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  3. This is the first foretaste of the eternal:
  4. having time for love.
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  8. Rainer Maria Rilke
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  12. lsocitrate...
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  16. Through isocitrate dehydrogenase
  17. in alpha-ketoglytarate...
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  21. By alpha-ketoglytarate
  22. hydrogenase in...
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  26. Yes?
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  30. Sorry, can't remember that right now.
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  34. Miss Wolf. The citric acid cycle.
  35. ATP isthe...
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  39. ...energy unit of organic life.
  40. You've got to know that.
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  44. Yeah.
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  48. With one acid missing,
  49. the cycle is not closed.
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  53. I know. Learning by heart
  54. was never my strong point.
  55.  
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  58. But as a biologist, I mean,
  59. if I need it later, then...
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  63. I'll ask this.
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  67. Then maybe you should
  68. start working for Google.
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  72. Well...
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  76. I'm sorry. I can't
  77. let you pass like this.
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  81. Alright, ladies and gentlemen,
  82. that's it, see you in fall.
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  86. Mr. Laube, do you have a moment?
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  90. It's about the scholarship.
  91.  
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  94. Unfortunately,
  95. the foundation chose someone else.
  96.  
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  99. Your work was great, one of the best.
  100.  
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  103. And I know that you can use the money
  104. well, better than most in here.
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  108. But you've been a bit naive,
  109. haven't you?
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  113. Why?
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  117. Well, the Adenauer Foundation
  118. is not a liberal think tank.
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  122. And your attitude towards American
  123. drones was quite radical.
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  127. Radical?
  128. That was all thoroughly researched.
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  132. I know, Mr. Laube.
  133. But in politics you have to consider:
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  137. What is my goal
  138. and how can I achieve it?
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  142. Strategic thinking.
  143. That's what you still have to learn.
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  147. And what about attitude?
  148. You did talk about attitude.
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  152. I'm sorry, Mr. Laube.
  153. Have a nice summer.
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  157. Likewise.
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  161. To make yourself really stable
  162. you can do this.
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  166. That's right.
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  170. Let's do it again.
  171. Starting position.
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  175. Did you get the pills?
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  179. Yes, I did.
  180. - Ok.
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  184. Mom, I don't know if I'll do it.
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  188. Jule, please.
  189. We discussed this.
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  193. Consider your future...
  194. - Yeah, but it's my decision, ok?
  195.  
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  198. And I can't make this decision alone.
  199. I...
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  203. ...have to talk to Alex.
  204.  
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  207. He's involved too, right?
  208. - So call him.
  209.  
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  212. I tried, he's not answering.
  213.  
  214. 47
  215. 00:05:58,100 --> 00:05:59,970
  216. And maybe that's better.
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  220. Why?
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  224. I have to speak to him personally. It's
  225. not something you discuss on the phone.
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  229. I need to see him.
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  233. No.
  234. No, definitely not.
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  238. Please don't call him.
  239. Don't tell him, OK?
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  243. No, by carpool.
  244. Flying is too expensive this late.
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  248. Hi, it's Jan.
  249. From "Share A Ride", yes.
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  253. Where are you?
  254.  
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  256. 00:07:30,770 --> 00:07:33,180
  257. What?
  258. No...
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  262. On the website it said 5 p.m.!
  263.  
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  266. Wait...
  267. No, wait!
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  271. Hello!
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  275. Are you heading west,
  276. like to Cologne?
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  280. Not at all, no.
  281.  
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  284. Ok, thanks.
  285.  
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  288. Hello.
  289. - Hi.
  290.  
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  293. Are you heading to Cologne by chance?
  294. - No, sorry. Hamburg.
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  298. Thanks anyway.
  299. Safe trip.
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  303. Hello.
  304.  
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  306. 00:08:53,020 --> 00:08:54,970
  307. Are you heading to Cologne?
  308. - Yes, why?
  309.  
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  312. Could you give me a ride?
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  315. 00:08:57,060 --> 00:08:58,850
  316. No, sorry, we're full.
  317.  
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  320. No problem, thanks anyway.
  321.  
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  323. 00:09:19,100 --> 00:09:21,310
  324. Are you heading to Cologne, by chance?
  325.  
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  327. 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:23,770
  328. Yes.
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  331. 00:09:23,970 --> 00:09:26,470
  332. Could you maybe give me a ride?
  333.  
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  335. 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,470
  336. I had a carpool, but they stood me up.
  337.  
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  339. 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:32,020
  340. Now I'm stuck here and...
  341.  
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  344. I'd throw in some gas money.
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  347. 00:09:35,060 --> 00:09:37,060
  348. Or motor oil.
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  352. That's ok.
  353. You can come along.
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  357. Really? Cool!
  358. - No problem.
  359.  
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  362. Great.
  363.  
  364. 81
  365. 00:09:49,350 --> 00:09:51,890
  366. I just need to wash my hands.
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  370. Okay.
  371.  
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  373. 00:09:53,310 --> 00:09:54,430
  374. Just wait here, ok?
  375.  
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  377. 00:09:54,560 --> 00:09:56,180
  378. Perfect, thanks.
  379.  
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  381. 00:09:56,310 --> 00:09:58,470
  382. See you.
  383. - See you.
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  386. 00:10:17,430 --> 00:10:19,270
  387. Okay.
  388. - All cleaned up?
  389.  
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  391. 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:24,810
  392. Jump in.
  393.  
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  395. 00:10:25,270 --> 00:10:27,850
  396. Alright?
  397. - Yeah, fine.
  398.  
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  400. 00:10:28,060 --> 00:10:30,350
  401. You can sit here.
  402.  
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  404. 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:45,770
  405. Jule.
  406. - Jan, hi.
  407.  
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  409. 00:11:01,470 --> 00:11:02,810
  410. You hitchhike a lot?
  411.  
  412. 92
  413. 00:11:03,890 --> 00:11:05,970
  414. No, first time.
  415.  
  416. 93
  417. 00:11:08,470 --> 00:11:12,560
  418. Lucky me.
  419. I asked two people before you.
  420.  
  421. 94
  422. 00:11:12,770 --> 00:11:15,430
  423. But they were full or headed elsewhere.
  424.  
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  426. 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:17,390
  427. And then you showed up.
  428.  
  429. 96
  430. 00:11:18,140 --> 00:11:21,350
  431. Cool ride!
  432. Real nice.
  433.  
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  435. 00:11:21,470 --> 00:11:22,470
  436. Thanks.
  437.  
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  439. 00:11:23,470 --> 00:11:25,100
  440. It even has a fridge, right?
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  443. 00:11:25,270 --> 00:11:27,470
  444. Yeah, and an oven.
  445.  
  446. 100
  447. 00:11:29,350 --> 00:11:32,100
  448. What model is it?
  449.  
  450. 101
  451. 00:11:32,770 --> 00:11:35,680
  452. It's a Hymermobil
  453. on a Mercedes 303 chassis.
  454.  
  455. 102
  456. 00:11:35,850 --> 00:11:37,350
  457. Cool.
  458.  
  459. 103
  460. 00:11:37,470 --> 00:11:39,600
  461. It's a bit older, right?
  462.  
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  464. 00:11:39,770 --> 00:11:41,890
  465. No, brand-new.
  466.  
  467. 105
  468. 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:44,600
  469. About 30.
  470.  
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  472. 00:11:45,060 --> 00:11:46,600
  473. 30 years old?
  474.  
  475. 107
  476. 00:11:46,770 --> 00:11:49,060
  477. You travel a lot in it?
  478.  
  479. 108
  480. 00:11:49,220 --> 00:11:50,470
  481. Not really, no.
  482.  
  483. 109
  484. 00:11:50,560 --> 00:11:53,180
  485. But it's yours.
  486. - Yes.
  487.  
  488. 110
  489. 00:11:53,350 --> 00:11:56,810
  490. It used to belong to my brother.
  491. - Okay.
  492.  
  493. 111
  494. 00:11:57,430 --> 00:12:00,600
  495. We traveled in it a lot,
  496. but now it's mine.
  497.  
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  499. 00:12:01,100 --> 00:12:03,520
  500. It "used to" belong to your brother?
  501.  
  502. 113
  503. 00:12:04,270 --> 00:12:07,270
  504. My brother...
  505. He passed away two years ago.
  506.  
  507. 114
  508. 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,770
  509. Shit.
  510. I'm sorry.
  511.  
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  513. 00:12:12,560 --> 00:12:14,350
  514. It's OK.
  515.  
  516. 116
  517. 00:12:21,270 --> 00:12:23,640
  518. Want a sip?
  519. It's still cold.
  520.  
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  522. 00:12:23,770 --> 00:12:25,720
  523. Sure.
  524. - Shall I open it?
  525.  
  526. 118
  527. 00:12:28,890 --> 00:12:29,970
  528. Thanks.
  529.  
  530. 119
  531. 00:12:33,970 --> 00:12:34,970
  532. Elderflower?
  533.  
  534. 120
  535. 00:12:36,310 --> 00:12:37,430
  536. Homemade?
  537. - Yep.
  538.  
  539. 121
  540. 00:12:37,560 --> 00:12:38,890
  541. Cool.
  542.  
  543. 122
  544. 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:43,520
  545. Are you from Cologne?
  546. - No, Berlin.
  547.  
  548. 123
  549. 00:12:46,100 --> 00:12:48,640
  550. So what are you doing in Cologne?
  551.  
  552. 124
  553. 00:12:49,470 --> 00:12:54,180
  554. Moving on. I'm taking a bus.
  555. To Spain.
  556.  
  557. 125
  558. 00:12:54,350 --> 00:12:55,890
  559. Vacation?
  560.  
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  562. 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:59,060
  563. No, I'm...
  564. visiting my father.
  565.  
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  567. 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:01,470
  568. He lives there?
  569. - Exactly.
  570.  
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  572. 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:03,470
  573. In northern Spain.
  574.  
  575. 129
  576. 00:13:05,100 --> 00:13:06,810
  577. What do you do in Berlin?
  578.  
  579. 130
  580. 00:13:07,850 --> 00:13:10,180
  581. I study biology at the
  582. Humboldt University.
  583.  
  584. 131
  585. 00:13:10,350 --> 00:13:12,350
  586. Cool.
  587. - And you?
  588.  
  589. 132
  590. 00:13:12,470 --> 00:13:15,270
  591. I study, too.
  592. Political science.
  593.  
  594. 133
  595. 00:13:15,430 --> 00:13:18,390
  596. Cool.
  597. - Well, it's a lot of statistics.
  598.  
  599. 134
  600. 00:13:18,850 --> 00:13:21,270
  601. I sometimes envy you natural scientists.
  602.  
  603. 135
  604. 00:13:21,390 --> 00:13:25,180
  605. Theory, experiment, result:
  606. that has such a nice clarity.
  607.  
  608. 136
  609. 00:13:25,310 --> 00:13:27,100
  610. Well, it's not that simple...
  611.  
  612. 137
  613. 00:13:29,470 --> 00:13:32,560
  614. I blew my biochemistry exam
  615. this morning.
  616.  
  617. 138
  618. 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:34,600
  619. I'd prefer not to talk about my studies.
  620.  
  621. 139
  622. 00:13:34,770 --> 00:13:36,390
  623. Sure, sorry.
  624.  
  625. 140
  626. 00:13:42,390 --> 00:13:43,640
  627. May I ask how old you are?
  628.  
  629. 141
  630. 00:13:44,680 --> 00:13:46,220
  631. 24.
  632.  
  633. 142
  634. 00:13:46,890 --> 00:13:49,100
  635. And you?
  636. - Me too.
  637.  
  638. 143
  639. 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:52,640
  640. So we have three more years.
  641.  
  642. 144
  643. 00:13:52,810 --> 00:13:55,640
  644. Three years before what?
  645. - Before we turn 27.
  646.  
  647. 145
  648. 00:13:56,470 --> 00:13:58,770
  649. When all cool people bail out.
  650.  
  651. 146
  652. 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:03,810
  653. Kurt Cobain, Janis Joplin,
  654. Amy Winehouse, Heath Ledger...
  655.  
  656. 147
  657. 00:14:04,020 --> 00:14:05,520
  658. You think so?
  659.  
  660. 148
  661. 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:10,220
  662. Well, that's the saying.
  663. Never heard of it?
  664.  
  665. 149
  666. 00:14:13,850 --> 00:14:17,470
  667. I'm totally against suicide,
  668. if that's what you're thinking.
  669.  
  670. 150
  671. 00:14:19,270 --> 00:14:23,270
  672. It may sound strange,
  673. but I think suicide's selfish.
  674.  
  675. 151
  676. 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:27,520
  677. I mean, you've solved your own problems.
  678.  
  679. 152
  680. 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:30,140
  681. But your relatives really suffer.
  682.  
  683. 153
  684. 00:14:30,310 --> 00:14:35,470
  685. An old friend killed himself seven years
  686. ago and his mom still doesn't speak.
  687.  
  688. 154
  689. 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:39,270
  690. Not a word. She just sits in her yard
  691. and stares into space.
  692.  
  693. 155
  694. 00:14:39,430 --> 00:14:41,020
  695. She's totally done for.
  696.  
  697. 156
  698. 00:14:41,180 --> 00:14:43,060
  699. You think it's selfish.
  700.  
  701. 157
  702. 00:14:43,430 --> 00:14:45,890
  703. I beg your pardon,
  704. but once you're in that place,
  705.  
  706. 158
  707. 00:14:46,100 --> 00:14:47,600
  708. you don't evenexistanymore.
  709.  
  710. 159
  711. 00:14:47,770 --> 00:14:51,060
  712. You can't think of others.
  713. You can't think at all anymore.
  714.  
  715. 160
  716. 00:14:51,220 --> 00:14:54,350
  717. You just want it to stop.
  718. - And it does stop.
  719.  
  720. 161
  721. 00:14:54,470 --> 00:14:56,970
  722. You've solved your problems.
  723.  
  724. 162
  725. 00:14:57,180 --> 00:15:01,020
  726. But you're not only responsible
  727. for your own life.
  728.  
  729. 163
  730. 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:05,600
  731. It's a fact: The relatives
  732. suffer like hell.
  733.  
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  735. 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:09,890
  736. What are you babbling about?
  737. You have no idea what you're saying.
  738.  
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  740. 00:15:10,100 --> 00:15:12,680
  741. You have this attitude that
  742. the media spreads...
  743.  
  744. 166
  745. 00:15:12,850 --> 00:15:15,520
  746. What?
  747. - But you're just talking shit.
  748.  
  749. 167
  750. 00:15:16,180 --> 00:15:20,100
  751. Not true at all! I told you
  752. that I witnessed it with a friend.
  753.  
  754. 168
  755. 00:15:20,310 --> 00:15:23,060
  756. His mother was so sweet,
  757. and now she's a wreck.
  758.  
  759. 169
  760. 00:15:23,220 --> 00:15:25,850
  761. "So sweet."
  762. And your friend, what about him?
  763.  
  764. 170
  765. 00:15:26,060 --> 00:15:29,060
  766. But I see the family, too.
  767. They're completely ruined.
  768.  
  769. 171
  770. 00:15:29,890 --> 00:15:31,680
  771. That's so fucked up!
  772.  
  773. 172
  774. 00:15:32,810 --> 00:15:35,430
  775. No wonder you go to hell
  776. for suicide in most religions.
  777.  
  778. 173
  779. 00:15:35,850 --> 00:15:38,890
  780. Is that so?
  781. - As far as I know, yes.
  782.  
  783. 174
  784. 00:15:48,350 --> 00:15:50,720
  785. Sorry, I didn't mean to get to you...
  786. - Stop it.
  787.  
  788. 175
  789. 00:15:59,020 --> 00:16:00,850
  790. I think this was a bad idea.
  791.  
  792. 176
  793. 00:16:01,060 --> 00:16:03,890
  794. I'm not really sociable at the moment.
  795. I think...
  796.  
  797. 177
  798. 00:16:05,100 --> 00:16:07,430
  799. ...you should maybe find another ride.
  800.  
  801. 178
  802. 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:12,640
  803. Sorry.
  804. - Okay.
  805.  
  806. 179
  807. 00:16:13,470 --> 00:16:14,470
  808. 'H...
  809.  
  810. 180
  811. 00:16:15,220 --> 00:16:17,560
  812. I'll take the next exit.
  813.  
  814. 181
  815. 00:16:32,970 --> 00:16:34,640
  816. Her brother!
  817.  
  818. 182
  819. 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:37,770
  820. Fuck!
  821. Fuck...
  822.  
  823. 183
  824. 00:16:41,850 --> 00:16:44,850
  825. MY Phone.
  826. NO! Jule!
  827.  
  828. 184
  829. 00:16:45,350 --> 00:16:46,640
  830. Jule!
  831.  
  832. 185
  833. 00:17:59,270 --> 00:18:03,310
  834. Listen, I'm taking a pit
  835. stop, I gotta take a nap.
  836.  
  837. 186
  838. 00:18:03,430 --> 00:18:07,770
  839. You can crash in the bottom bunk if you like.
  840. - OK, cool. Great, thanks.
  841.  
  842. 187
  843. 00:18:14,060 --> 00:18:16,270
  844. No, everything's fine.
  845.  
  846. 188
  847. 00:18:19,270 --> 00:18:21,100
  848. I'm on my way to see you.
  849.  
  850. 189
  851. 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:25,270
  852. Yeah, with the RV.
  853.  
  854. 190
  855. 00:18:28,180 --> 00:18:29,770
  856. Aren't you happy?
  857.  
  858. 191
  859. 00:18:34,060 --> 00:18:36,310
  860. Alex, I'll call you right back.
  861.  
  862. 192
  863. 00:18:40,810 --> 00:18:41,810
  864. Yes?
  865.  
  866. 193
  867. 00:18:42,810 --> 00:18:46,060
  868. I'm admiring your RV.
  869.  
  870. 194
  871. 00:18:46,350 --> 00:18:48,430
  872. We have an RV, too.
  873.  
  874. 195
  875. 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:52,060
  876. It's practical. Room for the kids.
  877. But your ride, it's just...
  878.  
  879. 196
  880. 00:18:52,180 --> 00:18:53,350
  881. ...fantastic.
  882.  
  883. 197
  884. 00:18:53,430 --> 00:18:55,180
  885. A cult model!
  886.  
  887. 198
  888. 00:18:56,810 --> 00:18:58,060
  889. Thanks.
  890.  
  891. 199
  892. 00:18:58,520 --> 00:18:59,890
  893. I'm Torge.
  894.  
  895. 200
  896. 00:19:00,350 --> 00:19:01,720
  897. Hello. Jule.
  898.  
  899. 201
  900. 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:04,560
  901. These are the original furnishings!
  902.  
  903. 202
  904. 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:08,890
  905. Awesome.
  906.  
  907. 203
  908. 00:19:09,470 --> 00:19:11,970
  909. And the AC still works?
  910.  
  911. 204
  912. 00:19:12,270 --> 00:19:14,310
  913. No, hasn't for a long time.
  914.  
  915. 205
  916. 00:19:15,850 --> 00:19:17,850
  917. Do you have a glass of water for me?
  918.  
  919. 206
  920. 00:19:18,890 --> 00:19:20,310
  921. Sure, yeah.
  922.  
  923. 207
  924. 00:19:39,100 --> 00:19:41,060
  925. I'll go brush my teeth.
  926. - Go ahead.
  927.  
  928. 208
  929. 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:45,850
  930. And then in the other direction, right?
  931.  
  932. 209
  933. 00:19:50,470 --> 00:19:51,850
  934. You're pretty.
  935.  
  936. 210
  937. 00:19:55,350 --> 00:19:57,180
  938. Can you please leave now.
  939.  
  940. 211
  941. 00:19:58,430 --> 00:20:00,640
  942. Why?
  943. - Because I say so.
  944.  
  945. 212
  946. 00:20:09,350 --> 00:20:10,470
  947. You leave now.
  948.  
  949. 213
  950. 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:13,020
  951. No.
  952.  
  953. 214
  954. 00:20:13,470 --> 00:20:15,640
  955. Leave or I'll call the police.
  956.  
  957. 215
  958. 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:45,850
  959. You smell so good.
  960.  
  961. 216
  962. 00:20:56,180 --> 00:20:57,470
  963. Come here.
  964.  
  965. 217
  966. 00:20:59,020 --> 00:21:00,600
  967. Hands off!
  968.  
  969. 218
  970. 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:06,350
  971. Jule, it's Jan. Can you open up?
  972. I left my phone with you.
  973.  
  974. 219
  975. 00:21:07,180 --> 00:21:09,270
  976. Come in, it's open!
  977.  
  978. 220
  979. 00:21:15,020 --> 00:21:16,890
  980. Get out.
  981.  
  982. 221
  983. 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,180
  984. Get out!
  985. - Thanks for your hospitality.
  986.  
  987. 222
  988. 00:21:20,350 --> 00:21:21,470
  989. Piss off.
  990.  
  991. 223
  992. 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,020
  993. Piss off!
  994. - Have a nice evening.
  995.  
  996. 224
  997. 00:21:25,850 --> 00:21:27,180
  998. He has my phone.
  999.  
  1000. 225
  1001. 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,560
  1002. Give me the phone.
  1003. - Piss off!
  1004.  
  1005. 226
  1006. 00:21:40,850 --> 00:21:42,640
  1007. Stupid asshole, I'll kill you.
  1008.  
  1009. 227
  1010. 00:21:51,430 --> 00:21:52,430
  1011. Cunt!
  1012.  
  1013. 228
  1014. 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:54,600
  1015. Piss off!
  1016.  
  1017. 229
  1018. 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,060
  1019. Shit, are you OK?
  1020.  
  1021. 230
  1022. 00:22:03,310 --> 00:22:05,270
  1023. Wait, I'll get water.
  1024.  
  1025. 231
  1026. 00:22:16,350 --> 00:22:18,470
  1027. Yeah, take off, asshole!
  1028.  
  1029. 232
  1030. 00:22:22,060 --> 00:22:23,270
  1031. Open up.
  1032.  
  1033. 233
  1034. 00:22:24,100 --> 00:22:25,350
  1035. Alright?
  1036.  
  1037. 234
  1038. 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:30,890
  1039. One more time, here.
  1040.  
  1041. 235
  1042. 00:22:31,060 --> 00:22:33,470
  1043. Sorry I sprayed you, too.
  1044. I panicked.
  1045.  
  1046. 236
  1047. 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:39,520
  1048. At least you got that guy.
  1049. - Shit, your eyes are so red.
  1050.  
  1051. 237
  1052. 00:22:41,350 --> 00:22:43,180
  1053. So are yours.
  1054.  
  1055. 238
  1056. 00:22:43,350 --> 00:22:45,310
  1057. We look like zombies.
  1058.  
  1059. 239
  1060. 00:22:46,470 --> 00:22:48,640
  1061. You came out of nowhere.
  1062.  
