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Jan 25 12:47:51 <leeceia>	Heyooo
Jan 25 12:47:55 <leeceia>	Suo
Jan 25 12:47:58 <leeceia>	Sup
Jan 25 12:48:03 <whitesnek>	Hi
Jan 25 12:48:08 <TwoFoxSix>	o/
Jan 25 12:48:25 <whitesnek>	You probably shouldn't be so excited for a new person
Jan 25 12:48:29 <whitesnek>	I'm a depressing guy lol
Jan 25 12:48:50 <leeceia>	I'm sure you're not
Jan 25 12:48:58 <TwoFoxSix>	thats a hell of an introduction
Jan 25 12:49:02 <leeceia>	Everyone has down moods and needs to rant
Jan 25 12:49:10 <leeceia>	\o
Jan 25 12:49:16 <TwoFoxSix>	whats up leeceia ?
Jan 25 12:49:27 <leeceia>	I'm drunk and it's almost 6am
Jan 25 12:49:38 <TwoFoxSix>	Do you work today?
Jan 25 12:49:41 <leeceia>	I had a fantastic fun night
Jan 25 12:49:42 <whitesnek>	I came here Bc I had just come back from browsing the r/tinder sub and I got depressed
Jan 25 12:49:43 <leeceia>	Yes
Jan 25 12:49:50 <whitesnek>	How do I not be so unconfident in myself
Jan 25 12:49:51 <TwoFoxSix>	ouch, what time?
Jan 25 12:49:53 <leeceia>	From 5pm-12:30
Jan 25 12:50:00 <TwoFoxSix>	oh, at least you have some time :P
Jan 25 12:50:14 <whitesnek>	I look at these other guys profiles I'm competing with, they are all tall and able to list their height in their bio, they aren't ugly like me
Jan 25 12:50:14 <leeceia>	No I'm not working today
Jan 25 12:50:38 <TwoFoxSix>	What all happened in your fantastic fun night?
Jan 25 12:50:38 <leeceia>	But I have to gym and then hike and camp
Jan 25 12:50:52 <leeceia>	Oh we just hit up our favourite bars
Jan 25 12:51:13 <leeceia>	whitesnek: tinder isn't a competition
Jan 25 12:51:20 <leeceia>	In fact neither is dating
Jan 25 12:51:21 <TwoFoxSix>	whitesnek, dont compare yourself with others. That just sets yourself up for failure
Jan 25 12:51:31 <TwoFoxSix>	everyone has their charm
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Jan 25 12:51:35 <leeceia>	Be confident in what you do
Jan 25 12:51:40 <leeceia>	Own your powee
Jan 25 12:51:52 <leeceia>	Power
Jan 25 12:52:24 <TwoFoxSix>	https://i.imgur.com/kMPdz0J.gifv
Jan 25 12:52:44 <TwoFoxSix>	I see a joke just hanging out in that gif
Jan 25 12:52:51 <leeceia>	O wow
Jan 25 12:52:51 <whitesnek>	Dude I'm 5'7, I look like a potato, i have small hands/feet (among other things), and I'm 23 and no girl has ever shown interest in me
Jan 25 12:53:08 <whitesnek>	It's hard not to compare myself to others and wish I had the height, had the looks etc
Jan 25 12:53:13 <leeceia>	Are you outgoing?
