Damn, this shit highkey triggers me. Never says good morning, have a good day, never offers a plastic bag. If I ask for one on my own, I can literally see how reluctant she is to do that. Only when she's done scanning my groceries, she gives me a bag to take as much time from me as possible. No need to say that I put my groceries in the bag on my own. But the most fucked-up thing is when they address me with ты. (In Russian,  ты is an informal version of "you," and вы/Вы is a formal one. Using ты in a formal setting is deemed very rude and out of line.) Even if I ask her why she's doing this, she's like, "are you 50 or what?," and goes on with this shit. She also deliberately constructs her sentences to address me with ты as many times as she can. Do you need a bag? Do you have a bonus card? Will you pay in cash? Then proceeds to give me a cheque saying "here you are." I mean, even when it's not necessary to say anything at all, she still does, just to address me with ты. I'm such a sucker, aren't I?

When the next customer comes up, she just transforms. Smiling, goes like "good morning, would you like a plastic bag? Do you have a bonus card? Thank you for the purchase, come back and visit us again." Bitch.

And it's all fine frim their view. They don't do that out of spite, they don't think "look at that loser, gonna shit on him rn," no. It all happens automatically. There's no bullying, it's an extra entity that is cut out by Occam's razor. What is commonly considered as bullying is actually a manifestation of crossrank relations. Normies treat normies with respect, but they hate on betas and it shows up in every little thing. One day I looked a cashier in the eyes and said, "I hate you too." She freaked out then stared at me with her eyes wide open and said, "young man, are you okay?" At least she didn't address me with ты. I don't actually hate anyone, I'm just in pain. And there's no end to it until I finally die.