  1063. 240
  1064. 00:22:50,270 --> 00:22:53,270
  1065. A truck driver picked me up.
  1066. I was sleeping in his truck.
  1067.  
  1068. 241
  1069. 00:22:53,350 --> 00:22:57,020
  1070. No way, what a coincidence.
  1071. If you hadn't shown up...
  1072.  
  1073. 242
  1074. 00:22:57,180 --> 00:22:58,520
  1075. Fuck.
  1076.  
  1077. 243
  1078. 00:23:00,350 --> 00:23:01,560
  1079. Eye drops?
  1080.  
  1081. 244
  1082. 00:23:08,100 --> 00:23:09,180
  1083. Alright?
  1084.  
  1085. 245
  1086. 00:23:09,310 --> 00:23:11,430
  1087. You know karate or something?
  1088.  
  1089. 246
  1090. 00:23:11,470 --> 00:23:13,020
  1091. A bit, yeah.
  1092.  
  1093. 247
  1094. 00:23:13,100 --> 00:23:16,470
  1095. So there was no need for the pepper spray.
  1096. - Yes, there was.
  1097.  
  1098. 248
  1099. 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,470
  1100. Can you do me, too?
  1101. - Sure.
  1102.  
  1103. 249
  1104. 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,560
  1105. He was pretty skilled.
  1106.  
  1107. 250
  1108. 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:25,180
  1109. I think he knew martial arts.
  1110. Ex-soldier or something.
  1111.  
  1112. 251
  1113. 00:23:25,890 --> 00:23:27,430
  1114. Open your eyes.
  1115.  
  1116. 252
  1117. 00:23:27,850 --> 00:23:31,310
  1118. A frustrated ex-soldier.
  1119.  
  1120. 253
  1121. 00:23:32,060 --> 00:23:35,180
  1122. Exactly. Thrown out for
  1123. lack of intelligence.
  1124.  
  1125. 254
  1126. 00:23:35,270 --> 00:23:37,470
  1127. Couldn't find the trigger anymore.
  1128.  
  1129. 255
  1130. 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,470
  1131. What an asshole.
  1132.  
  1133. 256
  1134. 00:23:45,430 --> 00:23:47,470
  1135. Did you see his shoes?
  1136.  
  1137. 257
  1138. 00:23:47,850 --> 00:23:51,470
  1139. Men in white socks and sandals,
  1140. let me tell you: They're the worst.
  1141.  
  1142. 258
  1143. 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,220
  1144. I'll remember that.
  1145.  
  1146. 259
  1147. 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:05,100
  1148. So you're on your way to Bilbao
  1149. to see your father.
  1150.  
  1151. 260
  1152. 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,850
  1153. Does he work there?
  1154. Or are your parents divorced?
  1155.  
  1156. 261
  1157. 00:24:11,100 --> 00:24:14,890
  1158. No, I grew up with my stepfather and...
  1159.  
  1160. 262
  1161. 00:24:15,850 --> 00:24:20,100
  1162. ...the guy in Bilbao is my biological father.
  1163. I've never met him.
  1164.  
  1165. 263
  1166. 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:23,350
  1167. Wow.
  1168.  
  1169. 264
  1170. 00:24:24,970 --> 00:24:26,890
  1171. And why is that?
  1172. I mean...
  1173.  
  1174. 265
  1175. 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:31,850
  1176. I didn't know that my stepfather
  1177. wasn't my real father until I was 17.
  1178.  
  1179. 266
  1180. 00:24:34,270 --> 00:24:36,890
  1181. And last month I asked my mother...
  1182.  
  1183. 267
  1184. 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:40,640
  1185. ...to put me in touch with
  1186. my biological father.
  1187.  
  1188. 268
  1189. 00:24:41,060 --> 00:24:43,310
  1190. Three days ago, he called.
  1191.  
  1192. 269
  1193. 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:47,470
  1194. I was just watching a game show on TV.
  1195. Totally absurd.
  1196.  
  1197. 270
  1198. 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,430
  1199. Crazy.
  1200.  
  1201. 271
  1202. 00:24:51,470 --> 00:24:53,020
  1203. And, I mean...
  1204.  
  1205. 272
  1206. 00:24:53,180 --> 00:24:57,100
  1207. ...how did you find out? That
  1208. your stepfather isn't your father?
  1209.  
  1210. 273
  1211. 00:24:59,850 --> 00:25:01,890
  1212. Well...
  1213. - Long story?
  1214.  
  1215. 274
  1216. 00:25:02,470 --> 00:25:05,100
  1217. Yeah, kinda.
  1218. - OK. You don't need to...
  1219.  
  1220. 275
  1221. 00:25:08,180 --> 00:25:11,270
  1222. Sorry I threw you out this afternoon.
  1223.  
  1224. 276
  1225. 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:12,890
  1226. It's just that...
  1227.  
  1228. 277
  1229. 00:25:13,060 --> 00:25:16,270
  1230. ...my brother was really 27
  1231. when he committed suicide.
  1232.  
  1233. 278
  1234. 00:25:16,430 --> 00:25:18,430
  1235. So it's a sensitive topic for me.
  1236.  
  1237. 279
  1238. 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,430
  1239. I figured.
  1240.  
  1241. 280
  1242. 00:25:21,270 --> 00:25:23,180
  1243. Sorry that I...
  1244.  
  1245. 281
  1246. 00:25:30,850 --> 00:25:32,350
  1247. Headache?
  1248.  
  1249. 282
  1250. 00:25:33,350 --> 00:25:36,720
  1251. Wanna smoke some weed?
  1252. To relax. I brought some.
  1253.  
  1254. 283
  1255. 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:39,020
  1256. No, thanks.
  1257.  
  1258. 284
  1259. 00:25:39,100 --> 00:25:41,180
  1260. But you can if you want!
  1261. - No need.
  1262.  
  1263. 285
  1264. 00:25:41,890 --> 00:25:43,270
  1265. Beer's enough.
  1266.  
  1267. 286
  1268. 00:25:44,430 --> 00:25:46,850
  1269. I guess I'm just really tired.
  1270.  
  1271. 287
  1272. 00:25:49,850 --> 00:25:51,350
  1273. OK, then...
  1274.  
  1275. 288
  1276. 00:25:51,430 --> 00:25:52,890
  1277. ...thanks for the beer.
  1278.  
  1279. 289
  1280. 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,060
  1281. I'll let you get some sleep.
  1282. - Listen...
  1283.  
  1284. 290
  1285. 00:25:57,270 --> 00:26:00,640
  1286. Would you mind sleeping here tonight?
  1287.  
  1288. 291
  1289. 00:26:02,020 --> 00:26:05,060
  1290. You know, if this guy turns up again,
  1291. I'm a bit...
  1292.  
  1293. 292
  1294. 00:26:06,350 --> 00:26:09,890
  1295. No, sure. I can do that.
  1296. - Really? Great, that's...
  1297.  
  1298. 293
  1299. 00:26:10,060 --> 00:26:12,430
  1300. Thanks.
  1301. - Sure thing.
  1302.  
  1303. 294
  1304. 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:23,020
  1305. Jule, sure you don't want the bed? I'm
  1306. the guest, I should sleep on the floor.
  1307.  
  1308. 295
  1309. 00:26:24,770 --> 00:26:28,520
  1310. In India, I slept on the floor
  1311. for six months. Without a mat.
  1312.  
  1313. 296
  1314. 00:26:29,470 --> 00:26:30,720
  1315. It's good here.
  1316.  
  1317. 297
  1318. 00:26:30,970 --> 00:26:32,640
  1319. Very comfortable.
  1320.  
  1321. 298
  1322. 00:26:34,180 --> 00:26:35,520
  1323. It's your back.
  1324.  
  1325. 299
  1326. 00:26:45,100 --> 00:26:46,970
  1327. Do you have a favorite dream?
  1328.  
  1329. 300
  1330. 00:26:47,060 --> 00:26:48,350
  1331. What?
  1332.  
  1333. 301
  1334. 00:26:48,430 --> 00:26:50,020
  1335. A favorite dream.
  1336.  
  1337. 302
  1338. 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:57,020
  1339. Yes, flying. I love
  1340. to dream of flying.
  1341.  
  1342. 303
  1343. 00:26:57,140 --> 00:26:59,060
  1344. Really?
  1345. So do I!
  1346.  
  1347. 304
  1348. 00:26:59,770 --> 00:27:06,600
  1349. What, really?
  1350. You too fly at night?
  1351.  
  1352. 305
  1353. 00:27:07,350 --> 00:27:14,680
  1354. Yeah, over the city, with my arms set back.
  1355. Like Superman.
  1356.  
  1357. 306
  1358. 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:20,720
  1359. I feel so super free then.
  1360. Everything is possible.
  1361.  
  1362. 307
  1363. 00:27:23,220 --> 00:27:25,890
  1364. And how do you take off?
  1365.  
  1366. 308
  1367. 00:27:27,100 --> 00:27:31,140
  1368. I usually jump off a table
  1369. or a wall or something.
  1370.  
  1371. 309
  1372. 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:36,470
  1373. And then, shortly before I hit the
  1374. floor, I do a body twist...
  1375.  
  1376. 310
  1377. 00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,890
  1378. ...turn on my stomach and fly away.
  1379.  
  1380. 311
  1381. 00:27:40,060 --> 00:27:43,640
  1382. With my arms close to the body,
  1383. like a ski jumper.
  1384.  
  1385. 312
  1386. 00:27:44,140 --> 00:27:45,430
  1387. Wicked.
  1388.  
  1389. 313
  1390. 00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,140
  1391. Have a nice flight.
  1392.  
  1393. 314
  1394. 00:27:53,270 --> 00:27:54,600
  1395. You, too.
  1396.  
  1397. 315
  1398. 00:28:43,100 --> 00:28:45,100
  1399. Hey!
  1400.  
  1401. 316
  1402. 00:28:45,180 --> 00:28:46,680
  1403. Good morning!
  1404. - Good morning.
  1405.  
  1406. 317
  1407. 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:48,720
  1408. I thought you'd left already.
  1409.  
  1410. 318
  1411. 00:28:48,850 --> 00:28:50,850
  1412. Oh no, I just didn't wanna wake you up.
  1413.  
  1414. 319
  1415. 00:28:51,020 --> 00:28:55,430
  1416. I was having breakfast with Manni,
  1417. my trucker friend.
  1418.  
  1419. 320
  1420. 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:56,720
  1421. Oh, okay.
  1422.  
  1423. 321
  1424. 00:29:02,430 --> 00:29:04,720
  1425. Did you dream of flying?
  1426.  
  1427. 322
  1428. 00:29:04,850 --> 00:29:07,640
  1429. No, unfortunately not.
  1430. And you?
  1431.  
  1432. 323
  1433. 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:11,430
  1434. Neither.
  1435. We should have smoked that pot.
  1436.  
  1437. 324
  1438. 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,520
  1439. Yeah, maybe.
  1440.  
  1441. 325
  1442. 00:29:17,470 --> 00:29:22,890
  1443. I gotta go. Manni has to reach Paris today.
  1444. - Right, OK.
  1445.  
  1446. 326
  1447. 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,180
  1448. Thanks again.
  1449.  
  1450. 327
  1451. 00:29:25,770 --> 00:29:27,720
  1452. For yesterday.
  1453. - Sure thing.
  1454.  
  1455. 328
  1456. 00:29:30,100 --> 00:29:32,180
  1457. Well, take care then.
  1458. - You too.
  1459.  
  1460. 329
  1461. 00:29:32,350 --> 00:29:33,720
  1462. Good luck.
  1463.  
  1464. 330
  1465. 00:29:34,060 --> 00:29:36,720
  1466. Safe trip.
  1467. - You too.
  1468.  
  1469. 331
  1470. 00:29:37,970 --> 00:29:39,310
  1471. Bye.
  1472. - Ciao.
  1473.  
  1474. 332
  1475. 00:29:45,100 --> 00:29:48,640
  1476. Jan, hang on.
  1477. Could you come back for a sec?
  1478.  
  1479. 333
  1480. 00:29:52,270 --> 00:29:55,180
  1481. I could also take you a little further.
  1482.  
  1483. 334
  1484. 00:29:55,470 --> 00:29:57,100
  1485. Really?
  1486. - Yeah, sure.
  1487.  
  1488. 335
  1489. 00:29:57,390 --> 00:29:59,720
  1490. Well, great!
  1491. I'd love that!
  1492.  
  1493. 336
  1494. 00:29:59,850 --> 00:30:02,220
  1495. Unless you prefer to ride with Manni.
  1496.  
  1497. 337
  1498. 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,470
  1499. Manni's music taste...
  1500.  
  1501. 338
  1502. 00:30:06,100 --> 00:30:07,220
  1503. No.
  1504.  
  1505. 339
  1506. 00:30:07,470 --> 00:30:09,850
  1507. Great.
  1508. - I'll grab my stuff.
  1509.  
  1510. 340
  1511. 00:30:10,100 --> 00:30:12,140
  1512. Cool. See you.
  1513. - See you.
  1514.  
  1515. 341
  1516. 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,100
  1517. To the next leg, right'?
  1518.  
  1519. 342
  1520. 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,970
  1521. Let's see how many miles
  1522. we last this time.
  1523.  
  1524. 343
  1525. 00:30:29,060 --> 00:30:31,220
  1526. Do you mind taking country roads?
  1527.  
  1528. 344
  1529. 00:30:31,390 --> 00:30:33,720
  1530. Not at all, I'm not in a hurry.
  1531.  
  1532. 345
  1533. 00:30:47,220 --> 00:30:50,560
  1534. Look, there's a stork!
  1535. It's really pretty.
  1536.  
  1537. 346
  1538. 00:30:58,270 --> 00:31:01,270
  1539. So where are you heading?
  1540. You haven't told me yet.
  1541.  
  1542. 347
  1543. 00:31:01,470 --> 00:31:03,520
  1544. Oh, right.
  1545. To Portugal.
  1546.  
  1547. 348
  1548. 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:05,850
  1549. Portugal?
  1550. Wow. Pretty far.
  1551.  
  1552. 349
  1553. 00:31:06,020 --> 00:31:07,140
  1554. Yes.
  1555.  
  1556. 350
  1557. 00:31:07,220 --> 00:31:08,770
  1558. I'm visiting someone.
  1559.  
  1560. 351
  1561. 00:31:09,430 --> 00:31:10,520
  1562. Your father too?
  1563.  
  1564. 352
  1565. 00:31:11,060 --> 00:31:12,220
  1566. No.
  1567.  
  1568. 353
  1569. 00:31:13,430 --> 00:31:14,770
  1570. My boyfriend.
  1571.  
  1572. 354
  1573. 00:31:16,220 --> 00:31:18,770
  1574. He's doing his PhD there, in Tamera.
  1575.  
  1576. 355
  1577. 00:31:19,430 --> 00:31:21,850
  1578. What's it on?
  1579. - Ecological agriculture.
  1580.  
  1581. 356
  1582. 00:31:22,060 --> 00:31:24,559
  1583. Permacultures, water
  1584. retention systems, etc...
  1585.  
  1586. 357
  1587. 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,560
  1588. Water retention systems?
  1589.  
  1590. 358
  1591. 00:31:28,220 --> 00:31:31,470
  1592. Not just using water,
  1593. but keeping it in the cycle.
  1594.  
  1595. 359
  1596. 00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:34,180
  1597. Want the details?
  1598. - Some other time.
  1599.  
  1600. 360
  1601. 00:31:39,470 --> 00:31:41,470
  1602. May I?
  1603. - Sure.
  1604.  
  1605. 361
  1606. 00:31:46,430 --> 00:31:49,890
  1607. Absurd, right'?
  1608. Two tons of steel to move one person?
  1609.  
  1610. 362
  1611. 00:31:50,850 --> 00:31:54,390
  1612. In 90% of the cars,
  1613. there's only one person.
  1614.  
  1615. 363
  1616. 00:31:54,470 --> 00:31:56,220
  1617. True.
  1618. Like me.
  1619.  
  1620. 364
  1621. 00:31:57,060 --> 00:31:58,560
  1622. Almost.
  1623.  
  1624. 365
  1625. 00:32:01,850 --> 00:32:03,220
  1626. And you?
  1627.  
  1628. 366
  1629. 00:32:03,430 --> 00:32:05,770
  1630. Lone wolf or social animal?
  1631.  
  1632. 367
  1633. 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,770
  1634. Social animal, definitely!
  1635. Extremely social!
  1636.  
  1637. 368
  1638. 00:32:12,970 --> 00:32:17,180
  1639. No, neither one. Some friends,
  1640. some acquaintances, the usual.
  1641.  
  1642. 369
  1643. 00:32:18,470 --> 00:32:20,430
  1644. Leaning towards the lone wolf, maybe.
  1645.  
  1646. 370
  1647. 00:32:22,220 --> 00:32:24,890
  1648. You know how many people
  1649. in Germany live alone?
  1650.  
  1651. 371
  1652. 00:32:26,220 --> 00:32:28,220
  1653. No idea. 20%?
  1654. - 50%.
  1655.  
  1656. 372
  1657. 00:32:28,390 --> 00:32:30,220
  1658. Crazy.
  1659. - Yeah, right?
  1660.  
  1661. 373
  1662. 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:34,390
  1663. And you know what?
  1664. I think there's a strategy behind it.
  1665.  
  1666. 374
  1667. 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:35,770
  1668. Really?
  1669.  
  1670. 375
  1671. 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:38,970
  1672. Economic reasons.
  1673. - "Economic reasons."
  1674.  
  1675. 376
  1676. 00:32:39,390 --> 00:32:40,470
  1677. Yes.
  1678.  
  1679. 377
  1680. 00:32:40,770 --> 00:32:42,140
  1681. Look:
  1682.  
  1683. 378
  1684. 00:32:42,390 --> 00:32:45,220
  1685. Take four people who
  1686. live in four apartments.
  1687.  
  1688. 379
  1689. 00:32:45,430 --> 00:32:49,390
  1690. They need four fridges, four vacuum
  1691. cleaners, four kettles, four...
  1692.  
  1693. 380
  1694. 00:32:49,770 --> 00:32:50,770
  1695. Flat screen TVs.
  1696.  
  1697. 381
  1698. 00:32:50,890 --> 00:32:54,520
  1699. Exactly! If they lived together,
  1700. they'd only need one of each.
  1701.  
  1702. 382
  1703. 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:58,970
  1704. So economically it makes more sense if they
  1705. live alone, as they consume more.
  1706.  
  1707. 383
  1708. 00:32:59,220 --> 00:33:04,220
  1709. A friend wrote his thesis on that:
  1710. "Capitalism's Separation Strategy."
  1711.  
  1712. 384
  1713. 00:33:04,430 --> 00:33:06,520
  1714. That does sound like a thesis.
  1715.  
  1716. 385
  1717. 00:33:07,220 --> 00:33:10,220
  1718. But being alone is against
  1719. human nature, totally!
  1720.  
  1721. 386
  1722. 00:33:10,770 --> 00:33:13,430
  1723. Humans are social creatures!
  1724. Within minutes...
  1725.  
  1726. 387
  1727. 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,970
  1728. ...of being alone, we
  1729. secrete stress hormones!
  1730.  
  1731. 388
  1732. 00:33:16,220 --> 00:33:18,430
  1733. Cortisol and such.
  1734. - Wow.
  1735.  
  1736. 389
  1737. 00:33:19,770 --> 00:33:25,220
  1738. And Cortisol weakens the immune system,
  1739. so being alone makes you sick.
  1740.  
  1741. 390
  1742. 00:33:28,220 --> 00:33:30,060
  1743. But that's what they want.
  1744.  
  1745. 391
  1746. 00:33:30,220 --> 00:33:31,520
  1747. What?
  1748.  
  1749. 392
  1750. 00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:35,220
  1751. Us to be unhappy, so we consume more.
  1752.  
  1753. 393
  1754. 00:33:36,810 --> 00:33:40,430
  1755. You keep saying "they,"
  1756. but who are "they" supposed to be?
  1757.  
  1758. 394
  1759. 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:45,850
  1760. Executives and politicians
  1761. who meet in dark rooms and decide...
  1762.  
  1763. 395
  1764. 00:33:46,020 --> 00:33:50,520
  1765. "Let's isolate them, so they consume
  1766. more and cease to resist.“
  1767.  
  1768. 396
  1769. 00:33:51,970 --> 00:33:53,520
  1770. You can't seriously believe that.
  1771.  
  1772. 397
  1773. 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,390
  1774. Well, I used to.
  1775. - And now?
  1776.  
  1777. 398
  1778. 00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,220
  1779. Now I think it's inherent to the system.
  1780. - Inherent to the system?
  1781.  
  1782. 399
  1783. 00:34:00,430 --> 00:34:06,020
  1784. Yes. Capitalism inevitably leads to isolation
  1785. - due to its fundamental principles.
  1786.  
  1787. 400
  1788. 00:34:07,140 --> 00:34:11,429
  1789. "The Fundamental Principles of Capitalism."
  1790. - Yeah, think about it:
  1791.  
  1792. 401
  1793. 00:34:11,430 --> 00:34:15,560
  1794. From a young age we're taught
  1795. to compete with each other.
  1796.  
  1797. 402
  1798. 00:34:15,770 --> 00:34:20,060
  1799. It starts in school. Who's the best-looking?
  1800. Who's the smartest? And so on...
  1801.  
  1802. 403
  1803. 00:34:20,220 --> 00:34:23,390
  1804. Life has become a permanent audition!
  1805.  
  1806. 404
  1807. 00:34:23,470 --> 00:34:26,520
  1808. 1000 people apply to a
  1809. college, only ten get in.
  1810.  
  1811. 405
  1812. 00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,560
  1813. 100 people apply for an
  1814. apartment, one gets it.
  1815.  
  1816. 406
  1817. 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:33,520
  1818. You have to be tougher,
  1819. quicker and stronger 24/7!
  1820.  
  1821. 407
  1822. 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:35,020
  1823. What a stress!
  1824.  
  1825. 408
  1826. 00:34:35,220 --> 00:34:37,770
  1827. Well, life's no day at the beach.
  1828.  
  1829. 409
  1830. 00:34:38,060 --> 00:34:41,060
  1831. Not in capitalism that's for sure.
  1832.  
  1833. 410
  1834. 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:46,770
  1835. But that's just how it is:
  1836. Competition is in our blood.
  1837.  
  1838. 411
  1839. 00:34:46,970 --> 00:34:50,890
  1840. Take two kids running across a field:
  1841. One will always try to run faster.
  1842.  
  1843. 412
  1844. 00:34:52,220 --> 00:34:56,720
  1845. How is that related?
  1846. - It totally is! It starts there, in that field!
  1847.  
  1848. 413
  1849. 00:34:57,220 --> 00:34:59,470
  1850. We just LOVE competing.
  1851.  
  1852. 414
  1853. 00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:03,180
  1854. Competition is fun!
  1855. Even jungle warriors compete.
  1856.  
