'm gonna play tennis
at Vanderbilt

839
01:09:04,924 --> 01:09:07,958
with some
antique wooden racquets.

840
01:09:09,594 --> 01:09:13,896
Uh, how about this record
about a blind guy?

841
01:09:13,898 --> 01:09:17,133
That's Grandpa's jazz. That's
his collection. Forget it.

842
01:09:17,135 --> 01:09:18,668
This actually
might be worth something.

843
01:09:18,670 --> 01:09:20,069
I thought everything
was worthless to you.

844
01:09:20,071 --> 01:09:21,739
No, this is...
Some things are not.

845
01:09:21,741 --> 01:09:23,974
These?
These are worth something?

846
01:09:23,976 --> 01:09:26,709
Yes, they might actually be worth something
because they're first pressings.

847
01:09:26,711 --> 01:09:29,145
And they're
in decent condition.

848
01:09:29,147 --> 01:09:32,716
And they probably haven't been played or
seen the light of day in over 30 years.

849
01:09:32,718 --> 01:09:35,485
But can't you just get
the music somewhere else?

850
01:09:35,487 --> 01:09:37,954
No, darling,
this is not that.

851
01:09:37,956 --> 01:09:39,489
But you can just download it.

852
01:09:39,491 --> 01:09:42,426
- Honey, don't.
- No... Yes, but no.

853
01:09:42,428 --> 01:09:44,160
Because then it doesn't exist.

854
01:09:44,162 --> 01:09:47,431
Trust me.
This is what I do for a living.

855
01:09:47,433 --> 01:09:48,768
Okay.

856
01:09:49,902 --> 01:09:51,037
All right.

857
01:09:56,075 --> 01:09:57,173
What are you doing?

858
01:09:57,175 --> 01:09:59,109
No, I...

859
01:09:59,111 --> 01:10:01,779
I just...
I don't need anything.

860
01:10:01,781 --> 01:10:04,080
Oh, my God.
Suddenly you're so content.

861
01:10:04,082 --> 01:10:07,751
Well, why... why would I bring
all this stuff into my room

862
01:10:07,753 --> 01:10:09,988
just to move it again
in August?

863
01:10:11,689 --> 01:10:13,058
She makes a very good point.

864
01:10:14,460 --> 01:10:16,726
I mean, who are you? I don't...

865
01:10:16,728 --> 01:10:18,761
You know it's a good point.
Doesn't make sense.

866
01:10:18,763 --> 01:10:20,631
No, it actually...

867
01:10:20,633 --> 01:10:23,467
So, how long am I gonna
have to stay and help?

868
01:10:23,469 --> 01:10:27,104
Are you... Okay, uh, this is...

869
01:10:27,106 --> 01:10:29,672
I was thinking I could go up to
Kathleen's lake house with her and Marie.

870
01:10:29,674 --> 01:10:31,708
They invited me. I could
be back Sunday afternoon,

871
01:10:31,710 --> 01:10:33,543
if you guys
are still gonna be here.

872
01:10:33,545 --> 01:10:35,678
No, you can't go, sweetheart.
You can't.

873
01:10:35,680 --> 01:10:38,015
I'm sorry. You can't go.
I told you about it...

874
01:10:38,017 --> 01:10:39,816
Donna, it's fine.
I don't care.

875
01:10:39,818 --> 01:10:41,985
We can do this together. I don't mind.
Let her go to her friend's.

876
01:10:41,987 --> 01:10:44,555
Please stay out of it. This isn't...
This really isn't...

877
01:10:44,557 --> 01:10:47,190
This has nothing to do with you,
but it's just...

878
01:10:47,192 --> 01:10:50,993
We made an agreement, and I just
expect you to stick by it, that's all.

879
01:10:50,995 --> 01:10:54,565
No, I will. And I know...
I know that it matters.

880
01:10:54,567 --> 01:10:58,037
It's just hard for me to understand
what this all means to you.

881
01:11:00,039 --> 01:11:06,877
I get that you grew up with it and
that it's probably always been here.

882
01:11:06,879 --> 01:11:10,213
There's just a lot of it,
and it takes up so much space.

883
01:11:10,215 --> 01:11:13,816
Space that we don't
even have, Mom, so...

884
01:11:13,818 --> 01:11:17,055
I'm just a little confused.
That's all.

885
01:11:20,259 --> 01:11:21,757
I mean...

