Kayla Caliendo

Shadi Chan
17 hrs ·

Regarding Kayla Caliendo , There’s many many reasons I’m not her friend, from the beginning of our adventures it was a ton of fun, loved being around her then she started getting moody,insecure and stuff I just assumed it was stress, but when you went as far as to start yelling at me and calling me names that wasnt cool, i remained composed only cause I still was inconsideration of what she may of felt. Traveling is stressful. I really started making a point to her that i have refused to go on this trip and didnt want to accept her offers cUse i felt bad, and she would reassure me that we made enough and we were good but despite that She would just apologize but would do it over and over, trying to brag to her friends or anyone we encountered calling me poor or making jokes about sending me back to the ghetto or my town if I didn’t do what you said. Like im not an animal you arent going to joke about granting me privilege and constantly remind me i wouldnt be there without you, measuring me up to you any time you could in front of your friends and family. All that and name calling and yelling became something you did to me daily and of course i feel trapped cause im either 8 hours away from home or on the other side of the country with no one else but you and people you know. I pretty much turn my cheek cause thats all could do. You used slurs to describe me to your friends and insulted me when you felt right, like I understand jokes that we throw around but when you start going out of your way to insult me just to get a reaction from people around you das not cool, not only was I depressed from things that were happening within my personal life but you made it more miserable being a cunt the whole time you perceive yourself as this walking god thar sheds grace upon others. But yeah we head back to san fran things are better its just her and I so shes not insulting me just to impress others so we’re good, i am trying to look for someone romantically, we both were (well her i think she wanted a fwb at the time) i met this one guy i really started to like Kayla was off and on supportive about him, but me i felt very sure about him after hanging out with him and growing a bond with him, we started talking alot, getting serious as you call it which was nice, fast forward to our trip back to LA we were going good I just assumed that all the things she was doing on east coast was out of stress so i was extra forgiving, but boy was i wrong when we got there it was all good until she started bringing her ex around to hang out with us, she started beating herself up cAlling herself names, and im constantly reassuring her trying my best to make her feel better, and she starts saying shit like what if he likes you better blah blah blah, making it seem as if her ex and I are going to link up, and i even had to go as far as putting myself down so she could ultimately feel better. Once he came around she starts with the insults again, flaunting how i dont have alot of money and that she “has” to help me with everything and cutting me off when i talked saying she’d send me back to my ghetto or whatever, being overall demeaning towards me purely to feed her own ego and to cover her own insecurities in front of this guy. That just kinda remains the theme of that night at dinner, and its whatever. Her ex was talking about an app called telegram about some chat we happened to both be in, kayla is looking at the wall upset, and goes on about how he’s ignoring her and only giving me attention and that she didnt take us out so we could “ignore her” and im just no body is ignoring you literally include yourself in the conversation, and she thinks including herself meant bringing up my dna results and calling me a “n*gg*r mutt” and calling herself a pure aryan girl was a way of adding to the conversation, so me lowkey pretty fucking mad starts roasting her teeth and she gets so offended and butthurt, the night soon came to an end and when we were home and alone she tells me “ um can you not insult me in front of my ex” and me just shocked is like “maybe you shouldn’t insult me for attention because imma defend myself” and she just goes to bed all mad. The trip went on with the same cycle of insults, and yelling and just me being the punching bag cause she “pays for everything” which our funds came from her sells on both our sets, and her sets and whatever money ive given her constantly.
In conclusion la trip was shit and i left early cause how she was acting. I get home and kayla is shortworded and distant but its nothing i wouldnt expect so i was very vague with my responses as well, because i am upset with her. She plans a Florida trip that was just two weeks later and im not too excited but im whatever about it she offers that she could help me pay and all id have to pay was 300 which was cool whatever so im like ok shore ig
Days come and shes still distant and passive aggressive which makes me less and less happy about the upcoming trip. One night she tells me “im going to (guy ive been talking to)’s birthday, i k you like him alot so ill keep my distance nd im like omg thanks I appreciate it. That night rolled by and I hear nothing from her which was whatever then she starts talking to me like we’re buddies again and im like oo okaii its cool i assumed she didnt do anything with him but he messaged me telling me that they slept together and thAt he was sorry, and it kinda broke my heart a little cause i really liked him and when I confronted kayla about it she made up about 4 different excuses as far as saying oh i couldnt help it lol to it was unconsented. I kinda just push that back like im really mad but we have this trip coming up so i need to calm down. So i kinda let it slide. The next thing that kinda made me really mad was her going around telling others not to support me so they could instead support her, which fucked me up cause she is supposed to be my best friend so i tell her cancel that trip or get a refund for my plane ticket or whatever else cause im not going, told her no amount of money or travel would make me be around her and shes off the goop mad as fuck telling me to die calling me names n shit telling me to pay her back for the plane she couldn’t get a refund on and i told her i gave her that 100$ and she can get the person who stopped sponsoring me to pay it off cause, im not going to pay back someone who constantly back stabs and mistreats me. Anyways shes big mad and i cut her off, over the next few days shes messaging me and posting pics of her crying on her instagram story making depressed posts and i once again give her the benefit of the doubt (pretty foolish of me in the first place) and I equate it to she must not know any better since she sent paragraph making every kind of excuse to say why she isnt wrong but WHY i am wrong for simply reacting. At this point im tired of fighting and im open to hearing her reasoning even though i disagree, we are cool again, im moving on within my personal life, found a bf moved into a different house finding a new job applying for college and preparing myself so im busy, and all my friends and family understand i am busy, I deactivate my fbs just to cause less distraction and she messages me immediately about my Facebook being down and im like yeah its down, and the next day rolls by and she messages me about my bf blocking her on instagram and i didnt see it til later so she double texts me with passive aggression “did your bf block me lmao” “ok” and I text her back saying sorry i was busy, then she starts going on about how all i do is ignore her now, and that im “cutting off all my close friends and people who’ve helped me “ because I deactivated my fb, and i tell her thAt im getting busy and that i need less distraction, assuming she’d understand, and she goes on and tells me whatever just “pay her back” which she knows im not about to pay her shit and that was a part of the consequence of back stabbing me. And she goes on to tell me I just used her this whole time and making the whole situation as a personal attack towards her >you deactivated fb to ignore me
>you used me
>all “our” friends think you are delusional
And telling me just cause i got in a relationship and im doing better im suddenly cutting her off
And so i really cut her off lemme give some screenshots ((check comments in original post okie))