  1857. 415
  1858. 00:35:03,390 --> 00:35:06,770
  1859. But it's become so extreme!
  1860. Nonstop struggle and competition...
  1861.  
  1862. 416
  1863. 00:35:06,970 --> 00:35:09,390
  1864. The whole world has become
  1865. a damn Circus Maximus!
  1866.  
  1867. 417
  1868. 00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:10,600
  1869. You're exaggerating.
  1870.  
  1871. 418
  1872. 00:35:10,770 --> 00:35:16,970
  1873. What? The top 5% who own the capital
  1874. benefit from the rest scurrying about.
  1875.  
  1876. 419
  1877. 00:35:17,220 --> 00:35:21,470
  1878. Everyone else just works their asses off,
  1879. is unhappy and totally stressed out.
  1880.  
  1881. 420
  1882. 00:35:27,140 --> 00:35:29,310
  1883. That's not so nice, yeah.
  1884.  
  1885. 421
  1886. 00:35:29,390 --> 00:35:31,720
  1887. But that's nature's way.
  1888.  
  1889. 422
  1890. 00:35:31,770 --> 00:35:33,890
  1891. The hard in the garden,
  1892. the tender in the pond.
  1893.  
  1894. 423
  1895. 00:35:34,060 --> 00:35:36,219
  1896. The strongest survive, these
  1897. are the rules of evolution.
  1898.  
  1899. 424
  1900. 00:35:36,220 --> 00:35:37,770
  1901. Says who?
  1902.  
  1903. 425
  1904. 00:35:37,850 --> 00:35:38,850
  1905. Says Darwin.
  1906.  
  1907. 426
  1908. 00:35:39,020 --> 00:35:40,770
  1909. Darwin?
  1910. - Yes.
  1911.  
  1912. 427
  1913. 00:35:42,270 --> 00:35:45,680
  1914. Whoa, I don't think
  1915. you're up to date there.
  1916.  
  1917. 428
  1918. 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:51,520
  1919. Oh, fuck...
  1920. I feel sick.
  1921.  
  1922. 429
  1923. 00:35:54,180 --> 00:35:55,520
  1924. I'm getting off the road.
  1925.  
  1926. 430
  1927. 00:36:13,060 --> 00:36:15,850
  1928. Oh shit, are you okay?
  1929.  
  1930. 431
  1931. 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:19,850
  1932. Have another sip of water.
  1933.  
  1934. 432
  1935. 00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:25,520
  1936. Oh, shit.
  1937.  
  1938. 433
  1939. 00:36:30,310 --> 00:36:31,430
  1940. Are you all right?
  1941.  
  1942. 434
  1943. 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,180
  1944. I hope it's not a sunstroke.
  1945. Are you dizzy?
  1946.  
  1947. 435
  1948. 00:36:34,350 --> 00:36:37,640
  1949. No, it's alright, I guess I just
  1950. ate something wrong.
  1951.  
  1952. 436
  1953. 00:36:37,810 --> 00:36:39,350
  1954. Alright.
  1955.  
  1956. 437
  1957. 00:36:39,470 --> 00:36:43,520
  1958. I hope it's not because of
  1959. my pro-capitalist arguments.
  1960.  
  1961. 438
  1962. 00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,890
  1963. No, don't worry.
  1964.  
  1965. 439
  1966. 00:36:49,100 --> 00:36:51,140
  1967. I already feel better.
  1968. I'll wipe off my vomit.
  1969.  
  1970. 440
  1971. 00:36:51,270 --> 00:36:53,350
  1972. No, no.
  1973. Let me do that.
  1974.  
  1975. 441
  1976. 00:36:53,470 --> 00:36:55,350
  1977. You want to clean off my vomit?
  1978.  
  1979. 442
  1980. 00:36:55,470 --> 00:36:58,270
  1981. I was a civil servant in
  1982. oncology, I'll manage.
  1983.  
  1984. 443
  1985. 00:36:58,430 --> 00:36:59,680
  1986. Okay.
  1987.  
  1988. 444
  1989. 00:37:01,020 --> 00:37:02,020
  1990. Oh, sorry.
  1991.  
  1992. 445
  1993. 00:37:02,140 --> 00:37:06,720
  1994. All good.
  1995. Say, can we go for a walk?
  1996.  
  1997. 446
  1998. 00:37:07,220 --> 00:37:11,890
  1999. Yeah, sure. Look, there's a
  2000. forest back there, a forest walk?
  2001.  
  2002. 447
  2003. 00:37:15,970 --> 00:37:20,470
  2004. The strongest survive. It's always
  2005. been like that. Darwin proved it.
  2006.  
  2007. 448
  2008. 00:37:20,810 --> 00:37:22,310
  2009. No, Jan.
  2010.  
  2011. 449
  2012. 00:37:22,430 --> 00:37:26,310
  2013. Darwin said "survival of the
  2014. fittest", not "survival of the strongest".
  2015.  
  2016. 450
  2017. 00:37:26,430 --> 00:37:29,770
  2018. Not the strongest survive,
  2019. but those who adapt best.
  2020.  
  2021. 451
  2022. 00:37:30,470 --> 00:37:35,020
  2023. It can also be the most bizarre.
  2024. Take the peacock for example.
  2025.  
  2026. 452
  2027. 00:37:35,140 --> 00:37:38,060
  2028. The peacock?
  2029. - Yes. Pavo Cristatus.
  2030.  
  2031. 453
  2032. 00:37:38,310 --> 00:37:39,560
  2033. Peacock!
  2034.  
  2035. 454
  2036. 00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:46,890
  2037. If only the strong survive, why is there
  2038. a bizarre animal like the peacock?
  2039.  
  2040. 455
  2041. 00:37:47,060 --> 00:37:50,640
  2042. It's neither fast nor strong,
  2043. can't even run away.
  2044.  
  2045. 456
  2046. 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:54,310
  2047. But it can spread it's tail
  2048. to a wonderful fan.
  2049.  
  2050. 457
  2051. 00:37:54,470 --> 00:37:57,020
  2052. The ladies love it, so it has more babies.
  2053.  
  2054. 458
  2055. 00:37:57,970 --> 00:38:02,310
  2056. See? In this case not the strongest survived,
  2057. but the most bizarre.
  2058.  
  2059. 459
  2060. 00:38:02,430 --> 00:38:03,850
  2061. There are so many examples.
  2062.  
  2063. 460
  2064. 00:38:04,100 --> 00:38:07,890
  2065. This "struggle for existence" is
  2066. total bullshit.
  2067.  
  2068. 461
  2069. 00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:11,640
  2070. Darwin was abused by the capitalists.
  2071.  
  2072. 462
  2073. 00:38:11,770 --> 00:38:13,430
  2074. From the beginning.
  2075.  
  2076. 463
  2077. 00:38:20,100 --> 00:38:22,060
  2078. But then what about gorillas?
  2079.  
  2080. 464
  2081. 00:38:22,310 --> 00:38:25,180
  2082. Gorillas fight until only one is left:
  2083.  
  2084. 465
  2085. 00:38:25,310 --> 00:38:26,810
  2086. The alpha male.
  2087.  
  2088. 466
  2089. 00:38:26,890 --> 00:38:31,560
  2090. Only the alpha male may reproduce.
  2091. It even kills the other males' babies.
  2092.  
  2093. 467
  2094. 00:38:31,810 --> 00:38:33,350
  2095. And we're all gorillas, or what?
  2096.  
  2097. 468
  2098. 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:37,390
  2099. No, but human society works similarly.
  2100.  
  2101. 469
  2102. 00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:42,560
  2103. We fight until a pecking order is created.
  2104. And our economic system accommodates that.
  2105.  
  2106. 470
  2107. 00:38:42,770 --> 00:38:47,140
  2108. That's why it's the only one that works,
  2109. and why communism didn't work.
  2110.  
  2111. 471
  2112. 00:38:47,310 --> 00:38:50,890
  2113. Objection. Firstly, communism
  2114. was a hierarchical system too.
  2115.  
  2116. 472
  2117. 00:38:51,060 --> 00:38:55,810
  2118. And why? Because everyone wanted
  2119. the biggest piece of the cake!
  2120.  
  2121. 473
  2122. 00:38:55,890 --> 00:38:59,470
  2123. That's why "real socialism" never existed.
  2124.  
  2125. 474
  2126. 00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:02,770
  2127. Neither in East Germany,
  2128. nor in Russia, nor in China.
  2129.  
  2130. 475
  2131. 00:39:02,850 --> 00:39:06,850
  2132. Mao and Stalin forced a system on
  2133. the people that they didn't want.
  2134.  
  2135. 476
  2136. 00:39:07,020 --> 00:39:09,220
  2137. Because it doesn't fit human nature.
  2138.  
  2139. 477
  2140. 00:39:09,390 --> 00:39:13,390
  2141. Oh, please don't start with
  2142. "communism vs capitalism"...
  2143.  
  2144. 478
  2145. 00:39:13,470 --> 00:39:16,680
  2146. That's so 90s.
  2147. Both systems suck.
  2148.  
  2149. 479
  2150. 00:39:16,770 --> 00:39:20,310
  2151. The question of the basic principle
  2152. is much more interesting.
  2153.  
  2154. 480
  2155. 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,140
  2156. What advances mankind more?
  2157.  
  2158. 481
  2159. 00:39:23,390 --> 00:39:25,140
  2160. Competition or cooperation?
  2161.  
  2162. 482
  2163. 00:39:25,310 --> 00:39:26,810
  2164. Competition.
  2165. - Cooperation.
  2166.  
  2167. 483
  2168. 00:39:27,100 --> 00:39:30,020
  2169. Competition.
  2170. - Cooperation! Why else did I give you a ride?
  2171.  
  2172. 484
  2173. 00:39:30,140 --> 00:39:31,680
  2174. And why did you kick me out?
  2175.  
  2176. 485
  2177. 00:39:32,390 --> 00:39:36,100
  2178. Come on, you know why. I took you
  2179. 'cos I felt sorry for you.
  2180.  
  2181. 486
  2182. 00:39:36,220 --> 00:39:39,100
  2183. What??
  2184. You felt sorry for me??
  2185.  
  2186. 487
  2187. 00:39:39,220 --> 00:39:43,470
  2188. Never heard of compassion,
  2189. empathy, mirror neurons?
  2190.  
  2191. 488
  2192. 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:48,350
  2193. You were sad. I saw that, felt what
  2194. you felt, and got sad, as well.
  2195.  
  2196. 489
  2197. 00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:53,310
  2198. Empathy! That's why I gave you a ride!
  2199. And that's the basis of humanity!
  2200.  
  2201. 490
  2202. 00:39:53,390 --> 00:39:57,890
  2203. It generates cooperation, which isn't
  2204. just nice, but the secret of our success!
  2205.  
  2206. 491
  2207. 00:39:58,100 --> 00:40:02,390
  2208. Thanks to cooperation, we descend
  2209. from Cro-Magnons, not Neanderthals.
  2210.  
  2211. 492
  2212. 00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:06,140
  2213. Wanna hear more?
  2214. - No.
  2215.  
  2216. 493
  2217. 00:40:06,310 --> 00:40:07,680
  2218. Sure you do.
  2219. - No!
  2220.  
  2221. 494
  2222. 00:40:08,100 --> 00:40:09,810
  2223. Stop it, I'm a gorilla!
  2224.  
  2225. 495
  2226. 00:40:12,720 --> 00:40:17,310
  2227. They lived at the end of the last Ice Age,
  2228. around 25,000 years ago.
  2229.  
  2230. 496
  2231. 00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:20,470
  2232. In southern France alongside
  2233. the Neanderthals.
  2234.  
  2235. 497
  2236. 00:40:20,970 --> 00:40:24,310
  2237. The Cro-Magnons survived,
  2238. while the Neanderthals went extinct.
  2239.  
  2240. 498
  2241. 00:40:24,390 --> 00:40:25,850
  2242. Know why?
  2243.  
  2244. 499
  2245. 00:40:26,100 --> 00:40:28,810
  2246. They killed the Neanderthals?
  2247. - No.
  2248.  
  2249. 500
  2250. 00:40:29,310 --> 00:40:31,100
  2251. Because of battue.
  2252.  
  2253. 501
  2254. 00:40:31,470 --> 00:40:38,470
  2255. It was like this: Neanderthals were lone
  2256. wolves who lived in groups of eight to ten.
  2257.  
  2258. 502
  2259. 00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:42,310
  2260. They fought each other,
  2261. and were massive, brawny beings.
  2262.  
  2263. 503
  2264. 00:40:42,390 --> 00:40:44,560
  2265. Like me.
  2266. - More or less.
  2267.  
  2268. 504
  2269. 00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:48,640
  2270. They needed around 5,000 calories
  2271. per day, a lot of meat.
  2272.  
  2273. 505
  2274. 00:40:49,140 --> 00:40:50,560
  2275. Like me.
  2276.  
  2277. 506
  2278. 00:40:51,470 --> 00:40:54,220
  2279. Yeah, maybe, anyway...
  2280.  
  2281. 507
  2282. 00:40:54,390 --> 00:40:58,770
  2283. At the end of the Ice Age, food became
  2284. scarce and they started eating each other.
  2285.  
  2286. 508
  2287. 00:40:59,470 --> 00:41:03,680
  2288. They were cannibals?
  2289. - In the end. Then they starved and went extinct.
  2290.  
  2291. 509
  2292. 00:41:03,810 --> 00:41:05,810
  2293. Now the Cro-Magnons:
  2294.  
  2295. 510
  2296. 00:41:06,100 --> 00:41:09,140
  2297. They lived in groups of up to 400.
  2298.  
  2299. 511
  2300. 00:41:09,470 --> 00:41:12,020
  2301. Together, they drove
  2302. animals towards cliffs...
  2303.  
  2304. 512
  2305. 00:41:12,140 --> 00:41:14,470
  2306. ...who panicked and fell off them.
  2307. Et voila:
  2308.  
  2309. 513
  2310. 00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:18,140
  2311. They had loads of meat. Real barbecue parties.
  2312. - Cool.
  2313.  
  2314. 514
  2315. 00:41:18,390 --> 00:41:22,100
  2316. Having so much food
  2317. gave them time to paint caves.
  2318.  
  2319. 515
  2320. 00:41:22,470 --> 00:41:25,470
  2321. Their tongues developed,
  2322. they started talking.
  2323.  
  2324. 516
  2325. 00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:27,560
  2326. As the first homo sapiens.
  2327.  
  2328. 517
  2329. 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:31,220
  2330. And from the Cro-Magnons we descend.
  2331. They're our ancestors.
  2332.  
  2333. 518
  2334. 00:41:31,390 --> 00:41:33,140
  2335. Really?
  2336. - Yes.
  2337.  
  2338. 519
  2339. 00:41:34,140 --> 00:41:37,220
  2340. They survived because
  2341. they cooperated...
  2342.  
  2343. 520
  2344. 00:41:37,390 --> 00:41:41,350
  2345. ...while Neanderthals went extinct.
  2346. Battue, that was the success factor!
  2347.  
  2348. 521
  2349. 00:41:41,470 --> 00:41:46,849
  2350. So the social element was the
  2351. decisive factor in enabling humanity!
  2352.  
  2353. 522
  2354. 00:41:46,850 --> 00:41:50,890
  2355. And now the capitalists want to turn us
  2356. back into Neanderthals, get it?
  2357.  
  2358. 523
  2359. 00:41:51,390 --> 00:41:54,640
  2360. That's a bit one-sided, Jule.
  2361. - No, it isn't.
  2362.  
  2363. 524
  2364. 00:41:55,390 --> 00:41:58,970
  2365. Capitalism is an inhuman,
  2366. misanthropic system.
  2367.  
  2368. 525
  2369. 00:41:59,100 --> 00:42:03,310
  2370. It benefits the 1% at the top,
  2371. while the rest of humanity feels miserable.
  2372.  
  2373. 526
  2374. 00:42:03,390 --> 00:42:05,390
  2375. Sorry, but that's total bullshit.
  2376.  
  2377. 527
  2378. 00:42:05,470 --> 00:42:08,310
  2379. You act like humans are
  2380. peace-loving hippies...
  2381.  
  2382. 528
  2383. 00:42:08,390 --> 00:42:11,310
  2384. ...who give out hugs
  2385. all day, but they're not.
  2386.  
  2387. 529
  2388. 00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:16,470
  2389. Know what they found on Ötzi,
  2390. that iceman from 5,000 years ago? An ax.
  2391.  
  2392. 530
  2393. 00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:19,680
  2394. Not a peace pipe, an ax.
  2395. - Maybe he was felling trees.
  2396.  
  2397. 531
  2398. 00:42:20,390 --> 00:42:22,220
  2399. It was a battle ax, for killing.
  2400.  
  2401. 532
  2402. 00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:26,520
  2403. He had war injuries
  2404. and an arrow tip in his shoulder.
  2405.  
  2406. 533
  2407. 00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:29,220
  2408. That tip severed an artery
  2409. and he bled to death.
  2410.  
  2411. 534
  2412. 00:42:29,350 --> 00:42:33,220
  2413. He was murdered from behind
  2414. with a bow and arrow. Bang!
  2415.  
  2416. 535
  2417. 00:42:33,810 --> 00:42:37,520
  2418. That's what I see when I look at
  2419. 5,000 years of human history:
  2420.  
  2421. 536
  2422. 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,680
  2423. Murder and destruction.
  2424. People slitting throats.
  2425.  
  2426. 537
  2427. 00:42:40,810 --> 00:42:44,970
  2428. Tribal genocide, nations attacking
  2429. each other, hate, the Holocaust...
  2430.  
  2431. 538
  2432. 00:42:45,100 --> 00:42:50,060
  2433. ...oppression. The history of
  2434. mankind is one big bloodbath!
  2435.  
  2436. 539
  2437. 00:42:51,390 --> 00:42:54,720
  2438. Every 3 seconds there's a murder
  2439. in the world. Every 3 seconds!
  2440.  
  2441. 540
  2442. 00:42:55,180 --> 00:42:59,680
  2443. Right now, a man stabs his wife
  2444. because she wants to leave him.
  2445.  
  2446. 541
  2447. 00:43:02,970 --> 00:43:04,560
  2448. We're not just good, Jule.
  2449.  
  2450. 542
  2451. 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:08,890
  2452. We're evil, too.
  2453. - Evil.
  2454.  
  2455. 543
  2456. 00:43:10,350 --> 00:43:13,680
  2457. What about the guy who almost raped you.
  2458. Did he want to cooperate?
  2459.  
  2460. 544
  2461. 00:43:13,810 --> 00:43:16,270
  2462. What? You don't have to get polemical!
  2463.  
  2464. 545
  2465. 00:43:16,350 --> 00:43:19,196
  2466. What's that got to do with anything?
  2467. That was a troubled, stupid asshole.
  2468.  
  2469. 546
  2470. 00:43:19,220 --> 00:43:22,470
  2471. Of course there are people like that.
  2472. What fucking argument is that anyway?
  2473.  
  2474. 547
  2475. 00:43:27,100 --> 00:43:30,180
  2476. We're talking about
  2477. basic human traits.
  2478.  
  2479. 548
  2480. 00:43:30,350 --> 00:43:32,520
  2481. Those that promote us as humanity.
  2482.  
  2483. 549
  2484. 00:43:34,100 --> 00:43:41,060
  2485. Okay. And what about envy and greed?
  2486. Aren't these also basic human traits?
  2487.  
  2488. 550
  2489. 00:43:41,350 --> 00:43:46,140
  2490. If I eat potatoes every day, but my
  2491. neighbour has grilled chicken...
  2492.  
  2493. 551
  2494. 00:43:46,310 --> 00:43:49,520
  2495. ...isn't it the rule rather than the
  2496. exception that I want chicken, too?
  2497.  
  2498. 552
  2499. 00:43:50,060 --> 00:43:53,680
  2500. Or if someone walks to work for ten
  2501. kilometers, while his neighbour...
  2502.  
  2503. 553
  2504. 00:43:53,810 --> 00:43:57,390
  2505. ...goes by bike, isn't it normal and
  2506. humane that he also wants a bike?
  2507.  
  2508. 554
  2509. 00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:59,969
  2510. Yes, but this has nothing to do with envy.
  2511. It's just unfair.
  2512.  
  2513. 555
  2514. 00:43:59,970 --> 00:44:01,130
  2515. They should both have a bike.
  2516.  
  2517. 556
  2518. 00:44:01,220 --> 00:44:02,850
  2519. No, we're going around in circles here.
  2520.  
  2521. 557
  2522. 00:44:02,970 --> 00:44:05,180
  2523. He should save until he
  2524. can afford a bicycle...
  2525.  
  2526. 558
  2527. 00:44:05,350 --> 00:44:07,469
  2528. ...for that he'll work harder and produce
  2529. better products or...
  2530.  
  2531. 559
  2532. 00:44:07,470 --> 00:44:09,680
  2533. ...tomatoes or whatever he produces.
  2534.  
  2535. 560
  2536. 00:44:11,350 --> 00:44:16,140
  2537. "My bike","your bike"...
  2538. it all started much earlier.
  2539.  
  2540. 561
  2541. 00:44:16,270 --> 00:44:18,350
  2542. With the invention of property.
  2543.  
  2544. 562
  2545. 00:44:18,470 --> 00:44:21,770
  2546. If I don't own anything,
  2547. you can't envy me, can you?
  2548.  
  2549. 563
  2550. 00:44:21,970 --> 00:44:25,390
  2551. Look, nomads, they shared.
  2552. They shared everything.
  2553.  
  2554. 564
  2555. 00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:29,809
  2556. We love to share. Our body releases tons
  2557. of happiness hormones when we share.
  2558.  
  2559. 565
  2560. 00:44:29,810 --> 00:44:30,810
  2561. We love it.
  2562.  
  2563. 566
  2564. 00:44:32,310 --> 00:44:33,970
  2565. Then why don't we do it?
  2566.  
  2567. 567
  2568. 00:44:34,850 --> 00:44:38,020
  2569. I'm really hungry.
  2570. Shall we cook something?
  2571.  
  2572. 568
  2573. 00:44:38,180 --> 00:44:39,390
  2574. Yes.
  2575. - Yes?
  2576.  
  2577. 569
  2578. 00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:41,970
  2579. Definitely.
  2580. Chicken, perhaps?
  2581.  
  2582. 570
  2583. 00:44:42,060 --> 00:44:43,850
  2584. For you, only potatoes.
  2585.  
  2586. 571
  2587. 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:46,350
  2588. No, I need meat.
  2589. Meeeeeat!
  2590.  
  2591. 572
  2592. 00:44:46,470 --> 00:44:48,850
  2593. Then go hunt a deer.
  2594.  
  2595. 573
  2596. 00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:54,390
  2597. I need you for that. For the battue.
  2598. - Forget it. Take a spade.
  2599.  
  2600. 574
  2601. 00:45:06,890 --> 00:45:12,560
  2602. It's great to add two or three
  2603. sprigs of rosemary.