886
01:11:21,759 --> 01:11:24,962
I do like these, uh,

887
01:11:24,964 --> 01:11:28,030
little grandma-y things.

888
01:11:29,168 --> 01:11:30,734
But... I don't know.

889
01:11:30,736 --> 01:11:32,869
I mean,

890
01:11:32,871 --> 01:11:36,606
being up here,
it... it isn't fun.

891
01:11:36,608 --> 01:11:41,878
And it doesn't remind me
of spending time here.

892
01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:45,218
I actually never
even came up here.

893
01:11:47,152 --> 01:11:51,788
So most of this stuff is stuff
that I've never actually seen.

894
01:11:53,726 --> 01:11:57,964
I mean, most of it is probably where
it has been since before I was born.

895
01:12:01,700 --> 01:12:02,936
So...

896
01:12:05,137 --> 01:12:07,974
this is...
this is your space, not mine.

897
01:12:12,777 --> 01:12:15,611
Uh...

898
01:12:15,613 --> 01:12:18,485
But it's really cool that
you both are so into it, and...

899
01:12:20,553 --> 01:12:24,288
I mean, I'm happy
that I get to see you,

900
01:12:24,290 --> 01:12:26,989
that you flew here
to see us, so...

901
01:12:26,991 --> 01:12:29,728
Yeah. Me, too.

902
01:12:31,095 --> 01:12:32,264
Me, too.

903
01:12:33,799 --> 01:12:37,199
Uh, so I'm... I'm glad
you found your records,

904
01:12:37,201 --> 01:12:41,337
and if you come by
some cool tunes or whatever,

905
01:12:41,339 --> 01:12:44,209
you can just send me the name,
and I'll download them.

906
01:12:45,710 --> 01:12:48,811
- Deal.
- Uh...

907
01:12:48,813 --> 01:12:52,218
But Kathleen keeps texting me.
Can I go or not?

908
01:12:55,920 --> 01:12:57,122
Thank you.

909
01:12:59,157 --> 01:13:00,692
I love you both.

910
01:14:21,372 --> 01:14:23,977
"Being away from
you and the kids is just awful.

911
01:14:26,210 --> 01:14:27,977
I told them
now that Donna is born,

912
01:14:27,979 --> 01:14:30,116
I can't go
on company business as often.

913
01:14:36,722 --> 01:14:39,722
I thought you'd appreciate
the enclosed photograph.

914
01:14:39,724 --> 01:14:42,324
I bought it at the gas station,
along with a Coke.

915
01:14:42,326 --> 01:14:44,761
And it cost a nickel, but they
said I could just have it,

916
01:14:44,763 --> 01:14:47,963
on account of how thirsty I looked
and how badly I needed the Coke.

917
01:14:47,965 --> 01:14:50,233
I left my change on the counter.

918
01:14:50,235 --> 01:14:52,871
I'll be home by the time
this arrives, most likely."

919
01:14:57,409 --> 01:15:01,110
"Please show the enclosed clipping
from the newspaper to Will.

920
01:15:01,112 --> 01:15:04,013
I think he'll be amused by the
sizable collection of geodes

921
01:15:04,015 --> 01:15:06,315
that this town
prides themselves on.

922
01:15:06,317 --> 01:15:08,318
Had I known
I would be in Arkansas

923
01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:10,453
during their
annual geode festival,

924
01:15:10,455 --> 01:15:12,855
I would have made an effort
to bring him along.

925
01:15:12,857 --> 01:15:15,292
Do not tell him, but I will
bring him home a souvenir geode

926
01:15:15,294 --> 01:15:17,263
that I purchased
from a merchant in town."

927
01:15:19,865 --> 01:15:22,132
"Sweetheart,
I cannot express my excitement

928
01:15:22,134 --> 01:15:24,333
to return home to you next week.

929
01:15:24,335 --> 01:15:28,305
Our last Christmas
with just the two of us looms.

930
01:15:28,307 --> 01:15:31,941
I may be bringing home a surprise
ornament or two for the tree.

931
01:15:31,943 --> 01:15:35,111
I love you. I love you so much.

932
01:15:35,113 --> 01:15:37,750
I love you deeper
than I've ever loved anyone."

933
01:17:18,349 --> 01:17:19,518
Jesus.

934
01:17:27,226 --> 01:17:28,294
Hello.