Jan 25 12:53:19 <whitesnek>	Not at all
Jan 25 12:53:22 <leeceia>	It's always easy to compare
Jan 25 12:53:27 <leeceia>	I'm not a model
Jan 25 12:53:39 <leeceia>	5'7" is average height
Jan 25 12:53:47 <leeceia>	You're totally fine
Jan 25 12:54:25 <whitesnek>	Is it though? In the short time I had tinder, I came across so many girls who said in their bio "if below 6ft, don't bother"
Jan 25 12:54:31 <whitesnek>	Or soemthjng along those lines
Jan 25 12:54:36 <TwoFoxSix>	those are people you probably dont want to be with anyway
Jan 25 12:54:39 <whitesnek>	"Guys who are tall 😍😍😍"
Jan 25 12:54:55 <TwoFoxSix>	people who are picky on small things generally have major flaws that they try to hide
Jan 25 12:54:58 <whitesnek>	It sucks knowing I'll never be a guy to right home about
Jan 25 12:55:10 <whitesnek>	No girl is gonna be excited about introducing me to her friends/family
Jan 25 12:55:11 <James>	"Girls who are thin 😍😍😍"
Jan 25 12:55:19 <leeceia>	Oh fuck it
Jan 25 12:55:21 <TwoFoxSix>	what about being a guy to left home about?
Jan 25 12:55:35 <whitesnek>	:/
Jan 25 12:55:45 <leeceia>	No point trying to please people who will a)never be interested b) are kinda cuntish
Jan 25 12:55:56 <Scampi>	TwoFoxSix: the one you hide at home and don't allow yourself to be seen in public with.
Jan 25 12:55:58 <TwoFoxSix>	word
Jan 25 12:56:07 <James>	For some reason it's just more socially acceptable for girls to wear their shallowness on their sleeve, so it's more just a filter to help you stay away from those people
Jan 25 12:56:12 <TwoFoxSix>	well he said that he wont be the one to right home about it, not write
Jan 25 12:56:16 <TwoFoxSix>	so thats why I asked about left
Jan 25 12:56:24 <whitesnek>	leeceia: while that sounds good on paper, in practice, those girls make up a large chunk of the dating pool
Jan 25 12:56:27 <leeceia>	You could be a legit 10 the world over
Jan 25 12:56:31 <James>	lots of guys think the same things but know better than to put something like I wrote above on their profile
Jan 25 12:56:36 <whitesnek>	I'm basically looking for a needle in a haystack
Jan 25 12:56:46 <TwoFoxSix>	with that attitude, yes
Jan 25 12:56:46 <leeceia>	And some cunt will be like "2/5 stars, overrated"
Jan 25 12:56:56 <leeceia>	Oh that's a lie
Jan 25 12:57:01 <leeceia>	Get off tinder
Jan 25 12:57:04 <James>	5/7, 9/10 over rice
Jan 25 12:57:06 <leeceia>	Meet real women
Jan 25 12:57:10 <Scampi>	TwoFoxSix: And was it the 'two fish in a tank..' joke?
Jan 25 12:57:16 <TwoFoxSix>	Delete tinder, hire facebook, and hit Jim
Jan 25 12:57:20 <TwoFoxSix>	Scampi, exactly :D
Jan 25 12:57:25 <leeceia>	Poor jim
Jan 25 12:57:28 <James>	don't call me Jim
Jan 25 12:57:29 <whitesnek>	James: while true, it still feels emasculating
Jan 25 12:57:36 <whitesnek>	I'm not what girls picture when they think of a man
Jan 25 12:57:37 <James>	hit me if you have to, but use my proper name D:
Jan 25 12:57:44 <TwoFoxSix>	Jam
Jan 25 12:57:54 <James>	are you a horse? there are girls into that too
Jan 25 12:58:01 <leeceia>	Lol
Jan 25 12:58:11 <TwoFoxSix>	thats a whole new world of crazy for many of htem
Jan 25 12:58:13 <whitesnek>	leeceia: I'm a socially anxious, shy, introverted guy
Jan 25 12:58:16 <TwoFoxSix>	The flashbacks... oh god
Jan 25 12:58:18 <whitesnek>	I have everything working against me
Jan 25 12:58:19 <TwoFoxSix>	why James, why?
Jan 25 12:58:23 <whitesnek>	I don't even have friends
Jan 25 12:58:26 <Scampi>	whitesnek: Do you work out?
Jan 25 12:58:36 <Scampi>	You don't need friends, you need abs.
