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- All right, sweet pea,
- it's time for you to go to bed.
- 2
- 00:00:49,802 --> 00:00:53,138
- Mommy, would you ask Daddy
- to come tuck me in?
- 3
- 00:00:53,306 --> 00:00:55,640
- No, he's at work tonight
- at the fire station.
- 4
- 00:00:55,808 --> 00:00:57,851
- But he'll be home tomorrow night.
- 5
- 00:00:58,019 --> 00:01:00,771
- Mommy, I want to marry Daddy.
- 6
- 00:01:00,938 --> 00:01:03,982
- You do?
- Catherine, you can't marry Daddy.
- 7
- 00:01:04,150 --> 00:01:05,650
- He's my husband.
- 8
- 00:01:05,818 --> 00:01:08,278
- Well, when you're done being married,
- can I have him?
- 9
- 00:01:09,655 --> 00:01:13,158
- We'll never be done.
- You'll have to marry somebody else.
- 10
- 00:01:13,326 --> 00:01:15,994
- Can I wear a white dress
- and white gloves?
- 11
- 00:01:16,162 --> 00:01:17,829
- Sure, if you want to.
- 12
- 00:01:17,997 --> 00:01:21,666
- Will we live happily after ever?
- 13
- 00:01:22,168 --> 00:01:25,420
- If you marry somebody
- who really, really loves you.
- 14
- 00:01:25,588 --> 00:01:27,214
- Like Daddy?
- 15
- 00:01:27,381 --> 00:01:30,008
- Yes, like Daddy.
- 16
- 00:02:33,865 --> 00:02:36,324
- - Terrell, man, my bad out there.
- - This ain't no game.
- 17
- 00:02:36,492 --> 00:02:38,368
- You playing with people lives.
- 18
- 00:02:39,036 --> 00:02:40,203
- Come on, man.
- 19
- 00:02:43,165 --> 00:02:44,791
- Eric, he's got a right to be upset.
- 20
- 00:02:44,959 --> 00:02:47,586
- You left him in a dangerous spot
- and tried to be a hero.
- 21
- 00:02:47,753 --> 00:02:49,754
- I thought I heard someone
- calling for help.
- 22
- 00:02:49,922 --> 00:02:52,674
- It was coming
- from outside the building.
- 23
- 00:02:52,842 --> 00:02:54,175
- It was dark, I couldn't see.
- 24
- 00:02:54,343 --> 00:02:57,596
- That's why you stay with your partner.
- He had to assume ...
- 25
- 00:02:57,763 --> 00:03:01,099
- that something happened to you
- and you needed his help.
- 26
- 00:03:01,726 --> 00:03:05,061
- You never leave your partner,
- especially in a fire.
- 27
- 00:03:07,189 --> 00:03:09,649
- You give him some time
- and then give him an apology.
- 28
- 00:03:09,817 --> 00:03:12,444
- - And make it sincere.
- - Yes, sir.
- 29
- 00:03:22,204 --> 00:03:24,247
- - Hey, Tasha.
- - Oh, hey, Cat.
- 30
- 00:03:24,415 --> 00:03:26,124
- Just saw you on TV. Looking good.
- 31
- 00:03:26,292 --> 00:03:29,044
- Oh, I missed it. I was giving
- a tour of the new cancer wing.
- 32
- 00:03:29,211 --> 00:03:31,171
- - Hey, has Robin left yet?
- - No, she's here.
- 33
- 00:03:31,339 --> 00:03:32,964
- Robin, Cat's here.
- 34
- 00:03:33,132 --> 00:03:34,466
- - Hey.
- - How are you?
- 35
- 00:03:34,634 --> 00:03:35,800
- I'm good. How are you?
- 36
- 00:03:35,968 --> 00:03:37,802
- Good.
- Hey, are we still on for tomorrow?
- 37
- 00:03:37,970 --> 00:03:40,639
- Yeah, 4:00. You still want
- those scented candles, right?
- 38
- 00:03:40,806 --> 00:03:42,223
- Oh, absolutely. Bring them on.
- 39
- 00:03:42,391 --> 00:03:43,683
- - I wanna try them all.
- - Good.
- 40
- 00:03:43,851 --> 00:03:45,727
- I'm going to see my parents
- this weekend.
- 41
- 00:03:45,895 --> 00:03:48,730
- - I thought they might like some too.
- - Oh, how are they?
- 42
- 00:03:48,898 --> 00:03:51,816
- Do you know it's been a year
- since Mom's stroke?
- 43
- 00:03:51,984 --> 00:03:54,527
- I've been trying to get her
- a new bed and wheelchair ...
- 44
- 00:03:54,695 --> 00:03:57,405
- but their insurance
- doesn't cover it.
- 45
- 00:03:57,573 --> 00:03:59,908
- I don't know.
- It's so frustrating for my dad.
- 46
- 00:04:00,076 --> 00:04:02,869
- He wants to help her too,
- but he can't afford it either.
- 47
- 00:04:03,037 --> 00:04:05,121
- - I am so sorry.
- - Yeah, it's all right.
- 48
- 00:04:05,706 --> 00:04:06,998
- Anyway, well, I need to run.
- 49
- 00:04:07,166 --> 00:04:09,459
- - But I'll see you tomorrow, right?
- - I'll see you.
- 50
- 00:04:09,627 --> 00:04:11,461
- - Okay, bye.
- - Bye.
- 51
- 00:04:11,963 --> 00:04:14,506
- - Hey, Catherine.
- - I'm so sorry, Dr. Keller.
- 52
- 00:04:14,674 --> 00:04:16,341
- Call me Gavin, please.
- 53
- 00:04:16,509 --> 00:04:19,010
- Gavin, sorry for almost
- running you over.
- 54
- 00:04:19,178 --> 00:04:22,180
- - Anytime. It's good to see you.
- - You too. Take care.
- 55
- 00:04:25,685 --> 00:04:27,352
- Sweet girl.
- 56
- 00:04:27,895 --> 00:04:31,439
- - Tasha, will you file this for me?
- - Sure, doctor.
- 57
- 00:04:34,694 --> 00:04:39,364
- If I didn't know any better, I'd
- say the doctor has a thing for Cat.
- 58
- 00:04:51,794 --> 00:04:53,503
- - Hi, sweetheart.
- - Hey, Daddy.
- 59
- 00:04:53,671 --> 00:04:55,964
- - How are you?
- - Oh, great. Good to see you.
- 60
- 00:04:56,132 --> 00:04:57,340
- You too.
- 61
- 00:04:57,508 --> 00:05:01,553
- Hey, Mama. How are you, huh?
- 62
- 00:05:01,721 --> 00:05:03,471
- She's doing great today.
- 63
- 00:05:03,639 --> 00:05:05,390
- Can I get you
- something to drink, dear?
- 64
- 00:05:05,850 --> 00:05:08,810
- - Do you have any sweet tea?
- - With lemon?
- 65
- 00:05:08,978 --> 00:05:10,812
- You know me.
- 66
- 00:05:14,233 --> 00:05:16,985
- Oh, Mama, I wish we could talk.
- 67
- 00:05:18,237 --> 00:05:21,364
- It's been so long
- since I heard your voice.
- 68
- 00:05:25,119 --> 00:05:26,911
- I miss you.
- 69
- 00:05:53,272 --> 00:05:56,066
- - You have breakfast already?
- - Yes.
- 70
- 00:05:57,318 --> 00:06:00,945
- - What'd you eat?
- - I had the last bagel and a yogurt.
- 71
- 00:06:08,412 --> 00:06:10,747
- Are you planning
- on making a grocery trip soon?
- 72
- 00:06:11,123 --> 00:06:13,541
- Caleb, you work 24 hours
- and then you're off for 48.
- 73
- 00:06:13,709 --> 00:06:16,795
- - You've got more time to go than I do.
- - I asked a simple question.
- 74
- 00:06:16,962 --> 00:06:20,131
- You don't need to get smart with me.
- At least save me some breakfast.
- 75
- 00:06:20,299 --> 00:06:23,301
- I never know when you're coming
- or going. You don't tell me.
- 76
- 00:06:23,469 --> 00:06:25,136
- Catherine, what is your problem?
- 77
- 00:06:25,304 --> 00:06:27,430
- Did I offend you
- by walking in the door?
- 78
- 00:06:27,598 --> 00:06:30,767
- You can't expect me to work every
- day and get the groceries ...
- 79
- 00:06:30,935 --> 00:06:34,479
- while you look at trash on the
- Internet dreaming about your boat.
- 80
- 00:06:34,647 --> 00:06:36,314
- You chose to take this job.
- 81
- 00:06:36,482 --> 00:06:39,275
- - No one said you had to work full-time.
- - We need the income.
- 82
- 00:06:39,443 --> 00:06:41,986
- Especially since you tuck away
- a third of your salary ...
- 83
- 00:06:42,154 --> 00:06:43,822
- saving for a boat we don't need.
- 84
- 00:06:43,989 --> 00:06:47,826
- You've got $24,000 in savings
- when things in our house need fixing.
- 85
- 00:06:47,993 --> 00:06:49,494
- Like what?
- 86
- 00:06:49,662 --> 00:06:52,497
- The back door needs to be painted,
- the yard needs landscaping.
- 87
- 00:06:52,665 --> 00:06:54,874
- And I wanna put more shelves
- in the closet.
- 88
- 00:06:55,042 --> 00:06:57,752
- Those are called preferences.
- Those are not needs.
- 89
- 00:06:57,920 --> 00:07:01,297
- There's a difference. If you wanna
- spend your money on that stuff, fine.
- 90
- 00:07:01,465 --> 00:07:04,717
- I've been saving for my boat for years.
- You're not taking that from me.
- 91
- 00:07:04,885 --> 00:07:07,178
- This is so pointless.
- I don't have time for this.
- 92
- 00:07:07,346 --> 00:07:09,639
- Yeah, shut the door
- on your way out.
- 93
- 00:07:44,341 --> 00:07:46,259
- It ain't working, Michael.
- 94
- 00:07:47,219 --> 00:07:49,387
- How is it that I get respect
- everywhere I go ...
- 95
- 00:07:49,555 --> 00:07:51,389
- except in my own house?
- 96
- 00:07:52,057 --> 00:07:55,143
- I've been there,
- and it's a hard place to be.
- 97
- 00:07:56,478 --> 00:07:58,271
- What'd you do about it?
- 98
- 00:07:59,273 --> 00:08:01,733
- I realized that it wasn't
- my marriage that was broken.
- 99
- 00:08:01,901 --> 00:08:04,027
- I just didn't know
- how to make it work.
- 100
- 00:08:05,237 --> 00:08:06,905
- What does that mean?
- 101
- 00:08:09,074 --> 00:08:10,491
- That treadmill's not broken.
- 102
- 00:08:10,659 --> 00:08:13,745
- But if you don't know how to run it,
- it ain't gonna work for you.
- 103
- 00:08:14,997 --> 00:08:16,664
- You saying I need counseling?
- 104
- 00:08:16,832 --> 00:08:18,750
- Well, I think everybody
- needs counseling.
- 105
- 00:08:19,293 --> 00:08:22,879
- Hey, look, man, I am not about to go
- talk to somebody I don't even know ...
- 106
- 00:08:23,047 --> 00:08:25,298
- about something
- that's none of their business.
- 107
- 00:08:25,466 --> 00:08:28,468
- All right.
- Catherine does need to respect you.
- 108
- 00:08:28,636 --> 00:08:30,511
- But just remember,
- a woman's like a rose.
- 109
- 00:08:30,679 --> 00:08:33,431
- If you treat her right,
- she'll bloom.
- 110
- 00:08:33,599 --> 00:08:35,683
- If you don't, she'll wilt.
- 111
- 00:08:38,020 --> 00:08:39,270
- Where'd you get that?
- 112
- 00:08:39,980 --> 00:08:41,439
- Counseling.
- 113
- 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:01,751
- Great.
- 114
- 00:09:01,919 --> 00:09:03,628
- What are you doing?
- 115
- 00:09:04,171 --> 00:09:06,297
- I see you left me no pizza.
- 116
- 00:09:06,465 --> 00:09:08,758
- I just lit that candle.
- I like the way it smells.
- 117
- 00:09:08,926 --> 00:09:11,552
- Well, I don't.
- Did you leave me any dinner at all?
- 118
- 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:13,888
- I assumed
- you were eating with Michael.
- 119
- 00:09:14,265 --> 00:09:15,515
- Does it not occur to you ...
- 120
- 00:09:15,683 --> 00:09:17,976
- that two people in this house
- need to eat?
- 121
- 00:09:18,143 --> 00:09:20,436
- You know what?
- If you would communicate with me ...
- 122
- 00:09:20,604 --> 00:09:22,814
- maybe I could
- have something for you.
- 123
- 00:09:23,857 --> 00:09:26,401
- Why do you have to make
- everything so difficult?
- 124
- 00:09:26,568 --> 00:09:28,319
- Oh, I'm making everything difficult?
- 125
- 00:09:28,487 --> 00:09:31,906
- I'm carrying the weight around here
- while you're off doing your own thing.
- 126
- 00:09:32,074 --> 00:09:33,157
- Excuse me?
- 127
- 00:09:33,325 --> 00:09:36,661
- I'm working to pay this mortgage,
- and I pay for both of the cars.
- 128
- 00:09:36,829 --> 00:09:39,914
- Yeah, and that's all you do.
- I pay all of our bills with my salary.
- 129
- 00:09:40,082 --> 00:09:42,083
- Which you agreed to do. That's fair.
- 130
- 00:09:42,251 --> 00:09:44,669
- Do you not like this house?
- Do you not like your car?
- 131
- 00:09:44,837 --> 00:09:46,671
- Caleb, who takes care
- of this house?
- 132
- 00:09:46,839 --> 00:09:48,506
- Me. Who washes all the clothes?
- 133
- 00:09:48,674 --> 00:09:50,174
- Me. Who gets all the groceries?
- 134
- 00:09:50,342 --> 00:09:53,594
- Me. Not to mention I'm helping
- my parents every weekend.
- 135
- 00:09:53,762 --> 00:09:55,305
- I've got all this pressure on me.
- 136
- 00:09:55,472 --> 00:09:57,724
- The only thing you do for anybody
- is for yourself.
- 137
- 00:09:57,891 --> 00:10:01,019
- Let me tell you, you don't know
- the first thing about pressure.
- 138
- 00:10:01,186 --> 00:10:04,647
- All right? You think
- I put out house fires for myself?
- 139
- 00:10:04,815 --> 00:10:07,692
- Or rush to car wrecks at 2 a.m.
- for myself?
- 140
- 00:10:07,860 --> 00:10:11,362
- Or pull a child's body
- out of a lake for myself?
- 141
- 00:10:11,530 --> 00:10:13,865
- You have no idea what I go through.
- 142
- 00:10:14,033 --> 00:10:16,743
- Yeah, but what do you do around
- here other than watch TV ...
- 143
- 00:10:16,910 --> 00:10:18,536
- and waste time on the Internet?
- 144
- 00:10:18,704 --> 00:10:21,581
- If looking at that trash is how
- you get fulfilled, that's fine.
- 145
- 00:10:21,749 --> 00:10:23,207
- But I will not compete with it.
- 146
- 00:10:23,375 --> 00:10:25,626
- Well, I sure don't get it from you.
- 147
- 00:10:26,712 --> 00:10:27,795
- And you won't.
- 148
- 00:10:27,963 --> 00:10:30,673
- Because you care more
- about saving for your stupid boat ...
- 149
- 00:10:30,841 --> 00:10:33,885
- and pleasing yourself
- than you ever did about me.
- 150
- 00:10:34,053 --> 00:10:37,138
- Shut up! I'm sick of you!
- 151
- 00:10:37,306 --> 00:10:40,641
- You disrespectful, ungrateful,
- selfish woman!
- 152
- 00:10:40,809 --> 00:10:42,685
- - I'm not selfish.
- - How dare you say that?
- 153
- 00:10:42,853 --> 00:10:46,481
- You constantly nag me
- and you drain the life out of me!
- 154
- 00:10:46,648 --> 00:10:48,566
- I'm tired of it!
- 155
- 00:10:48,734 --> 00:10:50,735
- If you can't give me
- the respect I deserve --
- 156
- 00:10:50,903 --> 00:10:52,236
- Look at me!
- 157
- 00:10:52,404 --> 00:10:54,906
- -- then what's the point
- of this marriage?
- 158
- 00:11:02,373 --> 00:11:04,165
- I want out.
- 159
- 00:11:04,833 --> 00:11:06,876
- I just want out.
- 160
- 00:11:07,753 --> 00:11:11,422
- If you want out,
- that's fine with me!
- 161
- 00:11:47,126 --> 00:11:48,626
- Mr. Rudolph.
- 162
- 00:11:49,962 --> 00:11:51,003
- Caleb.
- 163
- 00:12:34,506 --> 00:12:36,507
- - That's it.
- - All right.
- 164
- 00:12:36,675 --> 00:12:38,342
- Think we got it. We're good to go.
- 165
- 00:12:38,510 --> 00:12:39,802
- I think I got this.