935
01:17:30,128 --> 01:17:31,264
Hello.

936
01:17:58,122 --> 01:17:59,922
Hello.

937
01:18:01,526 --> 01:18:05,031
What? Whoa, whoa, whoa. Whoa.
Whoa, whoa. Slow down. What?

938
01:18:05,664 --> 01:18:07,032
What?

939
01:18:16,040 --> 01:18:18,408
Tallie...

940
01:18:19,978 --> 01:18:21,110
Oh, God.

941
01:18:21,112 --> 01:18:22,378
Oh, Donna. Oh, God.

942
01:18:22,380 --> 01:18:24,316
Um... Oh. Um...

943
01:18:25,416 --> 01:18:26,585
Uh...

944
01:18:44,937 --> 01:18:46,606
Only one of them made it.

945
01:18:49,607 --> 01:18:53,111
Police got ahold of us
at 3:00...

946
01:18:54,545 --> 01:18:55,981
3:30.

947
01:18:58,517 --> 01:19:02,088
A drunk had crossed over the line
and drove them off the road.

948
01:19:03,287 --> 01:19:05,491
I guess they never had a chance.

949
01:19:10,228 --> 01:19:14,066
They said, uh, she had died...

950
01:19:15,701 --> 01:19:18,271
before the ambulance
ever got there.

951
01:19:39,223 --> 01:19:40,927
I'm sorry.

952
01:20:25,269 --> 01:20:27,572
Why?

953
01:20:30,207 --> 01:20:32,074
Come here, baby. Come here.

954
01:20:35,781 --> 01:20:38,451
Oh, God, no!

955
01:20:40,152 --> 01:20:43,319
I got you.
I got you. I got you.

956
01:20:43,321 --> 01:20:46,459
- I got you.
- No! No!

957
01:21:43,714 --> 01:21:46,684
I wanna fucking do something.

958
01:21:50,522 --> 01:21:54,423
I can't. I don't want... I don't
want anyone to fucking touch me!

959
01:21:54,425 --> 01:21:56,128
Don't fucking...

960
01:21:58,629 --> 01:22:02,398
I don't know what to do. I don't
know what to do.

961
01:22:02,400 --> 01:22:04,566
- What do I do? What do I do?
- Let's take a walk.

962
01:22:04,568 --> 01:22:06,336
- No, no. What do I do?
- Let's take a walk.

963
01:22:06,338 --> 01:22:08,471
I don't wanna walk.
I don't want to.

964
01:22:08,473 --> 01:22:11,341
- Let's be outside.
- I don't want to walk.

965
01:22:11,343 --> 01:22:14,146
I don't wanna...

966
01:22:37,369 --> 01:22:40,572
I'll get it.
I'll get it. I'll get it.

967
01:22:41,939 --> 01:22:43,442
Oh, fuck.

968
01:22:54,619 --> 01:22:58,187
Yeah, it'll be helpful, but
just give us a couple of hours.

969
01:22:58,189 --> 01:23:00,422
I think we'll have...

970
01:23:00,424 --> 01:23:02,225
We'll be ready.

971
01:23:02,227 --> 01:23:03,496
Okay?

972
01:23:04,595 --> 01:23:06,529
Okay. Thank you.

973
01:23:34,625 --> 01:23:37,362
Why don't you go see...

974
01:23:48,740 --> 01:23:49,942
I'm sorry.

975
01:23:55,246 --> 01:23:56,980
Sorry.

976
01:23:56,982 --> 01:23:59,518
I'm so... I'm so sorry.

977
01:24:00,951 --> 01:24:03,619
Kathleen's
going to be okay.

978
01:24:03,621 --> 01:24:05,557
She should be fine.

979
01:24:07,892 --> 01:24:09,628
Thank God.

980
01:24:11,429 --> 01:24:14,633
I'm... I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry.
I don't know what to say.

981
01:24:16,567 --> 01:24:20,869
- Okay.
- Okay. Okay, listen...

982
01:24:20,871 --> 01:24:24,709
We all wish they
were both here. Okay?

983
01:24:28,946 --> 01:24:31,413
- Was it a phone call?
- Hi, sweetie. Hi, Hillary.

984
01:24:31,415 --> 01:24:34,016
Um, yeah. It was a phone call,

985
01:24:34,018 --> 01:24:37,753
um, around 3:15.

986
01:24:37,755 --> 01:24:39,622
Right.