Jan 25 12:58:37 <James>	TwoFoxSix: I donno, I'm no psychiatrist
Jan 25 12:58:47 <whitesnek>	I used to but I gave up, got lazy and depressed Scampi
Jan 25 12:58:49 <Scampi>	Consider the six of them your 'crew'
Jan 25 12:59:21 <Scampi>	idk, whitesnek, you need to bring something to the table if you want a girl
Jan 25 12:59:37 <whitesnek>	I know that but I'm just not capable of doing that
Jan 25 12:59:39 <TwoFoxSix>	I don't have abs, I have PLA -nudges skittle-
Jan 25 12:59:41 <leeceia>	So work on the social anxiety, realise other people's opinions of you is limited, stop trying to impress people who are never going to care, hit the gym or find another hobby that fills you with confidence and provides solid goals - and then smash said goals
Jan 25 12:59:43 <whitesnek>	Which makes me fuckimg depressed
Jan 25 12:59:47 <Scampi>	You are capable, you're just too lazy.
Jan 25 13:00:09 <whitesnek>	The only thing that keeps me from killing myself is the though of my parents being left with the grief
Jan 25 13:00:25 <leeceia>	If you were capable you would have done it
Jan 25 13:00:27 <whitesnek>	Scampi: it's not just laziness, I lack social skills
Jan 25 13:00:28 <Scampi>	whitesnek: First you need to calm down. Get yourself a nice cup of tea.
Jan 25 13:00:35 <Scampi>	whitesnek: the laziness re the gym, I meant.
Jan 25 13:00:39 <leeceia>	Stop beating yourself up in could haves/ would haves
Jan 25 13:00:48 <leeceia>	Work on the will dos
Jan 25 13:00:55 <James>	protip: there's nothing innately wrong with being single or a virgin or whatever. Beating yourself up about that shit can easily be the basis of the problem
Jan 25 13:01:04 <Scampi>	leeceia's right - focus on where you're going
Jan 25 13:01:04 <TwoFoxSix>	^
Jan 25 13:01:29 <whitesnek>	James: it's easy to say but waking up knowing today will be just like yesterday sucks and gets old
Jan 25 13:01:36 <whitesnek>	I feel lonely 99% of the time
Jan 25 13:01:46 <Scampi>	So don't make it like yesterday?
Jan 25 13:01:48 <whitesnek>	But it feels like there's a physical barrier stopping me from changing
Jan 25 13:01:56 <whitesnek>	Scampi oh why didn't I think of that
Jan 25 13:01:57 <Scampi>	Everybody has 24 hours in the day, you choose how you use it.
Jan 25 13:02:08 <whitesnek>	Scampi: you really don't get anxiety man
Jan 25 13:02:18 <leeceia>	You have to realise that you are by far your own worst critique and that critique is the kind of cuntish snob who writes vice articles and does cocaine with d listers
Jan 25 13:02:22 <Scampi>	No, I don't, which is why you need to listen
Jan 25 13:02:28 <leeceia>	Aka not worth impressing
Jan 25 13:02:32 <TwoFoxSix>	you can still overcome a lot of your bullshit though
Jan 25 13:02:44 <whitesnek>	So don't tell me I can "just change it" Scampi
Jan 25 13:02:45 <TwoFoxSix>	I deal with anxiety issues as well, but you are still in control of your life
Jan 25 13:02:49 <whitesnek>	You don't know how it feels
Jan 25 13:02:56 <leeceia>	Oh please
Jan 25 13:03:01 <Scampi>	Stop with the feeling and get with the dooooing.
