<Duabus>	I don't know
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	ok
	<Duabus>	I offered you help, and I was legit, you felt threatened or whatever that's fine but you were out of line with your last msg
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	ok i might have been but i wish you would have talked to me about remaking the list before you did it, and you said our diplomats in losspriv. i guess you redoing the list and saying that, is what idk made me feel like that. Im open to you helping idk i just didnt want you to take any thing over. once it gets organized then yea im going to have people over diplomats or people over answering
	the questions. But in no way was i trying to shut you out on helping
	<Duabus>	our = LoSS's diplos :/
	Chels, you do realize if I wanted to take over, I would have challenged you without giving you all the info I did right... :/
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	i dont think you wanted to take over the whole thing.
	i know im stubborn and such but really im not shutting ne one out on help at all.
	<Duabus>	You've deined help numerous times, I don't know how that is not shutting anyone out
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	no i havent denied help
	ive denied a deputy
	<Duabus>	Why would you do that? Everybody has a deputy, it in no way undermines you
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	which is completely different. just because i dont want a deputy doesnt mean i dont want help
	<Duabus>	it sure gives off that air
	you didn't say, no i don't want a deputy but you can do this, you just said no and turned away
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	at the time i didnt have any thing for them to do. i mean after war i would have. i didnt know that no one wanted to wait
	or that it was even a bad idea to wait
	til i talked to u about it
	i thought about the deputy thing and was going to ask junior if he could be on and active to help me
	when ever i saw him on here
	<Duabus>	You don't see that as a problem? You're Minister of FA, you should KNOW these things. You've held this position for what 8 months?
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	11
	and loss has never had this much activity
	<Duabus>	Ok then almost a year..
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	with me here
	<Duabus>	FA gives that activity!
	I've said it before, active diplos is the first thing any newb goes for b/c it's the easiest.
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	yea i know and when we first started getting more people i thought i was doing that the best that i could
	no one has really offered to help me with ne thing other than the diplomats
	<Duabus>	B/c that's where you lack
	and diplos are 70% if not more FA
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	i mostly took care of it for a while tbh
	<Duabus>	then what?
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	but i knew how to take care of the diplomats i had, just didnt know how to tell other people to do it
	<Duabus>	Did you ask?
	You didn't think to send out an aa wide pm?
	To post up on the forums (before I came around)?
	To scream your lungs out on IRC?
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	<Duabus> To post up on the forums (before I came around)? <--really when you came here we were starting to get active people
	thats where i started trying to do something different or trying to come up with something
	so i didnt know exactly what to post on the forums
	Did i ask? not every one ive asked the tri plenty of times of what they would like to see done or what they think i should do
	<Duabus>	Anyway, I apologize chels, I will not be discussing anymore FA strategy with you until after this challenge is decided, I hope you don't take it personally but as somebody that endorsed your challenger I don't believe it's fair to continue this now.
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	and ive been told i was doing a great job or they thought i was doing every thing i could
	<Duabus>	I will be more than happy to help you out afterwards if you keep your position, and I hope you don't think I want you to lose it b/c that's not my goal
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	i understand. Tbh idk if ill get to keep it. but im sorry for that message and sorry for being a jerk about it.
	<Duabus>	I think you lack in a lot of places, but nothing a little experience couldn't fix. Just keep in mind, you run your ministry NOT the tri Chels
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	yea i know.
	<Duabus>	They merely overlook it, I think they should have been more actively involved but who knows what their thoughts were.
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	yea
	<Duabus>	I'm done with this meaningless bickering, I really am, I hate being given the "catfight" sorta title. I am a truly drama free person, I hate that kind of stuff and will not indulge in it anymore. I accept your apology, but just know that I will not be able to tolerate anymore. I am more than happy and honestly would love to get more involved in FA, it's always been my thing.
	<chels[LoSS_MoFA]>	i dont like it ne more than you. just sometimes the way you come off with things just goes the wrong way with me. i love FA and i dont want to shut u or any one else out of helping
	at all
	ive never meant to
	ever
	i accept your apology as well
	<Duabus>	Alrighty, well that's that, then!