- 166
- 00:12:39,970 --> 00:12:42,221
- - You think you know the truck?
- - Yeah.
- 167
- 00:12:42,389 --> 00:12:44,557
- All right. I'll tell you what.
- 168
- 00:12:44,725 --> 00:12:47,226
- We're gonna go inside
- and get something to drink.
- 169
- 00:12:47,394 --> 00:12:49,437
- You bring me a hose stretcher.
- 170
- 00:12:49,605 --> 00:12:51,022
- All right.
- 171
- 00:12:52,107 --> 00:12:55,568
- - That's mean, man.
- - No, it's good for him.
- 172
- 00:12:55,736 --> 00:12:57,028
- - Mother's gifts.
- - Okay.
- 173
- 00:12:57,196 --> 00:12:59,197
- - And --
- - You know what? I forgot to tell you.
- 174
- 00:12:59,364 --> 00:13:01,532
- - I got Friday off and I'll be there.
- - Good.
- 175
- 00:13:01,700 --> 00:13:03,451
- You know I ain't gonna
- let my son down.
- 176
- 00:13:03,619 --> 00:13:04,660
- I know you won't.
- 177
- 00:13:04,828 --> 00:13:07,038
- Hey, we still got
- that hot date tomorrow, right?
- 178
- 00:13:07,206 --> 00:13:08,748
- Oh, so now it's a hot date?
- 179
- 00:13:08,916 --> 00:13:10,750
- Life's too short
- to have any other kind.
- 180
- 00:13:10,918 --> 00:13:12,418
- You're right.
- 181
- 00:13:12,586 --> 00:13:15,546
- - I love you, baby.
- - I love you too.
- 182
- 00:13:15,714 --> 00:13:17,882
- - And I will see you in the morning.
- - All right.
- 183
- 00:13:18,050 --> 00:13:20,801
- - Gotta go.
- - All right, see you later.
- 184
- 00:13:24,973 --> 00:13:27,391
- Eric, what are you doing?
- 185
- 00:13:29,561 --> 00:13:31,312
- Wayne told me
- to grab a hose stretcher.
- 186
- 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:33,898
- - A hose stretcher?
- - Yes, sir.
- 187
- 00:13:34,483 --> 00:13:37,818
- Eric, you are the hose stretcher.
- 188
- 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:42,823
- Man.
- 189
- 00:13:47,037 --> 00:13:48,996
- Honey, I agree with you.
- You gotta get out.
- 190
- 00:13:49,164 --> 00:13:51,290
- - He don't deserve you.
- - You can say that again.
- 191
- 00:13:51,458 --> 00:13:55,711
- A real man's gotta be a hero to his wife
- before anybody, or he ain't a real man.
- 192
- 00:13:55,879 --> 00:13:59,423
- Do you need a place to stay? I can't
- imagine living in the same house.
- 193
- 00:13:59,591 --> 00:14:01,926
- No, I decided
- that I'm not the one that's leaving.
- 194
- 00:14:02,094 --> 00:14:05,221
- - He's the problem, not me.
- - That's right, girl. Stand your ground.
- 195
- 00:14:05,389 --> 00:14:06,639
- Make him respect you.
- 196
- 00:14:06,807 --> 00:14:09,058
- If there's one thing
- a man understands ...
- 197
- 00:14:09,226 --> 00:14:12,645
- It's respect. That's the issue. That's
- the reason our marriage is failing.
- 198
- 00:14:12,813 --> 00:14:16,774
- She shows me no respect at all.
- And the saddest part about it is ...
- 199
- 00:14:16,942 --> 00:14:18,901
- He doesn't have a clue.
- 200
- 00:14:19,069 --> 00:14:21,946
- He thinks our marriage
- has been fine for the most part.
- 201
- 00:14:22,114 --> 00:14:23,573
- You know, he probably thinks ...
- 202
- 00:14:23,740 --> 00:14:25,741
- Our marriage has been fine
- until this year.
- 203
- 00:14:25,909 --> 00:14:28,452
- Now, all of a sudden,
- she goes off the deep end.
- 204
- 00:14:28,829 --> 00:14:30,788
- Do you think this happened
- all of a sudden?
- 205
- 00:14:30,956 --> 00:14:33,291
- I don't know what to think.
- I don't understand her.
- 206
- 00:14:33,458 --> 00:14:35,209
- She's emotional about everything.
- 207
- 00:14:35,377 --> 00:14:37,712
- She's easily offended
- and way too sensitive.
- 208
- 00:14:37,879 --> 00:14:41,382
- I mean, he's so insensitive,
- you know?
- 209
- 00:14:41,550 --> 00:14:45,094
- He doesn't truly care how I feel.
- He doesn't listen to me.
- 210
- 00:14:45,262 --> 00:14:48,472
- Even if I say it over
- and over and over again.
- 211
- 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:51,726
- And then she starts nagging me
- and saying I don't listen to her ...
- 212
- 00:14:51,893 --> 00:14:53,686
- or something like that.
- 213
- 00:14:53,854 --> 00:14:56,397
- It drives me crazy.
- I feel like I'm going ...
- 214
- 00:14:56,565 --> 00:14:58,107
- Insane.
- 215
- 00:14:58,275 --> 00:15:00,776
- You know,
- he doesn't understand my needs.
- 216
- 00:15:00,944 --> 00:15:03,654
- I feel like we are
- completely and totally ...
- 217
- 00:15:03,822 --> 00:15:04,864
- Incompatible.
- 218
- 00:15:05,032 --> 00:15:08,284
- She's probably whining to her friends,
- making me sound like a criminal.
- 219
- 00:15:08,452 --> 00:15:11,787
- I can see them all right now, crying,
- having some sort of group hug.
- 220
- 00:15:11,955 --> 00:15:14,373
- It's gonna be okay, sweetie.
- It's gonna be all right.
- 221
- 00:15:14,541 --> 00:15:16,042
- You'll get through this.
- 222
- 00:15:16,209 --> 00:15:17,293
- We have your back.
- 223
- 00:15:17,461 --> 00:15:19,420
- Whatever you need.
- Whatever you need.
- 224
- 00:15:19,838 --> 00:15:22,006
- So you think
- it's past the point of no return?
- 225
- 00:15:23,342 --> 00:15:25,968
- I don't have a reason to return.
- 226
- 00:15:32,184 --> 00:15:34,435
- - Bethany.
- - Hey, Kyle. Hey, Ross.
- 227
- 00:15:34,603 --> 00:15:36,395
- - What's going on?
- - What are y'all doing?
- 228
- 00:15:36,563 --> 00:15:38,731
- We're heading to the pizza barn
- to meet friends.
- 229
- 00:15:38,899 --> 00:15:40,691
- Y'all wanna come?
- 230
- 00:15:40,859 --> 00:15:42,526
- Sure.
- 231
- 00:15:43,070 --> 00:15:47,031
- Hey, we'll race you there.
- And if you win, we'll buy.
- 232
- 00:15:47,199 --> 00:15:49,825
- Ready, set ...
- 233
- 00:15:49,993 --> 00:15:51,035
- Go, go, go.
- 234
- 00:16:02,172 --> 00:16:03,673
- Hey, Dad.
- 235
- 00:16:06,385 --> 00:16:08,219
- No, not really.
- 236
- 00:16:08,387 --> 00:16:10,930
- I think Catherine and I are done.
- 237
- 00:16:12,516 --> 00:16:14,558
- No, it's over.
- 238
- 00:16:17,104 --> 00:16:19,397
- She said she wants out.
- 239
- 00:16:23,068 --> 00:16:25,820
- Sure, yeah, you can come over
- tomorrow. I'll be home.
- 240
- 00:16:28,156 --> 00:16:29,824
- Dad, I gotta go.
- 241
- 00:16:30,409 --> 00:16:32,785
- Public Safety
- to Engine 1, Battalion 1.
- 242
- 00:16:32,953 --> 00:16:36,997
- Respond to the intersection of
- Roosevelt and Kelley, 10-50-I rescue.
- 243
- 00:16:37,165 --> 00:16:39,417
- - Time out, 12:21.
- - Hey, that's close by.
- 244
- 00:16:39,584 --> 00:16:42,586
- Lieutenant, you and Terrell take
- the other truck and go with us.
- 245
- 00:16:50,429 --> 00:16:52,096
- Okay, let's roll.
- 246
- 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:10,698
- Engine 1 is en route
- to Roosevelt and Kelley, 10-50 rescue.
- 247
- 00:17:10,866 --> 00:17:12,491
- 10-4, Engine 1.
- 248
- 00:17:12,659 --> 00:17:16,120
- Lieutenant, you and Sanders have
- the Hurst tools ready if we need them.
- 249
- 00:17:16,538 --> 00:17:19,290
- - You stay with me when we pull up.
- - Yes, sir.
- 250
- 00:17:20,959 --> 00:17:22,209
- We've already got a crowd.
- 251
- 00:17:22,377 --> 00:17:25,379
- - Can you see it?
- - We've got one car on the tracks.
- 252
- 00:17:25,547 --> 00:17:26,630
- You're kidding me.
- 253
- 00:17:27,132 --> 00:17:28,299
- Oh, it doesn't look good.
- 254
- 00:17:28,717 --> 00:17:29,800
- Engine 1, it's 10-23.
- 255
- 00:17:29,968 --> 00:17:32,720
- We have a two-vehicle accident
- with possible entrapment.
- 256
- 00:17:32,888 --> 00:17:35,139
- One of the vehicles
- is on the train tracks.
- 257
- 00:17:35,307 --> 00:17:38,642
- Notify the train dispatcher
- to stop all trains in progress.
- 258
- 00:17:38,810 --> 00:17:41,395
- Ten-four, Command.
- Be advised, EMS is en route.
- 259
- 00:17:41,563 --> 00:17:44,648
- - Rookie, you come with me.
- - Let's go, guys.
- 260
- 00:17:45,817 --> 00:17:48,360
- You two go check out the car.
- Let me know what you got.
- 261
- 00:17:48,528 --> 00:17:50,738
- I need
- an inch-and-three-quarter line.
- 262
- 00:17:51,323 --> 00:17:52,948
- Harmon,
- you check out the passenger.
- 263
- 00:17:53,116 --> 00:17:56,660
- All right, I need you all to stay clear
- of the tracks and the vehicle.
- 264
- 00:17:56,828 --> 00:17:58,704
- I'm Captain Holt
- from the Fire Department.
- 265
- 00:17:58,872 --> 00:18:01,415
- - We're here to help.
- - Help me, please. I can't get out.
- 266
- 00:18:01,583 --> 00:18:03,667
- - Where are you hurting?
- - My legs are hurting.
- 267
- 00:18:03,835 --> 00:18:07,046
- - Please, please help me.
- - All right, we're gonna help you.
- 268
- 00:18:08,632 --> 00:18:10,424
- Okay. Where else are you hurting?
- 269
- 00:18:10,592 --> 00:18:13,260
- My neck is hurting.
- Please, please help.
- 270
- 00:18:13,428 --> 00:18:15,888
- We're gonna get you out of here.
- You're gonna be fine.
- 271
- 00:18:16,056 --> 00:18:18,349
- Please don't leave me.
- Please don't let me die.
- 272
- 00:18:18,517 --> 00:18:20,684
- I promise you
- I am not going to leave you.
- 273
- 00:18:20,852 --> 00:18:22,520
- - You're gonna be all right.
- - Captain.
- 274
- 00:18:22,687 --> 00:18:25,105
- - She's alive but not responding.
- - Get the spreaders.
- 275
- 00:18:25,273 --> 00:18:27,608
- Those two will be okay.
- They've got minor injuries.
- 276
- 00:18:27,776 --> 00:18:30,110
- We have to cut these two out.
- Sanders, help Harmon.
- 277
- 00:18:30,278 --> 00:18:32,363
- - I need you to check for gas leaks.
- - Yes, sir.
- 278
- 00:18:32,531 --> 00:18:33,948
- We've got an ambulance coming.
- 279
- 00:18:34,115 --> 00:18:36,075
- - I'm gonna stay right here with you.
- - Okay.
- 280
- 00:18:36,243 --> 00:18:37,868
- You're gonna hear
- a very loud noise.
- 281
- 00:18:38,036 --> 00:18:40,621
- That just means
- we're getting you out faster.
- 282
- 00:18:40,789 --> 00:18:43,207
- - All right. You're gonna be all right.
- - Okay.
- 283
- 00:18:45,502 --> 00:18:48,504
- - Captain, did I just hear a train?
- - Guys, there's a train coming.
- 284
- 00:18:49,047 --> 00:18:50,881
- Dispatcher,
- this is Roosevelt Command.
- 285
- 00:18:51,049 --> 00:18:52,633
- We have a car on the train tracks.
- 286
- 00:18:52,801 --> 00:18:55,719
- Notify the train dispatcher
- to stop all trains in progress.
- 287
- 00:18:56,388 --> 00:18:57,888
- Roosevelt Command, be advised ...
- 288
- 00:18:58,056 --> 00:19:01,350
- we are currently unable to make
- contact with the train dispatcher.
- 289
- 00:19:01,518 --> 00:19:03,060
- No, no, no. We don't have time.
- 290
- 00:19:03,228 --> 00:19:06,981
- Come on, we're gonna have to push it
- out of the way. Let's go, let's go.
- 291
- 00:19:07,148 --> 00:19:09,024
- No, I don't wanna die.
- I don't wanna die.
- 292
- 00:19:09,192 --> 00:19:12,027
- All right, let's go. Push. Push.
- 293
- 00:19:16,408 --> 00:19:18,576
- Captain, it's not rolling.
- We gotta drag it off.
- 294
- 00:19:18,743 --> 00:19:21,287
- - Get the chain.
- - Hey, Wayne, hook up the chain.
- 295
- 00:19:21,454 --> 00:19:23,372
- Hook up the chain.
- 296
- 00:19:24,708 --> 00:19:27,001
- Hey, there's a train!
- 297
- 00:19:27,168 --> 00:19:30,337
- - Captain, we gotta pick this up.
- - All right, grab the front.
- 298
- 00:19:30,505 --> 00:19:34,258
- Lift on three. One, two, three.
- 299
- 00:19:37,262 --> 00:19:39,597
- Again. One, two, three.
- 300
- 00:19:42,767 --> 00:19:45,603
- Again. Let's go.
- We're getting this car off the tracks.
- 301
- 00:19:46,021 --> 00:19:47,938
- One, two, three.
- 302
- 00:19:52,152 --> 00:19:55,195
- Again. One, two, three.
- 303
- 00:19:56,865 --> 00:20:00,117
- - Again, captain.
- - One, two, three.
- 304
- 00:20:02,370 --> 00:20:04,622
- One, two, three.
- 305
- 00:20:19,971 --> 00:20:22,306
- Harmon, go back
- and get the spreaders.
- 306
- 00:20:26,603 --> 00:20:27,645
- Medic!
- 307
- 00:20:28,647 --> 00:20:31,315
- - You all right?
- - Come on, let's go.
- 308
- 00:20:31,733 --> 00:20:34,151
- You'll be okay.
- You're gonna be all right.
- 309
- 00:21:13,316 --> 00:21:15,025
- Thank you, Lord.
- 310
- 00:21:16,903 --> 00:21:22,992
- Thank you, God.
- 311
- 00:21:26,496 --> 00:21:27,871
- Are you okay?
- 312
- 00:21:29,499 --> 00:21:31,458
- Captain, I just needed a minute.
- 313
- 00:21:41,136 --> 00:21:46,557
- Well, I broke my record of how close
- I could come to death and still live.
- 314
- 00:21:48,059 --> 00:21:50,394
- Well, don't break it next time.
- 315
- 00:21:52,313 --> 00:21:54,565
- I wasn't trying to break it this time.
- 316
- 00:21:58,028 --> 00:21:59,403
- Hey.
- 317
- 00:22:00,572 --> 00:22:01,864
- Don't tell my wife.
- 318
- 00:22:32,062 --> 00:22:34,521
- - Hey, lieutenant?
- - Yeah?
- 319
- 00:22:35,565 --> 00:22:38,108
- This kind of thing doesn't happen
- all the time, does it?
- 320
- 00:22:38,276 --> 00:22:40,652
- Risking our lives? Yes.
- 321
- 00:22:40,820 --> 00:22:43,864
- Playing chicken with a train?
- First time.
- 322
- 00:22:44,783 --> 00:22:47,409
- - Aren't you afraid of dying?
- - No.
- 323
- 00:22:47,869 --> 00:22:49,328
- Because I know where I'm going.
- 324
- 00:22:49,496 --> 00:22:52,289
- I just don't wanna get there
- because I got hit by a train.
- 325
- 00:22:55,168 --> 00:22:57,503
- Why don't you come
- help me work on some dinner?
- 326
- 00:22:58,296 --> 00:22:59,671
- All right.
- 327
- 00:23:01,966 --> 00:23:04,885
- Hey, captain, hold on for a second.
- 328
- 00:23:05,512 --> 00:23:07,471
- You know where you're going?
- 329
- 00:23:08,014 --> 00:23:10,891
- - I'm going to my office.
- - No.