Jan 25 13:03:09 <leeceia>	Pity parties can get fucked
Jan 25 13:03:13 <TwoFoxSix>	word
Jan 25 13:03:16 <rampagingkoala>	look
Jan 25 13:03:21 <leeceia>	No one will ever help you but yourself
Jan 25 13:03:22 <rampagingkoala>	if you want to feel bad about yourself and do nothing
Jan 25 13:03:24 <rampagingkoala>	then fine
Jan 25 13:03:31 <rampagingkoala>	but don't expect to get sympathy when all you do is whine
Jan 25 13:03:34 <TwoFoxSix>	mods = gods
Jan 25 13:03:41 <whitesnek>	 rampagingkoala I don't want to do nothing
Jan 25 13:03:42 <leeceia>	Stop being an entitled child and realise progress takes serious efforr
Jan 25 13:03:47 <rampagingkoala>	okay then do something
Jan 25 13:03:48 <whitesnek>	I just can't do anything
Jan 25 13:03:56 <rampagingkoala>	lol okay
Jan 25 13:03:56 <TwoFoxSix>	you can do stuff
Jan 25 13:03:59 <whitesnek>	rampagingkoala: do you understand what anxiety is?
Jan 25 13:04:00 <leeceia>	Nothing changes by bitching about it
Jan 25 13:04:02 <leeceia>	Yes
Jan 25 13:04:03 <Scampi>	On the topic of being an entitled child... Rampko, can I have voice pls?
Jan 25 13:04:05 <TwoFoxSix>	quit being a bitch and take your life into your own hands
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Jan 25 13:04:19 <Scampi>	TwoFoxSix: ... I wouldn't use that exact phrasing..
Jan 25 13:04:22 <rampagingkoala>	so basically you're going to let yourself be hamstrung by medical issues
Jan 25 13:04:25 <TwoFoxSix>	too late
Jan 25 13:04:25 <rampagingkoala>	using those as excuses for not doing things
Jan 25 13:04:37 <rampagingkoala>	you're like fat people who think that they can't lose weight because of "muh thyroid"
Jan 25 13:04:42 *	rampagingkoala gives voice to Scampi
Jan 25 13:04:47 *	rampagingkoala gives voice to leeceia
Jan 25 13:04:47 <Scampi>	Squeeeee
Jan 25 13:04:53 <leeceia>	Oooo shit
Jan 25 13:04:55 <TwoFoxSix>	whats giving voice do?
Jan 25 13:04:57 <whitesnek>	You guys really don't understand though, I want to change I really do, but when I go out in public, i can't function. I shake, I turn red, and can barely get a word out
Jan 25 13:05:08 <Scampi>	TwoFoxSix: Nothing, normally, but if the room is muted you can still talk
Jan 25 13:05:13 <TwoFoxSix>	oh neat
Jan 25 13:05:15 <leeceia>	Okay so get a counselor
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Jan 25 13:05:21 <Scampi>	I just want to be high enough on my userlist that I can see myself
Jan 25 13:05:23 <rampagingkoala>	go to therapy go do something
Jan 25 13:05:30 <Scampi>	.. I'm a little bit narcissistic sometimes.
Jan 25 13:05:30 <packmanbugseater>	hello
Jan 25 13:05:37 <James>	I remember when I had voice
Jan 25 13:05:37 <leeceia>	Nothing changes by saying "I can't" until you prove that you can
Jan 25 13:05:40 <rampagingkoala>	you got the shit end of the stick because you have problems that other people don't have
Jan 25 13:05:41 <James>	I think I kept it for like a week
Jan 25 13:05:42 <rampagingkoala>	life sucks
Jan 25 13:05:44 <rampagingkoala>	get over it
Jan 25 13:05:45 <whitesnek>	I had an Italian class in uni last semester and I couldn't keep my head up because if I did, my neck would tense up thinking "everyone's staring at me judging me" and my head would shake with the slightest movement
Jan 25 13:05:47 <TwoFoxSix>	I don't have a voice. I am mute
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Jan 25 13:05:55 <packmanbugseater>	what you are talking about ?
