dont bame yourself for what they did to you

Dont blame yourself for what they did to you (script offer)[A4A](comfort)(for all victims)(emotional)




this is more of something i wish i could tell other victims out there, if you would like to use it as a script go ahead, it will be gender neutral.

(scrips starts)

*approaching the listener while they're reading in bed*

"hey are you free?"

*sits next to them blankets ruffle*

"I've been thinking about this for a while and i really need to tell you this, please don't talk and just listen to me"

*background noise as you get comfy*



(this is really what i want to say to all victims out there, i have no way of telling every single one of you but i wish i fucking could, i thought that writing it would be easier for me to tell more people rather than saying it out loud to nobody. i have so many more things to say other than what I've wrote down but it would look like an essay if i wrote them all)



"i want to start off with absolutely nothing is your fault, nothing that happened to you is your fault and it never will be. the things they did to you were cruel and disgusting, but i need you to know that its not your fault, i need you to know that, do not apologise for what happened to YOU."



"i also want to say how proud i am of you for coming out and telling people about what they did to you, dont blame yourself for what they did, you did the right thing coming forward and sharing your story, some people dont believe you, but you dont need them, you have so many people behind you right now, hundreds of people are here for you. "



"i am here for you, remember that please, i am always here to talk, i am always here for when you need comforting, i am always here if you get angry, i will always here here. the people who left? you dont need them, you never did need them okay?"



"please remember that youll be better without them here telling you that what you did was wrong, no what THEY did was wrong, you told your story, you had proof, even if you didnt, it still happened to you."



"Dont let these people invalidate you just because they can, there will always be people like that, but you dont need them, you dont need to listen to them and their opinions on what happened to YOU, it didnt happen to them, their opinions shouldnt matter to you or anyone else this has happened to."



"im so sorry if im just repeating myself but i need you to know, i just, you need to know okay?"



*finally turns towards the listener before realising theyre crying*



"oh love why are you crying? its okay, its okay, no you dont have to say anything just come here"



*hugs the listener as they cry, whispering*



"its okay to cry, its okay to let these feelings out im always going to be here for you. whatever you need im going to be here no matter what"



"okay let me wipe your tears we can finish this another time okay? lets get your mind off of this and watch a movie?"



*listener agrees*



"okay you pick im going to get some snacks"



*audios ends as you leave the room*



(script ends)



(add this to your video if you would like, i guess its an authors note type of thing)



"id also like to add, not only did i write this for you, the person listening/reading this script i wrote it for myself, i myself am a victim and i would just like to say, from the bottom of my heart i am so sorry youve had to go through this kind of thing, and i need you to remember you shouldnt blame yourself for what happened to you."





as always, im not sure how long with audio would be, feel free to make changes to this script!

if you do use this script please credit me on twitter



twitter:subnellyy



if youre someone who is a victim and you need someone to talk to, i am always here to talk if you need it <33