[5/25/2013 7:30:43 PM] Hikaru/Ember Bright: Oh
[5/25/2013 11:53:02 PM] Hikaru/Ember Bright: What does it mean if you don't like someone, yet when they get an SO, you're not jealous persay, but annoyed that they're spending all their time with that person, and you're left alone? And what does it mean when it's not on just one person but a lot of your friends, which just reinforces the fact you don't like them?
[5/25/2013 11:53:24 PM] Nisorin Lertis: It means you're lonely.
[5/25/2013 11:54:00 PM] Hikaru/Ember Bright: Even if your'e with them and the SO is around? Thus you're not actually alone?
[5/25/2013 11:54:30 PM] Nisorin Lertis: Not hard to be lonely while with friends. Called being the third wheel.
[5/25/2013 11:55:51 PM] Hikaru/Ember Bright: How can one be lonely when they're doing the same thing they'd do even whent he person is there and nothing is different except the person not being there?
[5/25/2013 11:56:27 PM] Nisorin Lertis: Just because you're doing different things doesn't mean you're not interacting somehow.
[5/25/2013 11:56:45 PM] Nisorin Lertis: Just by being in the same area as someone causes you to interact in a few different ways.
[5/25/2013 11:56:50 PM] Nisorin Lertis: Not all of them obvious.
[5/25/2013 11:56:56 PM] Hikaru/Ember Bright: Oh..
[5/25/2013 11:58:22 PM] Hikaru/Ember Bright: Loneliness can feel like jealousy?
[5/25/2013 11:58:39 PM] Nisorin Lertis: More along the lines of it can cause jealousy.
[12:01:40 AM] Hikaru/Ember Bright: I don't get it. When people are around and I'm bugged I want to be left alone to the computer, and if they leave me alone, it's fine if they're still there.. but if they leave, I'm lonely? ... Doesn't that kinda contradict?
[12:01:51 AM] Nisorin Lertis: Nope.
[12:02:14 AM] Nisorin Lertis: Just because they're not interacting with you doesn't mean you're not subconsciously aware they're there.
[12:02:29 AM] Hikaru/Ember Bright: So it's subconscious loneliness?
[12:03:13 AM] Nisorin Lertis: Loneliness comes from both.
[12:03:20 AM] Nisorin Lertis: Let me ask you this.
[12:03:35 AM] Nisorin Lertis: Do you miss the time when you and Zai were together? The early parts of it when things were going well?
[12:04:23 AM] Hikaru/Ember Bright: I guess.. Not being together, I'm ignored.
[12:04:44 AM] Nisorin Lertis: You're lonely.
[12:05:04 AM] Nisorin Lertis: You see everyone else around you having fun together, especially people with Significant Others, and it makes you jealous.
[12:05:29 AM] Hikaru/Ember Bright: But I don't want an SO! I've been asked before and I don't want one. Why would I be jealous?
[12:05:44 AM] Nisorin Lertis: Because you miss the feelings that come with them.
[12:05:54 AM] Nisorin Lertis: You miss having someone paying attention to you, caring.
[12:06:18 AM] Hikaru/Ember Bright: Wouldn't that mean I just want attention?
[12:06:30 AM] Nisorin Lertis: It's a different kind of attention.
[12:08:05 AM] Hikaru/Ember Bright: Does that mean I want an SO though or just the attention?
[12:08:16 AM] Nisorin Lertis: Hard to say.
[12:15:14 AM] Hikaru/Ember Bright: I get it with friends just hanging out with friends and not SOs too...
[12:15:19 AM] Hikaru/Ember Bright: So I think it's the attention..
[12:15:26 AM] Nisorin Lertis: Maybe.
[12:15:38 AM] Nisorin Lertis: Warrants exploring, at the least.