Jan 25 13:05:57 <rampagingkoala>	find a counselor
Jan 25 13:05:59 <rampagingkoala>	get a therapist
Jan 25 13:06:02 <leeceia>	^
Jan 25 13:06:03 <rampagingkoala>	either work to change it
Jan 25 13:06:04 <rampagingkoala>	or don't
Jan 25 13:06:06 <TwoFoxSix>	we are talking about all sorts of crazy shit, packmanbugseater
Jan 25 13:06:06 <Scampi>	TwoFoxSix: You are for seeing, not hearing :p
Jan 25 13:06:08 <leeceia>	This is a professional issue
Jan 25 13:06:11 <rampagingkoala>	but don't say there's nothing you can do
Jan 25 13:06:15 <whitesnek>	And if she called on me to do a dialogue my voice would shake in nervousness
Jan 25 13:06:15 <TwoFoxSix>	Scampi, I am sight deaf too
Jan 25 13:06:15 <rampagingkoala>	because there is stuff you can do
Jan 25 13:06:21 <rampagingkoala>	it's just harder than for other people
Jan 25 13:06:25 <James>	that sounds like medication level anxiety tbh... You should definitely talk to someone professional, not an IRC channel
Jan 25 13:06:29 <whitesnek>	rampagingkoala: I know there's stuff I can do, but the mental barrier is to strong to do it
Jan 25 13:06:32 <packmanbugseater>	i like every sort of shit :)
Jan 25 13:06:33 <whitesnek>	I can't explain it
Jan 25 13:06:36 <whitesnek>	But it's very real
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Jan 25 13:06:59 <rampagingkoala>	i'm not saying it's not but you can fix it you just have to want to
Jan 25 13:07:01 <whitesnek>	And I feel like shit because you guys think I'm just choosing not to do something's not it but I'm not
Jan 25 13:07:02 <TwoFoxSix>	whitesnek, professional help = your best help
Jan 25 13:07:02 <rampagingkoala>	if you don't want to that's fine
Jan 25 13:07:05 <packmanbugseater>	this is so silly
Jan 25 13:07:07 <leeceia>	whitesnek: I have anxiety, it completely crippled me for years. My motto became feel the fear and do it anyway
Jan 25 13:07:07 <packmanbugseater>	im bored
Jan 25 13:07:09 <rampagingkoala>	but don't say there's nothing you can do or that it's too hard
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Jan 25 13:07:14 <TwoFoxSix>	hi bored, I'm fox
Jan 25 13:07:16 <leeceia>	If it frightens you you have to do it
Jan 25 13:07:25 <leeceia>	Make that shit compulsive
Jan 25 13:07:30 <whitesnek>	rampagingkoala: I WANT to change
Jan 25 13:07:33 <rampagingkoala>	then change
Jan 25 13:07:36 <leeceia>	No you don't
Jan 25 13:07:39 <whitesnek>	I just can't bring myself to
Jan 25 13:07:42 <leeceia>	Or you would have
Jan 25 13:07:45 <rampagingkoala>	okay so then you don't want to change
Jan 25 13:07:46 <TwoFoxSix>	that means you don't want change
Jan 25 13:07:46 <TwoFoxSix>	lol
Jan 25 13:07:59 <rampagingkoala>	either you do or you don't
Jan 25 13:08:02 <Scampi>	whitesnek: Nobody's saying you have to get on stage and sing, but you have to start somewhere. Make a small change, conquer that, then make another change, and so on.
Jan 25 13:08:03 <whitesnek>	Do you think mental illness is the Maoist rational thing?
Jan 25 13:08:06 <rampagingkoala>	if you want to change then you would change
Jan 25 13:08:08 <whitesnek>	It isn't
Jan 25 13:08:15 <whitesnek>	It's not rational and I know that
Jan 25 13:08:30 <leeceia>	Absolutely not whitesnek but that doesn't mean everything else should be irrational
Jan 25 13:08:31 <whitesnek>	But that doesn't mean mean I'm choosing to think this way
Jan 25 13:08:46 <leeceia>	It's irrational to have the world bend to your fears
Jan 25 13:08:48 <TwoFoxSix>	it seems like you are just here to complain and have people talk back to you, but since you don't like what we are saying, you will leave upset
Jan 25 13:09:03 <Scampi>	whitesnek: Stop listening to your doubtful thoughts so much. Acknowledge they are there, but then go against them. You have to move out of your comfort zone.
