<VisualState x:Name="Expanded">
<Storyboard>
    <DoubleAnimationUsingKeyFrames Storyboard.TargetProperty="(FrameworkElement.Width)" Storyboard.TargetName="JobMaster">
        <EasingDoubleKeyFrame KeyTime="0">
            <EasingDoubleKeyFrame.Value>
                 <Binding
                   Path="ActualWidth"
                   RelativeSource="{RelativeSource FindAncestor, AncestorType={x:Type WrapPanel}}" />
            </EasingDoubleKeyFrame.Value>
        </EasingDoubleKeyFrame>
    </DoubleAnimationUsingKeyFrames>
</Storyboard>

<VisualState x:Name="Expanded">
<Storyboard>
    <DoubleAnimationUsingKeyFrames Storyboard.TargetProperty="(FrameworkElement.Width)" Storyboard.TargetName="JobMaster">
        <EasingDoubleKeyFrame KeyTime="0" Value="800" />
    </DoubleAnimationUsingKeyFrames>
</Storyboard>

<UserControl.Width>
       <Binding
       Path="ActualWidth"
       RelativeSource="{RelativeSource AncestorType={x:Type WrapPanel}}" />
</UserControl.Width>

<Binding Path="ActualWidth" ElementName="MyWrapPanel"/>

public class TileExpandColapseBehavoir : Behavior<Control>
{
    private ITile _data;

    #region Properties

    public static readonly DependencyProperty TileControlProperty = DependencyProperty.Register("TileControl", typeof(object), typeof(TileExpandColapseBehavoir), new PropertyMetadata(null));
    public static readonly DependencyProperty DefaultWidthProperty = DependencyProperty.Register("DefaultWidth", typeof(Double), typeof(TileExpandColapseBehavoir), new PropertyMetadata(null));

    public object TileControl
    {
        get { return (object)this.GetValue(TileControlProperty); }
        set { this.SetValue(TileControlProperty, value); }
    }

    public double DefaultWidth
    {
        get { return (double)this.GetValue(DefaultWidthProperty); }
        set { this.SetValue(DefaultWidthProperty, value); }
    }

    #endregion

    public TileExpandColapseBehavoir()
    {
    }

    protected override void OnAttached()
    {
        this.AssociatedObject.PreviewMouseDown +=new MouseButtonEventHandler(AssociatedObject_MouseUp);
    }

    private void AssociatedObject_MouseUp(object sender, MouseButtonEventArgs e)
    {
        UIElement child = (UIElement)sender;
        WrapPanel parentWrap = FindAncestorUtil.TryFindAcestor<WrapPanel>(child);
        if (parentWrap != null && TileControl is UserControl)
        {
            GetData();
            if (_data.IsExpanded == false)
            {
                Binding newBinding = new Binding();
                newBinding.Source = parentWrap;
                newBinding.Path = new PropertyPath("ActualWidth");

                UserControl thisTile = (UserControl)TileControl;
                BindingOperations.SetBinding(thisTile, UserControl.WidthProperty, newBinding);
                _data.IsExpanded = true;
            }
            else
            {
                UserControl thisTile = (UserControl)TileControl;

                BindingOperations.ClearBinding(thisTile, UserControl.WidthProperty);
                thisTile.Width = DefaultWidth;
                _data.IsExpanded = false;
            }
        }
    }

    private void GetData()
    {
        if (_data == null && AssociatedObject.DataContext is ITile)
        {
             _data = (ITile)AssociatedObject.DataContext;
        }
    }
}