How to get the “real” value of the Visible property?

// dodgy; not recommended
    Panel query;
    Form form = new Form
    {
        Controls = {new Panel {
            Visible = false,
            Controls = {
                (query = new Panel {Visible = true})
            }
        }
        }
    };
    form.Show();

    // this is the dodgy bit...
    bool visible = (bool)typeof(Control)
        .GetMethod("GetState", BindingFlags.Instance | BindingFlags.NonPublic)
        .Invoke(query, new object[] { 2 });

var frm2 = new Form {Text = "Form2"};
var lbl = new Label {Visible = true};
frm2.Controls.Add(lbl);
frm2.Show();

var frm1 = new Form {Text = "Form1"};
var lblVis = new Label { Text = lbl.Visible.ToString(), Left = 10, Top = 10};
lbl.VisibleChanged += (sender, args) => MessageBox.Show("Label Visible changed");
var btnShow = new Button {Text = "Show", Left = 10, Top = lblVis.Bottom + 10};
btnShow.Click += (sender, args) =>
                 	{
                 		frm2.Visible = true;
                 		lblVis.Text = lbl.Visible.ToString();
	                	};
var btnHide = new Button {Text = "Hide", Left = 10, Top = btnShow.Bottom + 10};
btnHide.Click += (sender, args) =>
                 	{
                 		frm2.Visible = false;
                 		lblVis.Text = lbl.Visible.ToString();
                 	};

frm1.Controls.AddRange(new Control[] {lblVis, btnShow, btnHide});

Application.Run(frm1);