  2604.  
  2605. 575
  2606. 00:45:26,890 --> 00:45:28,850
  2607. How's it going there?
  2608.  
  2609. 576
  2610. 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:31,060
  2611. Thanks, I'm gettin into it.
  2612.  
  2613. 577
  2614. 00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:34,180
  2615. Still some dirt here.
  2616.  
  2617. 578
  2618. 00:45:37,890 --> 00:45:40,220
  2619. And there's also pretty much here.
  2620.  
  2621. 579
  2622. 00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:41,850
  2623. Get away!
  2624.  
  2625. 580
  2626. 00:45:54,350 --> 00:45:56,100
  2627. Next stop: Dortmund.
  2628.  
  2629. 581
  2630. 00:45:56,850 --> 00:45:59,180
  2631. All crazy Jans please disembark.
  2632.  
  2633. 582
  2634. 00:46:01,970 --> 00:46:04,850
  2635. Driving, driving, driving
  2636. down the Autobahn!
  2637.  
  2638. 583
  2639. 00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:26,600
  2640. Look, the Cologne Cathedral!
  2641.  
  2642. 584
  2643. 00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,140
  2644. Cologne!
  2645. - Carnival!
  2646.  
  2647. 585
  2648. 00:46:43,100 --> 00:46:46,850
  2649. Just drop me off at the corner,
  2650. I'll walk to the station from there.
  2651.  
  2652. 586
  2653. 00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:49,020
  2654. And then you'll take the bus?
  2655.  
  2656. 587
  2657. 00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:53,350
  2658. Just as I was getting used to you.
  2659.  
  2660. 588
  2661. 00:46:54,140 --> 00:46:57,810
  2662. Plus, I still have to convince you that
  2663. humans aren't as bad as you think.
  2664.  
  2665. 589
  2666. 00:46:58,060 --> 00:47:00,520
  2667. Well, that's true of course.
  2668.  
  2669. 590
  2670. 00:47:01,890 --> 00:47:03,810
  2671. Another 300 miles?
  2672.  
  2673. 591
  2674. 00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:06,970
  2675. Uhm, yeah!
  2676.  
  2677. 592
  2678. 00:47:07,060 --> 00:47:08,770
  2679. Sure, I'd love that.
  2680.  
  2681. 593
  2682. 00:47:09,390 --> 00:47:11,390
  2683. But only if it's not out of pity.
  2684.  
  2685. 594
  2686. 00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,970
  2687. No, don't worry.
  2688. Deal?
  2689.  
  2690. 595
  2691. 00:47:15,060 --> 00:47:16,350
  2692. Deal.
  2693.  
  2694. 596
  2695. 00:47:31,100 --> 00:47:32,220
  2696. Hey, look.
  2697.  
  2698. 597
  2699. 00:47:32,890 --> 00:47:34,970
  2700. Hello, Belgium!
  2701.  
  2702. 598
  2703. 00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:36,970
  2704. Bye, Germany!
  2705.  
  2706. 599
  2707. 00:47:40,100 --> 00:47:43,930
  2708. Wanna pick something from the
  2709. camping guide?
  2710.  
  2711. 600
  2712. 00:47:44,890 --> 00:47:47,100
  2713. "RV Camping Guide."
  2714.  
  2715. 601
  2716. 00:47:47,350 --> 00:47:48,600
  2717. This looks good:
  2718.  
  2719. 602
  2720. 00:47:48,720 --> 00:47:53,850
  2721. "The camping site Champe le Monde
  2722. lies in the midst of the hilly Ardennes."
  2723.  
  2724. 603
  2725. 00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:00,970
  2726. They're open.
  2727. - They are?
  2728.  
  2729. 604
  2730. 00:48:01,470 --> 00:48:03,970
  2731. From happy lambs?
  2732. - Yes, very happy.
  2733.  
  2734. 605
  2735. 00:48:06,970 --> 00:48:08,350
  2736. Meat!
  2737.  
  2738. 606
  2739. 00:48:08,970 --> 00:48:11,060
  2740. Shouldn't we grill it first?
  2741. - No!
  2742.  
  2743. 607
  2744. 00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:28,520
  2745. You OK or you need help?
  2746.  
  2747. 608
  2748. 00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:29,970
  2749. I'll manage.
  2750.  
  2751. 609
  2752. 00:48:41,390 --> 00:48:42,600
  2753. And?
  2754.  
  2755. 610
  2756. 00:48:43,180 --> 00:48:44,810
  2757. Looking good!
  2758.  
  2759. 611
  2760. 00:48:48,720 --> 00:48:50,140
  2761. Want some wine, too?
  2762.  
  2763. 612
  2764. 00:48:50,350 --> 00:48:51,970
  2765. Uhm, no.
  2766.  
  2767. 613
  2768. 00:48:52,100 --> 00:48:53,600
  2769. You don't drink?
  2770.  
  2771. 614
  2772. 00:48:53,720 --> 00:48:55,350
  2773. Not right now, no.
  2774.  
  2775. 615
  2776. 00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:00,390
  2777. Hunger, for example.
  2778.  
  2779. 616
  2780. 00:49:02,020 --> 00:49:07,100
  2781. There's so much wheat that we could
  2782. feed the world's population twice.
  2783.  
  2784. 617
  2785. 00:49:07,850 --> 00:49:10,720
  2786. It's just not being
  2787. distributed properly. Or...
  2788.  
  2789. 618
  2790. 00:49:10,970 --> 00:49:14,970
  2791. Wait, I wanna show you something.
  2792.  
  2793. 619
  2794. 00:49:18,350 --> 00:49:21,520
  2795. That red spot...
  2796. This area would be sufficient...
  2797.  
  2798. 620
  2799. 00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:24,100
  2800. ...to supply the whole earth
  2801. with solar energy.
  2802.  
  2803. 621
  2804. 00:49:24,220 --> 00:49:25,720
  2805. The sun is that strong.
  2806.  
  2807. 622
  2808. 00:49:26,350 --> 00:49:30,060
  2809. Instead, we burn oil
  2810. and heat up our planet.
  2811.  
  2812. 623
  2813. 00:49:33,180 --> 00:49:36,470
  2814. Are you sure?
  2815. - Yes, it's all been calculated.
  2816.  
  2817. 624
  2818. 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,850
  2819. And the map is always with you?
  2820.  
  2821. 625
  2822. 00:49:42,350 --> 00:49:47,390
  2823. It reminds me of what we could do, if
  2824. we'd just organize ourselves. Cooperate.
  2825.  
  2826. 626
  2827. 00:49:48,930 --> 00:49:52,060
  2828. Which we don't.
  2829. - Not yet.
  2830.  
  2831. 627
  2832. 00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:01,600
  2833. Are you nervous about
  2834. meeting your father?
  2835.  
  2836. 628
  2837. 00:50:02,180 --> 00:50:03,640
  2838. No, not at all.
  2839.  
  2840. 629
  2841. 00:50:04,180 --> 00:50:05,810
  2842. I'm looking forward to it.
  2843.  
  2844. 630
  2845. 00:50:07,720 --> 00:50:09,970
  2846. Want to hear the rest of the story?
  2847.  
  2848. 631
  2849. 00:50:10,180 --> 00:50:12,140
  2850. How I found out?
  2851.  
  2852. 632
  2853. 00:50:12,470 --> 00:50:13,720
  2854. Yes, I'd love to.
  2855.  
  2856. 633
  2857. 00:50:18,810 --> 00:50:22,140
  2858. Well, my father...
  2859. He...
  2860.  
  2861. 634
  2862. 00:50:22,430 --> 00:50:25,140
  2863. ...never really knew
  2864. what to do with me.
  2865.  
  2866. 635
  2867. 00:50:25,270 --> 00:50:29,640
  2868. He never even hid his dislike.
  2869. I always asked myself why...
  2870.  
  2871. 636
  2872. 00:50:30,430 --> 00:50:33,140
  2873. ...why he didn't like me, but...
  2874. Well...
  2875.  
  2876. 637
  2877. 00:50:34,470 --> 00:50:39,430
  2878. Then one summer day, we had this family
  2879. celebration at my grandmother's.
  2880.  
  2881. 638
  2882. 00:50:39,470 --> 00:50:41,350
  2883. I was 17.
  2884.  
  2885. 639
  2886. 00:50:41,970 --> 00:50:45,680
  2887. Everyone was there:
  2888. my older brother with his two kids...
  2889.  
  2890. 640
  2891. 00:50:45,720 --> 00:50:47,430
  2892. I have an older brother.
  2893.  
  2894. 641
  2895. 00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:49,470
  2896. His wife...
  2897.  
  2898. 642
  2899. 00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,810
  2900. Grandparents, uncles and aunties...
  2901.  
  2902. 643
  2903. 00:50:51,890 --> 00:50:53,520
  2904. The whole shebang.
  2905.  
  2906. 644
  2907. 00:50:54,180 --> 00:50:56,270
  2908. So I'm sitting there...
  2909.  
  2910. 645
  2911. 00:50:56,970 --> 00:51:00,810
  2912. ...looking around. Everyone's
  2913. enjoying themselves, having fun.
  2914.  
  2915. 646
  2916. 00:51:03,140 --> 00:51:06,810
  2917. Suddenly I realize something's missing.
  2918. Something's wrong.
  2919.  
  2920. 647
  2921. 00:51:06,970 --> 00:51:10,270
  2922. Like a part of me's missing,
  2923. something in me is empty, you know?
  2924.  
  2925. 648
  2926. 00:51:10,430 --> 00:51:13,430
  2927. Inside of me it was getting
  2928. darker and darker.
  2929.  
  2930. 649
  2931. 00:51:14,350 --> 00:51:16,810
  2932. So I'm looking at my father's relatives...
  2933.  
  2934. 650
  2935. 00:51:17,430 --> 00:51:19,060
  2936. And suddenly...
  2937.  
  2938. 651
  2939. 00:51:19,180 --> 00:51:21,350
  2940. All of a sudden, it clicks.
  2941.  
  2942. 652
  2943. 00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:25,270
  2944. I realize what my problem is,
  2945. I get up, approach my mother and say:
  2946.  
  2947. 653
  2948. 00:51:25,430 --> 00:51:27,720
  2949. "He's not my father, right?"
  2950.  
  2951. 654
  2952. 00:51:29,350 --> 00:51:30,470
  2953. In front of everyone?
  2954.  
  2955. 655
  2956. 00:51:31,350 --> 00:51:32,810
  2957. In front of everyone.
  2958.  
  2959. 656
  2960. 00:51:33,720 --> 00:51:36,520
  2961. And your mother?
  2962. How did she react?
  2963.  
  2964. 657
  2965. 00:51:36,970 --> 00:51:40,350
  2966. She said nothing at all.
  2967. Which was the answer, of course.
  2968.  
  2969. 658
  2970. 00:51:41,770 --> 00:51:46,430
  2971. Thus it was clear why he had
  2972. treated me like shit for 17 years.
  2973.  
  2974. 659
  2975. 00:51:50,850 --> 00:51:54,850
  2976. Is it my fault that my mother had
  2977. good taste for once in her life...
  2978.  
  2979. 660
  2980. 00:51:55,140 --> 00:51:57,430
  2981. by falling for a Spanish boatbuilder.
  2982.  
  2983. 661
  2984. 00:51:58,470 --> 00:52:00,430
  2985. A Spanish boatbuilder?
  2986.  
  2987. 662
  2988. 00:52:01,720 --> 00:52:04,680
  2989. 1993, on vacation.
  2990. A one-night stand.
  2991.  
  2992. 663
  2993. 00:52:05,140 --> 00:52:07,520
  2994. My stepfather wanted her to
  2995. abort, but she refused.
  2996.  
  2997. 664
  2998. 00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:11,140
  2999. And so one fine day
  3000. I saw the light of the world.
  3001.  
  3002. 665
  3003. 00:52:49,810 --> 00:52:51,680
  3004. No?
  3005. - No, one more time.
  3006.  
  3007. 666
  3008. 00:52:51,810 --> 00:52:53,720
  3009. Yes, okay...
  3010.  
  3011. 667
  3012. 00:52:53,850 --> 00:52:55,430
  3013. Get back, it should be fine now.
  3014.  
  3015. 668
  3016. 00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:57,020
  3017. Really?
  3018. - Yes.
  3019.  
  3020. 669
  3021. 00:52:57,720 --> 00:52:58,720
  3022. Got it?
  3023.  
  3024. 670
  3025. 00:53:00,850 --> 00:53:02,520
  3026. Wow.
  3027. Alright?
  3028.  
  3029. 671
  3030. 00:53:03,430 --> 00:53:04,850
  3031. Really cool.
  3032.  
  3033. 672
  3034. 00:53:09,270 --> 00:53:10,470
  3035. Jan?
  3036.  
  3037. 673
  3038. 00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:12,470
  3039. Are you still awake?
  3040.  
  3041. 674
  3042. 00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:13,810
  3043. Yes.
  3044.  
  3045. 675
  3046. 00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,140
  3047. I'm really happy you're with me.
  3048.  
  3049. 676
  3050. 00:53:20,350 --> 00:53:22,720
  3051. I'd have gone crazy on my own.
  3052.  
  3053. 677
  3054. 00:53:23,770 --> 00:53:25,430
  3055. And gotten the flu.
  3056.  
  3057. 678
  3058. 00:53:26,220 --> 00:53:27,430
  3059. The flu?
  3060.  
  3061. 679
  3062. 00:53:28,180 --> 00:53:30,390
  3063. Yeah, being alone,
  3064. cortisol and all:
  3065.  
  3066. 680
  3067. 00:53:30,470 --> 00:53:32,560
  3068. Doesn't that weaken the immune system?
  3069.  
  3070. 681
  3071. 00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,430
  3072. That's true.
  3073.  
  3074. 682
  3075. 00:53:39,350 --> 00:53:43,180
  3076. One gentle touch kills thousands
  3077. of stress hormones, by the way.
  3078.  
  3079. 683
  3080. 00:53:43,350 --> 00:53:44,720
  3081. Really?
  3082.  
  3083. 684
  3084. 00:53:46,850 --> 00:53:49,680
  3085. I have to remember that.
  3086. - Do that.
  3087.  
  3088. 685
  3089. 00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:54,810
  3090. Good night.
  3091.  
  3092. 686
  3093. 00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,180
  3094. Good night.
  3095.  
  3096. 687
  3097. 00:54:30,430 --> 00:54:32,720
  3098. Look, we're almost in France!
  3099.  
  3100. 688
  3101. 00:54:33,850 --> 00:54:35,430
  3102. Bye bye, Belgium!
  3103.  
  3104. 689
  3105. 00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:37,810
  3106. Hello, France!
  3107.  
  3108. 690
  3109. 00:54:43,430 --> 00:54:45,640
  3110. Looks different right away, right?
  3111.  
  3112. 691
  3113. 00:54:45,720 --> 00:54:48,350
  3114. Yeah, and much less traffic, right?
  3115.  
  3116. 692
  3117. 00:55:19,850 --> 00:55:21,350
  3118. Alex?
  3119.  
  3120. 693
  3121. 00:55:21,850 --> 00:55:24,140
  3122. Hi, yes, it's me.
  3123.  
  3124. 694
  3125. 00:55:25,430 --> 00:55:26,970
  3126. I have to tell you something.
  3127.  
  3128. 695
  3129. 00:55:36,850 --> 00:55:41,850
  3130. I did want to tell you face to face,
  3131. but I couldn't stand it any longer, sorry.
  3132.  
  3133. 696
  3134. 00:55:44,180 --> 00:55:45,810
  3135. I have to go now.
  3136.  
  3137. 697
  3138. 00:55:47,430 --> 00:55:51,140
  3139. I'll call back, OK?
  3140. Bye.
  3141.  
  3142. 698
  3143. 00:56:05,850 --> 00:56:07,430
  3144. Are you OK?
  3145.  
  3146. 699
  3147. 00:56:08,180 --> 00:56:09,520
  3148. So-so.
  3149.  
  3150. 700
  3151. 00:56:10,720 --> 00:56:12,350
  3152. Can I help you?
  3153.  
  3154. 701
  3155. 00:56:12,430 --> 00:56:14,140
  3156. No, not really.
  3157.  
  3158. 702
  3159. 00:56:14,850 --> 00:56:16,850
  3160. I just need a minute, OK?
  3161. - Sure.
  3162.  
  3163. 703
  3164. 00:56:17,140 --> 00:56:18,600
  3165. Then we'll move on.
  3166.  
  3167. 704
  3168. 00:56:18,720 --> 00:56:20,430
  3169. I'll be right back.
  3170.  
  3171. 705
  3172. 00:56:40,720 --> 00:56:42,720
  3173. You know what always helps against grief?
  3174.  
  3175. 706
  3176. 00:56:43,720 --> 00:56:45,140
  3177. No.
  3178.  
  3179. 707
  3180. 00:56:58,270 --> 00:56:59,850
  3181. I love those!
  3182.  
  3183. 708
  3184. 00:57:10,810 --> 00:57:12,640
  3185. So?
  3186. ls It helping?
  3187.  
  3188. 709
  3189. 00:57:13,890 --> 00:57:16,430
  3190. Yeah, much better already.
  3191.  
  3192. 710
  3193. 00:57:19,350 --> 00:57:21,180
  3194. My grandma always made these.
  3195.  
  3196. 711
  3197. 00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:31,720
  3198. What was that?
  3199.  
  3200. 712
  3201. 00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:36,140
  3202. A gentle touch.
  3203. Kills stress hormones.
  3204.  
  3205. 713
  3206. 00:57:37,350 --> 00:57:38,640
  3207. Yeah, right.
  3208.  
  3209. 714
  3210. 00:57:43,350 --> 00:57:44,430
  3211. Thank you.
  3212.  
  3213. 715
  3214. 00:57:47,310 --> 00:57:48,680
  3215. Shall we?
  3216.  
  3217. 716
  3218. 00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:09,180
  3219. So, do you have a girlfriend?
  3220. - No, not right now.
  3221.  
  3222. 717
  3223. 00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:12,180
  3224. My last relationship
  3225. ended three months ago.
  3226.  
  3227. 718
  3228. 00:58:12,350 --> 00:58:13,810
  3229. How did it end?
  3230.  
  3231. 719
  3232. 00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:17,180
  3233. Well, we'd "grown apart."
  3234.  
  3235. 720
  3236. 00:58:17,850 --> 00:58:19,430
  3237. How long were you together?
  3238.  
  3239. 721
  3240. 00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:20,850
  3241. Six months.
  3242.  
  3243. 722
  3244. 00:58:21,470 --> 00:58:23,850
  3245. Then you "grew apart" rather quickly...
  3246.  
  3247. 723
  3248. 00:58:26,970 --> 00:58:30,640
  3249. It was the problem I always have.
  3250. I loved her more than she loved me.
  3251.  
  3252. 724
  3253. 00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:34,140
  3254. Actually, I think she
  3255. didn't love me at all.
  3256.  
  3257. 725
  3258. 00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:35,890
  3259. From the beginning?
  3260.  
  3261. 726
  3262. 00:58:36,180 --> 00:58:37,680
  3263. I think so.
  3264.  
  3265. 727
  3266. 00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:40,680
  3267. Then why were you with her?
  3268.  
  3269. 728
  3270. 00:58:42,140 --> 00:58:46,270
  3271. I don't really know myself.
  3272. It happens to me again and again.
  3273.  
  3274. 729
  3275. 00:58:47,430 --> 00:58:49,970
  3276. I fall for women who don't fall for me.
  3277.  
  3278. 730
  3279. 00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:53,850
  3280. I feel at home in rejection,
  3281. as I wasn't loved enough as a child.
  3282.  
  3283. 731
  3284. 00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:56,720
  3285. You don't sound convinced.
  3286.  
  3287. 732
  3288. 00:58:57,180 --> 00:58:59,680
  3289. Ahh, I don't know.
  3290.  
  3291. 733
  3292. 00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:03,390
  3293. I mean yeah, my stepdad treated me like
  3294. shit, but that's way too simple.
  3295.  
  3296. 734
  3297. 00:59:03,970 --> 00:59:06,179
  3298. <<You have to love yourself
  3299. to be able to love others.>>
  3300.  
  3301. 735
  3302. 00:59:06,180 --> 00:59:08,179
  3303. <<Loving is easy, being
  3304. loved is difficult>>
  3305.  
  3306. 736
  3307. 00:59:08,180 --> 00:59:10,429
  3308. Just because it's simple,
  3309. it doesn't have to be less true.
  3310.  
  3311. 737
  3312. 00:59:10,430 --> 00:59:12,679
  3313. I think there's something to it.
  3314.  
  3315. 738
  3316. 00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:16,600
  3317. Oh come on, I'll buy you a <<Brigitte>>, it's all in there, too.
  3318. - So what?
  3319.  
  3320. 739
  3321. 00:59:17,470 --> 00:59:21,520
  3322. What, so what? Who on earth loves himself?
  3323. Only idiots love themselves.
  3324.  
  3325. 740
  3326. 00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:22,470
  3327. What?
  3328.  
  3329. 741
  3330. 00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:25,139
  3331. Do you know someone who loves himself?
  3332. I don't.
  3333.  
  3334. 742
  3335. 00:59:25,140 --> 00:59:27,720
  3336. At least nobody with more
  3337. than five brain cells.
  3338.  
  3339. 743
  3340. 00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:31,850
  3341. Or do you love yourself?
  3342.  
  3343. 744
  3344. 00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:46,810
  3345. I wasn't just at the bakery, by the way.
  3346. - Champagne?
  3347.  
  3348. 745
  3349. 00:59:46,970 --> 00:59:50,060
  3350. Now that we're in the Champagne...
  3351.  
  3352. 746
  3353. 00:59:51,350 --> 00:59:54,850
  3354. After this bottle, <i>I'll</i> love myself.
  3355. And all the women who love me.
  3356.  
  3357. 747
  3358. 00:59:56,810 --> 00:59:58,430
  3359. One can't discuss with you today.
  3360.  
  3361. 748
  3362. 00:59:59,140 --> 01:00:01,140
  3363. Sorry, difficult subject for me.
  3364.  
  3365. 749
  3366. 01:00:08,970 --> 01:00:11,350
  3367. Know what my real problem is?
  3368.  
  3369. 750
  3370. 01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:15,720
  3371. That I can't choose who
  3372. I fall in love with.
  3373.  
  3374. 751
  3375. 01:00:16,180 --> 01:00:18,020
  3376. Oh, right.
  3377. - Yeah.
  3378.  
  3379. 752
  3380. 01:00:18,470 --> 01:00:21,600
  3381. I keep falling in love with women
  3382. who aren't right for me.
  3383.  
  3384. 753
  3385. 01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:24,520
  3386. You know whose fault that is?
  3387.  
  3388. 754
  3389. 01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:26,970
  3390. The MHC sector of my DNA.
  3391.  