- 330
- 00:23:11,518 --> 00:23:13,644
- You believe in heaven and hell?
- 331
- 00:23:16,564 --> 00:23:17,898
- I don't know.
- 332
- 00:23:18,066 --> 00:23:21,819
- When I die, I'm going in the ground.
- That's where I'm staying.
- 333
- 00:23:21,986 --> 00:23:25,447
- You know, you and Michael both seem
- so sure, but one of you is wrong.
- 334
- 00:23:25,615 --> 00:23:27,449
- It ain't me.
- 335
- 00:23:27,617 --> 00:23:29,243
- How do you know?
- 336
- 00:23:30,161 --> 00:23:32,329
- Hey, listen,
- you might not agree with Michael ...
- 337
- 00:23:32,497 --> 00:23:34,998
- but you and I both know
- he's the real deal.
- 338
- 00:23:40,088 --> 00:23:42,464
- Son, how long has this
- been going on?
- 339
- 00:23:42,632 --> 00:23:45,300
- I don't know, Dad. We've had
- our arguments now and then ...
- 340
- 00:23:45,468 --> 00:23:48,512
- but it seems like now
- she is constantly frustrated with me.
- 341
- 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,348
- I mean, I walk in the door
- and she's mad about something.
- 342
- 00:23:51,516 --> 00:23:53,267
- Have you given her
- reason to be upset?
- 343
- 00:23:53,434 --> 00:23:55,519
- I've never known Catherine
- to be unreasonable.
- 344
- 00:23:55,687 --> 00:23:58,355
- I could have saved the lives
- of two people at work ...
- 345
- 00:23:58,523 --> 00:24:01,775
- and if I'm not here helping wash
- the dishes, I'm a horrible husband.
- 346
- 00:24:01,943 --> 00:24:04,069
- But, Caleb,
- she needs your help here as well.
- 347
- 00:24:04,237 --> 00:24:06,488
- Doesn't she help her parents out
- every week?
- 348
- 00:24:06,656 --> 00:24:10,200
- - She can't do everything around here.
- - You sound like you're taking her side.
- 349
- 00:24:10,368 --> 00:24:12,202
- But she's working and she's trying --
- 350
- 00:24:12,370 --> 00:24:15,164
- Mom, I do not need you to tell me
- I'm doing everything wrong.
- 351
- 00:24:15,331 --> 00:24:18,292
- I've got Catherine for that.
- I am not the problem, she is.
- 352
- 00:24:18,459 --> 00:24:22,087
- - All I'm saying is, if she's working --
- - Cheryl, let's hear Caleb out.
- 353
- 00:24:22,255 --> 00:24:24,214
- I wanna know
- what's going on with him.
- 354
- 00:24:24,382 --> 00:24:29,803
- Dad, can I please have a few minutes
- to talk with you, alone?
- 355
- 00:24:29,971 --> 00:24:32,389
- Caleb, I just wanna help
- you and Catherine.
- 356
- 00:24:32,557 --> 00:24:34,516
- - Dad.
- - Honey.
- 357
- 00:24:35,351 --> 00:24:38,562
- Why don't you let us take a walk?
- It's all right.
- 358
- 00:24:38,730 --> 00:24:40,063
- Okay.
- 359
- 00:24:45,069 --> 00:24:48,030
- Dad, why did you have to bring her?
- 360
- 00:24:48,198 --> 00:24:50,866
- Caleb, because she's my wife.
- 361
- 00:24:51,034 --> 00:24:54,703
- And your mother,
- no one loves you more than her.
- 362
- 00:24:54,871 --> 00:24:57,289
- She just -- She's always fixing me.
- 363
- 00:24:57,457 --> 00:25:00,584
- She's still trying to fix me.
- I'm not broken.
- 364
- 00:25:00,752 --> 00:25:05,214
- Son, if you're looking
- for a perfect mother ...
- 365
- 00:25:05,673 --> 00:25:07,674
- I'm afraid
- there's not one out there.
- 366
- 00:25:07,842 --> 00:25:09,426
- But she's a good woman.
- 367
- 00:25:09,594 --> 00:25:11,595
- And I love her now
- more than I ever have.
- 368
- 00:25:11,763 --> 00:25:15,098
- I'm not saying I don't love her, Dad.
- Just that she --
- 369
- 00:25:15,266 --> 00:25:16,600
- She grates on me.
- 370
- 00:25:17,685 --> 00:25:20,938
- Have you not seen a change in her
- in the last two years?
- 371
- 00:25:21,439 --> 00:25:23,732
- Yeah, she treats you better.
- 372
- 00:25:23,900 --> 00:25:26,902
- But you've also put up with a lot
- over the years.
- 373
- 00:25:27,403 --> 00:25:29,404
- Well, so has she.
- 374
- 00:25:29,989 --> 00:25:31,657
- Dad, I'm glad you didn't split up ...
- 375
- 00:25:31,824 --> 00:25:34,243
- but I would have understood
- if you had.
- 376
- 00:25:34,410 --> 00:25:36,411
- Do you know why we didn't?
- 377
- 00:25:37,538 --> 00:25:40,999
- Not really. She realized
- she couldn't do any better?
- 378
- 00:25:41,167 --> 00:25:42,668
- Not quite.
- 379
- 00:25:42,835 --> 00:25:46,213
- Caleb, the Lord did a work in us.
- 380
- 00:25:46,381 --> 00:25:48,423
- In both of us.
- 381
- 00:25:49,801 --> 00:25:51,510
- The Lord?
- 382
- 00:25:52,345 --> 00:25:55,055
- - You're giving credit to God?
- - Why does that bother you?
- 383
- 00:25:55,223 --> 00:25:57,474
- You've always believed in God.
- 384
- 00:25:58,810 --> 00:26:02,229
- If there's a God out there, he's not
- interested in me and my problems.
- 385
- 00:26:02,397 --> 00:26:06,108
- I disagree.
- I'd say he's very interested.
- 386
- 00:26:06,276 --> 00:26:07,734
- Then where's he been in my life?
- 387
- 00:26:07,902 --> 00:26:10,862
- He's been at work all around you.
- You just haven't realized it.
- 388
- 00:26:11,030 --> 00:26:14,533
- You haven't exactly
- given him an open invitation.
- 389
- 00:26:19,831 --> 00:26:21,415
- What is this place?
- 390
- 00:26:22,625 --> 00:26:24,501
- Used to be a summer camp
- across the lake.
- 391
- 00:26:24,669 --> 00:26:27,129
- I think this must be a part of it.
- 392
- 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:33,343
- Son, I used to be
- where you are right now.
- 393
- 00:26:34,387 --> 00:26:36,513
- God didn't matter to me.
- 394
- 00:26:36,681 --> 00:26:38,682
- But I can't say that anymore.
- 395
- 00:26:38,850 --> 00:26:41,351
- I never understood why Jesus
- had to die on the cross --
- 396
- 00:26:41,519 --> 00:26:42,936
- Dad, please.
- 397
- 00:26:43,104 --> 00:26:45,314
- We had this conversation
- last month.
- 398
- 00:26:45,481 --> 00:26:49,151
- I'm glad this new faith is working
- for you and Mom, I really am.
- 399
- 00:26:49,319 --> 00:26:50,902
- It's just ...
- 400
- 00:26:51,195 --> 00:26:53,155
- It's not for me.
- 401
- 00:26:58,870 --> 00:27:00,287
- Caleb ...
- 402
- 00:27:01,289 --> 00:27:04,374
- is there anything in you
- that wants to save your marriage?
- 403
- 00:27:05,418 --> 00:27:08,503
- Maybe. If Catherine wanted to,
- but she doesn't. She wants divorce.
- 404
- 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:10,213
- Is that what you want?
- 405
- 00:27:10,882 --> 00:27:12,924
- I want peace.
- 406
- 00:27:13,092 --> 00:27:14,718
- But what difference does it make?
- 407
- 00:27:14,886 --> 00:27:17,179
- She signs the papers, Dad,
- it's all over.
- 408
- 00:27:19,057 --> 00:27:21,850
- Have you agreed
- to start the process with her?
- 409
- 00:27:22,226 --> 00:27:25,020
- No, but I think we both understand
- where this is all headed.
- 410
- 00:27:25,188 --> 00:27:27,606
- I've got plans
- to meet with my lawyer tomorrow.
- 411
- 00:27:27,774 --> 00:27:30,192
- Caleb, I want you
- to do something for me.
- 412
- 00:27:30,360 --> 00:27:31,401
- What?
- 413
- 00:27:31,903 --> 00:27:34,696
- I want you to hold off on the divorce
- for 40 days.
- 414
- 00:27:36,366 --> 00:27:37,407
- Why?
- 415
- 00:27:38,326 --> 00:27:40,911
- I'm gonna send you
- something in the mail.
- 416
- 00:27:41,454 --> 00:27:43,538
- Something that'll take you
- that long to do.
- 417
- 00:27:44,874 --> 00:27:48,668
- - What is it?
- - It's what saved our marriage.
- 418
- 00:27:50,046 --> 00:27:53,256
- Dad, if this is a religious thing,
- I'd rather you didn't.
- 419
- 00:27:53,424 --> 00:27:56,426
- Look at it as a gift from your father.
- 420
- 00:27:56,594 --> 00:27:59,679
- Take one day at a time,
- then see what happens.
- 421
- 00:28:00,890 --> 00:28:06,186
- Please, son.
- If for no other reason, do it for me.
- 422
- 00:28:06,354 --> 00:28:08,438
- I'm asking as your father.
- 423
- 00:28:12,777 --> 00:28:15,737
- - Forty days?
- - Forty days.
- 424
- 00:28:30,086 --> 00:28:32,587
- - Eating alone?
- - Well, hello, Dr. Keller.
- 425
- 00:28:32,755 --> 00:28:34,256
- - Gavin.
- - Gavin, sorry.
- 426
- 00:28:34,424 --> 00:28:35,799
- - How are you?
- - I'm doing well.
- 427
- 00:28:35,967 --> 00:28:37,968
- I just need a place
- to put my plate down.
- 428
- 00:28:38,136 --> 00:28:39,594
- Is this spot reserved?
- 429
- 00:28:39,762 --> 00:28:42,639
- Deidra was supposed to meet me,
- but you're welcome to join us.
- 430
- 00:28:42,807 --> 00:28:45,892
- Well, if you're gonna twist my arm,
- I don't want any trouble.
- 431
- 00:28:50,731 --> 00:28:53,108
- Are you gonna eat
- wearing your clean white coat?
- 432
- 00:28:53,276 --> 00:28:55,235
- I need to keep up
- with the latest fashions.
- 433
- 00:28:55,403 --> 00:28:57,988
- It seems all the doctors
- are wearing one these days.
- 434
- 00:28:58,156 --> 00:29:00,657
- But it's probably not too smart
- while I'm eating.
- 435
- 00:29:01,075 --> 00:29:02,993
- I didn't know
- doctors cared about fashion.
- 436
- 00:29:03,161 --> 00:29:05,328
- We keep up
- with the attractive fashions ...
- 437
- 00:29:05,496 --> 00:29:07,706
- the Public Relations
- employees wear.
- 438
- 00:29:07,874 --> 00:29:09,332
- I see.
- 439
- 00:29:09,500 --> 00:29:11,793
- Since there's
- only one person in that category ...
- 440
- 00:29:11,961 --> 00:29:13,420
- I'm sure she'd feel honored.
- 441
- 00:29:13,588 --> 00:29:15,964
- She should. She's pretty amazing.
- 442
- 00:29:30,354 --> 00:29:33,482
- Hey, you look good.
- 443
- 00:29:36,027 --> 00:29:39,946
- Thanks. I try to take care of myself.
- 444
- 00:29:40,114 --> 00:29:42,199
- You like this song?
- 445
- 00:29:43,284 --> 00:29:45,327
- Oh, yeah.
- 446
- 00:29:46,537 --> 00:29:48,371
- You feel that?
- 447
- 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:53,043
- It's called chemistry, and we got it.
- 448
- 00:29:55,171 --> 00:29:56,880
- Wayne won't leave you.
- 449
- 00:30:03,554 --> 00:30:07,098
- - Hey, man, you seen my bag in here?
- - No, I ain't seen it.
- 450
- 00:30:07,266 --> 00:30:09,518
- All right. It's probably in my locker.
- 451
- 00:30:13,731 --> 00:30:15,607
- Where were we?
- 452
- 00:30:27,036 --> 00:30:29,663
- Oh, come on. That ain't funny.
- 453
- 00:30:29,830 --> 00:30:30,914
- This ain't no show.
- 454
- 00:30:32,041 --> 00:30:33,333
- This is me time.
- 455
- 00:30:34,919 --> 00:30:36,086
- Terrell!
- 456
- 00:30:36,587 --> 00:30:38,171
- Wayne.
- 457
- 00:30:41,717 --> 00:30:44,761
- Forty days? Does Catherine know?
- 458
- 00:30:45,263 --> 00:30:46,513
- I'm not gonna tell her.
- 459
- 00:30:46,681 --> 00:30:49,474
- If she wants to go ahead and file,
- that's up to her.
- 460
- 00:30:49,934 --> 00:30:52,269
- Divorce is a hard thing, man.
- 461
- 00:30:52,728 --> 00:30:54,062
- Well, if it brings peace ...
- 462
- 00:30:54,230 --> 00:30:57,691
- But, Caleb,
- you want the right kind of peace.
- 463
- 00:30:57,858 --> 00:30:59,025
- What do you mean by that?
- 464
- 00:31:00,236 --> 00:31:02,487
- You know what that ring
- on your finger means?
- 465
- 00:31:02,655 --> 00:31:04,239
- - Means I'm married.
- - Yeah.
- 466
- 00:31:04,407 --> 00:31:06,449
- It also means
- you made a lifelong covenant.
- 467
- 00:31:06,617 --> 00:31:09,369
- You putting on that ring
- while saying your vows.
- 468
- 00:31:09,537 --> 00:31:10,787
- The sad part about it is ...
- 469
- 00:31:10,955 --> 00:31:13,248
- when most people promise
- for better or worse ...
- 470
- 00:31:13,416 --> 00:31:15,458
- they really only mean
- for the better.
- 471
- 00:31:17,712 --> 00:31:20,630
- Catherine and I were in love
- when we got married, but today ...
- 472
- 00:31:20,798 --> 00:31:23,049
- we're two very different people,
- all right?
- 473
- 00:31:23,217 --> 00:31:25,468
- It's just not working out anymore.
- 474
- 00:31:28,889 --> 00:31:32,559
- Caleb, salt and pepper
- are completely different.
- 475
- 00:31:33,644 --> 00:31:36,605
- Their makeup is different,
- their taste and their color.
- 476
- 00:31:36,772 --> 00:31:38,648
- But you always see them together.
- 477
- 00:31:39,317 --> 00:31:40,900
- And when you ...
- 478
- 00:31:41,902 --> 00:31:43,153
- Hold on just a second.
- 479
- 00:31:51,287 --> 00:31:52,829
- What are you doing?
- 480
- 00:31:55,499 --> 00:31:57,834
- Michael. Hey.
- 481
- 00:31:58,252 --> 00:32:00,086
- What'd you do that for?
- 482
- 00:32:05,968 --> 00:32:10,597
- Caleb, when two people get married,
- it's for better or for worse.
- 483
- 00:32:10,765 --> 00:32:12,682
- For richer or for poorer.
- 484
- 00:32:13,392 --> 00:32:15,977
- In sickness and in health.
- 485
- 00:32:16,145 --> 00:32:17,187
- I know that.
- 486
- 00:32:17,355 --> 00:32:20,023
- But marriages aren't fireproof.
- Sometimes, you get burned.
- 487
- 00:32:21,901 --> 00:32:25,028
- Fireproof doesn't mean
- that a fire will never come ...
- 488
- 00:32:25,196 --> 00:32:28,198
- but that when it comes,
- you'll be able to withstand it.
- 489
- 00:32:29,033 --> 00:32:32,118
- - You didn't have to glue them.
- - Don't do it, Caleb.
- 490
- 00:32:32,286 --> 00:32:35,455
- If you pull them apart now,
- you'll break either one or both of them.
- 491
- 00:32:37,875 --> 00:32:40,460
- I am not a perfect person,
- but better than most.
- 492
- 00:32:40,628 --> 00:32:43,505
- And if my marriage is failing,
- it is not all my fault.
- 493
- 00:32:43,673 --> 00:32:46,216
- But, Caleb, I've seen you
- run into a burning building ...
- 494
- 00:32:46,384 --> 00:32:48,468
- to save people
- you don't even know.
- 495
- 00:32:48,636 --> 00:32:51,888
- But you're gonna let your own
- marriage just burn to the ground.
- 496
- 00:32:54,183 --> 00:32:56,226
- Michael, you are my friend.
- 497
- 00:32:56,394 --> 00:32:59,437
- And I have allowed you
- to speak freely with me on this job.
- 498
- 00:32:59,605 --> 00:33:00,689
- Don't abuse it.
- 499
- 00:33:45,359 --> 00:33:49,446
- My son, this 40-day journey
- cannot be taken lightly.
