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No, it's not! Do you realize that it would be very frustrating to check if you got pinged only to realize it was only done as a "prank" that someone else thought was "funny"?

It's not about [insert wrong opinion here]. It's about human empathy. Psychopaths lack the ability to think of anyone past themselves. Obviously, I'm not comparing you to a psychopath, but I think you also have this. Now, I don't know you IRL or anything, but it also seems like you also lack the ability to pick on social cues and rely purely on verbal communication.

Also, you're acting very childish about this.