  3392. 755
  3393. 01:00:27,180 --> 01:00:30,560
  3394. MHC is the part that
  3395. codes the immune system.
  3396.  
  3397. 756
  3398. 01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:32,140
  3399. Correct.
  3400.  
  3401. 757
  3402. 01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:36,770
  3403. It's your field,
  3404. but I did extensive research.
  3405.  
  3406. 758
  3407. 01:00:36,890 --> 01:00:40,600
  3408. The MHC sees to it
  3409. that you like the smell of people...
  3410.  
  3411. 759
  3412. 01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:43,810
  3413. ...who have an immune system
  3414. differing strongly from your own.
  3415.  
  3416. 760
  3417. 01:00:43,970 --> 01:00:47,470
  3418. Women can smell a
  3419. difference of a single gene!
  3420.  
  3421. 761
  3422. 01:00:47,810 --> 01:00:49,180
  3423. What?
  3424.  
  3425. 762
  3426. 01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:53,270
  3427. Take two men.
  3428.  
  3429. 763
  3430. 01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:59,350
  3431. One man's immune system differs from yours
  3432. by one gene more than the other's.
  3433.  
  3434. 764
  3435. 01:00:59,850 --> 01:01:02,060
  3436. You'll find his smell better.
  3437.  
  3438. 765
  3439. 01:01:02,140 --> 01:01:04,890
  3440. You can't help it, it
  3441. happens subconsciously.
  3442.  
  3443. 766
  3444. 01:01:06,890 --> 01:01:09,020
  3445. The biological reason is...
  3446.  
  3447. 767
  3448. 01:01:09,140 --> 01:01:13,720
  3449. ...if you have children with someone
  3450. whose immune system is complementary...
  3451.  
  3452. 768
  3453. 01:01:14,180 --> 01:01:19,060
  3454. ...the kids will be twice as resistant
  3455. to viruses, bacteria, etc.
  3456.  
  3457. 769
  3458. 01:01:19,180 --> 01:01:21,640
  3459. Evolutionary genius.
  3460.  
  3461. 770
  3462. 01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:28,180
  3463. That was hugely advantageous in the past
  3464. when people died like flies from infections.
  3465.  
  3466. 771
  3467. 01:01:29,140 --> 01:01:30,890
  3468. In the past, yes.
  3469.  
  3470. 772
  3471. 01:01:31,020 --> 01:01:35,890
  3472. But we no longer run around the forest in
  3473. loincloths, looking for the best-smelling DNA.
  3474.  
  3475. 773
  3476. 01:01:36,100 --> 01:01:38,100
  3477. Well, I do sometimes...
  3478.  
  3479. 774
  3480. 01:01:43,180 --> 01:01:46,719
  3481. And in terms of choosing our partners,
  3482. we're still cavemen.
  3483.  
  3484. 775
  3485. 01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:50,270
  3486. You know what pheromones are?
  3487. - Yes, scentless transmitting agents.
  3488.  
  3489. 776
  3490. 01:01:50,470 --> 01:01:55,719
  3491. Right. And most of them are located here
  3492. in the little groove above the upper lip.
  3493.  
  3494. 777
  3495. 01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,270
  3496. That's why we kiss before we mate.
  3497.  
  3498. 778
  3499. 01:01:58,470 --> 01:02:00,640
  3500. And tilt our heads sideways.
  3501.  
  3502. 779
  3503. 01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:03,060
  3504. To smell the pheromones.
  3505. - How romantic!
  3506.  
  3507. 780
  3508. 01:02:04,390 --> 01:02:07,180
  3509. Kissing is a gene check.
  3510. Nothing else.
  3511.  
  3512. 781
  3513. 01:02:08,140 --> 01:02:11,970
  3514. Thanks, now I'll always think of
  3515. "gene check" when I kiss, great.
  3516.  
  3517. 782
  3518. 01:02:16,020 --> 01:02:19,520
  3519. With the first kiss, you already know
  3520. if the sex will be good or not.
  3521.  
  3522. 783
  3523. 01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:21,100
  3524. True.
  3525.  
  3526. 784
  3527. 01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:26,770
  3528. And the craziest thing is: When two people
  3529. have sex who like each other's smell...
  3530.  
  3531. 785
  3532. 01:02:26,970 --> 01:02:30,680
  3533. ...the chance that the woman gets
  3534. pregnant is three times as high.
  3535.  
  3536. 786
  3537. 01:02:31,890 --> 01:02:36,720
  3538. They found that out with that
  3539. T-shirt smell test. Ever heard of it?
  3540.  
  3541. 787
  3542. 01:02:36,890 --> 01:02:37,970
  3543. No.
  3544.  
  3545. 788
  3546. 01:02:39,470 --> 01:02:43,060
  3547. Ten women and ten men
  3548. wore a T-shirt for a week...
  3549.  
  3550. 789
  3551. 01:02:43,180 --> 01:02:46,060
  3552. ...then had to select
  3553. the best-smelling one.
  3554.  
  3555. 790
  3556. 01:02:46,180 --> 01:02:49,430
  3557. With those who found
  3558. each other's smell appealing...
  3559.  
  3560. 791
  3561. 01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:53,060
  3562. ...the woman was three times
  3563. more likely to get pregnant.
  3564.  
  3565. 792
  3566. 01:02:54,100 --> 01:02:56,180
  3567. Eww, how did they test that?
  3568.  
  3569. 793
  3570. 01:02:57,600 --> 01:02:59,640
  3571. I have no clue.
  3572.  
  3573. 794
  3574. 01:03:00,350 --> 01:03:03,310
  3575. But it doesn't work
  3576. if the woman takes the pill.
  3577.  
  3578. 795
  3579. 01:03:03,350 --> 01:03:06,970
  3580. Because then she prefers men
  3581. with a similar immune system.
  3582.  
  3583. 796
  3584. 01:03:07,140 --> 01:03:10,100
  3585. As a result, A: she won't
  3586. get pregnant as quickly...
  3587.  
  3588. 797
  3589. 01:03:10,180 --> 01:03:12,720
  3590. ...and B: the kids will
  3591. be at the doctor all the time.
  3592.  
  3593. 798
  3594. 01:03:13,020 --> 01:03:17,890
  3595. So: Get off the pill six months before
  3596. marriage or your offspring is screwed.
  3597.  
  3598. 799
  3599. 01:03:18,100 --> 01:03:19,720
  3600. Sure thing.
  3601.  
  3602. 800
  3603. 01:03:21,350 --> 01:03:23,350
  3604. It actually happened to me.
  3605.  
  3606. 801
  3607. 01:03:23,470 --> 01:03:27,890
  3608. I dated a girl who stopped taking the pill
  3609. six months into our affair.
  3610.  
  3611. 802
  3612. 01:03:28,020 --> 01:03:30,060
  3613. Suddenly, we couldn't stop fighting!
  3614.  
  3615. 803
  3616. 01:03:30,180 --> 01:03:34,770
  3617. Because of the pill, so many couples
  3618. come together who don't match at all!
  3619.  
  3620. 804
  3621. 01:03:35,350 --> 01:03:39,060
  3622. Hey, we're close to Verdun.
  3623. Let's have an ice cream there.
  3624.  
  3625. 805
  3626. 01:03:39,220 --> 01:03:41,640
  3627. Good idea.
  3628. I want one too.
  3629.  
  3630. 806
  3631. 01:04:56,020 --> 01:04:59,970
  3632. Jan, about what you said earlier.
  3633. The pheromones and all.
  3634.  
  3635. 807
  3636. 01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,770
  3637. When someone blames
  3638. his relationship problems on biology,
  3639.  
  3640. 808
  3641. 01:05:04,970 --> 01:05:07,220
  3642. it triggers my internal alarm, because...
  3643.  
  3644. 809
  3645. 01:05:07,430 --> 01:05:09,180
  3646. Because it's the truth?
  3647.  
  3648. 810
  3649. 01:05:10,060 --> 01:05:14,720
  3650. No, kidding aside. What you're referring
  3651. to is merely sexual attraction.
  3652.  
  3653. 811
  3654. 01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:20,140
  3655. When two people sniff each other,
  3656. get horny and fuck, is that love?
  3657.  
  3658. 812
  3659. 01:05:20,390 --> 01:05:21,970
  3660. We're not animals.
  3661.  
  3662. 813
  3663. 01:05:22,060 --> 01:05:23,810
  3664. Sure, mammals.
  3665.  
  3666. 814
  3667. 01:05:23,970 --> 01:05:28,310
  3668. Nonsense! OK, I need to find a man hot
  3669. before starting a relationship with him.
  3670.  
  3671. 815
  3672. 01:05:28,430 --> 01:05:32,180
  3673. But that's just the first stage.
  3674. It's a great stage, yes.
  3675.  
  3676. 816
  3677. 01:05:32,310 --> 01:05:37,310
  3678. It's exciting, your knees go weak, you get
  3679. goosebumps and have physical reactions.
  3680.  
  3681. 817
  3682. 01:05:37,430 --> 01:05:41,100
  3683. But the truth is...
  3684. It's also the least interesting stage.
  3685.  
  3686. 818
  3687. 01:05:41,770 --> 01:05:47,810
  3688. I don't find it so uninteresting.
  3689. - But it's just unconscious, primal instincts!
  3690.  
  3691. 819
  3692. 01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:51,180
  3693. I mean, I've heard all those theories...
  3694.  
  3695. 820
  3696. 01:05:51,810 --> 01:05:56,600
  3697. ...how women look for macho,
  3698. testosterone-laden men while ovulating...
  3699.  
  3700. 821
  3701. 01:05:56,810 --> 01:05:59,060
  3702. Like me?
  3703. - Exactly.
  3704.  
  3705. 822
  3706. 01:06:00,060 --> 01:06:04,390
  3707. The rest of the time, they prefer caring
  3708. types who look like their relatives.
  3709.  
  3710. 823
  3711. 01:06:04,470 --> 01:06:08,600
  3712. Hang on: So statistically speaking,
  3713. the caring type has an advantage?
  3714.  
  3715. 824
  3716. 01:06:09,220 --> 01:06:12,640
  3717. Well, now everything's clear, Jule.
  3718. - Jan, stop it!
  3719.  
  3720. 825
  3721. 01:06:13,140 --> 01:06:19,810
  3722. It's funny and I know those theories,
  3723. but they have no significance for your life.
  3724.  
  3725. 826
  3726. 01:06:19,970 --> 01:06:21,350
  3727. Why not?
  3728.  
  3729. 827
  3730. 01:06:22,220 --> 01:06:25,890
  3731. Because no woman
  3732. let's her ovaries choose the man.
  3733.  
  3734. 828
  3735. 01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:28,850
  3736. That's crystal clear.
  3737. - Is it?
  3738.  
  3739. 829
  3740. 01:06:29,060 --> 01:06:34,020
  3741. Yes. Maybe for one night,
  3742. but not for my whole life!
  3743.  
  3744. 830
  3745. 01:06:34,470 --> 01:06:36,470
  3746. What am I gonna do with a
  3747. hunk who's good in bed...
  3748.  
  3749. 831
  3750. 01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:38,350
  3751. ...but we have nothing
  3752. to say to each other?
  3753.  
  3754. 832
  3755. 01:06:38,470 --> 01:06:39,970
  3756. That's ridiculous.
  3757.  
  3758. 833
  3759. 01:06:40,810 --> 01:06:44,390
  3760. OK, for you guys it's different...
  3761. - What do you mean?
  3762.  
  3763. 834
  3764. 01:06:44,470 --> 01:06:49,770
  3765. Penis brain? Blood down there, nothing up here?
  3766. - Oh god, here we go.
  3767.  
  3768. 835
  3769. 01:06:51,430 --> 01:06:53,060
  3770. Let's stick to the topic of love.
  3771.  
  3772. 836
  3773. 01:06:54,310 --> 01:06:57,180
  3774. After I've found someone
  3775. who's sexually attractive...
  3776.  
  3777. 837
  3778. 01:06:57,310 --> 01:06:59,270
  3779. ...that's when it gets
  3780. interesting, doesn't it?
  3781.  
  3782. 838
  3783. 01:06:59,390 --> 01:07:03,060
  3784. That's when the word love
  3785. becomes really relevant:
  3786.  
  3787. 839
  3788. 01:07:03,140 --> 01:07:05,060
  3789. When you start to tune in.
  3790.  
  3791. 840
  3792. 01:07:05,270 --> 01:07:08,770
  3793. I mean, we don't fall in love down here.
  3794.  
  3795. 841
  3796. 01:07:08,890 --> 01:07:11,270
  3797. But here.
  3798. And here.
  3799.  
  3800. 842
  3801. 01:07:12,220 --> 01:07:15,270
  3802. So yes, maybe I can't
  3803. decide who I find hot...
  3804.  
  3805. 843
  3806. 01:07:15,810 --> 01:07:18,270
  3807. ...but I can decide who
  3808. I fall in love with.
  3809.  
  3810. 844
  3811. 01:07:22,390 --> 01:07:24,060
  3812. And that's your problem.
  3813.  
  3814. 845
  3815. 01:07:24,270 --> 01:07:28,310
  3816. Or the solution to your problem.
  3817. You have to take it step by step.
  3818.  
  3819. 846
  3820. 01:07:28,430 --> 01:07:30,060
  3821. Step by step?
  3822.  
  3823. 847
  3824. 01:07:30,140 --> 01:07:34,140
  3825. Step one: find a woman you find hot.
  3826. Step two:
  3827.  
  3828. 848
  3829. 01:07:34,270 --> 01:07:37,890
  3830. Find out if you're on the same wavelength.
  3831. If not, go back to step one.
  3832.  
  3833. 849
  3834. 01:07:38,060 --> 01:07:39,890
  3835. Not so difficult.
  3836.  
  3837. 850
  3838. 01:07:40,970 --> 01:07:45,059
  3839. There's also a step three, but we'll
  3840. discuss that in the advanced course.
  3841.  
  3842. 851
  3843. 01:07:45,060 --> 01:07:48,600
  3844. Let's take our time.
  3845. - Yeah, you're still a beginner.
  3846.  
  3847. 852
  3848. 01:07:48,810 --> 01:07:51,270
  3849. But I'm looking forward to it.
  3850.  
  3851. 853
  3852. 01:07:55,140 --> 01:07:58,470
  3853. I can't believe how many guys
  3854. never reach step two.
  3855.  
  3856. 854
  3857. 01:08:00,890 --> 01:08:03,310
  3858. Oh, Jule, I'm not so sure...
  3859.  
  3860. 855
  3861. 01:08:05,060 --> 01:08:08,140
  3862. We're discussing men-women
  3863. relationships, right?
  3864.  
  3865. 856
  3866. 01:08:08,310 --> 01:08:11,770
  3867. And sex is an essential part of that.
  3868.  
  3869. 857
  3870. 01:08:11,970 --> 01:08:15,770
  3871. Originally, the man-woman thing
  3872. was about having kids.
  3873.  
  3874. 858
  3875. 01:08:15,890 --> 01:08:17,390
  3876. OK, true.
  3877.  
  3878. 859
  3879. 01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:19,350
  3880. And now to my theory.
  3881.  
  3882. 860
  3883. 01:08:20,220 --> 01:08:21,810
  3884. I'm listening.
  3885.  
  3886. 861
  3887. 01:08:22,270 --> 01:08:24,470
  3888. Sex <i>/</i> needs <i>/</i> contrast.
  3889.  
  3890. 862
  3891. 01:08:24,770 --> 01:08:25,770
  3892. Contrast?
  3893.  
  3894. 863
  3895. 01:08:26,430 --> 01:08:28,810
  3896. Man/woman, plus/minus, hard/soft.
  3897.  
  3898. 864
  3899. 01:08:28,970 --> 01:08:32,100
  3900. Oh, Jan, please...
  3901. - What? Let me finish.
  3902.  
  3903. 865
  3904. 01:08:32,220 --> 01:08:35,470
  3905. Friction creates heat.
  3906. Sex.
  3907.  
  3908. 866
  3909. 01:08:36,220 --> 01:08:40,770
  3910. This thing about the differing immune
  3911. systems is applicable on a higher level.
  3912.  
  3913. 867
  3914. 01:08:40,810 --> 01:08:43,470
  3915. The hot-blooded Italian
  3916. likes the blonde Swede.
  3917.  
  3918. 868
  3919. 01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:47,140
  3920. Exotic is sexy,
  3921. because it expands the gene pool.
  3922.  
  3923. 869
  3924. 01:08:48,350 --> 01:08:51,810
  3925. Difference and disharmony
  3926. is what creates passion.
  3927.  
  3928. 870
  3929. 01:08:51,970 --> 01:08:54,810
  3930. After a fight
  3931. you have the best sex!
  3932.  
  3933. 871
  3934. 01:08:55,060 --> 01:08:57,220
  3935. Passion needs contrast.
  3936.  
  3937. 872
  3938. 01:08:58,390 --> 01:09:01,430
  3939. OK, it can help.
  3940. - Fine.
  3941.  
  3942. 873
  3943. 01:09:01,810 --> 01:09:03,890
  3944. But now to my actual point.
  3945.  
  3946. 874
  3947. 01:09:05,810 --> 01:09:09,140
  3948. Long-term relationships and partnerships,
  3949. however...
  3950.  
  3951. 875
  3952. 01:09:09,470 --> 01:09:12,770
  3953. I agree with you there,
  3954. they need harmony.
  3955.  
  3956. 876
  3957. 01:09:12,890 --> 01:09:15,970
  3958. Your partner should be a real partner.
  3959.  
  3960. 877
  3961. 01:09:16,060 --> 01:09:21,390
  3962. If one loves meat and the other is
  3963. vegetarian, there'll be trouble...
  3964.  
  3965. 878
  3966. 01:09:21,470 --> 01:09:24,720
  3967. Or one is orderly and the other chaotic.
  3968. - Exactly.
  3969.  
  3970. 879
  3971. 01:09:24,890 --> 01:09:27,059
  3972. That ends with "We're not
  3973. right for each other."
  3974.  
  3975. 880
  3976. 01:09:27,060 --> 01:09:29,060
  3977. Break-up reason number one.
  3978. - Exactly.
  3979.  
  3980. 881
  3981. 01:09:29,220 --> 01:09:30,890
  3982. So my question is:
  3983.  
  3984. 882
  3985. 01:09:31,060 --> 01:09:34,470
  3986. Why do so many people get together
  3987. who aren't right for each other?
  3988.  
  3989. 883
  3990. 01:09:35,060 --> 01:09:38,060
  3991. For different reasons...
  3992. - Because they have great sex!
  3993.  
  3994. 884
  3995. 01:09:38,220 --> 01:09:42,310
  3996. And there you go, the reason for
  3997. all relationship misery on this planet.
  3998.  
  3999. 885
  4000. 01:09:42,430 --> 01:09:44,890
  4001. There's a fundamental
  4002. contradiction between...
  4003.  
  4004. 886
  4005. 01:09:45,060 --> 01:09:48,020
  4006. ...sexual attraction and
  4007. successful partnership.
  4008.  
  4009. 887
  4010. 01:09:48,100 --> 01:09:51,810
  4011. Men and woman are simply incompatible
  4012. in the long term.
  4013.  
  4014. 888
  4015. 01:09:52,100 --> 01:09:54,680
  4016. Sure, long-term relationships
  4017. are culturally...
  4018.  
  4019. 889
  4020. 01:09:54,810 --> 01:09:57,390
  4021. ...desirable because they
  4022. bring social stability.
  4023.  
  4024. 890
  4025. 01:09:57,470 --> 01:10:00,770
  4026. But from a biological standpoint,
  4027. they're impossible.
  4028.  
  4029. 891
  4030. 01:10:01,270 --> 01:10:05,060
  4031. Monogamy is culturally
  4032. programmed unhappiness.
  4033.  
  4034. 892
  4035. 01:10:05,270 --> 01:10:06,890
  4036. Quod erat demonstrandum.
  4037.  
  4038. 893
  4039. 01:10:08,970 --> 01:10:12,390
  4040. How long was your longest relationship again?
  4041. - Nine months.
  4042.  
  4043. 894
  4044. 01:10:12,970 --> 01:10:15,060
  4045. Seriously?
  4046. You're kidding, right?
  4047.  
  4048. 895
  4049. 01:10:29,060 --> 01:10:31,770
  4050. Shall we drive on?
  4051. I need to move a bit after this.
  4052.  
  4053. 896
  4054. 01:10:31,890 --> 01:10:33,220
  4055. Sure.
  4056. I'm...
  4057.  
  4058. 897
  4059. 01:10:33,810 --> 01:10:35,140
  4060. ...ready.
  4061.  
  4062. 898
  4063. 01:10:37,810 --> 01:10:39,350
  4064. Nine months!
  4065.  
  4066. 899
  4067. 01:10:47,470 --> 01:10:48,970
  4068. Let me get this.
  4069.  
  4070. 900
  4071. 01:10:49,060 --> 01:10:50,270
  4072. Alex?
  4073.  
  4074. 901
  4075. 01:10:52,810 --> 01:10:54,060
  4076. What's up?
  4077.  
  4078. 902
  4079. 01:10:55,560 --> 01:10:58,060
  4080. What?
  4081. What's with your tone?
  4082.  
  4083. 903
  4084. 01:10:59,470 --> 01:11:01,220
  4085. Of course I'm asking...
  4086.  
  4087. 904
  4088. 01:11:01,810 --> 01:11:03,390
  4089. Calm down, will you?
  4090.  
  4091. 905
  4092. 01:11:04,060 --> 01:11:05,470
  4093. Calm down.
  4094.  
  4095. 906
  4096. 01:11:06,810 --> 01:11:10,430
  4097. What? It's my problem?
  4098. So for you, it's a "problem?"
  4099.  
  4100. 907
  4101. 01:11:31,470 --> 01:11:33,599
  4102. All done?
  4103. - Yeah, I think so.
  4104.  
  4105. 908
  4106. 01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:35,350
  4107. I'll go in and pay.
  4108.  
  4109. 909
  4110. 01:12:29,020 --> 01:12:30,390
  4111. Ready for departure?
  4112.  
  4113. 910
  4114. 01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:32,720
  4115. Yes...
  4116. Almost.
  4117.  
  4118. 911
  4119. 01:12:34,220 --> 01:12:36,020
  4120. Just your type, right?
  4121.  
  4122. 912
  4123. 01:12:36,600 --> 01:12:37,810
  4124. What?
  4125.  
  4126. 913
  4127. 01:12:37,970 --> 01:12:39,600
  4128. The bimbo over there.
  4129.  
  4130. 914
  4131. 01:12:39,720 --> 01:12:41,430
  4132. No way!
  4133.  
  4134. 915
  4135. 01:12:43,970 --> 01:12:46,020
  4136. Then why are you staring at her?
  4137.  
  4138. 916
  4139. 01:12:47,310 --> 01:12:49,890
  4140. Well, she's sexually
  4141. quite attractive.