- 500
- 00:33:49,613 --> 00:33:52,532
- It is a challenging
- and often difficult process ...
- 501
- 00:33:52,700 --> 00:33:54,784
- but an incredibly fulfilling one.
- 502
- 00:33:54,952 --> 00:33:57,912
- If you will commit
- to a day at a time for 40 days ...
- 503
- 00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:01,541
- the results could change your life
- and your marriage.
- 504
- 00:34:01,709 --> 00:34:05,879
- Consider it a dare from others
- who have done it before you.
- 505
- 00:34:07,006 --> 00:34:10,383
- Day one: the first part of this dare
- is fairly simple.
- 506
- 00:34:10,551 --> 00:34:13,052
- Although love is communicated
- in a number of ways ...
- 507
- 00:34:13,220 --> 00:34:16,306
- our words often reflect
- the condition of our heart.
- 508
- 00:34:16,474 --> 00:34:17,515
- For the next day ...
- 509
- 00:34:17,683 --> 00:34:20,560
- resolve to say nothing negative
- to your spouse at all.
- 510
- 00:34:20,728 --> 00:34:23,688
- If the temptation arises,
- choose not to say anything.
- 511
- 00:34:23,856 --> 00:34:27,025
- It's better to hold your tongue
- than to say something you'll regret.
- 512
- 00:34:27,193 --> 00:34:31,112
- Be quick to listen,
- slow to speak and slow to get angry.
- 513
- 00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:33,490
- James 1:19.
- 514
- 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,965
- Would you have time
- to take that to the dry cleaners today?
- 515
- 00:34:51,342 --> 00:34:54,761
- Think after two days off, you would
- have already taken care of that.
- 516
- 00:35:08,984 --> 00:35:10,026
- Day two:
- 517
- 00:35:10,194 --> 00:35:14,447
- It is difficult to demonstrate love
- when you feel little to no motivation.
- 518
- 00:35:14,615 --> 00:35:17,951
- But love in its truest sense
- is not based on feelings ...
- 519
- 00:35:18,118 --> 00:35:20,787
- but a determination
- to show thoughtful actions ...
- 520
- 00:35:20,955 --> 00:35:23,289
- even when there seems
- to be no reward.
- 521
- 00:35:23,457 --> 00:35:26,334
- In addition to saying nothing negative
- to your spouse today ...
- 522
- 00:35:26,502 --> 00:35:32,131
- do at least one unexpected gesture
- as an act of kindness.
- 523
- 00:35:56,949 --> 00:35:59,117
- I poured your coffee.
- 524
- 00:35:59,285 --> 00:36:01,411
- I don't have time for coffee.
- 525
- 00:36:24,059 --> 00:36:25,101
- Day three:
- 526
- 00:36:25,269 --> 00:36:28,980
- Whatever you put your time,
- energy and money into ...
- 527
- 00:36:29,148 --> 00:36:30,982
- will become
- more important to you.
- 528
- 00:36:31,150 --> 00:36:33,985
- It's hard to care
- for something you're not investing in.
- 529
- 00:36:34,153 --> 00:36:37,238
- Along with refraining
- from any negative comments ...
- 530
- 00:36:37,406 --> 00:36:41,284
- buy your wife something that says
- you were thinking of her today.
- 531
- 00:36:42,286 --> 00:36:45,747
- Yeah, I need to order some flowers
- or something for my wife.
- 532
- 00:36:45,915 --> 00:36:48,082
- No. No, it doesn't matter.
- 533
- 00:36:48,834 --> 00:36:51,294
- Sure. How much does that cost?
- 534
- 00:36:51,462 --> 00:36:55,465
- Forty-five?
- Do you have something cheaper?
- 535
- 00:36:56,175 --> 00:36:59,928
- Yeah, yeah, that's more like it.
- Let's go with the 25.
- 536
- 00:37:00,095 --> 00:37:02,805
- How about a box of chocolates
- or something?
- 537
- 00:37:02,973 --> 00:37:04,599
- How much is that?
- 538
- 00:37:05,643 --> 00:37:07,477
- You're killing me.
- 539
- 00:37:08,187 --> 00:37:09,938
- That's better.
- 540
- 00:37:10,105 --> 00:37:12,690
- Okay, how about
- a little stuffed bear?
- 541
- 00:37:12,858 --> 00:37:14,734
- All right, forget the bear.
- 542
- 00:37:15,152 --> 00:37:18,279
- How long is it gonna take you
- to throw something like that together?
- 543
- 00:37:36,256 --> 00:37:38,049
- Man, you done lost your mind.
- 544
- 00:37:38,217 --> 00:37:41,135
- Terrell, I can bench 300 right now.
- 545
- 00:37:41,303 --> 00:37:42,345
- For real?
- 546
- 00:37:42,513 --> 00:37:44,973
- Why can't we all come
- to the same obvious conclusion?
- 547
- 00:37:45,140 --> 00:37:46,641
- That I am the man.
- 548
- 00:37:46,809 --> 00:37:50,353
- All I know is the man
- left the thermal-imaging device ...
- 549
- 00:37:50,521 --> 00:37:52,647
- on the bumper of the truck
- last night.
- 550
- 00:37:52,815 --> 00:37:55,692
- - That's an $8,000 piece of equipment.
- - My bad, captain.
- 551
- 00:37:55,859 --> 00:37:57,360
- That doesn't change the fact ...
- 552
- 00:37:57,528 --> 00:38:00,154
- when it comes to difficult situations,
- I can take it.
- 553
- 00:38:00,322 --> 00:38:01,823
- Man, I can't take this much ego.
- 554
- 00:38:01,991 --> 00:38:04,534
- You've been bragging on yourself
- for 10 minutes, man.
- 555
- 00:38:04,702 --> 00:38:06,244
- It ain't bragging if it's true.
- 556
- 00:38:06,412 --> 00:38:09,414
- Last week at the apartment fire,
- I pulled off two attack lines ...
- 557
- 00:38:09,581 --> 00:38:12,542
- laid my own supply line
- and caught a hydrant in two minutes.
- 558
- 00:38:12,710 --> 00:38:15,461
- - Other folks could do that, man.
- - Not from this station.
- 559
- 00:38:15,629 --> 00:38:17,714
- - Tom McBride could.
- - At Station 4?
- 560
- 00:38:17,881 --> 00:38:20,883
- He might do it in two and a half,
- but he can't do it under two.
- 561
- 00:38:21,385 --> 00:38:22,635
- - I don't know.
- - Captain ...
- 562
- 00:38:22,803 --> 00:38:25,138
- he's strong, but he's not as fast.
- 563
- 00:38:25,305 --> 00:38:27,348
- I could take him
- any day of the week.
- 564
- 00:38:28,726 --> 00:38:30,727
- Wayne, you seem
- pretty high on yourself.
- 565
- 00:38:30,894 --> 00:38:34,522
- I think confidence is a good thing,
- but you're over the top.
- 566
- 00:38:34,690 --> 00:38:36,065
- Man, he way over the top.
- 567
- 00:38:36,233 --> 00:38:38,151
- I can back it up.
- That's all I'm saying.
- 568
- 00:38:39,194 --> 00:38:40,236
- Wrath of God, baby.
- 569
- 00:38:40,404 --> 00:38:43,531
- - What's that for?
- - We're about to have a little contest.
- 570
- 00:38:43,699 --> 00:38:46,325
- We're just gonna see
- if Wayne really is the man.
- 571
- 00:38:46,493 --> 00:38:48,369
- That is, if he's for the challenge.
- 572
- 00:38:48,537 --> 00:38:50,747
- I'm all about this.
- 573
- 00:38:52,249 --> 00:38:53,624
- All right.
- 574
- 00:38:54,376 --> 00:38:55,418
- I'll go first.
- 575
- 00:38:55,586 --> 00:38:57,587
- - What are you gonna do?
- - Michael, time me.
- 576
- 00:38:57,755 --> 00:38:59,964
- You got it. Ready?
- 577
- 00:39:00,132 --> 00:39:01,466
- Go.
- 578
- 00:39:04,094 --> 00:39:06,220
- No way.
- 579
- 00:39:06,388 --> 00:39:08,556
- Man, you crazy.
- 580
- 00:39:08,724 --> 00:39:11,100
- He gonna drink the whole thing.
- 581
- 00:39:23,614 --> 00:39:25,281
- Twenty-three seconds.
- 582
- 00:39:28,577 --> 00:39:30,453
- All right, man. You're up.
- 583
- 00:39:30,621 --> 00:39:33,414
- All right. That was impressive.
- 584
- 00:39:33,582 --> 00:39:35,792
- Till I do it under 20.
- 585
- 00:39:36,418 --> 00:39:38,461
- - Time me.
- - Oh, I'll time you.
- 586
- 00:39:38,921 --> 00:39:40,505
- - Ready?
- - Ladies.
- 587
- 00:39:40,672 --> 00:39:42,048
- Go.
- 588
- 00:39:46,595 --> 00:39:47,804
- - Come on, Wayne.
- - It's hot.
- 589
- 00:39:47,971 --> 00:39:50,014
- - Go, Wayne.
- - Ten seconds, Wayne.
- 590
- 00:39:50,182 --> 00:39:51,933
- I thought you could take it.
- 591
- 00:39:53,936 --> 00:39:56,145
- - You gotta drink that, bro.
- - Fourteen seconds.
- 592
- 00:39:57,856 --> 00:40:00,149
- - Come on.
- - It burns!
- 593
- 00:40:01,151 --> 00:40:03,277
- Where the man at now, huh?
- 594
- 00:40:03,445 --> 00:40:05,905
- I thought he said he could take it.
- 595
- 00:40:06,949 --> 00:40:08,825
- My mouth's on fire!
- 596
- 00:40:10,661 --> 00:40:13,412
- Captain, how'd you do that, man?
- 597
- 00:40:13,580 --> 00:40:15,123
- You could do it too, Terrell ...
- 598
- 00:40:15,290 --> 00:40:17,959
- if you replaced yours
- with tomato juice.
- 599
- 00:40:20,254 --> 00:40:24,132
- That is classic. That was awesome.
- 600
- 00:40:25,968 --> 00:40:27,844
- Dr. Anderson?
- 601
- 00:40:28,011 --> 00:40:30,596
- Wanted to remind you
- about your interview in 10 minutes.
- 602
- 00:40:30,764 --> 00:40:32,557
- Catherine, thank you. I'll be there.
- 603
- 00:40:32,724 --> 00:40:34,851
- Congratulations
- on your cancer-research award.
- 604
- 00:40:35,018 --> 00:40:37,854
- - You deserve it.
- - I appreciate that.
- 605
- 00:40:38,021 --> 00:40:39,272
- This is Catherine.
- 606
- 00:40:39,439 --> 00:40:42,900
- Hey, it's Caleb.
- I wanted to call and check on you.
- 607
- 00:40:43,819 --> 00:40:46,946
- You wanted to check on me?
- What for?
- 608
- 00:40:48,198 --> 00:40:50,408
- You know,
- just see if you needed anything.
- 609
- 00:40:52,035 --> 00:40:54,162
- You called to see
- if I needed anything?
- 610
- 00:40:54,329 --> 00:40:57,707
- Right, yeah. You want me
- to bring something home for you ...
- 611
- 00:40:57,875 --> 00:41:00,710
- or get something from the store
- in the morning?
- 612
- 00:41:00,878 --> 00:41:04,255
- Caleb, you never asked me this
- before. What's going on?
- 613
- 00:41:04,423 --> 00:41:07,508
- I just wanted to see
- if you needed anything, that's it.
- 614
- 00:41:07,676 --> 00:41:09,385
- I'm fine.
- 615
- 00:41:10,012 --> 00:41:11,554
- Okay.
- 616
- 00:41:12,222 --> 00:41:14,223
- All right, well ...
- 617
- 00:41:14,391 --> 00:41:15,892
- goodbye.
- 618
- 00:41:21,899 --> 00:41:24,609
- Day four, done.
- 619
- 00:41:29,615 --> 00:41:31,949
- Hey, Cat, how you doing, girl?
- 620
- 00:41:32,117 --> 00:41:33,951
- Confused.
- 621
- 00:41:34,703 --> 00:41:37,413
- - My husband's acting weird.
- - What's he doing?
- 622
- 00:41:37,915 --> 00:41:41,417
- Well, in the last few days ...
- 623
- 00:41:41,585 --> 00:41:46,797
- he has fixed me coffee,
- bought me these pitiful little flowers ...
- 624
- 00:41:46,965 --> 00:41:50,259
- and just now,
- called just to see if I'm doing okay.
- 625
- 00:41:50,761 --> 00:41:52,720
- - Really?
- - Yeah.
- 626
- 00:41:52,888 --> 00:41:54,263
- I'll tell you what he's doing.
- 627
- 00:41:54,431 --> 00:41:56,766
- He's trying to butter you up
- for a divorce.
- 628
- 00:41:56,934 --> 00:41:58,267
- And why would he do that?
- 629
- 00:41:58,435 --> 00:42:00,269
- Before my cousin Luwanna
- got a divorce ...
- 630
- 00:42:00,437 --> 00:42:02,063
- her husband did the same thing.
- 631
- 00:42:02,231 --> 00:42:04,774
- He started acting nice and sweet,
- next thing we know ...
- 632
- 00:42:04,942 --> 00:42:07,485
- he walks away with the house
- and most of their money.
- 633
- 00:42:07,653 --> 00:42:11,572
- He hasn't even talked to her since.
- Don't you let him deceive you, girl.
- 634
- 00:42:38,642 --> 00:42:40,726
- Did you clear your history?
- 635
- 00:42:41,478 --> 00:42:43,229
- What?
- 636
- 00:42:43,397 --> 00:42:46,941
- Did you wipe the websites off so
- nobody would see where you've been?
- 637
- 00:42:52,489 --> 00:42:54,782
- You know, Caleb,
- you're not fooling anybody.
- 638
- 00:42:54,950 --> 00:42:56,534
- I know what you're trying to do ...
- 639
- 00:42:56,702 --> 00:42:59,495
- buying me flowers
- and calling me at work.
- 640
- 00:43:00,163 --> 00:43:01,747
- And what is that?
- 641
- 00:43:01,915 --> 00:43:04,625
- I'm meeting with a lawyer next week,
- and don't you think ...
- 642
- 00:43:04,793 --> 00:43:07,295
- I'm buying into
- this nice-guy routine.
- 643
- 00:43:07,462 --> 00:43:09,630
- What are you talking about?
- 644
- 00:43:10,841 --> 00:43:13,092
- You're not getting one dime
- more than you deserve.
- 645
- 00:43:13,260 --> 00:43:15,970
- When this divorce is final,
- I'm taking my share.
- 646
- 00:43:16,138 --> 00:43:19,682
- - Is that what you think I'm doing?
- - No, I know that's what you're doing.
- 647
- 00:43:19,850 --> 00:43:20,975
- Well, you're wrong.
- 648
- 00:43:21,143 --> 00:43:24,103
- You never assume I would do anything
- worthy of respect.
- 649
- 00:43:24,271 --> 00:43:25,980
- - Anything honorable.
- - Honorable?
- 650
- 00:43:26,189 --> 00:43:28,691
- Honorable?
- What were you just looking at, Caleb?
- 651
- 00:43:28,859 --> 00:43:32,028
- What was on that computer screen?
- Was that honorable?
- 652
- 00:43:32,195 --> 00:43:33,654
- Who do you think you're fooling?
- 653
- 00:43:33,822 --> 00:43:36,699
- Do you know why your sweet
- little gestures mean nothing to me?
- 654
- 00:43:36,867 --> 00:43:39,118
- It's because that's the kind of man
- you've become.
- 655
- 00:43:39,286 --> 00:43:41,370
- When you're alone,
- that's what you default to.
- 656
- 00:43:41,538 --> 00:43:43,956
- And there is nothing honorable
- about it.
- 657
- 00:44:11,526 --> 00:44:13,235
- Mr. Rudolph.
- 658
- 00:44:14,154 --> 00:44:15,780
- Caleb.
- 659
- 00:44:32,422 --> 00:44:34,632
- - Hello?
- - It's not working, Dad.
- 660
- 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:35,883
- What's not working?
- 661
- 00:44:36,051 --> 00:44:38,427
- This whole love-dare thing.
- It is not working.
- 662
- 00:44:39,096 --> 00:44:40,679
- Tell me what's going on.
- 663
- 00:44:41,348 --> 00:44:43,599
- I have been doing everything
- that it says to do ...
- 664
- 00:44:43,767 --> 00:44:46,227
- and she has completely rejected
- all of it.
- 665
- 00:44:46,395 --> 00:44:48,729
- Caleb, this process takes 40 days,
- not four.
- 666
- 00:44:48,897 --> 00:44:51,148
- What's the point of going down
- a dead-end road ...
- 667
- 00:44:51,316 --> 00:44:54,276
- when it's not going anywhere?
- - You don't know that yet.
- 668
- 00:44:54,444 --> 00:44:55,778
- Caleb, you're not a quitter.
- 669
- 00:44:55,946 --> 00:45:00,032
- And something tells me
- you're doing just enough to get by.