Jan 25 13:09:03 <whitesnek>	That's not why I'm here
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Jan 25 13:09:10 <leeceia>	There will always be frightening painful scary feels like death moments
Jan 25 13:09:26 <leeceia>	Yeah you're hear for a poor you women are cunta
Jan 25 13:09:36 <TwoFoxSix>	lol
Jan 25 13:09:44 <whitesnek>	What
Jan 25 13:10:01 <TwoFoxSix>	she said "Yeah you're hear for a poor you women are cunta"
Jan 25 13:10:06 <leeceia>	Dae not touch vaginas cos they come with a this tall to ride sign
Jan 25 13:10:30 <leeceia>	Soz I'm Hella drunk
Jan 25 13:10:34 <TwoFoxSix>	I love it
Jan 25 13:10:36 <leeceia>	It's 6am
Jan 25 13:10:39 <whitesnek>	I'm gonna go, i came here to vent but I realize it's coming across as whining and I'm being judged because I can't put into words for you to understand
Jan 25 13:10:42 <leeceia>	I'm not home yet
Jan 25 13:10:50 <leeceia>	No we get it
Jan 25 13:10:51 <whitesnek>	Thanks for listening
Jan 25 13:10:59 <leeceia>	We 1000% get it
Jan 25 13:11:14 <leeceia>	Life is unfair and crushing and scary and sad
Jan 25 13:11:17 <whitesnek>	You don't if you think I haven't tried to make the first step
Jan 25 13:11:21 <whitesnek>	I have
Jan 25 13:11:24 <leeceia>	But that doesn't mean you give up
Jan 25 13:11:27 <leeceia>	Ever
Jan 25 13:11:32 <whitesnek>	But when it comes time to actually d it I always chicken out
Jan 25 13:11:41 <TwoFoxSix>	if you fail a million times, that still means you are making some progress
Jan 25 13:11:48 <whitesnek>	And in the moment it feels like the most rational think
Jan 25 13:12:00 <whitesnek>	Then when I have time to think about it I hate myself
Jan 25 13:12:04 <leeceia>	It's not the first step it's trying 1000 times and taking a step back and trying again
Jan 25 13:12:06 <TwoFoxSix>	yay, my yodeling pickle is here!
Jan 25 13:12:45 <leeceia>	Life will fuck over each and every one of us at some point
Jan 25 13:13:00 <leeceia>	Unfortunately for you that is now
Jan 25 13:13:16 <leeceia>	But there are millions like you
Jan 25 13:13:24 <leeceia>	Do some reading
Jan 25 13:13:26 <whitesnek>	It has already fucked me over all my life, I've never been able to change and I bet will be able to in the future
Jan 25 13:13:31 <leeceia>	Write a plan
Jan 25 13:13:42 <rampagingkoala>	then see someoen and work on it
Jan 25 13:13:44 <Scampi>	Everybody has some disadvantage or another
Jan 25 13:13:45 <leeceia>	Think for tomorrow not for yesterday
Jan 25 13:13:49 <Scampi>	You have to overcome your own issues
Jan 25 13:13:52 <Scampi>	You're not the only one.
Jan 25 13:14:19 <whitesnek>	rampagingkoala: I've tired but I always cancel the appointments because I start freaking out
Jan 25 13:14:29 <whitesnek>	And I think it's fine because there's always tomorrow
Jan 25 13:14:32 <whitesnek>	But time adds up
Jan 25 13:14:36 <whitesnek>	And then I hate myself
Jan 25 13:15:04 <Scampi>	So look at all the time you've wasted and use it as a rationale against the painc.