  4142.  
  4143. 917
  4144. 01:12:50,060 --> 01:12:52,970
  4145. Then go check if you're
  4146. soul mates: step two.
  4147.  
  4148. 918
  4149. 01:12:55,310 --> 01:12:58,680
  4150. Ask her if she'll drive you.
  4151. She might want your genes.
  4152.  
  4153. 919
  4154. 01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:01,520
  4155. I would never get into a car like that.
  4156.  
  4157. 920
  4158. 01:13:03,220 --> 01:13:04,810
  4159. I prefer taking the bus.
  4160.  
  4161. 921
  4162. 01:13:05,310 --> 01:13:06,720
  4163. Good.
  4164.  
  4165. 922
  4166. 01:13:17,390 --> 01:13:20,310
  4167. Can I go or do you want more?
  4168.  
  4169. 923
  4170. 01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:22,430
  4171. Just a sec...
  4172.  
  4173. 924
  4174. 01:13:35,430 --> 01:13:37,060
  4175. Look, the Loire!
  4176.  
  4177. 925
  4178. 01:13:38,560 --> 01:13:40,470
  4179. Shall we have a picnic?
  4180.  
  4181. 926
  4182. 01:14:09,430 --> 01:14:11,600
  4183. Now the Captain's on board, too.
  4184.  
  4185. 927
  4186. 01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:13,430
  4187. Right on, little mermaid.
  4188.  
  4189. 928
  4190. 01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:16,310
  4191. What did you say, Captain Bluebeard?
  4192.  
  4193. 929
  4194. 01:14:19,220 --> 01:14:20,600
  4195. Look, land in sight!
  4196.  
  4197. 930
  4198. 01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:22,470
  4199. Captain, land in sight!
  4200.  
  4201. 931
  4202. 01:14:23,310 --> 01:14:25,720
  4203. After months of traveling...
  4204.  
  4205. 932
  4206. 01:14:26,430 --> 01:14:29,720
  4207. We hang in the ropes for a bit.
  4208. - Exactly.
  4209.  
  4210. 933
  4211. 01:14:44,770 --> 01:14:46,520
  4212. "Like God in France."
  4213.  
  4214. 934
  4215. 01:14:49,060 --> 01:14:51,390
  4216. Contrast in relationships
  4217. may create friction...
  4218.  
  4219. 935
  4220. 01:14:51,470 --> 01:14:53,680
  4221. ...and thus passion
  4222. and possibly great sex.
  4223.  
  4224. 936
  4225. 01:14:54,430 --> 01:14:57,770
  4226. But is that love?
  4227. What's that got to do with love?
  4228.  
  4229. 937
  4230. 01:14:58,390 --> 01:14:59,810
  4231. A lot.
  4232.  
  4233. 938
  4234. 01:15:00,560 --> 01:15:04,520
  4235. The problem with many people
  4236. is that they confuse passion for love.
  4237.  
  4238. 939
  4239. 01:15:04,600 --> 01:15:09,220
  4240. They think that if they suffer a lot,
  4241. they must be deeply in love.
  4242.  
  4243. 940
  4244. 01:15:09,310 --> 01:15:11,600
  4245. That's a huge problem, because...
  4246.  
  4247. 941
  4248. 01:15:12,430 --> 01:15:14,680
  4249. This 'amour fou' constant fighting...
  4250.  
  4251. 942
  4252. 01:15:14,970 --> 01:15:19,520
  4253. It works in movies, because it's entertaining
  4254. when the sparks fly. But in reality...
  4255.  
  4256. 943
  4257. 01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:23,020
  4258. ...it just causes aggravation,
  4259. misery...
  4260.  
  4261. 944
  4262. 01:15:23,140 --> 01:15:26,270
  4263. ...and pain,
  4264. and lasts for two years max.
  4265.  
  4266. 945
  4267. 01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:27,640
  4268. Or nine months.
  4269.  
  4270. 946
  4271. 01:15:28,560 --> 01:15:30,180
  4272. But...
  4273.  
  4274. 947
  4275. 01:15:30,270 --> 01:15:34,180
  4276. ...nine very steamy months.
  4277. The partnership's a bit bumpy, yes.
  4278.  
  4279. 948
  4280. 01:15:34,470 --> 01:15:36,220
  4281. But the sex: great.
  4282.  
  4283. 949
  4284. 01:15:36,350 --> 01:15:39,470
  4285. But good sex is also possible
  4286. between people who get along well.
  4287.  
  4288. 950
  4289. 01:15:40,520 --> 01:15:43,640
  4290. Having sex with someone
  4291. you really love is...
  4292.  
  4293. 951
  4294. 01:15:44,180 --> 01:15:46,680
  4295. It takes you to another dimension!
  4296.  
  4297. 952
  4298. 01:15:51,180 --> 01:15:54,560
  4299. Haven't you ever had that?
  4300. - Sure I have.
  4301.  
  4302. 953
  4303. 01:15:55,470 --> 01:15:56,470
  4304. See?
  4305.  
  4306. 954
  4307. 01:15:57,020 --> 01:15:59,560
  4308. There might be another
  4309. reason why you fall for...
  4310.  
  4311. 955
  4312. 01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:02,350
  4313. ...women who are so different.
  4314. Outside of biology.
  4315.  
  4316. 956
  4317. 01:16:05,770 --> 01:16:09,560
  4318. They don't understand you
  4319. because they're so different.
  4320.  
  4321. 957
  4322. 01:16:09,680 --> 01:16:12,470
  4323. And thus can't see inside of you.
  4324. - What?
  4325.  
  4326. 958
  4327. 01:16:12,770 --> 01:16:14,020
  4328. Well...
  4329.  
  4330. 959
  4331. 01:16:14,270 --> 01:16:18,270
  4332. Maybe you don't want anyone
  4333. to get really close to you.
  4334.  
  4335. 960
  4336. 01:16:18,560 --> 01:16:23,220
  4337. That's why you choose these bunnies who...
  4338. - Sorry, but that's bullshit.
  4339.  
  4340. 961
  4341. 01:16:23,350 --> 01:16:25,640
  4342. Why would I not want that?
  4343. It makes no sense.
  4344.  
  4345. 962
  4346. 01:16:26,560 --> 01:16:27,560
  4347. Well...
  4348.  
  4349. 963
  4350. 01:16:31,890 --> 01:16:35,350
  4351. Maybe you don't want people
  4352. to see who you really are.
  4353.  
  4354. 964
  4355. 01:16:35,430 --> 01:16:37,100
  4356. Because you're unhappy with that.
  4357. - What?
  4358.  
  4359. 965
  4360. 01:16:37,270 --> 01:16:38,520
  4361. It's possible!
  4362.  
  4363. 966
  4364. 01:16:38,970 --> 01:16:40,560
  4365. Stop it, Jule.
  4366.  
  4367. 967
  4368. 01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:46,560
  4369. That's just total bullshit. I don't
  4370. even wanna get further into this crap.
  4371.  
  4372. 968
  4373. 01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:49,180
  4374. It was just an idea.
  4375. - A shitty idea, yeah.
  4376.  
  4377. 969
  4378. 01:16:58,430 --> 01:17:01,180
  4379. Let's clear this up.
  4380.  
  4381. 970
  4382. 01:17:01,680 --> 01:17:06,100
  4383. Why would I have a problem with myself?
  4384. Why? I don't get it.
  4385.  
  4386. 971
  4387. 01:17:08,100 --> 01:17:10,180
  4388. Please.
  4389. I'm listening.
  4390.  
  4391. 972
  4392. 01:17:11,470 --> 01:17:12,600
  4393. Your stepfather.
  4394.  
  4395. 973
  4396. 01:17:42,350 --> 01:17:43,560
  4397. I'm sorry.
  4398.  
  4399. 974
  4400. 01:17:46,970 --> 01:17:48,180
  4401. It's OK.
  4402.  
  4403. 975
  4404. 01:17:51,270 --> 01:17:52,640
  4405. It's a sore point.
  4406.  
  4407. 976
  4408. 01:17:55,680 --> 01:17:57,310
  4409. You sank my battleship.
  4410.  
  4411. 977
  4412. 01:19:13,770 --> 01:19:15,770
  4413. I think I have the same thing.
  4414.  
  4415. 978
  4416. 01:19:16,970 --> 01:19:18,770
  4417. That problem with closeness.
  4418.  
  4419. 979
  4420. 01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:24,020
  4421. I just show it differently.
  4422.  
  4423. 980
  4424. 01:19:24,470 --> 01:19:28,470
  4425. I'm more of a person who...
  4426. throws smoke bombs.
  4427.  
  4428. 981
  4429. 01:19:31,600 --> 01:19:34,850
  4430. Our "me“ is in a protective capsule...
  4431.  
  4432. 982
  4433. 01:19:36,100 --> 01:19:38,430
  4434. ...and letting someone into it...
  4435.  
  4436. 983
  4437. 01:19:39,430 --> 01:19:41,640
  4438. ...calls for a lot of trust.
  4439.  
  4440. 984
  4441. 01:19:42,850 --> 01:19:44,430
  4442. Because“.
  4443.  
  4444. 985
  4445. 01:19:45,020 --> 01:19:47,430
  4446. ...if the other person leaves,
  4447. then...
  4448.  
  4449. 986
  4450. 01:19:48,430 --> 01:19:51,180
  4451. ...he takes a piece of you with him.
  4452.  
  4453. 987
  4454. 01:19:51,600 --> 01:19:53,270
  4455. And you die.
  4456.  
  4457. 988
  4458. 01:19:54,140 --> 01:19:55,720
  4459. At least a bit.
  4460.  
  4461. 989
  4462. 01:20:02,430 --> 01:20:03,810
  4463. Dangerous thing.
  4464.  
  4465. 990
  4466. 01:20:05,810 --> 01:20:07,850
  4467. Extremely dangerous, yes.
  4468.  
  4469. 991
  4470. 01:20:10,970 --> 01:20:13,430
  4471. But so beautiful, too.
  4472.  
  4473. 992
  4474. 01:20:14,180 --> 01:20:16,720
  4475. When you're merging with each other.
  4476.  
  4477. 993
  4478. 01:20:17,430 --> 01:20:19,350
  4479. Not alone anymore.
  4480.  
  4481. 994
  4482. 01:20:21,350 --> 01:20:24,060
  4483. I mean, we're born alone...
  4484.  
  4485. 995
  4486. 01:20:24,180 --> 01:20:26,350
  4487. ...we die alone, but then...
  4488.  
  4489. 996
  4490. 01:20:27,350 --> 01:20:30,430
  4491. ...there's this moment
  4492. with your partner...
  4493.  
  4494. 997
  4495. 01:20:35,100 --> 01:20:37,600
  4496. Do you know that feeling...
  4497.  
  4498. 998
  4499. 01:20:37,770 --> 01:20:39,640
  4500. ...when you're with her.
  4501.  
  4502. 999
  4503. 01:20:39,770 --> 01:20:43,430
  4504. And it feels <i>as</i> if the universe
  4505. is revolving around you?
  4506.  
  4507. 1000
  4508. 01:20:44,470 --> 01:20:46,520
  4509. And you don't want
  4510. to be anywhere else.
  4511.  
  4512. 1001
  4513. 01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:48,640
  4514. You feel like you're in
  4515. exactly the right place.
  4516.  
  4517. 1002
  4518. 01:20:51,470 --> 01:20:53,640
  4519. That feeling of being at home.
  4520.  
  4521. 1003
  4522. 01:20:55,430 --> 01:20:57,640
  4523. Of having arrived.
  4524.  
  4525. 1004
  4526. 01:21:03,770 --> 01:21:06,350
  4527. That's when I know I'm in love.
  4528.  
  4529. 1005
  4530. 01:21:09,520 --> 01:21:11,520
  4531. Really in love.
  4532.  
  4533. 1006
  4534. 01:21:14,100 --> 01:21:15,810
  4535. Have you ever had that?
  4536.  
  4537. 1007
  4538. 01:21:20,640 --> 01:21:22,180
  4539. Once.
  4540.  
  4541. 1008
  4542. 01:21:22,850 --> 01:21:24,470
  4543. How did it end?
  4544.  
  4545. 1009
  4546. 01:21:25,520 --> 01:21:27,100
  4547. Not very well.
  4548.  
  4549. 1010
  4550. 01:21:27,430 --> 01:21:29,720
  4551. And now you won't dare anymore?
  4552.  
  4553. 1011
  4554. 01:21:32,310 --> 01:21:34,720
  4555. Cheers to the protective capsule!
  4556.  
  4557. 1012
  4558. 01:23:22,770 --> 01:23:25,350
  4559. Jule!
  4560. Come in!
  4561.  
  4562. 1013
  4563. 01:23:29,350 --> 01:23:31,639
  4564. Come in!
  4565. - Isn't it much too cold?
  4566.  
  4567. 1014
  4568. 01:23:31,640 --> 01:23:32,850
  4569. Come on!
  4570.  
  4571. 1015
  4572. 01:23:33,270 --> 01:23:34,390
  4573. No way!
  4574.  
  4575. 1016
  4576. 01:24:03,270 --> 01:24:05,770
  4577. And we want to go...
  4578. here.
  4579.  
  4580. 1017
  4581. 01:24:32,810 --> 01:24:34,560
  4582. What's that?
  4583. Looks cool.
  4584.  
  4585. 1018
  4586. 01:24:35,270 --> 01:24:36,850
  4587. A monastery, I think.
  4588.  
  4589. 1019
  4590. 01:24:37,470 --> 01:24:40,720
  4591. Look: "Abbaye de Noirlac."
  4592. Shall we take a look?
  4593.  
  4594. 1020
  4595. 01:24:47,680 --> 01:24:51,600
  4596. Was this the dining hall?
  4597. - Yes, the "refectory."
  4598.  
  4599. 1021
  4600. 01:24:54,770 --> 01:24:56,890
  4601. Surely bigger than our cafeteria.
  4602.  
  4603. 1022
  4604. 01:24:57,470 --> 01:25:01,180
  4605. And the food was probably better.
  4606. - Probably, yeah.
  4607.  
  4608. 1023
  4609. 01:25:03,100 --> 01:25:04,220
  4610. Look, I'm enlightened.
  4611.  
  4612. 1024
  4613. 01:25:05,180 --> 01:25:06,180
  4614. I see.
  4615.  
  4616. 1025
  4617. 01:25:22,430 --> 01:25:26,180
  4618. A friend of mine recently stood
  4619. in front of the altar.
  4620.  
  4621. 1026
  4622. 01:25:26,350 --> 01:25:28,640
  4623. Her in a huge wedding dress,
  4624. him in a suit.
  4625.  
  4626. 1027
  4627. 01:25:29,390 --> 01:25:34,390
  4628. They marched into the church
  4629. with organ music, and then... "l do.“
  4630.  
  4631. 1028
  4632. 01:25:34,470 --> 01:25:36,720
  4633. Her dad was crying his eyes out.
  4634.  
  4635. 1029
  4636. 01:25:37,020 --> 01:25:39,390
  4637. To get married,
  4638. people still go to church.
  4639.  
  4640. 1030
  4641. 01:25:40,520 --> 01:25:43,270
  4642. Because it's so terribly romantic.
  4643. - It is!
  4644.  
  4645. 1031
  4646. 01:25:43,310 --> 01:25:44,350
  4647. I don't know...
  4648.  
  4649. 1032
  4650. 01:25:44,430 --> 01:25:49,720
  4651. Come on, better in a magical church
  4652. than a stuffy city hall.
  4653.  
  4654. 1033
  4655. 01:25:50,140 --> 01:25:53,810
  4656. Yeah, but paying church taxes
  4657. your whole life just for one day?
  4658.  
  4659. 1034
  4660. 01:25:53,970 --> 01:25:55,350
  4661. I don't know...
  4662.  
  4663. 1035
  4664. 01:25:55,850 --> 01:26:00,430
  4665. And 50% of marriages end in divorce
  4666. anyway. Then they kick you out of church.
  4667.  
  4668. 1036
  4669. 01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:02,140
  4670. Not anymore.
  4671.  
  4672. 1037
  4673. 01:26:02,350 --> 01:26:03,720
  4674. No'?
  4675. - I don't think so.
  4676.  
  4677. 1038
  4678. 01:26:07,350 --> 01:26:10,060
  4679. Know what the most common
  4680. reason for divorce is?
  4681.  
  4682. 1039
  4683. 01:26:10,180 --> 01:26:12,970
  4684. No.
  4685. - Sexual frustration and infidelity.
  4686.  
  4687. 1040
  4688. 01:26:15,180 --> 01:26:16,810
  4689. Which is no wonder.
  4690.  
  4691. 1041
  4692. 01:26:17,180 --> 01:26:19,850
  4693. After ten years max, desire is gone.
  4694.  
  4695. 1042
  4696. 01:26:20,140 --> 01:26:23,180
  4697. And in a marriage,
  4698. you're chained to each other for life.
  4699.  
  4700. 1043
  4701. 01:26:25,140 --> 01:26:27,430
  4702. Know what Jeanne Moreau said about that?
  4703.  
  4704. 1044
  4705. 01:26:27,850 --> 01:26:33,600
  4706. "Sex in longer relationships is the art
  4707. of making repeats seem like premieres."
  4708.  
  4709. 1045
  4710. 01:26:35,640 --> 01:26:39,180
  4711. Yeah, with dildo techniques and bondage
  4712. you can make it another three years.
  4713.  
  4714. 1046
  4715. 01:26:39,350 --> 01:26:41,470
  4716. But you get tired of that, too.
  4717.  
  4718. 1047
  4719. 01:26:41,600 --> 01:26:44,470
  4720. Jan, shall we discuss this elsewhere?
  4721.  
  4722. 1048
  4723. 01:26:48,060 --> 01:26:50,390
  4724. In the confessional, perhaps?
  4725.  
  4726. 1049
  4727. 01:26:50,470 --> 01:26:51,720
  4728. Idiot.
  4729.  
  4730. 1050
  4731. 01:26:54,850 --> 01:26:55,520
  4732. Yes...
  4733.  
  4734. 1051
  4735. 01:26:55,680 --> 01:26:59,390
  4736. Fidelity in marriage was actually
  4737. invented by the Catholic church.
  4738.  
  4739. 1052
  4740. 01:26:59,470 --> 01:27:01,600
  4741. In earlier cultures,
  4742. it didn't exist at all.
  4743.  
  4744. 1053
  4745. 01:27:01,720 --> 01:27:04,720
  4746. Wedded couples only sleeping
  4747. with each other, and no one else.
  4748.  
  4749. 1054
  4750. 01:27:04,890 --> 01:27:08,720
  4751. Neither the Babylonians,
  4752. nor the Greeks, nor the Romans had that.
  4753.  
  4754. 1055
  4755. 01:27:09,350 --> 01:27:13,720
  4756. OK, but why did the Christians invent it?
  4757. There must've been some reason.
  4758.  
  4759. 1056
  4760. 01:27:14,100 --> 01:27:17,470
  4761. Because of overpopulation in Palestine.
  4762. - What?
  4763.  
  4764. 1057
  4765. 01:27:17,720 --> 01:27:21,390
  4766. Well, most rules in religious texts
  4767. have a practical reason.
  4768.  
  4769. 1058
  4770. 01:27:21,810 --> 01:27:25,720
  4771. The Galileans, for example,
  4772. didn't have rubbers or abortions.
  4773.  
  4774. 1059
  4775. 01:27:25,810 --> 01:27:28,720
  4776. So they invented nuptial faithfulness
  4777. and prohibited divorce.
  4778.  
  4779. 1060
  4780. 01:27:28,970 --> 01:27:31,520
  4781. People had less sex,
  4782. fewer children were conceived...
  4783.  
  4784. 1061
  4785. 01:27:31,640 --> 01:27:35,180
  4786. ...and as it worked so well,
  4787. they wrote it into the New Testament.
  4788.  
  4789. 1062
  4790. 01:27:35,350 --> 01:27:36,720
  4791. You think?
  4792. - Yeah.
  4793.  
  4794. 1063
  4795. 01:27:36,850 --> 01:27:39,470
  4796. It's totally bizarre.
  4797. Half of humanity is sexually frustrated...
  4798.  
  4799. 1064
  4800. 01:27:39,640 --> 01:27:42,270
  4801. ...because they had no condoms
  4802. in Palestine 2000 years ago.
  4803.  
  4804. 1065
  4805. 01:27:42,850 --> 01:27:44,520
  4806. Terrible, right?
  4807.  
  4808. 1066
  4809. 01:27:46,720 --> 01:27:48,430
  4810. But what about trust?
  4811.  
  4812. 1067
  4813. 01:27:48,600 --> 01:27:52,720
  4814. What's more beautiful than two people
  4815. giving each other everything...
  4816.  
  4817. 1068
  4818. 01:27:52,850 --> 01:27:57,060
  4819. ...who are always there for each other, no matter what?
  4820. - It can still be like that.
  4821.  
  4822. 1069
  4823. 01:27:57,180 --> 01:28:01,680
  4824. You can jump in the sack with someone else
  4825. and still be there for each other.
  4826.  
  4827. 1070
  4828. 01:28:01,850 --> 01:28:03,600
  4829. What's the problem?
  4830.  
  4831. 1071
  4832. 01:28:03,720 --> 01:28:05,140
  4833. Sure, but...
  4834.  
  4835. 1072
  4836. 01:28:05,180 --> 01:28:08,680
  4837. I don't know.
  4838. It hurts when my boyfriend fucks around.
  4839.  
  4840. 1073
  4841. 01:28:08,720 --> 01:28:10,520
  4842. It just hurts.
  4843.  
  4844. 1074
  4845. 01:28:11,520 --> 01:28:15,470
  4846. Have you ever asked yourself why?
  4847. Why it hurts?
  4848.  
  4849. 1075
  4850. 01:28:15,850 --> 01:28:18,270
  4851. They're feelings,
  4852. you can't control them.
  4853.  
  4854. 1076
  4855. 01:28:18,430 --> 01:28:21,470
  4856. But have you asked yourself
  4857. where these feelings stem from?
  4858.  
  4859. 1077
  4860. 01:28:22,850 --> 01:28:24,680
  4861. No idea, I...
  4862.  
  4863. 1078
  4864. 01:28:25,180 --> 01:28:27,470
  4865. I wonder why he does it,
  4866. why he needs it.
  4867.  
  4868. 1079
  4869. 01:28:27,600 --> 01:28:31,140
  4870. If he still finds me attractive,
  4871. still desires and loves me...
  4872.  
  4873. 1080
  4874. 01:28:31,600 --> 01:28:33,720
  4875. So it's about your ego.
  4876.  
  4877. 1081
  4878. 01:28:33,810 --> 01:28:36,140
  4879. So? Don't you have an ego?
  4880.  
  4881. 1082
  4882. 01:28:36,270 --> 01:28:38,551
  4883. You don't care if your girlfriend
  4884. sleeps with another guy?