- 670
- 00:45:00,951 --> 00:45:02,410
- Am I right?
- 671
- 00:45:08,166 --> 00:45:11,293
- - I feel nothing.
- - I understand, son.
- 672
- 00:45:11,461 --> 00:45:13,921
- But this is not based on feelings.
- 673
- 00:45:14,089 --> 00:45:15,381
- It's a decision.
- 674
- 00:45:15,549 --> 00:45:17,675
- You can't give up yet.
- 675
- 00:45:17,843 --> 00:45:19,969
- Keep taking a day at a time.
- 676
- 00:45:23,223 --> 00:45:24,265
- Yes, sir.
- 677
- 00:45:25,142 --> 00:45:26,809
- I love you, son.
- 678
- 00:45:27,853 --> 00:45:29,562
- You too, Dad.
- 679
- 00:45:38,196 --> 00:45:39,905
- How is he?
- 680
- 00:45:40,657 --> 00:45:43,325
- We've gotta start
- praying for him more.
- 681
- 00:45:46,413 --> 00:45:49,081
- Mama, I don't know what to do.
- 682
- 00:45:50,250 --> 00:45:54,795
- I know you always told me to hang on
- during the hard times, but ...
- 683
- 00:45:58,049 --> 00:46:01,510
- You don't know
- what I've been competing with.
- 684
- 00:46:02,220 --> 00:46:04,513
- I mean, when he look ...
- 685
- 00:46:10,145 --> 00:46:14,356
- He makes me feel so humiliated.
- 686
- 00:46:15,108 --> 00:46:17,693
- And he doesn't even know it.
- 687
- 00:46:21,406 --> 00:46:25,451
- When did I stop
- being good enough for him?
- 688
- 00:47:37,816 --> 00:47:39,775
- So, what day are you on?
- 689
- 00:47:41,069 --> 00:47:42,945
- - Eighteen.
- - And?
- 690
- 00:47:44,531 --> 00:47:45,948
- And it's still difficult.
- 691
- 00:47:46,741 --> 00:47:49,785
- Every day has me adding
- a new concept to the way I treat her.
- 692
- 00:47:50,412 --> 00:47:51,453
- For example?
- 693
- 00:47:52,122 --> 00:47:54,248
- Well, here.
- 694
- 00:47:54,416 --> 00:47:57,543
- Day 16 was about praying for her.
- I kind of skipped that one.
- 695
- 00:47:58,295 --> 00:48:01,463
- Day 17 is about listening to her.
- 696
- 00:48:01,631 --> 00:48:03,924
- Eighteen's about
- studying her again.
- 697
- 00:48:04,467 --> 00:48:06,093
- - Studying her?
- - Yeah.
- 698
- 00:48:06,303 --> 00:48:07,761
- Here.
- 699
- 00:48:08,471 --> 00:48:11,557
- "When a man is trying to win the heart
- of a woman, he studies her.
- 700
- 00:48:11,725 --> 00:48:14,310
- He learns her likes, dislikes,
- habits and hobbies.
- 701
- 00:48:14,477 --> 00:48:16,687
- But after he wins her heart
- and marries her ...
- 702
- 00:48:16,855 --> 00:48:19,064
- he often stops learning about her.
- 703
- 00:48:19,232 --> 00:48:21,358
- If the amount he studied her
- before marriage ...
- 704
- 00:48:21,526 --> 00:48:24,778
- was equal to a high school degree,
- he should continue to learn ...
- 705
- 00:48:24,946 --> 00:48:27,990
- until he gains a college degree,
- a master's degree ...
- 706
- 00:48:28,158 --> 00:48:30,159
- and ultimately, a doctorate degree.
- 707
- 00:48:30,327 --> 00:48:34,872
- It is a lifelong journey that draws
- his heart ever closer to hers."
- 708
- 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:38,125
- That's a pretty good concept.
- I never thought about it like that.
- 709
- 00:48:39,836 --> 00:48:42,087
- So do you study Tina?
- 710
- 00:48:42,255 --> 00:48:44,965
- Yeah, but I don't think
- I got my college degree on her yet.
- 711
- 00:48:46,843 --> 00:48:49,637
- So tell me a little bit more
- about the studying her.
- 712
- 00:48:49,804 --> 00:48:52,723
- I'm supposed to make her
- a candlelight dinner ...
- 713
- 00:48:52,891 --> 00:48:55,184
- and then ask her
- a whole list of questions.
- 714
- 00:48:55,685 --> 00:48:57,686
- Well, my advice is go all out.
- 715
- 00:48:58,396 --> 00:48:59,438
- Meaning?
- 716
- 00:48:59,606 --> 00:49:02,608
- Don't go cheap. If you don't cook,
- get it from a good restaurant.
- 717
- 00:49:02,776 --> 00:49:07,154
- Take it home, use your best dishes,
- glasses, music, everything.
- 718
- 00:49:07,322 --> 00:49:09,198
- Make it a memorable date.
- 719
- 00:49:12,494 --> 00:49:13,786
- Man, what you talking about?
- 720
- 00:49:13,953 --> 00:49:17,122
- - You ain't had a date in a year.
- - I'm like a fine wine.
- 721
- 00:49:17,290 --> 00:49:19,583
- I need about 35 years
- to reach perfection.
- 722
- 00:49:19,751 --> 00:49:23,212
- But the lady that gets Wayne Floyd,
- she'll get the complete package.
- 723
- 00:49:23,380 --> 00:49:25,506
- - You mean complete wreckage.
- - No.
- 724
- 00:49:25,965 --> 00:49:28,676
- I'm 255 pounds of pure love.
- 725
- 00:49:28,843 --> 00:49:31,762
- All you need to make marriage work
- is a little bit of romance.
- 726
- 00:49:31,930 --> 00:49:33,639
- And that comes from right here.
- 727
- 00:49:33,807 --> 00:49:36,892
- Man, that's easy to say
- when you ain't never been married.
- 728
- 00:49:37,060 --> 00:49:38,644
- It's a lot harder than you think.
- 729
- 00:49:38,812 --> 00:49:41,522
- One day I'm gonna walk in
- with a tanned beauty on my arm.
- 730
- 00:49:41,690 --> 00:49:43,357
- I'll show you how easy it can be.
- 731
- 00:49:43,525 --> 00:49:46,235
- The only thing you'll come in with
- hanging from your arm ...
- 732
- 00:49:46,403 --> 00:49:48,487
- is a bucket of chicken.
- 733
- 00:49:50,073 --> 00:49:51,782
- It was tomato juice.
- 734
- 00:50:04,254 --> 00:50:06,922
- Tomato juice? Man, that's wrong!
- 735
- 00:50:07,090 --> 00:50:09,758
- - That's wrong.
- - What's wrong?
- 736
- 00:50:09,926 --> 00:50:12,177
- I drank the real stuff
- and he drank tomato juice?
- 737
- 00:50:12,345 --> 00:50:13,470
- You just got that?
- 738
- 00:50:13,638 --> 00:50:15,389
- Do you know
- what that stuff did to me?
- 739
- 00:50:15,557 --> 00:50:16,932
- Go to bed, Wayne.
- 740
- 00:50:17,100 --> 00:50:20,561
- - There's some serious repercussions.
- - Quiet.
- 741
- 00:50:20,729 --> 00:50:22,771
- Oh, it's on now.
- 742
- 00:50:23,690 --> 00:50:25,941
- Done lit a fuse.
- 743
- 00:50:26,109 --> 00:50:29,611
- Somebody's gonna get
- a karate-chop sandwich.
- 744
- 00:51:44,687 --> 00:51:45,854
- What are you doing?
- 745
- 00:51:49,108 --> 00:51:51,527
- Maybe I'd like to have dinner
- with my wife.
- 746
- 00:51:57,408 --> 00:51:59,535
- Let me be real clear with you
- about something.
- 747
- 00:52:02,539 --> 00:52:05,165
- I do not love you.
- 748
- 00:52:50,753 --> 00:52:52,588
- Oh, son.
- 749
- 00:52:53,298 --> 00:52:55,799
- This is when it gets hard.
- 750
- 00:52:57,135 --> 00:52:59,553
- - Hello, Caleb.
- - We're done, Dad.
- 751
- 00:52:59,721 --> 00:53:03,807
- I am not gonna keep doing this.
- I have tried and there's nothing there.
- 752
- 00:53:03,975 --> 00:53:05,225
- It's not worth it.
- 753
- 00:53:05,393 --> 00:53:07,769
- I understand, son,
- but you're halfway there ...
- 754
- 00:53:07,937 --> 00:53:09,938
- which was the most difficult
- for us too.
- 755
- 00:53:10,106 --> 00:53:13,066
- But at least you had some hope.
- She has given me nothing.
- 756
- 00:53:13,234 --> 00:53:15,777
- There was a point
- when we had no hope either.
- 757
- 00:53:15,945 --> 00:53:18,030
- Our marriage should have ended,
- Caleb.
- 758
- 00:53:18,197 --> 00:53:20,574
- You can't listen to the way you feel
- at the moment.
- 759
- 00:53:20,742 --> 00:53:21,950
- She's seen you trying.
- 760
- 00:53:22,118 --> 00:53:26,663
- No, she doesn't care, Dad.
- None of this means anything to her.
- 761
- 00:53:26,831 --> 00:53:28,332
- Dad, I tried.
- 762
- 00:53:30,043 --> 00:53:31,335
- Caleb, are you off tomorrow?
- 763
- 00:53:32,295 --> 00:53:33,337
- Yeah, why?
- 764
- 00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:36,381
- I'm coming to see you.
- We can talk then.
- 765
- 00:53:37,675 --> 00:53:39,384
- Dad, you don't have to do that.
- 766
- 00:53:39,928 --> 00:53:42,971
- I want to, son. I'd like to come.
- 767
- 00:53:45,058 --> 00:53:46,934
- All right.
- 768
- 00:54:13,670 --> 00:54:15,170
- Dad, I gotta be honest with you.
- 769
- 00:54:15,338 --> 00:54:18,757
- I feel bad that you drove four hours
- just to come see me.
- 770
- 00:54:18,925 --> 00:54:22,511
- It was good.
- It gave me time to think and pray.
- 771
- 00:54:22,679 --> 00:54:25,514
- So, what are you on, Day 20?
- 772
- 00:54:25,682 --> 00:54:28,600
- - Yeah, yeah, something like that.
- - Yeah.
- 773
- 00:54:28,768 --> 00:54:31,144
- I'd say the halfway point
- was the hardest for us.
- 774
- 00:54:31,646 --> 00:54:33,188
- Why?
- 775
- 00:54:33,356 --> 00:54:37,150
- Well, it's when you determine
- whether your heart's in it or not.
- 776
- 00:54:37,318 --> 00:54:40,821
- Makes you check your real motives
- when things get difficult.
- 777
- 00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:43,323
- Yeah?
- Did Mom give you a hard time?
- 778
- 00:54:43,491 --> 00:54:47,327
- No. I thought your mother
- had a pretty good attitude about it.
- 779
- 00:54:47,495 --> 00:54:49,871
- Yeah, well,
- Catherine's not buying any of it.
- 780
- 00:54:50,039 --> 00:54:52,624
- - Why do you think that is?
- - Because she doesn't love me.
- 781
- 00:54:52,792 --> 00:54:54,042
- She doesn't even like me.
- 782
- 00:54:54,210 --> 00:54:57,963
- Dad, she's just about ignored
- everything I've done.
- 783
- 00:54:58,131 --> 00:55:00,882
- Are you reading everything
- on each page?
- 784
- 00:55:02,552 --> 00:55:04,803
- You mean the Bible verses
- at the bottom of it?
- 785
- 00:55:04,971 --> 00:55:06,722
- No, I'm not, Dad.
- 786
- 00:55:06,889 --> 00:55:10,475
- - I told you, that is not what I need.
- - And what do you need?
- 787
- 00:55:10,643 --> 00:55:15,188
- I need Catherine to wake up to the fact
- that we are about to get a divorce.
- 788
- 00:55:15,356 --> 00:55:18,692
- And I'm trying to prevent that,
- but I cannot do it by myself.
- 789
- 00:55:18,860 --> 00:55:22,696
- That may be true,
- but I think you need more than that.
- 790
- 00:55:24,032 --> 00:55:26,575
- Dad, if you're gonna tell me
- I need Jesus, please don't.
- 791
- 00:55:26,743 --> 00:55:29,077
- I don't need a crutch
- to get through life.
- 792
- 00:55:29,245 --> 00:55:31,413
- Oh, son,
- Jesus is much more than a crutch.
- 793
- 00:55:31,581 --> 00:55:34,791
- He's become the most significant part
- of our lives.
- 794
- 00:55:34,959 --> 00:55:36,501
- Dad, why do you keep saying that?
- 795
- 00:55:36,669 --> 00:55:39,921
- He's the most significant part?
- How is that?
- 796
- 00:55:40,089 --> 00:55:45,010
- When I realized who I was
- and who he was ...
- 797
- 00:55:45,178 --> 00:55:47,179
- I realized my need for him.
- 798
- 00:55:47,346 --> 00:55:50,599
- I needed his forgiveness
- and salvation.
- 799
- 00:55:51,851 --> 00:55:54,061
- See, I don't understand that.
- 800
- 00:55:54,228 --> 00:55:58,023
- Why do I need his salvation?
- What, am I gonna be thrown into hell?
- 801
- 00:55:58,191 --> 00:56:01,443
- For what? Because I got divorced?
- 802
- 00:56:01,611 --> 00:56:03,111
- No.
- 803
- 00:56:03,279 --> 00:56:05,697
- Because you violated his standards.
- 804
- 00:56:05,865 --> 00:56:08,408
- What? thou shall not kill?
- 805
- 00:56:08,576 --> 00:56:10,827
- Dad, I help people.
- I am a good person.
- 806
- 00:56:10,995 --> 00:56:12,454
- According to you.
- 807
- 00:56:12,622 --> 00:56:15,207
- But God doesn't judge
- by your standards.
- 808
- 00:56:15,374 --> 00:56:17,584
- - He uses his.
- - And what are his?
- 809
- 00:56:17,752 --> 00:56:19,920
- Well, truth.
- 810
- 00:56:20,088 --> 00:56:21,129
- - Okay.
- - Love.
- 811
- 00:56:21,297 --> 00:56:22,964
- - I'm honest.
- - Faithfulness.
- 812
- 00:56:23,132 --> 00:56:25,592
- I care about people.
- I am those things.
- 813
- 00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:27,177
- Sometimes.
- 814
- 00:56:27,345 --> 00:56:32,265
- But have you loved God,
- the one who gave you life?
- 815
- 00:56:32,433 --> 00:56:37,854
- His standards are so high,
- he considers hatred to be murder ...
- 816
- 00:56:38,022 --> 00:56:42,067
- and lust to be adultery.
- 817
- 00:56:45,905 --> 00:56:48,907
- Dad, what about
- all the good I've done?
- 818
- 00:56:49,075 --> 00:56:52,619
- Son, saving someone from a fire
- does not make you right with God.
- 819
- 00:56:52,787 --> 00:56:55,080
- You've broken his commandments.
- 820
- 00:56:55,248 --> 00:56:57,833
- And one day,
- you'll answer to him for that.
- 821
- 00:57:05,925 --> 00:57:07,801
- Caleb ...
- 822
- 00:57:07,969 --> 00:57:10,637
- if I ask you why
- you're so frustrated with Catherine ...
- 823
- 00:57:10,805 --> 00:57:12,472
- what would you say?
- 824
- 00:57:16,644 --> 00:57:18,395
- She's stubborn.
- 825
- 00:57:18,563 --> 00:57:21,273
- She makes everything
- difficult for me.
- 826
- 00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:23,108
- She's ungrateful.
- 827
- 00:57:23,276 --> 00:57:25,944
- She's constantly griping
- about something.
- 828
- 00:57:26,112 --> 00:57:28,446
- Has she thanked you
- the last 20 days?
- 829
- 00:57:28,614 --> 00:57:29,906
- No.
- 830
- 00:57:30,074 --> 00:57:31,950
- And you'd think
- after I washed the car ...
- 831
- 00:57:32,118 --> 00:57:34,786
- I've changed the oil,
- do the dishes, clean the house ...
- 832
- 00:57:34,954 --> 00:57:38,248
- that she would try to show me
- a little bit of gratitude.
- 833
- 00:57:38,416 --> 00:57:40,083
- Well, she doesn't.
- 834
- 00:57:40,251 --> 00:57:44,212
- In fact, when I come home,
- she makes me feel like I'm an enemy.
- 835
- 00:57:44,380 --> 00:57:46,256
- I'm not even welcome
- in my own home, Dad.
- 836
- 00:57:46,424 --> 00:57:48,717
- That is what really ticks me off.
- 837
- 00:57:48,885 --> 00:57:52,053
- Dad, for the last three weeks,
- I have bent over backwards for her.
- 838
- 00:57:52,221 --> 00:57:55,974
- I have tried to demonstrate
- that I still care about this relationship.
- 839
- 00:57:56,142 --> 00:57:58,852
- I bought her flowers,
- which she threw away.