987
01:24:39,624 --> 01:24:43,059
I guess it wouldn't make sense that
they would go to your house, too.

988
01:24:43,061 --> 01:24:46,361
I mean, they wouldn't
do that, would they?

989
01:24:46,363 --> 01:24:47,566
Oh.

990
01:24:49,300 --> 01:24:52,502
I woke up... I woke up...

991
01:24:52,504 --> 01:24:56,806
I woke up and then a car...
I heard a car pull up.

992
01:24:56,808 --> 01:24:57,843
And then...

993
01:25:01,879 --> 01:25:05,515
the door slammed, and...

994
01:25:05,517 --> 01:25:07,816
and there was...
there was these...

995
01:25:07,818 --> 01:25:10,019
f... footsteps.

996
01:25:10,021 --> 01:25:12,491
Really slow footsteps. And...

997
01:25:13,558 --> 01:25:15,027
I, uh...

998
01:25:17,461 --> 01:25:20,062
I thought maybe that
she had come home, you know,

999
01:25:20,064 --> 01:25:21,634
that maybe the trip ended early.

1000
01:25:23,067 --> 01:25:27,537
And then we heard knocks
on the door and, um...

1001
01:25:27,539 --> 01:25:30,006
- There was two guys.
- Yeah.

1002
01:25:30,008 --> 01:25:33,512
- They were so... They were so sweet.
- Yeah.

1003
01:25:39,651 --> 01:25:40,585
Young.

1004
01:25:44,656 --> 01:25:47,890
Their job is just to come
and tell a mother...

1005
01:25:47,892 --> 01:25:50,396
outta fucking nowhere...

1006
01:25:51,629 --> 01:25:53,663
that, you know...

1007
01:25:53,665 --> 01:25:55,565
that her daughter's...

1008
01:25:55,567 --> 01:25:57,002
that her daughter's...

1009
01:26:01,071 --> 01:26:03,374
She's gone. Gone away.

1010
01:26:06,811 --> 01:26:10,014
"Your daughter's gone."

1011
01:26:11,549 --> 01:26:14,586
- Gone.
- We're so sorry.

1012
01:26:15,920 --> 01:26:17,523
I'm so sorry.

1013
01:27:32,863 --> 01:27:35,032
- Hey.
- Yeah.

1014
01:27:37,669 --> 01:27:38,967
You okay?

1015
01:27:38,969 --> 01:27:41,002
She had her computer with her.

1016
01:27:41,004 --> 01:27:43,909
And her phone, of course.

1017
01:27:47,144 --> 01:27:49,881
Both completely destroyed.

1018
01:27:51,883 --> 01:27:53,152
What does that mean?

1019
01:27:54,619 --> 01:27:57,022
It means
we don't have anything.

1020
01:27:59,189 --> 01:28:02,928
I mean, there's access to everything...
computer, e-mail, text.

1021
01:28:05,162 --> 01:28:09,500
She left everything open. I never even
thought about asking for a password.

1022
01:28:11,236 --> 01:28:14,136
I'm down there,
trying to plan this memorial

1023
01:28:14,138 --> 01:28:16,204
and realized we don't have
any recent photographs.

1024
01:28:16,206 --> 01:28:19,177
We've got, like, two. She took 100 a day.
We didn't.

1025
01:28:20,777 --> 01:28:22,177
Donna wanted
to play some music,

1026
01:28:22,179 --> 01:28:25,114
and we realized
we don't know where that is

1027
01:28:25,116 --> 01:28:29,153
or how to get it
or even so much what it was.

1028
01:28:34,925 --> 01:28:37,293
Did she have an older phone?

1029
01:28:37,295 --> 01:28:39,794
No.

1030
01:28:39,796 --> 01:28:42,567
She wiped it clean.
Donated it.

1031
01:28:43,835 --> 01:28:46,538
Twenty years ago,
somebody dies...

1032
01:28:48,305 --> 01:28:52,842
you could find
some dog-eared book and open it,

1033
01:28:52,844 --> 01:28:55,948
see a passage
they'd underlined, read it.

1034
01:28:58,650 --> 01:29:01,217
You could find an album,

1035
01:29:01,219 --> 01:29:03,822
look at where it was worn and...

1036
01:29:05,822 --> 01:29:08,259
find the song they liked
and play it.

1037
01:29:11,963 --> 01:29:14,233
You could find a roll of film...

