This Troper is a decent guy who always treats women respectfully. And has, in his entire life, only had two women who were interested in him as he naturally is. However, when he's in a bad mood and acts like a complete dick towards people, he finds women practically falling all over him. * sigh* If his sense of ethics didn't condone such behavior, he'd continue to act like a dick just to 'get the girl'. Damned conscience.

    * Similar problem for this Troper. After being the nice guy for many years he feel into a depression for a couple months of junior year of high school during which he became a total jerk. During those months he had his first date, his first time being asked to winter formal, first seduction, and first time a girl admitted to having a crush on him. When the depression ended he went back to being a nice guy and returned to a stagnant life of being entirely uninteresting to women.
    o This Troper would date you both. Have a virtual cookie.
    o Seconded.
    o This troper would date neither of you, because you both sound like total dicks. Seriously, being kind to people should be its own reward. If you're complaining that girls aren't putting out in return for your kindness "like they're supposed to," you're a dick.