  4885.  
  4886. 1083
  4887. 01:28:38,680 --> 01:28:41,180
  4888. No.
  4889. Not if I know beforehand.
  4890.  
  4891. 1084
  4892. 01:28:41,350 --> 01:28:45,520
  4893. The lie and deceit is what hurts,
  4894. not the sex itself.
  4895.  
  4896. 1085
  4897. 01:28:45,810 --> 01:28:47,720
  4898. That hurts too, yeah.
  4899.  
  4900. 1086
  4901. 01:28:48,470 --> 01:28:49,970
  4902. You see?
  4903.  
  4904. 1087
  4905. 01:28:51,180 --> 01:28:53,810
  4906. I know this older couple,
  4907. they do it like this:
  4908.  
  4909. 1088
  4910. 01:28:53,850 --> 01:28:56,430
  4911. They have a wooden bowl
  4912. in their wardrobe.
  4913.  
  4914. 1089
  4915. 01:28:56,810 --> 01:28:59,430
  4916. Whenever one of them
  4917. goes on a "trip"...
  4918.  
  4919. 1090
  4920. 01:28:59,520 --> 01:29:02,600
  4921. ...they put their wedding ring
  4922. in it and the other knows...
  4923.  
  4924. 1091
  4925. 01:29:03,140 --> 01:29:06,430
  4926. They've been super happy for decades.
  4927.  
  4928. 1092
  4929. 01:29:07,720 --> 01:29:09,850
  4930. I don't know.
  4931. I couldn't do that.
  4932.  
  4933. 1093
  4934. 01:29:10,060 --> 01:29:12,640
  4935. Sex isn't shaking hands.
  4936.  
  4937. 1094
  4938. 01:29:12,850 --> 01:29:15,180
  4939. This intimacy, this holy feeling...
  4940.  
  4941. 1095
  4942. 01:29:15,350 --> 01:29:20,720
  4943. I mean, you're creating a child.
  4944. That's a magical moment. Making love...
  4945.  
  4946. 1096
  4947. 01:29:20,810 --> 01:29:25,430
  4948. It's the core of a partnership. It gets
  4949. lost if both fuck around. Don't you think?
  4950.  
  4951. 1097
  4952. 01:29:25,470 --> 01:29:27,140
  4953. No...
  4954.  
  4955. 1098
  4956. 01:29:27,270 --> 01:29:29,680
  4957. And 80% of people fuck around anyway.
  4958.  
  4959. 1099
  4960. 01:29:29,720 --> 01:29:34,470
  4961. Isn't it better to be at least honest
  4962. about it? Saves you all the drama, too.
  4963.  
  4964. 1100
  4965. 01:29:35,430 --> 01:29:40,180
  4966. I do think it's good to stay together
  4967. for life and all. Certainly for the kids.
  4968.  
  4969. 1101
  4970. 01:29:40,350 --> 01:29:41,720
  4971. But...
  4972.  
  4973. 1102
  4974. 01:29:43,140 --> 01:29:45,430
  4975. The old Romans,
  4976. they had a great system.
  4977.  
  4978. 1103
  4979. 01:29:45,720 --> 01:29:48,520
  4980. They had stable families and great sex.
  4981.  
  4982. 1104
  4983. 01:29:48,680 --> 01:29:51,270
  4984. Because they had lovers.
  4985.  
  4986. 1105
  4987. 01:29:51,430 --> 01:29:53,810
  4988. Both men and women.
  4989. - Really?
  4990.  
  4991. 1106
  4992. 01:29:53,970 --> 01:29:57,390
  4993. Yeah, they thought,
  4994. "We'll give our children a stable home...
  4995.  
  4996. 1107
  4997. 01:29:57,470 --> 01:30:00,430
  4998. ...but we won't allow that
  4999. to sexually frustrate us."
  5000.  
  5001. 1108
  5002. 01:30:00,600 --> 01:30:03,720
  5003. So they had sex whenever
  5004. and with whomever they wanted.
  5005.  
  5006. 1109
  5007. 01:30:03,810 --> 01:30:06,850
  5008. I think that's a pretty
  5009. honest arrangement.
  5010.  
  5011. 1110
  5012. 01:30:07,430 --> 01:30:10,140
  5013. But what if the woman fell in love
  5014. with her affair?
  5015.  
  5016. 1111
  5017. 01:30:10,270 --> 01:30:13,140
  5018. That was a no-go.
  5019. Divorce was forbidden.
  5020.  
  5021. 1112
  5022. 01:30:13,430 --> 01:30:15,720
  5023. And you can control that.
  5024.  
  5025. 1113
  5026. 01:30:15,810 --> 01:30:19,430
  5027. You said it yourself:
  5028. we can decide who we fall in love with.
  5029.  
  5030. 1114
  5031. 01:30:19,720 --> 01:30:21,020
  5032. True.
  5033.  
  5034. 1115
  5035. 01:31:50,140 --> 01:31:52,140
  5036. That tastes so divine...
  5037.  
  5038. 1116
  5039. 01:31:54,720 --> 01:31:57,850
  5040. I'm about to have an orgasm.
  5041. This is better than sex.
  5042.  
  5043. 1117
  5044. 01:31:59,350 --> 01:32:02,520
  5045. Another trick to keep a marriage alive:
  5046. food instead of sex.
  5047.  
  5048. 1118
  5049. 01:32:03,810 --> 01:32:05,100
  5050. Correct.
  5051.  
  5052. 1119
  5053. 01:32:07,020 --> 01:32:09,970
  5054. Apropos, how's that handled
  5055. in Alex's commune?
  5056.  
  5057. 1120
  5058. 01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:12,390
  5059. Different, I hope.
  5060.  
  5061. 1121
  5062. 01:32:14,430 --> 01:32:18,600
  5063. Well, to be honest, they actually
  5064. do have a concept of free love there.
  5065.  
  5066. 1122
  5067. 01:32:20,890 --> 01:32:23,350
  5068. And how did you feel about that?
  5069. You were there, right'?
  5070.  
  5071. 1123
  5072. 01:32:23,640 --> 01:32:25,060
  5073. Yes.
  5074.  
  5075. 1124
  5076. 01:32:26,520 --> 01:32:29,520
  5077. I don't know, I was only visiting.
  5078.  
  5079. 1125
  5080. 01:32:29,680 --> 01:32:32,430
  5081. I think it needs time.
  5082.  
  5083. 1126
  5084. 01:32:34,350 --> 01:32:37,060
  5085. But your boyfriend was totally into it?
  5086.  
  5087. 1127
  5088. 01:32:37,680 --> 01:32:39,720
  5089. Yeah.
  5090. He was quite enthusiastic.
  5091.  
  5092. 1128
  5093. 01:32:40,430 --> 01:32:42,970
  5094. They had pretty girls there, after all.
  5095.  
  5096. 1129
  5097. 01:32:46,720 --> 01:32:48,680
  5098. What?
  5099. - Nothing.
  5100.  
  5101. 1130
  5102. 01:32:48,720 --> 01:32:50,600
  5103. I won't say anything.
  5104.  
  5105. 1131
  5106. 01:32:50,810 --> 01:32:53,180
  5107. Join in!
  5108. They're always looking for young people.
  5109.  
  5110. 1132
  5111. 01:32:53,970 --> 01:32:57,600
  5112. No, I don't think I'm ready
  5113. to dissolve the barriers of my ego.
  5114.  
  5115. 1133
  5116. 01:32:58,680 --> 01:33:00,390
  5117. That I believe.
  5118.  
  5119. 1134
  5120. 01:33:01,470 --> 01:33:04,430
  5121. And "free love" makes me
  5122. think of swinger clubs.
  5123.  
  5124. 1135
  5125. 01:33:06,520 --> 01:33:09,430
  5126. You're a walking contradiction.
  5127. - Not at all.
  5128.  
  5129. 1136
  5130. 01:33:09,520 --> 01:33:12,600
  5131. No. I'm not saying
  5132. everybody should bang everybody.
  5133.  
  5134. 1137
  5135. 01:33:12,720 --> 01:33:14,970
  5136. I just say we shouldn't hold
  5137. onto monogamy...
  5138.  
  5139. 1138
  5140. 01:33:15,140 --> 01:33:18,390
  5141. ...only because state and church
  5142. propagate nuclear families.
  5143.  
  5144. 1139
  5145. 01:33:18,640 --> 01:33:21,430
  5146. The time is ripe for new
  5147. relationship models.
  5148.  
  5149. 1140
  5150. 01:33:23,140 --> 01:33:24,140
  5151. Yes...
  5152.  
  5153. 1141
  5154. 01:33:25,350 --> 01:33:26,640
  5155. Maybe you're right.
  5156.  
  5157. 1142
  5158. 01:34:03,020 --> 01:34:04,020
  5159. Morning!
  5160.  
  5161. 1143
  5162. 01:34:04,220 --> 01:34:05,470
  5163. Morning!
  5164.  
  5165. 1144
  5166. 01:34:05,600 --> 01:34:09,390
  5167. All good? I'm gonna take a shower.
  5168. - Okay.
  5169.  
  5170. 1145
  5171. 01:35:15,810 --> 01:35:17,430
  5172. Wanna snitch some corn?
  5173.  
  5174. 1146
  5175. 01:36:07,350 --> 01:36:10,640
  5176. Carla and Nicolas?
  5177. - Yes, Carla Bruni and Nicolas Sarkozy.
  5178.  
  5179. 1147
  5180. 01:36:11,020 --> 01:36:13,600
  5181. And who is who?
  5182. Is this Carla or Nicolas?
  5183.  
  5184. 1148
  5185. 01:36:13,680 --> 01:36:15,810
  5186. The smaller one is Nicolas.
  5187. - Of course!
  5188.  
  5189. 1149
  5190. 01:36:32,470 --> 01:36:33,600
  5191. Smile!
  5192.  
  5193. 1150
  5194. 01:36:37,560 --> 01:36:40,470
  5195. I feel cool, and you?
  5196.  
  5197. 1151
  5198. 01:36:40,680 --> 01:36:42,060
  5199. You're sweating, right?
  5200.  
  5201. 1152
  5202. 01:37:36,350 --> 01:37:38,770
  5203. Sea, we're coming!
  5204.  
  5205. 1153
  5206. 01:38:01,680 --> 01:38:02,720
  5207. Go!
  5208.  
  5209. 1154
  5210. 01:38:10,140 --> 01:38:11,140
  5211. Wow.
  5212.  
  5213. 1155
  5214. 01:38:18,270 --> 01:38:20,890
  5215. Come on!
  5216. Into the sea!
  5217.  
  5218. 1156
  5219. 01:38:30,720 --> 01:38:32,020
  5220. So nice.
  5221.  
  5222. 1157
  5223. 01:38:36,600 --> 01:38:38,060
  5224. Come on!
  5225.  
  5226. 1158
  5227. 01:38:44,470 --> 01:38:46,310
  5228. Come in, it's lovely!
  5229.  
  5230. 1159
  5231. 01:39:39,970 --> 01:39:44,310
  5232. Whoa, so nice.
  5233. - Yeah.
  5234.  
  5235. 1160
  5236. 01:39:50,310 --> 01:39:53,810
  5237. Around the University of Barcelona
  5238. so much cocaine was measured...
  5239.  
  5240. 1161
  5241. 01:39:53,970 --> 01:39:57,310
  5242. ...in the air, you would get high
  5243. just by walking around there.
  5244.  
  5245. 1162
  5246. 01:39:59,270 --> 01:40:01,970
  5247. And those are just the Spaniards.
  5248. The Germans...
  5249.  
  5250. 1163
  5251. 01:40:02,060 --> 01:40:04,390
  5252. ...drink 500 bottles of beer a year.
  5253. Per head.
  5254.  
  5255. 1164
  5256. 01:40:04,560 --> 01:40:05,680
  5257. 500 bottles?
  5258.  
  5259. 1165
  5260. 01:40:05,850 --> 01:40:06,850
  5261. What?
  5262.  
  5263. 1166
  5264. 01:40:07,020 --> 01:40:09,430
  5265. And seven liters of booze.
  5266. On average, the German...
  5267.  
  5268. 1167
  5269. 01:40:09,520 --> 01:40:11,600
  5270. ...drinks twice as much
  5271. as the rest of humanity.
  5272.  
  5273. 1168
  5274. 01:40:12,560 --> 01:40:15,180
  5275. We're a nation of full blown alcoholics.
  5276.  
  5277. 1169
  5278. 01:40:15,270 --> 01:40:19,270
  5279. Absolutely. I mean, in fact
  5280. we're all permanently on.
  5281.  
  5282. 1170
  5283. 01:40:19,430 --> 01:40:23,430
  5284. But why? Why do we take so many drugs?
  5285. Have you ever asked yourself that?
  5286.  
  5287. 1171
  5288. 01:40:23,520 --> 01:40:25,020
  5289. No idea, there are a million reasons.
  5290.  
  5291. 1172
  5292. 01:40:25,140 --> 01:40:28,680
  5293. Well... Look, in the 1950s,
  5294. there was this booze ad.
  5295.  
  5296. 1173
  5297. 01:40:28,770 --> 01:40:32,060
  5298. Super minimalistic, only a bottle of
  5299. schnapps against a white background.
  5300.  
  5301. 1174
  5302. 01:40:32,270 --> 01:40:34,446
  5303. And you know what was written
  5304. underneath it in capital letters?
  5305.  
  5306. 1175
  5307. 01:40:34,470 --> 01:40:35,890
  5308. "A vacation from yourself“.
  5309.  
  5310. 1176
  5311. 01:40:36,060 --> 01:40:38,810
  5312. <<A vacation from yourself>>.
  5313. Cool.
  5314.  
  5315. 1177
  5316. 01:40:39,970 --> 01:40:43,430
  5317. That's what this is all about!
  5318. Humans are the only living beings...
  5319.  
  5320. 1178
  5321. 01:40:43,560 --> 01:40:47,060
  5322. ...on this planet who can
  5323. constantly worry about themselves.
  5324.  
  5325. 1179
  5326. 01:40:47,220 --> 01:40:50,430
  5327. About their fears, needs, deficits.
  5328. We think about the future...
  5329.  
  5330. 1180
  5331. 01:40:50,520 --> 01:40:53,560
  5332. ...about the past, what we
  5333. did right, what we did wrong.
  5334.  
  5335. 1181
  5336. 01:40:53,600 --> 01:40:56,270
  5337. We think, think, think.
  5338. The thoughts up there...
  5339.  
  5340. 1182
  5341. 01:40:56,390 --> 01:40:58,810
  5342. ...they permanently comment
  5343. and evaluate everything you do.
  5344.  
  5345. 1183
  5346. 01:40:58,970 --> 01:41:02,680
  5347. 16 hours a day, seven days a week...
  5348. You just can't take that forever!
  5349.  
  5350. 1184
  5351. 01:41:02,850 --> 01:41:06,769
  5352. And that is why, I say, man has
  5353. a natural need to take drugs.
  5354.  
  5355. 1185
  5356. 01:41:06,770 --> 01:41:09,020
  5357. At least every two weeks.
  5358.  
  5359. 1186
  5360. 01:41:09,970 --> 01:41:11,390
  5361. You, maybe...
  5362.  
  5363. 1187
  5364. 01:41:12,600 --> 01:41:15,270
  5365. Come on, even the natives
  5366. in the jungle take drugs.
  5367.  
  5368. 1188
  5369. 01:41:15,430 --> 01:41:17,720
  5370. Mushrooms, cacti, ayahuasca,
  5371. that sort of thing.
  5372.  
  5373. 1189
  5374. 01:41:17,890 --> 01:41:20,810
  5375. All the peoples in the history
  5376. of mankind have taken drugs:
  5377.  
  5378. 1190
  5379. 01:41:20,890 --> 01:41:23,560
  5380. Indians, Mayans, Incas,
  5381. Romans, Greeks, all of them!
  5382.  
  5383. 1191
  5384. 01:41:24,430 --> 01:41:28,310
  5385. We need to get away from ourselves every
  5386. now and then. Otherwise we go crazy.
  5387.  
  5388. 1192
  5389. 01:41:28,430 --> 01:41:33,310
  5390. Yes, but there are other ways to
  5391. take a vacation from yourself.
  5392.  
  5393. 1193
  5394. 01:41:33,470 --> 01:41:36,270
  5395. Meditation for example, dancing, yoga!
  5396.  
  5397. 1194
  5398. 01:41:37,310 --> 01:41:39,270
  5399. Sports, sex, anything...
  5400.  
  5401. 1195
  5402. 01:41:39,390 --> 01:41:44,060
  5403. Yes, all right. But drugs are easier.
  5404. Open the bottle, drink, done.
  5405.  
  5406. 1196
  5407. 01:41:44,430 --> 01:41:47,496
  5408. And human beings are lazy by nature, that's
  5409. the second principle of thermodynamics.
  5410.  
  5411. 1197
  5412. 01:41:47,520 --> 01:41:48,970
  5413. Yes, I'm afraid so.
  5414.  
  5415. 1198
  5416. 01:41:52,680 --> 01:41:57,430
  5417. But Jan, what if what you call
  5418. your self isn't your self?
  5419.  
  5420. 1199
  5421. 01:41:57,770 --> 01:41:59,180
  5422. Yes?
  5423.  
  5424. 1200
  5425. 01:41:59,350 --> 01:42:02,809
  5426. This voice in your head, constantly
  5427. commenting on what you do.
  5428.  
  5429. 1201
  5430. 01:42:02,810 --> 01:42:04,520
  5431. I don't think that's you at all.
  5432.  
  5433. 1202
  5434. 01:42:04,600 --> 01:42:07,560
  5435. I think that's more like
  5436. your inner commentator.
  5437.  
  5438. 1203
  5439. 01:42:07,850 --> 01:42:08,600
  5440. What?
  5441.  
  5442. 1204
  5443. 01:42:08,770 --> 01:42:11,559
  5444. Your inner commentator.
  5445. Like Grandpa at the Muppet Show...
  5446.  
  5447. 1205
  5448. 01:42:11,560 --> 01:42:13,310
  5449. ...who's always putting in his 2 cents?
  5450.  
  5451. 1206
  5452. 01:42:13,470 --> 01:42:16,270
  5453. That old man with the
  5454. giant nose: Hehehehehe...
  5455.  
  5456. 1207
  5457. 01:42:16,390 --> 01:42:22,810
  5458. Yes, that's the one. Anyway,
  5459. I think your real self is nonverbal.
  5460.  
  5461. 1208
  5462. 01:42:22,970 --> 01:42:24,720
  5463. And it makes all the decisions.
  5464.  
  5465. 1209
  5466. 01:42:24,810 --> 01:42:27,600
  5467. The commentator can rationalize
  5468. these decisions afterwards...
  5469.  
  5470. 1210
  5471. 01:42:27,770 --> 01:42:29,850
  5472. ...but in reality he has
  5473. nothing to say, you know?
  5474.  
  5475. 1211
  5476. 01:42:30,560 --> 01:42:33,600
  5477. Like the commentator in a soccer
  5478. game who doesn't even play.
  5479.  
  5480. 1212
  5481. 01:42:33,720 --> 01:42:35,600
  5482. That voice in your head,
  5483. that's not you.
  5484.  
  5485. 1213
  5486. 01:42:36,600 --> 01:42:37,810
  5487. Okay...
  5488.  
  5489. 1214
  5490. 01:42:37,970 --> 01:42:42,430
  5491. Maybe. But who am I, then?
  5492. Where is my true self located?
  5493.  
  5494. 1215
  5495. 01:42:43,890 --> 01:42:48,680
  5496. Well, somewhere deep down,
  5497. where you can't get with language.
  5498.  
  5499. 1216
  5500. 01:42:48,850 --> 01:42:54,390
  5501. At the core of your being, only to
  5502. be seen in dreams. I don't know...
  5503.  
  5504. 1217
  5505. 01:42:54,520 --> 01:42:55,680
  5506. Or in psychoanalysis.
  5507.  
  5508. 1218
  5509. 01:42:55,810 --> 01:42:57,430
  5510. Yes, maybe.
  5511.  
  5512. 1219
  5513. 01:42:58,600 --> 01:43:03,520
  5514. Anyway, with drugs you can turn off
  5515. the commentator. But not the real you.
  5516.  
  5517. 1220
  5518. 01:43:03,680 --> 01:43:04,720
  5519. Know what I mean?
  5520.  
  5521. 1221
  5522. 01:43:04,770 --> 01:43:07,060
  5523. But that's awesome.
  5524.  
  5525. 1222
  5526. 01:43:07,220 --> 01:43:08,060
  5527. What?
  5528.  
  5529. 1223
  5530. 01:43:08,220 --> 01:43:11,600
  5531. If I can turn off the commentator.
  5532. I'll have a few hours' silence.
  5533.  
  5534. 1224
  5535. 01:43:12,220 --> 01:43:14,600
  5536. Maybe. But with drugs
  5537. you not only turn off the...
  5538.  
  5539. 1225
  5540. 01:43:14,680 --> 01:43:17,350
  5541. ...commentator, you also
  5542. harm your true self.
  5543.  
  5544. 1226
  5545. 01:43:17,470 --> 01:43:19,600
  5546. Look at the people who
  5547. take drugs for years.
  5548.  
  5549. 1227
  5550. 01:43:19,720 --> 01:43:22,850
  5551. They're all totally empty at some
  5552. point, not even there any more.
  5553.  
  5554. 1228
  5555. 01:43:23,850 --> 01:43:27,470
  5556. I mean, you know people like that, right?
  5557. - Yes, that's true.
  5558.  
  5559. 1229
  5560. 01:43:29,060 --> 01:43:32,600
  5561. I think it's much better to
  5562. harmonize your commentator...
  5563.  
  5564. 1230
  5565. 01:43:32,720 --> 01:43:35,310
  5566. ...and your self, so that
  5567. they work as a team.
  5568.  
  5569. 1231
  5570. 01:43:35,430 --> 01:43:38,430
  5571. Okay.
  5572. And how can I do that?
  5573.  
  5574. 1232
  5575. 01:43:39,720 --> 01:43:42,470
  5576. I don't know.
  5577. Certainly not with drugs.
  5578.  
  5579. 1233
  5580. 01:43:44,140 --> 01:43:45,270
  5581. How then?
  5582.  
  5583. 1234
  5584. 01:43:50,220 --> 01:43:52,470
  5585. For example, by running
  5586. full speed to the sea...
  5587.  
  5588. 1235
  5589. 01:43:52,600 --> 01:43:54,560
  5590. ...and jumping into the
  5591. water fully dressed?
  5592.  
  5593. 1236
  5594. 01:44:03,560 --> 01:44:04,560
  5595. Go!
  5596.  
  5597. 1237
  5598. 01:44:42,390 --> 01:44:45,470
  5599. Sure you don't want help?
  5600. - No, it's fine.
  5601.  