1038
01:29:16,134 --> 01:29:17,603
and develop...

1039
01:29:23,907 --> 01:29:25,510
We don't have anything.

1040
01:29:56,874 --> 01:29:58,610
That one's familiar.

1041
01:30:01,345 --> 01:30:03,180
She liked that one.

1042
01:37:58,522 --> 01:37:59,587
Hey.

1043
01:37:59,589 --> 01:38:01,191
Hi.

1044
01:38:02,326 --> 01:38:03,659
What's all that?

1045
01:38:03,661 --> 01:38:06,127
Half the house.

1046
01:38:06,129 --> 01:38:08,565
I took some of the stuff from your
storage unit. I hope you don't mind.

1047
01:38:10,366 --> 01:38:13,569
The Dumpster's being picked up tomorrow.
All right?

1048
01:38:13,571 --> 01:38:15,436
I wanna take
all this stuff off your plate.

1049
01:38:15,438 --> 01:38:16,673
Don't want you
to worry about it.

1050
01:38:18,409 --> 01:38:19,744
This stuff...

1051
01:38:22,412 --> 01:38:25,646
is from the Dumpster.

1052
01:38:25,648 --> 01:38:27,716
Most of it, anyway.

1053
01:38:27,718 --> 01:38:29,687
Some of it's from the attic.

1054
01:38:31,488 --> 01:38:34,523
You know, it's, like, letters.
Dad to Mom, Mom to Dad.

1055
01:38:34,525 --> 01:38:38,228
Nothing earth-shattering. But it
shouldn't have been in the Dumpster.

1056
01:38:39,796 --> 01:38:42,898
- You looked at it?
- Some, yeah.

1057
01:38:42,900 --> 01:38:44,669
Why do you
think I kept it?

1058
01:38:46,804 --> 01:38:48,807
Come here.

1059
01:38:50,174 --> 01:38:51,907
There.

1060
01:38:54,478 --> 01:38:57,082
- Thank you.
- You're welcome.

1061
01:38:58,214 --> 01:39:00,649
- I love you.
- I love you, too.

1062
01:39:00,651 --> 01:39:02,353
I'll be there for you.

1063
01:39:04,254 --> 01:39:05,887
- Got me?
- Yeah.

1064
01:39:05,889 --> 01:39:07,588
All right, Donna.

1065
01:39:07,590 --> 01:39:08,726
Come here.

1066
01:39:24,808 --> 01:39:26,842
All right.

1067
01:39:26,844 --> 01:39:30,611
You don't have to go back
to that house. It's all done.

1068
01:39:30,613 --> 01:39:32,648
It's all taken care of.

1069
01:39:32,650 --> 01:39:35,219
- Okay?
- Yeah.

1070
01:39:36,586 --> 01:39:39,557
That house is
the last place you saw her.

1071
01:39:40,823 --> 01:39:42,460
So maybe...

1072
01:39:43,960 --> 01:39:46,662
maybe one day we'll drive by
and we'll say hi.

1073
01:39:46,664 --> 01:39:49,200
The house
isn't going anywhere.

1074
01:39:51,434 --> 01:39:53,204
It's just a house.

1075
01:39:54,571 --> 01:39:55,739
Right?

1076
01:39:57,840 --> 01:40:00,344
Right? Right.

1077
01:40:04,447 --> 01:40:06,215
I gotta go.

1078
01:40:06,217 --> 01:40:07,849
Okay.
You leaving?

1079
01:40:07,851 --> 01:40:09,420
Not forever.

1080
01:40:11,388 --> 01:40:12,490
Just for now.

1081
01:41:58,629 --> 01:42:00,598
You guys,
I'll be back, okay?

1082
01:42:08,004 --> 01:42:09,740
Hi, Kathleen.

1083
01:42:11,575 --> 01:42:15,077
You... You look like you're
doing pretty well there.

1084
01:42:15,079 --> 01:42:17,048
Yeah, I am. Thank you.

1085
01:42:21,585 --> 01:42:24,055
I won't ask how things
have been, though.

1086
01:42:25,555 --> 01:42:27,788
That would be stupid.

1087
01:42:27,790 --> 01:42:29,893
It's been
a trying few weeks.

1088
01:42:31,562 --> 01:42:33,564
Believe me, I know.

1089
01:42:36,400 --> 01:42:38,503
How much longer do you
have to be on those?