- 840
- 00:57:59,020 --> 00:58:02,814
- I have taken her insults
- and her sarcasm, but last night was it.
- 841
- 00:58:02,982 --> 00:58:06,568
- I made dinner for her, I did
- everything I could to demonstrate ...
- 842
- 00:58:06,736 --> 00:58:09,404
- that I care about her,
- to show value for her ...
- 843
- 00:58:09,572 --> 00:58:11,239
- and she spat in my face.
- 844
- 00:58:11,407 --> 00:58:14,910
- She does not deserve this, Dad.
- I am not doing it anymore.
- 845
- 00:58:15,077 --> 00:58:19,497
- How am I supposed to show love
- to somebody over and over and over ...
- 846
- 00:58:19,665 --> 00:58:21,958
- who constantly rejects me?
- 847
- 00:58:25,546 --> 00:58:26,963
- That's a good question.
- 848
- 00:58:36,766 --> 00:58:38,934
- Dad, that is not what I'm doing.
- 849
- 00:58:39,852 --> 00:58:41,603
- Isn't it?
- 850
- 00:58:42,438 --> 00:58:43,563
- No --
- 851
- 00:58:43,731 --> 00:58:45,482
- Dad, that is not what this is about.
- 852
- 00:58:45,650 --> 00:58:47,901
- Son, you just asked me:
- 853
- 00:58:48,069 --> 00:58:50,320
- "How can someone show love
- over and over again ...
- 854
- 00:58:50,488 --> 00:58:53,114
- when they're constantly rejected?"
- 855
- 00:58:53,449 --> 00:58:55,617
- Caleb, the answer is:
- 856
- 00:58:55,785 --> 00:58:57,327
- You can't love her ...
- 857
- 00:58:57,495 --> 00:59:00,538
- because you can't give her
- what you don't have.
- 858
- 00:59:04,252 --> 00:59:08,046
- I couldn't truly love your mother
- till I understood what love really was.
- 859
- 00:59:09,131 --> 00:59:12,592
- It's not because
- I get some reward out of it.
- 860
- 00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:14,928
- I've now made a decision
- to love your mother ...
- 861
- 00:59:15,096 --> 00:59:17,347
- whether she deserves it or not.
- 862
- 00:59:18,724 --> 00:59:22,602
- Son, God loves you
- even though you don't deserve it.
- 863
- 00:59:23,229 --> 00:59:25,730
- Even though you've rejected him.
- 864
- 00:59:26,190 --> 00:59:27,941
- Spat in his face.
- 865
- 00:59:29,944 --> 00:59:34,823
- God sent Jesus to die on the cross
- and take the punishment for your sin ...
- 866
- 00:59:35,366 --> 00:59:37,450
- because he loves you.
- 867
- 00:59:38,744 --> 00:59:42,455
- The cross was offensive to me
- until I came to it.
- 868
- 00:59:43,749 --> 00:59:45,792
- But when I did ...
- 869
- 00:59:47,336 --> 00:59:49,546
- Jesus Christ changed my life.
- 870
- 00:59:50,047 --> 00:59:52,841
- That's when I truly began
- to love your mom.
- 871
- 00:59:55,011 --> 00:59:58,680
- Son, I can't settle this for you.
- 872
- 00:59:58,848 --> 01:00:01,349
- This is between you and the Lord.
- 873
- 01:00:01,517 --> 01:00:05,103
- But I love you too much
- not to tell you the truth.
- 874
- 01:00:06,731 --> 01:00:09,691
- Can't you see that you need him?
- 875
- 01:00:15,740 --> 01:00:19,409
- Can't you see
- that you need his forgiveness?
- 876
- 01:00:23,539 --> 01:00:25,165
- Yes.
- 877
- 01:00:27,752 --> 01:00:30,337
- Will you trust him with your life?
- 878
- 01:00:59,867 --> 01:01:01,826
- Waffle time.
- 879
- 01:01:02,328 --> 01:01:04,746
- Hey, man,
- I'd like to talk to you about something.
- 880
- 01:01:04,914 --> 01:01:06,581
- What's that?
- 881
- 01:01:06,749 --> 01:01:08,917
- - Well --
- - Hey, captain.
- 882
- 01:01:09,794 --> 01:01:12,504
- I think B shift
- is trying to pull a joke on us, man.
- 883
- 01:01:12,671 --> 01:01:14,506
- Salt and pepper shaker
- won't come apart.
- 884
- 01:01:14,673 --> 01:01:16,466
- Hey, toss them over here.
- 885
- 01:01:18,094 --> 01:01:20,678
- Thanks. Don't forget
- to mop the kitchen after breakfast.
- 886
- 01:01:20,846 --> 01:01:22,263
- Yes, sir.
- 887
- 01:01:25,017 --> 01:01:26,935
- You wanna tell me something?
- 888
- 01:01:29,647 --> 01:01:31,398
- It's about your faith.
- 889
- 01:01:31,565 --> 01:01:33,775
- - My faith?
- - Yeah.
- 890
- 01:01:33,943 --> 01:01:35,568
- What about it?
- 891
- 01:01:36,445 --> 01:01:39,114
- Well, I'm in.
- 892
- 01:01:39,281 --> 01:01:40,615
- You're in?
- 893
- 01:01:41,242 --> 01:01:42,867
- Yeah, I'm in.
- 894
- 01:01:44,703 --> 01:01:46,538
- Are you saying
- that you wanna be in?
- 895
- 01:01:46,705 --> 01:01:49,791
- - I'm saying I'm in.
- - You're really in?
- 896
- 01:01:49,959 --> 01:01:52,210
- - Really.
- - You can't be half in and say you're in.
- 897
- 01:01:52,378 --> 01:01:55,505
- - You gotta be all in, brother.
- - I'm saying I'm all in.
- 898
- 01:01:55,673 --> 01:01:57,298
- Caleb, I can't believe it, man.
- 899
- 01:01:57,466 --> 01:01:59,467
- - Yeah.
- - You're my brother.
- 900
- 01:01:59,635 --> 01:02:00,969
- - I'm your brother?
- - Yeah, man.
- 901
- 01:02:01,137 --> 01:02:04,973
- You're my brother from another mother
- but now we got the same father.
- 902
- 01:02:05,141 --> 01:02:07,016
- - What?
- - I'll explain it to you later, man.
- 903
- 01:02:07,184 --> 01:02:08,643
- This is awesome.
- 904
- 01:02:08,811 --> 01:02:10,979
- - Does Catherine know?
- - No.
- 905
- 01:02:11,147 --> 01:02:14,274
- No, I don't think she'd care right now,
- to tell you the truth.
- 906
- 01:02:14,442 --> 01:02:17,819
- She hasn't been taking too well
- to this whole love-dare thing.
- 907
- 01:02:17,987 --> 01:02:20,822
- - But you're not done yet, right?
- - No, I'm day 21 out of 40.
- 908
- 01:02:21,157 --> 01:02:23,658
- But I'll be honest with you.
- Up to this point ...
- 909
- 01:02:23,826 --> 01:02:26,494
- my heart's not been in it.
- - That's what matters.
- 910
- 01:02:26,662 --> 01:02:29,456
- A woman can tell when you're
- just going through the motions.
- 911
- 01:02:29,623 --> 01:02:31,749
- That's absolutely right.
- 912
- 01:02:31,917 --> 01:02:34,586
- - Hey, let me ask you a question.
- - Go ahead.
- 913
- 01:02:35,463 --> 01:02:37,297
- How did you get a good start
- with Tina?
- 914
- 01:02:37,465 --> 01:02:39,007
- Why is it so easy for you?
- 915
- 01:02:39,175 --> 01:02:42,177
- Oh, it's not always been easy.
- Marriage takes work, man.
- 916
- 01:02:42,761 --> 01:02:45,472
- Tina is an incredible wife.
- 917
- 01:02:45,639 --> 01:02:47,682
- But we learned a lot of lessons
- the hard way.
- 918
- 01:02:50,519 --> 01:02:52,854
- At least you haven't
- had to face divorce.
- 919
- 01:02:55,858 --> 01:02:57,942
- I wish that were true.
- 920
- 01:02:59,028 --> 01:03:00,904
- What does that mean?
- 921
- 01:03:01,071 --> 01:03:02,989
- You and Tina
- been struggling that much?
- 922
- 01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:07,911
- Not me and Tina.
- But I did with my first wife.
- 923
- 01:03:12,082 --> 01:03:13,666
- What?
- 924
- 01:03:14,126 --> 01:03:16,544
- You were married to someone
- before Tina?
- 925
- 01:03:17,213 --> 01:03:19,714
- For one horrible year.
- 926
- 01:03:19,882 --> 01:03:21,674
- I got married for the wrong reasons.
- 927
- 01:03:21,842 --> 01:03:24,969
- Then I turned around and got
- a divorce for the wrong reasons.
- 928
- 01:03:25,304 --> 01:03:28,264
- Man, I thought
- I was just following my heart.
- 929
- 01:03:29,183 --> 01:03:31,226
- Michael, I've worked with you
- for five years.
- 930
- 01:03:31,393 --> 01:03:34,229
- - You've never told me that.
- - Because I'm not proud of it.
- 931
- 01:03:34,605 --> 01:03:37,232
- It was before I gave my life
- to the Lord ...
- 932
- 01:03:37,399 --> 01:03:40,860
- and, man, I was just only concerned
- about my rights and my needs.
- 933
- 01:03:41,028 --> 01:03:43,238
- Man, I ruined her life.
- 934
- 01:03:43,405 --> 01:03:46,533
- But when I gave my life to God ...
- 935
- 01:03:46,700 --> 01:03:49,285
- I tried to find her,
- but she'd already remarried.
- 936
- 01:03:49,453 --> 01:03:52,914
- So believe me when I tell you
- I got a big scar.
- 937
- 01:03:53,082 --> 01:03:56,042
- Man, God made marriage
- to be for life.
- 938
- 01:03:57,461 --> 01:04:00,838
- That's why you gotta keep your vows
- to Catherine.
- 939
- 01:04:01,006 --> 01:04:04,509
- You gotta beg God to teach you
- how to be a good husband.
- 940
- 01:04:04,677 --> 01:04:08,263
- And don't just follow your heart, man,
- because your heart can be deceived.
- 941
- 01:04:08,722 --> 01:04:12,600
- But you gotta lead your heart.
- 942
- 01:04:18,274 --> 01:04:20,650
- It's just been hard for me, you know?
- 943
- 01:04:20,818 --> 01:04:22,735
- I saw my parents again yesterday ...
- 944
- 01:04:24,029 --> 01:04:26,614
- and, well,
- Mom's not doing too well.
- 945
- 01:04:27,324 --> 01:04:31,411
- It's amazing how much a stroke
- can affect somebody's life.
- 946
- 01:04:31,579 --> 01:04:33,079
- I just ...
- 947
- 01:04:33,247 --> 01:04:35,623
- I feel like she's trapped, you know?
- 948
- 01:04:35,791 --> 01:04:37,750
- And Dad does his best
- to communicate ...
- 949
- 01:04:37,918 --> 01:04:40,295
- but it's hard for him too.
- 950
- 01:04:42,298 --> 01:04:43,965
- Catherine, I'm so sorry.
- 951
- 01:04:44,466 --> 01:04:46,634
- You seem very close to them.
- 952
- 01:04:46,802 --> 01:04:47,927
- I am.
- 953
- 01:04:48,846 --> 01:04:52,140
- They had me late in life so it was like
- growing up with grandparents.
- 954
- 01:04:52,308 --> 01:04:53,600
- So they spoiled you.
- 955
- 01:04:53,767 --> 01:04:56,060
- Hey, now.
- I think they did a pretty good job.
- 956
- 01:04:56,478 --> 01:04:58,563
- They did.
- They should be very proud.
- 957
- 01:04:59,857 --> 01:05:02,775
- You know, you're kind of sweet
- when you wanna be.
- 958
- 01:05:02,943 --> 01:05:04,694
- Kind of?
- 959
- 01:05:04,862 --> 01:05:07,530
- With some training,
- I think you could be a fine gentleman.
- 960
- 01:05:07,698 --> 01:05:09,157
- Well, are you offering lessons?
- 961
- 01:05:10,993 --> 01:05:14,120
- So, what does your mom need?
- 962
- 01:05:15,664 --> 01:05:18,458
- Well, a better wheelchair
- and hospital bed ...
- 963
- 01:05:18,626 --> 01:05:20,668
- would be at the top of the list.
- 964
- 01:05:20,836 --> 01:05:24,297
- I've been working with
- RMS Medical Supplies to get them ...
- 965
- 01:05:24,465 --> 01:05:25,673
- but it's so expensive.
- 966
- 01:05:26,175 --> 01:05:29,093
- Well, you can't put a price
- on helping your mom.
- 967
- 01:05:29,261 --> 01:05:30,970
- That's right.
- 968
- 01:05:31,639 --> 01:05:34,015
- So it's worth the sacrifice.
- 969
- 01:05:34,183 --> 01:05:36,851
- You know, they're lucky
- to have you for a daughter.
- 970
- 01:05:39,521 --> 01:05:41,814
- Don't look at me like that.
- I'm trying to help.
- 971
- 01:05:41,982 --> 01:05:44,609
- Why does it matter
- what my bed looks like? I sleep in it.
- 972
- 01:05:44,777 --> 01:05:48,696
- What if the chief walks through here?
- My bed says I take my job seriously.
- 973
- 01:05:48,864 --> 01:05:51,366
- Your bed says your mama didn't
- help you make it up.
- 974
- 01:05:51,533 --> 01:05:53,368
- Teaching a rookie
- how to make his bed?
- 975
- 01:05:53,535 --> 01:05:55,370
- Somebody's got to.
- 976
- 01:05:55,537 --> 01:05:58,581
- That looks as bad as yours did
- when I taught you.
- 977
- 01:06:03,796 --> 01:06:07,048
- Engine 2, Engine 1,
- Area 1, Battalion 1.
- 978
- 01:06:07,216 --> 01:06:09,550
- Respond to 209-11th Avenue.
- 979
- 01:06:09,718 --> 01:06:12,804
- Structure fire, residence.
- Time out, 15:32.
- 980
- 01:06:12,971 --> 01:06:14,430
- - Michael, you got that?
- - Got it.
- 981
- 01:06:14,598 --> 01:06:16,391
- - Wayne, let's roll.
- - Got it.
- 982
- 01:06:29,321 --> 01:06:32,365
- Engine 1 is en route
- to 209-11th Avenue, structure fire.
- 983
- 01:06:32,533 --> 01:06:33,991
- 10-4, Engine 1.
- 984
- 01:06:34,159 --> 01:06:38,204
- Be advised we've received numerous
- calls regarding this structure fire.
- 985
- 01:06:38,497 --> 01:06:40,581
- That means
- there's something to this one.
- 986
- 01:06:40,749 --> 01:06:42,625
- Make sure you're tightened up.
- 987
- 01:06:50,175 --> 01:06:52,510
- Remember your training.
- Stay with your partner.
- 988
- 01:06:52,678 --> 01:06:54,095
- Yes, sir.
- 989
- 01:06:54,263 --> 01:06:55,388
- Engine 1 is 10-23.
- 990
- 01:06:55,556 --> 01:06:58,599
- We have a single-story
- brick dwelling, 30 percent involved.
- 991
- 01:06:58,767 --> 01:07:00,852
- We'll be using
- a 1-inch-and-three-quarter for rescue.
- 992
- 01:07:01,019 --> 01:07:03,229
- We'll be 11th Avenue Command.
- Engine 2, bring me a line.
- 993
- 01:07:03,397 --> 01:07:07,066
- Be advised there is a hydrant
- right next to Engine 1.
- 994
- 01:07:07,234 --> 01:07:09,277
- Engine 2's clear. One supply line.
- 995
- 01:07:10,446 --> 01:07:12,447
- Come on, rookie, let's go.
- 996
- 01:07:12,865 --> 01:07:15,032
- You live here?
- Is everyone out of the house?
- 997
- 01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,785
- My daughter's in the neighbor's
- house. this is our home.
- 998
- 01:07:17,953 --> 01:07:20,455
- - Please, put that fire out.
- - We will, just stay clear.
- 999
- 01:07:20,622 --> 01:07:22,498
- - Please, please.
- - Oh, no. No.
- 1000
- 01:07:22,666 --> 01:07:24,917
- Megan, Megan, where's Lacey?
- 1001
- 01:07:25,085 --> 01:07:28,087
- - She went home already.
- - You mean she's not at your house?
- 1002
- 01:07:28,255 --> 01:07:30,465
- No, I was just talking to her
- on the phone.
- 1003
- 01:07:30,632 --> 01:07:32,550
- Lacey!
- 1004
- 01:07:33,719 --> 01:07:35,303
- - You can't go in there.
- - Lacey, no!
- 1005
- 01:07:35,471 --> 01:07:37,930
- - You can't go in there.
- - Let me go. Please let me go.
- 1006
- 01:07:38,348 --> 01:07:40,224
- My baby!
- 1007
- 01:07:40,392 --> 01:07:43,311
- - Let's go, let's go.
