Em 🥀Today at 9:24 PM
I told Tofu that straight up that you can't be Owner, or administrator coming straight from you on Public discord servers.

I knew that was the right thing to do because I knew she was administrator on my discord server, so I had to demote her because of that fact so she could stay a SR.Mod

I am currently in a poly relationship incase you were unaware. My wonderful Fiance, Nick, and my wonderful enbyfriend Sleepie.

Sleepie is an owner of a server with 600 members.

Sleepie offered Tofu Co-Owner of the server weeks ago unaware of this rule completely, even when I was unaware of it.

Sleepie confronted Tofu today about staff not being able to own / administrate servers because she's staff on the haven [since you told me that he was going to demote her to keep her position] of this server - https://discord.gg/kuCESJ

Tofu directly tells my enbyfriend that she's "found ways around it" so she can administrate other discord servers even though she's aware of the rule.


I know I most likely shouldn't be saying this especially about my higherups but, after speaking to Lauren about it because I was beyond stressed out, and honestly feel personally attacked by tofu because she makes me very uncomfortable on the server because of how she's been acting towards me, and I know because of Lauren's relationship with Tofu it has not affected Lauren positively because Lauren often feels attacked & nervous that tofu is "out to get her" and I honestly feel the same way(edited)
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Here's a message from Lauren that have also impacted the situation because in all honesty Lauren has been really uncomfortable around tofu for a little while now and since I'm the middle man I've had to deal with it. I honestly really like tofu as a person and thought she was really nice but the last few days since she was promoted on my server and than demoted I felt really nervous around her and uncomfortable in general

Lauren Today at 1:21 PM
tofu has had it out for me too

In addition: here's the screenshot between Sleepie [My enbyfriend] and Tofu who claimed to have "found ways around being staff on public discord servers" and why it needs to "stay between us" because she didn't want to be demoted / yelled at for owning / administrating another discord server

 Again I'm going to make an apology at the end of this because its a lot to take in but if you have any questions. I really hope this doesn't affect the way you see me as a staff member or anything but I just feel really uncomfortable
and here's the conversation between me and my Enbyfriend: https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/484296019664699392/496125697148977152/Screen_Shot_2018-09-30_at_8.06.11_PM.png