Jan 25 13:15:06 <Scampi>	panic*
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Jan 25 13:15:33 <Scampi>	If you've missed a year's worth of opportunities, you'd have made a year's worth of progress.
Jan 25 13:15:38 <Scampi>	It's opportunity cost.
Jan 25 13:15:51 <whitesnek>	It is but in the moment, I'm not thinking straight
Jan 25 13:15:52 <leeceia>	Okay maybe try an app like Stop think breathe and instead of cancelling every time you get that urge do a meditation
Jan 25 13:15:54 <Scampi>	Chicken out now and feel okay for now, or face your fear now and become a stronger person later.
Jan 25 13:16:03 <whitesnek>	I'm fucking fucked jpnin the head don't you get it
Jan 25 13:16:11 <leeceia>	Yes I do
Jan 25 13:16:29 <whitesnek>	Sorry this is pointless, whining about this is pointless
Jan 25 13:16:30 <leeceia>	Took me 2 years to see a counselor
Jan 25 13:16:35 <whitesnek>	Everything is fucking pointless
Jan 25 13:16:38 <leeceia>	Yes whining is
Jan 25 13:16:43 <leeceia>	Plans are not
Jan 25 13:16:48 <leeceia>	Advice is not
Jan 25 13:16:55 <leeceia>	Tough love is not
Jan 25 13:17:08 <leeceia>	You are not alone
Jan 25 13:17:22 <whitesnek>	Plans mean nothing when you don't have the mental capacity to follow through with them
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Jan 25 13:17:36 <leeceia>	Have you been to r/anxiety and the associated communities?
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Jan 25 13:17:41 <Scampi>	Do you have anyone in your life who can give you a jolly good slap?
Jan 25 13:18:00 <leeceia>	That's literally why contingencies exist mate
Jan 25 13:18:05 <whitesnek>	leeceia: I have but no amount of advice ever helps me
Jan 25 13:18:10 <whitesnek>	This is all pointless
Jan 25 13:18:21 <leeceia>	Fine
Jan 25 13:18:41 <rampagingkoala>	okay well we're giving you advice
Jan 25 13:18:52 <rampagingkoala>	and your only response is "YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND YOU DON'T KNOW MY PAIN"
Jan 25 13:18:53 <leeceia>	It's your life and I hate to see anyone struggling
Jan 25 13:19:00 <rampagingkoala>	when everyone is trying to empathize
Jan 25 13:19:02 <rampagingkoala>	so i'm gonna kick you now
Jan 25 13:19:08 *	rampagingkoala sets ban on whitesnek!*@*
Jan 25 13:19:11 *	rampagingkoala has kicked whitesnek from #askmen (Bye!)
Jan 25 13:19:18 <leeceia>	O my
Jan 25 13:19:24 <TwoFoxSix>	banhammer
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Jan 25 13:19:40 <rampagingkoala>	i have like zero patience for people who are coming in and complaining and complaining and rejecting every piece of advice they get
Jan 25 13:19:56 <leeceia>	Oh he deffo wanted a pity party
Jan 25 13:20:06 <TwoFoxSix>	that was depressing
Jan 25 13:20:17 <leeceia>	Has mindset of 16 yr old
Jan 25 13:20:26 <leeceia>	You don't understand mom
Jan 25 13:20:35 <leeceia>	I'm not a cool kid
Jan 25 13:20:53 <leeceia>	Girls don't touch My pee pee
Jan 25 13:20:59 *	Nina|SleepMode (uid91527@Snoonet-oi8cd6.eibh.q3g2.abchvt.IP) has joined
Jan 25 13:21:20 <TwoFoxSix>	hahahaha
Jan 25 13:21:33 *	Nina|SleepMode is now known as Nina
Jan 25 13:21:41 <TwoFoxSix>	pretty much