Hey guys, 22 yo here. A bit of storytime but Ill try to make it as short as possible.
Last summer started fucking with a girl in home country, then left for two months to another country for work, she kept texting and being in contact, I responded. (did not fuck any other girls in foreign country)
I came back, we hit it off hard, spending a lot of time together for 2 months, then she said she really liked me -> did not get the hint that this is the overt way for her to say she wants a rlship.

About two weeks later she withdrew. Her withdrawing hit me hard, I went to fuck some other girls but still wanted her. Month or so later we hung out and it was all cool. She started giving me attention again.

I had to leave agian for 2 months (fucked 3 girls here), as soon as she discovered it she never once initiated. Now when I was back in home country she just ignored me on everything and there was 0 contact. Even though we have had planned time together (weekend).

The problem is,  right now after she did not respond to any contact, I am really curious and think about her, despite rationally knowing that she probably just has a guy right now and thats about it. So its just again let some time pass and then see. But I dont want to have oneitis for a girl that does not even respond.

How to get rid of it?