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- A letter on Tenderness.
- Arthur Miller to Marilyn Monroe.
- Dear Marilyn
- You asked me to write you a letter about tenderness. I'll try it. I write how I think and what I can.
- The most important thing is to write simply and honestly and everything else will follow.
- So, about tenderness:Tenderness consists of two parts:of words and gestures.
- First, about the word. When people die, they remain words: Words of anger, words of love, words of envy, words of wisdom.
- Generally we have no idea how many entities we have in the form of words.
- Words can kill, words can be resurrected, even the God we have is only some text. So God is also the word.
- The Bible itself begins with the words, "In the beginning was the word...".
- When people break up, they also in a sense, die for each other and then also remain only words.
- Nothing more and often people remember the other person as only this: as the words he once said
- and suffer remembering and why things went wrong, there was a misunderstanding and so things fell apart.
- That is all it was words, words, words...
- But of all the billions of words- there is one little category of words that never, under any circumstances can't hurt.
- They can bring only joy and happiness.
- These words are words of endearment. They can safely say all you want without fear of being misunderstood.
- They accurately and will always be gladly heard but people are embarrassed to say them.
- Only after lengthy efforts, in the struggle with themselves, finally squeezed, "honey" or "sweetie"...
- In the words of tenderness there's some kind of magic.
- They get stuck in the throat if they are addressed to the wrong person.
- Sometimes – on the contrary. You can't stop it. They flow from you like a waterfall.
- You enjoy saying them, you want to invent new ones, everything is softer and more
- tender still and you caress her ear with these words. The more you say it, the more she wants to hear them.
- Among the words of tenderness there is a very intimate word. These so-called "our words".
- When people love each other they come up with these "our words".
- If a person takes some "our words" and transfers them to another love, then he understands
- that he is committing an enormity. "Our words" — are a very fragile thing.
- If they speak not together – they are creepy, saccharine vulgarity and when only to each other
- that is the best word of affection to have in the world.
- This is important, Marilyn. It is very important not to speak to others of “our words".
- I hope you understand that.
- And here I finally come to the conclusion. What is tenderness?
- The tenderness of Marilyn is when you say words of endearment and even the best "our words"
- and also make gestures of tenderness. And one to whom it is addressed – does the same thing.
- That is the tenderness. Sometimes it is also called happiness.
- That's all.
- Yours,
- Arthur Miller.
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