hey is BR Brander I'm back today I'm
going to talk about one thing that is
quite I'm not going to say dear to me
but experience a lot of this if you hate
work you'll hate life and it's
absolutely true and this is something
I've dealt with my whole life because
I'm made for leisure I like to you know
work as little as possible I think it's
in all of us pretty much there are
certain extraordinary individuals that
can work can work all the time and feel
happy about it but most of us are made
more for leisure than work I mean work
is just something we do to survive and
get ahead in life
so but the truth is like I said if you
hate work you'll hate life and it is
absolutely true this is the number one
thing and the number one issue that has
held me back
in the past you know my work ethic was
not the best to say the least I did well
with there were concrete deadlines but
the problem is I worked a few days
before the deadline like a fiend to
finish everything or even start
something and finish it so I crammed in
so I was always sort of more leisurely
and the thing is this is what you know
kept me back when I was younger and ever
since I started really dedicating to
work and actually putting the proper
amount of effort in because you will
have to put a lot of effort in to gain
something out of it you know you're
probably going to have to make a lot
more effort than you get benefits out of
it but that's okay because you get
benefits out of it if you don't make the
effort you're not going to get any
better
so extraordinary results basically
demand extraordinary efforts you can't
get around this you know you have to
work you have to be diligent and if you
like me that is more leisurely you know
by by nature then what you have to do is
you were have to work very hard to
delegate as many things as you possibly
can and as many things as your funds
allow so you can concentrate on the
strategic vision that you have let's say
you know in business the strategic
vision that you have has to be taken
care of pretty much on a weekly and on a
daily basis to see if you're going in
the right direction and if you're going
in the right direction fast enough so
yeah you have to work doesn't matter if
you delegate to other people you still
have to work a lot every day because as
I said extraordinary results need
extraordinary efforts and if you hate
work you will hate life and that was my
history you know I hated life because I
didn't understand that life is work
basically most of life is work and if
I'm going to work hard at something I
think I might as well work for myself
and might as well work for me for my own
benefit not to work a job where I
benefit somebody else okay yeah sure I
get a good salary I have a few cars I
have a have a house on credit and I have
to keep the job to pay for all of it and
I compare myself to my neighbors the
problem is you know in the long run I'm
not really benefiting myself as much as
I could if I was doing it for myself and
at the same time when I'm doing it for
myself
I'm all
helping other people and that's why I'm
doing these videos and doing these
audios and talking about it because
there are certain things I have learned
in my life certain things that are very
valuable to my growth so I want to share
what I've learned through my own
experiences by myself and through other
people and I want to share what I've
learned so you can benefit from that too
so as I said if you hate work you will
hate life so don't hate work work hard
work smart work for yourself and have
certain goals in life that you are
pursuing because I'm pretty sure we as
men are the happiest when we can when we
have a goal when we pursue something
important to us something grand
something large something huge you know
a huge goal a huge goal that we pursue
and it makes us forget about the little
things in life the little problems
because we have huge problems and I
generally think that genetically we're
programmed to do that and I genuinely
think that's what makes us happier in
life you know pursuing a goal
don't forget extraordinary results
demand extraordinary efforts if you hate
work you will hate life that's it for
today
so bone up see you next time Cheers