1090
01:42:40,370 --> 01:42:45,507
My... My physical therapist thinks
maybe only another few weeks.

1091
01:42:45,509 --> 01:42:48,413
At first they were saying it
could be the end of the summer.

1092
01:42:50,714 --> 01:42:52,950
Well, it's good
to see you up and around.

1093
01:42:55,719 --> 01:42:59,788
Thank you for coming
to visit me in the hospital.

1094
01:42:59,790 --> 01:43:01,390
Of course.

1095
01:43:01,392 --> 01:43:03,061
I mean,
I can't imagine what that...

1096
01:43:04,061 --> 01:43:06,563
what that must be like for you.

1097
01:43:28,619 --> 01:43:31,956
I hope that you
don't see me as some...

1098
01:43:33,189 --> 01:43:35,856
reminder.

1099
01:43:35,858 --> 01:43:39,660
I don't want you to look at me and ask
why I'm here instead of Tallie or Marie.

1100
01:43:39,662 --> 01:43:43,164
We don't feel that way at all.

1101
01:43:43,166 --> 01:43:44,535
We don't.

1102
01:43:46,737 --> 01:43:48,139
I know, but...

1103
01:43:49,138 --> 01:43:51,708
it'd be okay if you did.

1104
01:43:52,742 --> 01:43:55,043
I think it sometimes.

1105
01:43:55,045 --> 01:43:56,848
Well, you shouldn't.

1106
01:43:58,182 --> 01:43:59,983
That's no way to think.

1107
01:44:07,657 --> 01:44:09,727
I'll remember Tallie.

1108
01:44:10,861 --> 01:44:12,897
I'll remember her so much.

1109
01:44:17,034 --> 01:44:20,670
Do you know
what "saudade" means?

1110
01:44:23,139 --> 01:44:27,177
Well, I wouldn't if I hadn't
have taken an SAT course.

1111
01:44:29,012 --> 01:44:32,113
It's, um...

1112
01:44:32,115 --> 01:44:36,586
a melancholy nostalgia for something
that perhaps hasn't happened.

1113
01:44:40,957 --> 01:44:43,059
Well, I never got it.

1114
01:44:44,827 --> 01:44:47,631
Tallie...
Tallie got it, though.

1115
01:44:53,237 --> 01:44:56,874
"A pleasure you suffer,
an ailment you enjoy."

1116
01:45:01,111 --> 01:45:06,818
A strong longing for something
that isn't... the present.

1117
01:45:25,602 --> 01:45:30,204
Uh, on our way up to the lake we
stopped to get these key chains.

1118
01:45:30,206 --> 01:45:32,673
It's like a...

1119
01:45:32,675 --> 01:45:35,479
a little ritual that we had.

1120
01:45:38,314 --> 01:45:42,253
Tallie took Marie, Marie took
me, and I took Tallie's.

1121
01:45:52,595 --> 01:45:55,031
I don't know. It feels like
something that you should have.

1122
01:46:12,214 --> 01:46:14,117
It's unfair, isn't it?

1123
01:46:20,156 --> 01:46:24,092
There's gonna be so much
that she misses,

1124
01:46:24,094 --> 01:46:25,993
like things that I know
she would like.

1125
01:46:25,995 --> 01:46:27,130
Like...

1126
01:46:29,131 --> 01:46:32,870
Like music and movies.

1127
01:46:35,371 --> 01:46:37,008
Everything.

1128
01:46:57,628 --> 01:47:01,933
I want you both to know that
I'll think about you every day.

1129
01:47:11,907 --> 01:47:14,277
- Bye-bye.
- Bye.

1130
01:47:55,986 --> 01:47:57,354
Love.

1131
01:47:59,055 --> 01:48:00,857
The remainder.

1132
01:48:02,159 --> 01:48:04,359
Hold it.

1133
01:48:04,361 --> 01:48:07,331
It may be all you have left.

1134
01:48:08,732 --> 01:48:11,800
Let it shine in you.

1135
01:48:11,802 --> 01:48:14,302
And let it find you.

1136
01:48:14,304 --> 01:48:19,373
Let it through that small,
unseen possibility

1137
01:48:19,375 --> 01:48:23,278
and wrap its arms around you

1138
01:48:23,280 --> 01:48:26,114
to take you home.

1139
01:51:23,563 --> 01:51:28,563
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