- - Come on, guys, let's go.
- 1008
- 01:07:44,605 --> 01:07:46,689
- Lacey!
- 1009
- 01:07:48,484 --> 01:07:50,818
- My baby.
- 1010
- 01:07:53,906 --> 01:07:55,615
- Come on, guys. Come on, guys.
- 1011
- 01:07:56,867 --> 01:07:58,159
- Let's go.
- 1012
- 01:07:59,995 --> 01:08:01,954
- - It's done.
- - Charge.
- 1013
- 01:08:09,755 --> 01:08:23,351
- Lacey!
- 1014
- 01:08:24,353 --> 01:08:27,355
- - Get in there, guys, get in there.
- - Lacey.
- 1015
- 01:08:31,902 --> 01:08:35,029
- Lacey! Lacey!
- 1016
- 01:08:35,656 --> 01:08:37,365
- Come on.
- Over here, man. Over here.
- 1017
- 01:08:47,501 --> 01:08:49,377
- Back out, back out, back out.
- 1018
- 01:09:04,476 --> 01:09:08,646
- Over here!
- 1019
- 01:09:16,989 --> 01:09:20,074
- There's a hydrant over there.
- Give me one supply line to Engine 1.
- 1020
- 01:09:20,242 --> 01:09:22,201
- Hey, we got two people inside.
- We need you.
- 1021
- 01:09:22,369 --> 01:09:24,245
- Hey, hurry up with that supply line.
- 1022
- 01:09:24,413 --> 01:09:26,372
- Get back in there, get back in there.
- 1023
- 01:09:26,540 --> 01:09:29,166
- Breathe. Breathe, Lacey.
- Breathe for me.
- 1024
- 01:09:31,086 --> 01:09:34,422
- Captain, you gotta get out of the
- house. the roof is about to give.
- 1025
- 01:09:34,590 --> 01:09:37,341
- Captain, do you read me?
- You've gotta get out.
- 1026
- 01:09:41,763 --> 01:09:45,099
- God, get me out of here.
- Get us out of here.
- 1027
- 01:11:41,133 --> 01:11:42,800
- There, there.
- 1028
- 01:11:43,719 --> 01:11:46,387
- Get the girl. Get the girl.
- 1029
- 01:11:58,775 --> 01:12:00,192
- With the x-ray showing that ...
- 1030
- 01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:03,487
- he's left with a partial thickness burn
- to the arm.
- 1031
- 01:12:08,577 --> 01:12:09,702
- You look terrible.
- 1032
- 01:12:12,748 --> 01:12:13,914
- I feel terrible.
- 1033
- 01:12:15,834 --> 01:12:17,084
- You gonna be okay?
- 1034
- 01:12:17,252 --> 01:12:20,046
- He sustained some first-degree
- burns, but he should be fine.
- 1035
- 01:12:21,048 --> 01:12:23,257
- So this is your husband?
- 1036
- 01:12:25,802 --> 01:12:28,596
- - Yes.
- - You've got a hero on your hands.
- 1037
- 01:12:28,764 --> 01:12:31,515
- Sir, I need you to keep this arm
- elevated for 24 hours ...
- 1038
- 01:12:31,683 --> 01:12:33,142
- to help the swelling go down.
- 1039
- 01:12:33,310 --> 01:12:35,686
- Come back in 48 hours
- to get it checked out again.
- 1040
- 01:12:35,854 --> 01:12:39,440
- - Well, let me get out of your way.
- - You're not in our way. You can stay.
- 1041
- 01:12:39,608 --> 01:12:43,944
- No, it's all right.
- I'll let you do your job.
- 1042
- 01:12:45,947 --> 01:12:48,407
- I'm gonna get you more gauze
- to take home with you ...
- 1043
- 01:12:48,575 --> 01:12:51,410
- and fill that prescription
- for your pain, okay?
- 1044
- 01:13:01,588 --> 01:13:03,714
- I wouldn't put that ring
- back on your finger ...
- 1045
- 01:13:03,882 --> 01:13:06,467
- until your hand
- has a chance to heal.
- 1046
- 01:13:08,136 --> 01:13:10,763
- My hand's gonna have to heal
- with this ring on my finger.
- 1047
- 01:13:20,982 --> 01:13:22,441
- Mom, it'll be fine.
- 1048
- 01:13:22,609 --> 01:13:24,985
- It's gonna heal up
- in a couple of weeks.
- 1049
- 01:13:25,904 --> 01:13:30,241
- Yes, I got it wrapped up right now.
- Can I speak with Dad, please?
- 1050
- 01:13:31,243 --> 01:13:32,326
- Okay, Mom, I got it.
- 1051
- 01:13:32,494 --> 01:13:35,371
- Now, would you please
- hand the phone to Dad?
- 1052
- 01:13:35,747 --> 01:13:37,373
- Thank you.
- 1053
- 01:13:39,042 --> 01:13:41,961
- Dad, would you please ask Mom
- to cut me some slack?
- 1054
- 01:13:42,129 --> 01:13:45,005
- I'm a fireman.
- I'm gonna be around fires.
- 1055
- 01:13:45,590 --> 01:13:47,007
- I know. I know, Dad.
- 1056
- 01:13:47,175 --> 01:13:50,928
- I just don't like getting grilled
- every time she picks up the phone.
- 1057
- 01:13:53,765 --> 01:13:56,725
- Yeah. Today, Day 23.
- 1058
- 01:13:56,893 --> 01:13:59,103
- But it was hard this morning.
- 1059
- 01:13:59,271 --> 01:14:02,106
- Yeah, the newspaper called me twice
- wanting an interview.
- 1060
- 01:14:02,274 --> 01:14:05,860
- Seems I'm a hero with everybody
- in the world except my wife.
- 1061
- 01:14:06,486 --> 01:14:09,071
- No. No, I'm not giving up.
- 1062
- 01:14:10,365 --> 01:14:11,991
- Thanks, Dad.
- 1063
- 01:14:13,034 --> 01:14:14,869
- All right, I'll talk to you later.
- 1064
- 01:14:15,036 --> 01:14:16,370
- Bye.
- 1065
- 01:15:07,005 --> 01:15:08,923
- Caleb, what are you doing?
- 1066
- 01:15:40,580 --> 01:15:43,332
- Why is this so hard?
- 1067
- 01:15:58,473 --> 01:16:01,475
- Day 23, watch out for parasites.
- 1068
- 01:16:01,893 --> 01:16:05,354
- A parasite is anything that latches
- onto you or your partner ...
- 1069
- 01:16:05,522 --> 01:16:07,856
- and sucks the life
- out of your marriage.
- 1070
- 01:16:08,024 --> 01:16:10,943
- they're usually in the form
- of addictions like gambling ...
- 1071
- 01:16:11,111 --> 01:16:12,820
- drugs or pornography.
- 1072
- 01:16:12,988 --> 01:16:15,698
- they promise pleasure,
- but they grow like a disease ...
- 1073
- 01:16:15,865 --> 01:16:18,993
- and consume more and more
- of your thoughts, time and money.
- 1074
- 01:16:19,160 --> 01:16:23,497
- they steal away your loyalty
- and heart from those you love.
- 1075
- 01:16:23,665 --> 01:16:26,500
- Marriages rarely survive
- if parasites are present.
- 1076
- 01:16:26,668 --> 01:16:28,127
- If you love your wife ...
- 1077
- 01:16:28,295 --> 01:16:32,131
- you must destroy any addiction
- that has your heart.
- 1078
- 01:16:32,299 --> 01:16:35,843
- If you don't, it will destroy you.
- 1079
- 01:17:00,535 --> 01:17:04,163
- Okay, Lord. No more addictions.
- 1080
- 01:17:21,139 --> 01:17:22,681
- Mr. Rudolph.
- 1081
- 01:17:24,225 --> 01:17:26,143
- Caleb.
- 1082
- 01:17:28,396 --> 01:17:29,813
- You doing okay today?
- 1083
- 01:17:30,315 --> 01:17:32,566
- No, not really.
- 1084
- 01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:52,878
- Irma, I don't want you
- talking to that guy.
- 1085
- 01:17:53,046 --> 01:17:55,422
- He is weird.
- 1086
- 01:17:56,383 --> 01:17:59,259
- Takes one to know one.
- 1087
- 01:19:39,944 --> 01:19:41,653
- What?
- 1088
- 01:19:54,834 --> 01:19:58,378
- No.
- 1089
- 01:20:37,335 --> 01:20:39,336
- - Good morning.
- - Hi, Mrs. Evans, how are you?
- 1090
- 01:20:39,504 --> 01:20:41,255
- I'm fine. I hope you are.
- 1091
- 01:20:41,422 --> 01:20:42,714
- I'm doing pretty good.
- 1092
- 01:20:42,882 --> 01:20:46,510
- I actually wanted to talk to you about
- the equipment we've been looking at.
- 1093
- 01:20:46,678 --> 01:20:50,138
- I bet your parents are excited. When
- a patient gets the right wheelchair ...
- 1094
- 01:20:50,306 --> 01:20:52,182
- it can make such a difference.
- 1095
- 01:20:52,850 --> 01:20:54,017
- I'm sorry, what?
- 1096
- 01:20:54,185 --> 01:20:57,604
- The bed and wheelchair we delivered
- to your parents this morning.
- 1097
- 01:20:58,940 --> 01:21:00,065
- To my parents?
- 1098
- 01:21:00,233 --> 01:21:02,609
- Yes, they should have been delivered
- by now.
- 1099
- 01:21:03,528 --> 01:21:05,445
- But I haven't paid for anything yet.
- 1100
- 01:21:05,613 --> 01:21:07,614
- Oh, it's actually
- already been paid for.
- 1101
- 01:21:08,199 --> 01:21:10,450
- A gentleman called,
- said that he wanted to pay ...
- 1102
- 01:21:10,618 --> 01:21:12,452
- for everything
- that you'd picked out.
- 1103
- 01:21:12,620 --> 01:21:16,456
- Actually, he covered everything
- plus some accessories.
- 1104
- 01:21:16,624 --> 01:21:18,250
- He said ...
- 1105
- 01:21:19,586 --> 01:21:21,044
- Mrs. Holt?
- 1106
- 01:21:40,356 --> 01:21:44,151
- - Isn't this wonderful?
- - Oh, she looks amazing.
- 1107
- 01:21:44,319 --> 01:21:46,486
- Hi, Mom.
- 1108
- 01:22:06,007 --> 01:22:09,051
- Has anyone ever told you
- that you're wonderful?
- 1109
- 01:22:09,636 --> 01:22:11,595
- Maybe, but not today.
- 1110
- 01:22:12,221 --> 01:22:14,514
- Gavin, you didn't have to do that.
- 1111
- 01:22:14,682 --> 01:22:17,684
- - Do what?
- - Giving money to help my parents.
- 1112
- 01:22:18,770 --> 01:22:20,145
- That was so thoughtful.
- 1113
- 01:22:21,689 --> 01:22:23,190
- Thank you.
- 1114
- 01:22:23,608 --> 01:22:24,858
- You're welcome.
- 1115
- 01:22:25,276 --> 01:22:27,361
- It was the least I could do.
- 1116
- 01:22:30,990 --> 01:22:33,950
- - Do you have lunch plans?
- - I do now.
- 1117
- 01:22:57,308 --> 01:22:58,517
- "Dear Catherine.
- 1118
- 01:22:58,893 --> 01:23:01,895
- I can't tell you how much
- I've enjoyed getting to know you.
- 1119
- 01:23:02,897 --> 01:23:06,066
- I find myself
- thinking about you often ...
- 1120
- 01:23:06,234 --> 01:23:09,403
- and I look forward
- to seeing you every day.
- 1121
- 01:23:10,238 --> 01:23:11,905
- Gavin."
- 1122
- 01:23:16,577 --> 01:23:20,539
- Yeah, I need to know if there's a Gavin
- that works at the hospital.
- 1123
- 01:23:21,749 --> 01:23:24,209
- No, I just have a first name.
- 1124
- 01:23:42,186 --> 01:23:43,603
- Dr. Keller?
- 1125
- 01:23:44,439 --> 01:23:46,898
- - Yes?
- - Caleb Holt.
- 1126
- 01:23:47,066 --> 01:23:49,192
- I need a word with you, please.
- 1127
- 01:23:49,360 --> 01:23:52,028
- It's really not a good time.
- I'm about to make my rounds.
- 1128
- 01:23:52,196 --> 01:23:54,322
- I think you need to make time.
- 1129
- 01:23:54,782 --> 01:23:57,951
- This is concerning Catherine,
- my wife.
- 1130
- 01:24:00,705 --> 01:24:02,956
- All right, what can I do for you?
- 1131
- 01:24:04,417 --> 01:24:06,501
- I know what you're doing.
- 1132
- 01:24:06,961 --> 01:24:10,380
- I have no intention of stepping aside
- as you try to steal my wife's heart.
- 1133
- 01:24:11,340 --> 01:24:14,885
- I've made some mistakes,
- but I still love her.
- 1134
- 01:24:15,261 --> 01:24:18,180
- So just know
- I am going after her too.
- 1135
- 01:24:19,557 --> 01:24:23,852
- And since I'm married to her,
- I'd say I've got a head start.
- 1136
- 01:24:26,481 --> 01:24:30,442
- By the way,
- thanks for helping me with my hand.
- 1137
- 01:24:30,735 --> 01:24:33,487
- My ring finger's feeling
- a whole lot better.
- 1138
- 01:25:06,103 --> 01:25:09,397
- Y'all, I just saw Caleb and Dr. Keller
- going at each other.
- 1139
- 01:25:09,565 --> 01:25:12,234
- He had his fist
- all knuckled in his face.
- 1140
- 01:25:12,401 --> 01:25:14,361
- Are you serious?
- 1141
- 01:25:15,863 --> 01:25:17,864
- What are you all talking about?
- 1142
- 01:25:18,533 --> 01:25:20,408
- Hey, Cat, how you doing, girl?
- 1143
- 01:25:20,576 --> 01:25:23,662
- I'm fine.
- You sure got quiet really fast.
- 1144
- 01:25:23,830 --> 01:25:26,039
- Well, that's because
- we decided to stop talking.
- 1145
- 01:25:26,207 --> 01:25:27,624
- What's up?
- 1146
- 01:25:27,792 --> 01:25:30,043
- I'm setting up an interview
- in about 10 minutes ...
- 1147
- 01:25:30,211 --> 01:25:34,005
- but I was wondering if you guys
- have seen Dr. Keller this morning.
- 1148
- 01:25:34,173 --> 01:25:36,716
- I think he was doing rounds,
- maybe on the 8th Floor.
- 1149
- 01:25:36,884 --> 01:25:39,553
- Okay, well, I'll see y'all later.
- 1150
- 01:25:39,720 --> 01:25:41,471
- See you.
- 1151
- 01:25:42,640 --> 01:25:44,432
- Why didn't you tell her?
- 1152
- 01:25:44,600 --> 01:25:47,227
- - Because it ain't our business.
- - But you told all of us.
- 1153
- 01:25:47,395 --> 01:25:51,690
- I don't want her to know her business
- is our business if it ain't our business.
- 1154
- 01:25:55,528 --> 01:25:57,070
- Hi.
- 1155
- 01:25:57,572 --> 01:26:00,073
- Hey, how are you?
- 1156
- 01:26:00,241 --> 01:26:03,577
- - Hey, Catherine.
- - How's the good doctor today?
- 1157
- 01:26:03,744 --> 01:26:07,497
- - Pretty busy, actually.
- - Are we still on for lunch?
- 1158
- 01:26:07,790 --> 01:26:10,250
- You know, there's a few things
- I need to catch up on.
- 1159
- 01:26:10,418 --> 01:26:13,169
- - I've gotten a little behind lately.
- - Okay.
- 1160
- 01:26:13,337 --> 01:26:16,256
- - Well, maybe we could talk later.
- - That'd be good.
- 1161
- 01:26:16,424 --> 01:26:19,676
- - All right, see you around.
- - See you.
- 1162
- 01:26:31,397 --> 01:26:34,274
- - Hello, Catherine.
- - Oh, hi, Anna. How are you?
- 1163
- 01:26:34,442 --> 01:26:36,610
- I'm doing well. And you?
- 1164
- 01:26:36,777 --> 01:26:39,195
- I'm okay, I guess.
- Do you wanna sit down?
- 1165
- 01:26:39,363 --> 01:26:41,114
- I'd love to if I'm not disturbing you.
- 1166
- 01:26:41,282 --> 01:26:42,949
- Not at all.
- 1167
- 01:26:44,660 --> 01:26:47,454
- So, what's been going on
- in your life these days?
- 1168
- 01:26:47,622 --> 01:26:49,915
- We haven't talked in a while.
- 1169
- 01:26:51,292 --> 01:26:54,085
- Well, it's been one of those years.
- 1170
- 01:26:54,879 --> 01:26:56,713
- Good or bad?
- 1171
- 01:26:57,465 --> 01:27:01,426
- You know, I hate to say it,
- but mostly bad.
- 1172
- 01:27:03,638 --> 01:27:05,764
- You know when you get
- to a fork in the road ...