  5602. 1238
  5603. 01:44:45,970 --> 01:44:49,310
  5604. OK, then I'll take a swim.
  5605. - Have fun. See you later.
  5606.  
  5607. 1239
  5608. 01:46:27,680 --> 01:46:28,680
  5609. Jule?
  5610.  
  5611. 1240
  5612. 01:46:37,100 --> 01:46:38,430
  5613. Hey...
  5614.  
  5615. 1241
  5616. 01:46:39,890 --> 01:46:40,890
  5617. Morning.
  5618.  
  5619. 1242
  5620. 01:46:43,430 --> 01:46:44,520
  5621. Morning.
  5622.  
  5623. 1243
  5624. 01:46:46,310 --> 01:46:47,600
  5625. This is so cool.
  5626.  
  5627. 1244
  5628. 01:46:49,850 --> 01:46:51,600
  5629. Who gave you the wetsuit?
  5630.  
  5631. 1245
  5632. 01:46:51,770 --> 01:46:55,430
  5633. I borrowed it from our neighbor
  5634. and thought I'd give it a try.
  5635.  
  5636. 1246
  5637. 01:46:57,270 --> 01:46:58,680
  5638. Just round the ankle?
  5639.  
  5640. 1247
  5641. 01:46:58,810 --> 01:47:03,270
  5642. Just round the ankle.
  5643. Okay, and now we'll paddle first.
  5644.  
  5645. 1248
  5646. 01:47:03,390 --> 01:47:05,520
  5647. Hold the board like this.
  5648.  
  5649. 1249
  5650. 01:47:06,890 --> 01:47:08,600
  5651. Right over there...
  5652.  
  5653. 1250
  5654. 01:47:12,600 --> 01:47:14,560
  5655. Very good!
  5656.  
  5657. 1251
  5658. 01:47:16,520 --> 01:47:19,220
  5659. You're doing great!
  5660. Use all of your arms strength.
  5661.  
  5662. 1252
  5663. 01:47:21,310 --> 01:47:23,020
  5664. Back there is a nice one!
  5665.  
  5666. 1253
  5667. 01:47:31,970 --> 01:47:34,560
  5668. Wow, super, great!
  5669.  
  5670. 1254
  5671. 01:47:37,890 --> 01:47:39,430
  5672. Try that one.
  5673.  
  5674. 1255
  5675. 01:47:40,310 --> 01:47:42,060
  5676. You're doing great!
  5677.  
  5678. 1256
  5679. 01:47:43,310 --> 01:47:44,310
  5680. Yes!
  5681.  
  5682. 1257
  5683. 01:47:45,220 --> 01:47:47,720
  5684. Gosh, that was really great!
  5685.  
  5686. 1258
  5687. 01:47:51,270 --> 01:47:52,770
  5688. Another good one!
  5689.  
  5690. 1259
  5691. 01:47:59,810 --> 01:48:01,060
  5692. Rad!
  5693.  
  5694. 1260
  5695. 01:48:04,310 --> 01:48:06,770
  5696. You're really good for a beginner.
  5697.  
  5698. 1261
  5699. 01:48:12,890 --> 01:48:16,060
  5700. You know how to surf,
  5701. You fooled me, man!
  5702.  
  5703. 1262
  5704. 01:49:18,390 --> 01:49:21,680
  5705. Down the coast to Hossegor, Capbreton...
  5706.  
  5707. 1263
  5708. 01:49:22,270 --> 01:49:28,890
  5709. Anglet, Biarritz, Saint Jean de Luz
  5710. and then San Sebastian.
  5711.  
  5712. 1264
  5713. 01:49:29,600 --> 01:49:31,890
  5714. Look!
  5715. Spain!
  5716.  
  5717. 1265
  5718. 01:49:45,270 --> 01:49:48,060
  5719. Where does your father live?
  5720. Where should I drop you off?
  5721.  
  5722. 1266
  5723. 01:49:48,220 --> 01:49:51,560
  5724. In Zumaia, a coastal town
  5725. in the Basque Country.
  5726.  
  5727. 1267
  5728. 01:50:52,430 --> 01:50:54,020
  5729. This is the marina.
  5730.  
  5731. 1268
  5732. 01:51:06,470 --> 01:51:08,600
  5733. I'll check if I see him.
  5734. - Okay.
  5735.  
  5736. 1269
  5737. 01:51:35,060 --> 01:51:36,220
  5738. And?
  5739.  
  5740. 1270
  5741. 01:51:36,890 --> 01:51:38,020
  5742. No, he's not here.
  5743.  
  5744. 1271
  5745. 01:51:42,220 --> 01:51:43,810
  5746. You can drive on.
  5747.  
  5748. 1272
  5749. 01:51:46,060 --> 01:51:47,430
  5750. Sure?
  5751.  
  5752. 1273
  5753. 01:52:19,560 --> 01:52:20,720
  5754. Is that him?
  5755.  
  5756. 1274
  5757. 01:52:23,140 --> 01:52:24,810
  5758. Yes, that's him.
  5759.  
  5760. 1275
  5761. 01:52:31,680 --> 01:52:33,060
  5762. Want to go over?
  5763.  
  5764. 1276
  5765. 01:52:36,430 --> 01:52:37,430
  5766. No.
  5767.  
  5768. 1277
  5769. 01:52:42,720 --> 01:52:45,390
  5770. Should I leave,
  5771. you want to be alone?
  5772.  
  5773. 1278
  5774. 01:52:46,060 --> 01:52:47,220
  5775. No, no.
  5776.  
  5777. 1279
  5778. 01:52:59,020 --> 01:53:00,810
  5779. Which of them is it?
  5780.  
  5781. 1280
  5782. 01:53:01,020 --> 01:53:02,810
  5783. The one on the left.
  5784.  
  5785. 1281
  5786. 01:53:16,640 --> 01:53:18,560
  5787. He looks happy, right?
  5788.  
  5789. 1282
  5790. 01:53:19,180 --> 01:53:21,220
  5791. Definitely, yes.
  5792.  
  5793. 1283
  5794. 01:54:13,430 --> 01:54:16,470
  5795. I don't know how to describe it.
  5796. It was...
  5797.  
  5798. 1284
  5799. 01:54:20,100 --> 01:54:21,810
  5800. It was strange.
  5801.  
  5802. 1285
  5803. 01:54:24,270 --> 01:54:26,560
  5804. I couldn't go over to him.
  5805.  
  5806. 1286
  5807. 01:54:28,060 --> 01:54:30,100
  5808. I just couldn't.
  5809.  
  5810. 1287
  5811. 01:54:32,720 --> 01:54:38,180
  5812. I didn't think it'd be such a big deal.
  5813. I thought I'd come here, see him...
  5814.  
  5815. 1288
  5816. 01:54:40,310 --> 01:54:41,720
  5817. ...we'd talk a bit.
  5818.  
  5819. 1289
  5820. 01:54:42,720 --> 01:54:45,310
  5821. And it'd all be good, but...
  5822.  
  5823. 1290
  5824. 01:54:47,430 --> 01:54:49,520
  5825. While standing there...
  5826.  
  5827. 1291
  5828. 01:54:51,220 --> 01:54:54,470
  5829. I saw a stranger, not my father.
  5830.  
  5831. 1292
  5832. 01:54:59,470 --> 01:55:01,140
  5833. And I realized...
  5834.  
  5835. 1293
  5836. 01:55:01,640 --> 01:55:03,770
  5837. I'll never have a father.
  5838.  
  5839. 1294
  5840. 01:55:07,890 --> 01:55:11,520
  5841. But not only a dream fell apart...
  5842.  
  5843. 1295
  5844. 01:55:15,100 --> 01:55:17,350
  5845. I also understood something.
  5846.  
  5847. 1296
  5848. 01:55:18,970 --> 01:55:24,640
  5849. That I have to stop looking outside of
  5850. myself, and start looking inside.
  5851.  
  5852. 1297
  5853. 01:55:25,600 --> 01:55:28,140
  5854. Good, that's good.
  5855.  
  5856. 1298
  5857. 01:56:53,310 --> 01:56:55,680
  5858. Beautiful, right?
  5859. - Yes.
  5860.  
  5861. 1299
  5862. 01:56:57,270 --> 01:57:01,770
  5863. When Picasso saw this, he said we haven't
  5864. learned anything new in painting.
  5865.  
  5866. 1300
  5867. 01:57:02,680 --> 01:57:04,810
  5868. In 25,000 years.
  5869.  
  5870. 1301
  5871. 01:57:10,180 --> 01:57:12,890
  5872. Know why they painted mostly animals?
  5873.  
  5874. 1302
  5875. 01:57:14,060 --> 01:57:17,430
  5876. It's assumed they worshiped
  5877. some animals like gods.
  5878.  
  5879. 1303
  5880. 01:57:18,180 --> 01:57:22,060
  5881. They seemed so strong to them.
  5882. Elegant, superior to humans...
  5883.  
  5884. 1304
  5885. 01:57:23,470 --> 01:57:26,220
  5886. They could only hunt
  5887. them by forming groups.
  5888.  
  5889. 1305
  5890. 01:57:26,350 --> 01:57:27,680
  5891. Battue.
  5892.  
  5893. 1306
  5894. 01:57:29,180 --> 01:57:31,470
  5895. Look, it's depicted there.
  5896.  
  5897. 1307
  5898. 01:57:31,520 --> 01:57:32,600
  5899. Battue?
  5900.  
  5901. 1308
  5902. 01:57:33,810 --> 01:57:35,350
  5903. The Cro-Magnons.
  5904.  
  5905. 1309
  5906. 01:57:35,470 --> 01:57:37,640
  5907. That's why you brought me here.
  5908.  
  5909. 1310
  5910. 01:57:37,720 --> 01:57:40,220
  5911. The Cro-Magnons painted these!
  5912. - Exactly.
  5913.  
  5914. 1311
  5915. 01:57:41,520 --> 01:57:44,890
  5916. The first human who had time to do art.
  5917.  
  5918. 1312
  5919. 01:58:04,140 --> 01:58:07,180
  5920. There they are: the Picos de Europa.
  5921.  
  5922. 1313
  5923. 01:58:46,970 --> 01:58:49,600
  5924. Shit!
  5925. - Are you OK?
  5926.  
  5927. 1314
  5928. 01:59:03,350 --> 01:59:05,390
  5929. And now? We run?
  5930. - Run.
  5931.  
  5932. 1315
  5933. 01:59:05,470 --> 01:59:06,680
  5934. Run!
  5935.  
  5936. 1316
  5937. 01:59:11,140 --> 01:59:13,060
  5938. Shit, it's so cold!
  5939.  
  5940. 1317
  5941. 01:59:15,770 --> 01:59:17,850
  5942. Come on, get in.
  5943.  
  5944. 1318
  5945. 01:59:21,470 --> 01:59:22,850
  5946. Everything's wet.
  5947.  
  5948. 1319
  5949. 01:59:23,060 --> 01:59:25,270
  5950. Need a towel?
  5951. - Yes, please.
  5952.  
  5953. 1320
  5954. 01:59:31,060 --> 01:59:34,140
  5955. Can you warm me up a bit?
  5956. - Sure. Come here.
  5957.  
  5958. 1321
  5959. 02:00:12,100 --> 02:00:13,770
  5960. Should we really do this?
  5961.  
  5962. 1322
  5963. 02:00:17,310 --> 02:00:18,810
  5964. Maybe we shouldn't.
  5965.  
  5966. 1323
  5967. 02:00:32,350 --> 02:00:34,770
  5968. Damn, Jan, I...
  5969.  
  5970. 1324
  5971. 02:00:36,470 --> 02:00:37,890
  5972. I think I...
  5973.  
  5974. 1325
  5975. 02:00:40,470 --> 02:00:42,890
  5976. I think I'm falling in love with you.
  5977.  
  5978. 1326
  5979. 02:00:48,520 --> 02:00:50,720
  5980. So am I.
  5981. In you.
  5982.  
  5983. 1327
  5984. 02:00:51,140 --> 02:00:52,680
  5985. Totally.
  5986.  
  5987. 1328
  5988. 02:01:00,470 --> 02:01:02,390
  5989. So what do we do now?
  5990.  
  5991. 1329
  5992. 02:01:05,390 --> 02:01:06,810
  5993. Stay strong?
  5994.  
  5995. 1330
  5996. 02:01:08,470 --> 02:01:10,140
  5997. Yeah, right'?
  5998.  
  5999. 1331
  6000. 02:01:12,430 --> 02:01:14,180
  6001. We talked about it.
  6002.  
  6003. 1332
  6004. 02:01:17,680 --> 02:01:19,640
  6005. Says the polygamist.
  6006.  
  6007. 1333
  6008. 02:01:19,770 --> 02:01:22,180
  6009. Polygamist, yes, but...
  6010.  
  6011. 1334
  6012. 02:01:22,470 --> 02:01:24,270
  6013. I like it.
  6014.  
  6015. 1335
  6016. 02:01:26,270 --> 02:01:27,770
  6017. So do I.
  6018.  
  6019. 1336
  6020. 02:01:36,810 --> 02:01:38,720
  6021. But it's damn hard.
  6022.  
  6023. 1337
  6024. 02:01:38,810 --> 02:01:40,310
  6025. Oh, yeah.
  6026.  
  6027. 1338
  6028. 02:01:44,810 --> 02:01:46,600
  6029. But sniffing is OK, right?
  6030.  
  6031. 1339
  6032. 02:01:57,430 --> 02:01:59,310
  6033. You smell incredibly good.
  6034.  
  6035. 1340
  6036. 02:02:00,640 --> 02:02:02,310
  6037. So do you.
  6038.  
  6039. 1341
  6040. 02:02:06,470 --> 02:02:08,310
  6041. Genetically compatible.
  6042.  
  6043. 1342
  6044. 02:02:09,310 --> 02:02:10,470
  6045. Totally.
  6046.  
  6047. 1343
  6048. 02:02:16,470 --> 02:02:19,470
  6049. Know what's almost better
  6050. than the kiss itself?
  6051.  
  6052. 1344
  6053. 02:02:20,810 --> 02:02:22,890
  6054. The three seconds beforehand.
  6055.  
  6056. 1345
  6057. 02:02:23,180 --> 02:02:25,810
  6058. The feeling when you know
  6059. it's about to happen.
  6060.  
  6061. 1346
  6062. 02:02:32,560 --> 02:02:35,140
  6063. But we'll stay strong, right?
  6064.  
  6065. 1347
  6066. 02:04:15,140 --> 02:04:16,470
  6067. Is everything OK?
  6068.  
  6069. 1348
  6070. 02:04:22,020 --> 02:04:23,600
  6071. Jan, I'm pregnant.
  6072.  
  6073. 1349
  6074. 02:04:55,350 --> 02:04:58,270
  6075. My mother wants me to get an abortion.
  6076.  
  6077. 1350
  6078. 02:05:01,390 --> 02:05:03,470
  6079. I don't know what I want.
  6080.  
  6081. 1351
  6082. 02:05:04,270 --> 02:05:06,270
  6083. I don't know anything anymore.
  6084.  
  6085. 1352
  6086. 02:05:10,270 --> 02:05:11,640
  6087. Want some tea?
  6088.  
  6089. 1353
  6090. 02:05:14,810 --> 02:05:16,180
  6091. Coming.
  6092.  
  6093. 1354
  6094. 02:05:53,810 --> 02:05:55,180
  6095. And Alex?
  6096.  
  6097. 1355
  6098. 02:05:55,220 --> 02:05:57,430
  6099. Does he want the child?
  6100.  
  6101. 1356
  6102. 02:05:58,180 --> 02:05:59,350
  6103. No.
  6104.  
  6105. 1357
  6106. 02:06:00,600 --> 02:06:02,770
  6107. "Bad timing, Jule."
  6108.  
  6109. 1358
  6110. 02:06:10,430 --> 02:06:12,060
  6111. I can abort it with this.
  6112.  
  6113. 1359
  6114. 02:06:14,430 --> 02:06:15,720
  6115. With pills?
  6116.  
  6117. 1360
  6118. 02:06:15,810 --> 02:06:17,520
  6119. That works?
  6120.  
  6121. 1361
  6122. 02:06:18,220 --> 02:06:20,220
  6123. Up until the eighth week.
  6124.  
  6125. 1362
  6126. 02:06:22,680 --> 02:06:24,680
  6127. And what week are you in?
  6128.  
  6129. 1363
  6130. 02:06:26,100 --> 02:06:27,560
  6131. The sixth.
  6132.  
  6133. 1364
  6134. 02:06:27,770 --> 02:06:29,770
  6135. Not much time left.
  6136.  
  6137. 1365
  6138. 02:07:54,100 --> 02:07:55,470
  6139. What are you making?
  6140.  
  6141. 1366
  6142. 02:07:55,680 --> 02:07:56,810
  6143. Paella.
  6144.  
  6145. 1367
  6146. 02:08:02,100 --> 02:08:04,390
  6147. Jan, I've made up my mind.
  6148.  
  6149. 1368
  6150. 02:08:05,850 --> 02:08:07,970
  6151. I'm going to have the child.
  6152.  
  6153. 1369
  6154. 02:08:16,560 --> 02:08:17,680
  6155. You think so?
  6156.  
  6157. 1370
  6158. 02:08:17,850 --> 02:08:21,100
  6159. Of course.
  6160. You'll be a mom. That's great.
  6161.  
  6162. 1371
  6163. 02:08:48,100 --> 02:08:49,470
  6164. I'm hungry-
  6165.  
  6166. 1372
  6167. 02:08:50,060 --> 02:08:53,270
  6168. My child needs food.
  6169. - You can help me.
  6170.  
  6171. 1373
  6172. 02:08:53,810 --> 02:08:54,850
  6173. Slicing onions.
  6174.  
  6175. 1374
  6176. 02:08:55,100 --> 02:08:56,100
  6177. Good.
  6178.  
  6179. 1375
  6180. 02:11:13,180 --> 02:11:14,470
  6181. I'm not pregnant.
  6182.  
  6183. 1376
  6184. 02:11:15,470 --> 02:11:16,560
  6185. What?
  6186.  
  6187. 1377
  6188. 02:11:17,470 --> 02:11:18,770
  6189. Yes...
  6190.  
  6191. 1378
  6192. 02:11:19,470 --> 02:11:24,890
  6193. He said something like
  6194. <<the egg did not stick in the uterus.>>
  6195.  
  6196. 1379
  6197. 02:11:26,890 --> 02:11:29,770
  6198. I didn't fully understand him,
  6199. his English was not so good.
  6200.  
  6201. 1380
  6202. 02:11:31,140 --> 02:11:33,470
  6203. I was pregnant, but...
  6204.  
  6205. 1381
  6206. 02:11:35,020 --> 02:11:37,100
  6207. It seems to happen a lot.
  6208.  
  6209. 1382
  6210. 02:11:37,770 --> 02:11:39,180
  6211. On, boy.
  6212.  
  6213. 1383
  6214. 02:11:48,890 --> 02:11:50,180
  6215. I wanna go.
  6216.  
  6217. 1384
  6218. 02:11:50,310 --> 02:11:51,390
  6219. Sure.
  6220.  
  6221. 1385
  6222. 02:12:57,430 --> 02:13:01,270
  6223. You know, the thought that everything
  6224. is transient is not only sad.
  6225.  
  6226. 1386
  6227. 02:13:01,680 --> 02:13:04,140
  6228. It's also comforting.
  6229.  
  6230. 1387
  6231. 02:13:05,640 --> 02:13:09,430
  6232. I think that's the most important thing
  6233. you have to understand in a relationship.
  6234.  
  6235. 1388
  6236. 02:13:10,310 --> 02:13:14,180
  6237. You're with me, but you're not mine.
  6238. Nobody owns nobody.
  6239.  
  6240. 1389
  6241. 02:13:15,600 --> 02:13:20,470
  6242. And only if I accept that it can all
  6243. be over tomorrow, I can be happy.
  6244.  
  6245. 1390
  6246. 02:13:21,810 --> 02:13:25,470
  6247. In that moment.
  6248. With the other one.
  6249.  
  6250. 1391
  6251. 02:14:49,890 --> 02:14:51,140
  6252. It's back on.
  6253.  
  6254. 1392
  6255. 02:14:51,310 --> 02:14:52,350
  6256. Great.
  6257.  
  6258. 1393
  6259. 02:15:54,310 --> 02:15:55,890
  6260. Then good luck with...
  6261.  
  6262. 1394
  6263. 02:15:56,060 --> 02:15:57,220
  6264. Thanks.
  6265.  
  6266. 1395
  6267. 02:16:00,890 --> 02:16:02,350
  6268. No, don't...
  6269.  
  6270. 1396
  6271. 02:16:02,520 --> 02:16:04,140
  6272. Sorry, I...
  6273.  
  6274. 1397
  6275. 02:16:04,720 --> 02:16:07,140
  6276. It all went so fast...
  6277.  
  6278. 1398
  6279. 02:16:07,520 --> 02:16:08,890
  6280. So much happened.
  6281.  
  6282. 1399
  6283. 02:16:10,890 --> 02:16:14,770
  6284. I need time to think. I need to go
  6285. to Alex. I need to talk to him.
  6286.  
  6287. 1400
  6288. 02:16:15,890 --> 02:16:17,770
  6289. I might not come back.
  6290.  
  6291. 1401
  6292. 02:16:24,470 --> 02:16:25,600
  6293. Jan!
  6294.  
  6295. 1402
  6296. 02:16:29,470 --> 02:16:30,470
  6297. L.-
  6298.  
  6299. 1403
  6300. 02:16:39,600 --> 02:16:41,890
  6301. I have to go or I'll lose my mind.
  6302.  
  6303. 1404
  6304. 02:17:55,100 --> 02:17:57,640
  6305. I'd like to close now.
  6306.  
  6307. 1405
  6308. 02:18:01,430 --> 02:18:04,180
  6309. I'm closing.
  6310. - Alright.
  6311.  
  6312. 1406
  6313. 02:18:04,430 --> 02:18:06,350
  6314. How much is it?
  6315. - Eight euros.
  6316.  
  6317. 1407
  6318. 02:18:10,350 --> 02:18:11,430
  6319. Keep the change.
  6320.  
  6321. 1408
  6322. 02:18:14,430 --> 02:18:16,140
  6323. Do you need a room for the night?
  6324.  
  6325. 1409
  6326. 02:18:16,470 --> 02:18:18,180
  6327. No, thanks.
  6328.  
  6329. 1410
  6330. 02:18:20,770 --> 02:18:22,600
  6331. I'm waiting for a woman.
  6332.  
  6333. 1411
  6334. 02:18:23,770 --> 02:18:25,020
  6335. A woman...
  6336.  
  6337. 1412
  6338. 02:18:26,270 --> 02:18:30,520
  6339. Women are our destiny. Our destiny...
  6340. - That's true.
  6341.  
  6342. 1413
  6343. 02:18:30,850 --> 02:18:33,720
  6344. Good night.
  6345. - Good night. Thanks.
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