- 1173
- 01:27:05,932 --> 01:27:08,934
- and you know that either way you go
- is gonna change your life?
- 1174
- 01:27:09,393 --> 01:27:13,480
- Life does give you some of those.
- Excuse me just a minute.
- 1175
- 01:27:19,779 --> 01:27:21,988
- So have you decided
- which path to take?
- 1176
- 01:27:24,659 --> 01:27:26,368
- I think so.
- 1177
- 01:27:26,535 --> 01:27:28,995
- It's just hard
- not to second-guess yourself.
- 1178
- 01:27:30,790 --> 01:27:36,002
- Pardon me, I don't mean to pry,
- but does this concern relationships?
- 1179
- 01:27:38,297 --> 01:27:39,339
- It does.
- 1180
- 01:27:40,007 --> 01:27:42,634
- Catherine, you're so young.
- 1181
- 01:27:42,802 --> 01:27:45,804
- I would encourage you
- to make your choices carefully.
- 1182
- 01:27:46,347 --> 01:27:48,515
- I'm trying to.
- 1183
- 01:27:51,352 --> 01:27:53,311
- But I'm also tired of feeling empty.
- 1184
- 01:27:54,730 --> 01:27:57,232
- Anna, it's so nice
- to have someone treat you ...
- 1185
- 01:27:57,400 --> 01:27:59,693
- like they really care about you.
- 1186
- 01:27:59,860 --> 01:28:04,531
- Forgive me, but you're talking about
- a certain young doctor, aren't you?
- 1187
- 01:28:05,866 --> 01:28:08,618
- I suppose it's no secret
- as much as he and I talk.
- 1188
- 01:28:09,370 --> 01:28:12,956
- I couldn't help but notice
- how you act around each other.
- 1189
- 01:28:13,124 --> 01:28:16,876
- But I also wonder
- how your husband would feel.
- 1190
- 01:28:21,048 --> 01:28:23,425
- My husband has had his chance.
- 1191
- 01:28:23,592 --> 01:28:25,760
- And Dr. Keller is a good man.
- 1192
- 01:28:25,928 --> 01:28:29,389
- He treats me better than my husband
- has treated me in years.
- 1193
- 01:28:29,557 --> 01:28:32,809
- He listens to me
- and makes me feel important.
- 1194
- 01:28:32,977 --> 01:28:35,854
- I haven't felt that way
- in a very long time.
- 1195
- 01:28:36,564 --> 01:28:39,315
- It's always good to have that, but ...
- 1196
- 01:28:39,483 --> 01:28:44,779
- But, sweetheart, if this doctor is trying
- to woo you while you're still married ...
- 1197
- 01:28:44,947 --> 01:28:48,992
- what makes you think
- he won't do that with someone else?
- 1198
- 01:28:49,660 --> 01:28:52,495
- I don't wanna talk about this, Anna.
- We're getting personal.
- 1199
- 01:28:52,663 --> 01:28:54,539
- Oh, Catherine, I'm sorry.
- 1200
- 01:28:54,707 --> 01:28:56,583
- I didn't mean
- to overstep my bounds.
- 1201
- 01:28:56,751 --> 01:28:59,085
- I need to go.
- It's good to see you, Anna.
- 1202
- 01:32:47,147 --> 01:32:49,440
- Catherine, are you okay?
- 1203
- 01:32:51,360 --> 01:32:52,819
- I'm fine.
- 1204
- 01:32:53,320 --> 01:32:56,239
- - Aren't you going to work?
- - No.
- 1205
- 01:33:02,579 --> 01:33:05,623
- - Are you sick?
- - I'll be fine.
- 1206
- 01:33:08,502 --> 01:33:10,169
- Is it your allergies?
- 1207
- 01:33:11,213 --> 01:33:14,173
- I said I'll be fine.
- Don't worry about me.
- 1208
- 01:33:15,050 --> 01:33:18,011
- Because if you need something,
- I can go to the store.
- 1209
- 01:33:18,804 --> 01:33:21,097
- No, I'm okay. You can go.
- 1210
- 01:33:25,269 --> 01:33:26,769
- Okay.
- 1211
- 01:33:55,507 --> 01:33:56,674
- Can you sit up for me?
- 1212
- 01:34:08,979 --> 01:34:10,021
- You got a fever.
- 1213
- 01:34:38,717 --> 01:34:40,134
- Here.
- 1214
- 01:34:40,803 --> 01:34:43,096
- You think you can take this?
- 1215
- 01:34:59,655 --> 01:35:01,114
- Why are you doing this?
- 1216
- 01:35:03,700 --> 01:35:07,954
- I have learned
- you never leave your partner.
- 1217
- 01:35:08,205 --> 01:35:10,039
- Especially in a fire.
- 1218
- 01:35:13,669 --> 01:35:15,878
- Caleb, what's happened to you?
- 1219
- 01:35:20,467 --> 01:35:22,427
- Dad asked me
- if there was anything in me ...
- 1220
- 01:35:22,594 --> 01:35:24,470
- that wanted to save our marriage.
- 1221
- 01:35:27,391 --> 01:35:29,475
- And then he gave me something.
- 1222
- 01:35:32,146 --> 01:35:33,312
- I could let you read it.
- 1223
- 01:35:41,280 --> 01:35:42,613
- Was it this?
- 1224
- 01:35:44,741 --> 01:35:46,701
- How long have you known?
- 1225
- 01:35:47,536 --> 01:35:49,662
- I found it yesterday.
- 1226
- 01:35:50,998 --> 01:35:52,582
- So, what day are you on?
- 1227
- 01:35:53,917 --> 01:35:55,668
- Forty-three.
- 1228
- 01:35:56,670 --> 01:35:58,337
- There's only 40.
- 1229
- 01:36:01,341 --> 01:36:03,509
- Who says I have to stop?
- 1230
- 01:36:11,602 --> 01:36:13,227
- Caleb ...
- 1231
- 01:36:14,104 --> 01:36:16,105
- I don't know how to process this.
- 1232
- 01:36:18,400 --> 01:36:20,443
- This is not normal for you.
- 1233
- 01:36:22,863 --> 01:36:24,989
- Welcome to the new normal.
- 1234
- 01:36:31,121 --> 01:36:33,831
- You didn't wanna do this at first,
- did you?
- 1235
- 01:36:36,835 --> 01:36:38,211
- No.
- 1236
- 01:36:40,339 --> 01:36:42,507
- But halfway through, I realized ...
- 1237
- 01:36:42,674 --> 01:36:45,968
- that I did not understand
- what love was.
- 1238
- 01:36:47,221 --> 01:36:52,308
- And once I understood that,
- I wanted to do it.
- 1239
- 01:36:53,268 --> 01:36:57,480
- Caleb, I want to believe
- that this is real.
- 1240
- 01:36:58,899 --> 01:37:02,360
- But I am not ready
- to say that I trust you again.
- 1241
- 01:37:04,446 --> 01:37:06,280
- I understand that.
- 1242
- 01:37:09,826 --> 01:37:12,912
- But whether you ever reach
- that point or not ...
- 1243
- 01:37:14,414 --> 01:37:17,333
- I need you
- to understand something.
- 1244
- 01:37:37,854 --> 01:37:39,605
- I am sorry.
- 1245
- 01:37:47,781 --> 01:37:49,615
- I have been so selfish.
- 1246
- 01:37:54,663 --> 01:37:58,583
- For the past seven years,
- I have trampled on you ...
- 1247
- 01:37:58,750 --> 01:38:01,752
- with my words
- and with my actions.
- 1248
- 01:38:05,799 --> 01:38:10,386
- I have loved other things
- when I should have loved you.
- 1249
- 01:38:16,268 --> 01:38:18,477
- In the last few weeks ...
- 1250
- 01:38:19,313 --> 01:38:24,692
- God has given me a love for you
- that I have never had before.
- 1251
- 01:38:26,403 --> 01:38:28,904
- And I have asked him to forgive me.
- 1252
- 01:38:30,824 --> 01:38:35,870
- And I am hoping, I am praying ...
- 1253
- 01:38:37,748 --> 01:38:41,083
- that somehow
- you would be able to forgive me too.
- 1254
- 01:38:47,758 --> 01:38:53,179
- Catherine, I do not want to live
- the rest of my life without you.
- 1255
- 01:39:05,567 --> 01:39:07,568
- I'm supposed to give
- those divorce papers ...
- 1256
- 01:39:07,736 --> 01:39:09,695
- to my lawyer next week.
- 1257
- 01:39:12,032 --> 01:39:13,658
- I just ...
- 1258
- 01:39:17,537 --> 01:39:19,538
- I need some time ...
- 1259
- 01:39:20,582 --> 01:39:21,957
- to think.
- 1260
- 01:39:26,213 --> 01:39:28,798
- You can have all the time you need.
- 1261
- 01:40:01,331 --> 01:40:04,083
- - Hello, Mrs. Holt, how are you today?
- - Fine, thanks.
- 1262
- 01:40:04,251 --> 01:40:06,168
- I hope your parents are doing well.
- 1263
- 01:40:06,336 --> 01:40:08,671
- That new bed and wheelchair
- are certainly helping.
- 1264
- 01:40:08,839 --> 01:40:11,549
- I'm so glad.
- Well, what can I do for you today?
- 1265
- 01:40:11,967 --> 01:40:15,428
- I just need to pick up a few linens
- for the hospital bed for my mom.
- 1266
- 01:40:15,595 --> 01:40:17,388
- Sure, we have some in stock.
- 1267
- 01:40:17,556 --> 01:40:20,558
- Great, that's the only thing
- that wasn't covered by the doctor ...
- 1268
- 01:40:20,726 --> 01:40:22,768
- when he purchased
- that bed and wheelchair.
- 1269
- 01:40:22,936 --> 01:40:24,228
- The doctor?
- 1270
- 01:40:24,396 --> 01:40:28,107
- Yes, Dr. Keller,
- our secret philanthropist.
- 1271
- 01:40:29,151 --> 01:40:31,902
- I don't think Dr. Keller
- covered those things.
- 1272
- 01:40:32,070 --> 01:40:34,238
- No, I'm sure he did.
- I spoke with him about it.
- 1273
- 01:40:35,282 --> 01:40:40,953
- Mrs. Holt, if I remember correctly,
- $24,300 was given ...
- 1274
- 01:40:41,121 --> 01:40:45,040
- for the bed and wheelchair,
- but Dr. Keller was not the main giver.
- 1275
- 01:40:46,084 --> 01:40:47,168
- What?
- 1276
- 01:40:47,335 --> 01:40:50,755
- Of the amount given,
- Dr. Keller gave $300.
- 1277
- 01:40:54,885 --> 01:40:56,469
- Then who gave the other?
- 1278
- 01:40:57,554 --> 01:40:59,930
- Your husband, Caleb.
- 1279
- 01:41:01,516 --> 01:41:04,727
- He came in about two weeks ago
- and paid for everything.
- 1280
- 01:41:04,895 --> 01:41:06,645
- I assumed you knew.
- 1281
- 01:41:08,523 --> 01:41:09,690
- Two weeks ago?
- 1282
- 01:41:09,858 --> 01:41:15,154
- Yes, he told me not to tell anyone,
- but I didn't think that included you.
- 1283
- 01:41:15,405 --> 01:41:17,656
- It was the Tuesday before last.
- 1284
- 01:41:17,824 --> 01:41:19,492
- He called
- and asked what the price ...
- 1285
- 01:41:19,659 --> 01:41:21,702
- of a particular bed
- and wheelchair were.
- 1286
- 01:41:21,870 --> 01:41:23,078
- And I looked it up and ...
- 1287
- 01:41:45,352 --> 01:41:47,228
- Oh, where is it?
- 1288
- 01:42:45,537 --> 01:42:47,580
- Oh, stop crying.
- 1289
- 01:42:55,338 --> 01:42:58,132
- Okay, explain RECEO.
- 1290
- 01:42:59,009 --> 01:43:00,050
- He ain't gonna get it.
- 1291
- 01:43:00,218 --> 01:43:05,723
- Rescue, exposure,
- containment, extinguish --
- 1292
- 01:43:05,891 --> 01:43:08,058
- Captain, can I see you for a minute?
- 1293
- 01:43:08,685 --> 01:43:11,103
- - Right now?
- - Yes, sir.
- 1294
- 01:43:16,109 --> 01:43:17,818
- Something wrong?
- 1295
- 01:43:18,278 --> 01:43:20,279
- Catherine is in the bay.
- 1296
- 01:43:21,323 --> 01:43:23,782
- - My Catherine?
- - Yes, sir.
- 1297
- 01:43:44,804 --> 01:43:45,930
- Catherine?
- 1298
- 01:43:51,478 --> 01:43:54,021
- If I haven't told you ...
- 1299
- 01:43:55,523 --> 01:43:57,983
- that you are a good man ...
- 1300
- 01:43:59,194 --> 01:44:00,444
- you are.
- 1301
- 01:44:05,575 --> 01:44:08,285
- And if I haven't told you ...
- 1302
- 01:44:09,120 --> 01:44:11,580
- that I've forgiven you ...
- 1303
- 01:44:12,040 --> 01:44:13,749
- I have.
- 1304
- 01:44:23,969 --> 01:44:25,678
- And if I haven't told you ...
- 1305
- 01:44:26,972 --> 01:44:29,348
- that I love you ...
- 1306
- 01:44:29,891 --> 01:44:31,100
- I do.
- 1307
- 01:44:35,105 --> 01:44:38,565
- Something has changed in you,
- Caleb.
- 1308
- 01:44:39,776 --> 01:44:43,028
- And I want what happened to you
- to happen to me.
- 1309
- 01:44:49,202 --> 01:44:50,995
- It can.
- 1310
- 01:44:52,706 --> 01:44:58,544
- Is it too late to ask you
- to grow old with me?
- 1311
- 01:45:16,229 --> 01:45:17,855
- - Yes.
- - Hey, what are you looking at?
- 1312
- 01:45:18,023 --> 01:45:19,857
- Back up.
- There ain't nothing to see here.
- 1313
- 01:45:20,025 --> 01:45:21,066
- Why? What's going on?
- 1314
- 01:45:21,234 --> 01:45:23,527
- Go back to your business.
- Caleb's starting a fire.
- 1315
- 01:45:23,695 --> 01:45:25,946
- - Why's he starting a --?
- - Ain't that kind of fire.
- 1316
- 01:45:26,114 --> 01:45:27,740
- Go back to your business.
- Go -- Hey.
- 1317
- 01:45:27,907 --> 01:45:30,034
- Put you on cleanup duty.
- 1318
- 01:46:34,182 --> 01:46:36,642
- Good morning,
- Mr. and Mrs. Rudolph.
- 1319
- 01:46:37,268 --> 01:46:38,894
- Caleb.
- 1320
- 01:46:43,441 --> 01:46:46,151
- I don't understand that boy.
- 1321
- 01:46:51,366 --> 01:46:54,493
- - How are you?
- - Hi, son.
- 1322
- 01:47:00,375 --> 01:47:03,043
- I'm getting to where I know this trail
- pretty well.
- 1323
- 01:47:03,711 --> 01:47:07,005
- - You're welcome to walk it anytime.
- - I just might.
- 1324
- 01:47:08,508 --> 01:47:10,509
- I wanna thank you, Dad.
- 1325
- 01:47:11,302 --> 01:47:13,679
- The love dare changed my life.
- 1326
- 01:47:13,847 --> 01:47:15,597
- God changed your life.
- 1327
- 01:47:15,765 --> 01:47:18,559
- The love dare
- was just a tool he used.
- 1328
- 01:47:19,310 --> 01:47:21,270
- I've already given it
- to one of my firemen.
- 1329
- 01:47:21,437 --> 01:47:24,481
- Good. It's meant to be passed on.
- 1330
- 01:47:26,192 --> 01:47:30,195
- I just can't tell you how grateful I am
- that you didn't give up on me, Dad.
- 1331
- 01:47:31,364 --> 01:47:33,699
- Or on Mom, for that matter.
- 1332
- 01:47:37,704 --> 01:47:42,040
- Caleb, I wanna be a godly man.
- 1333
- 01:47:42,750 --> 01:47:45,210
- And I'm learning so much.
- 1334
- 01:47:46,379 --> 01:47:48,213
- But there's something
- I haven't told you.
- 1335
- 01:47:51,217 --> 01:47:54,261
- I wrote that notebook
- in my own handwriting ...
- 1336
- 01:47:54,596 --> 01:47:57,139
- because I knew
- you would accept it from me.
- 1337
- 01:47:58,558 --> 01:48:01,310
- But I didn't do the love dare
- on your mom.
- 1338
- 01:48:01,477 --> 01:48:03,520
- She did it to me.
- 1339
- 01:48:06,357 --> 01:48:07,774
- What?
- 1340
- 01:48:07,942 --> 01:48:09,568
- Son ...
- 1341
- 01:48:10,236 --> 01:48:12,154
- I was the one
- that wanted to leave.
- 1342
- 01:48:13,239 --> 01:48:15,157
- But God got ahold of your mother ...
- 1343
- 01:48:16,534 --> 01:48:20,704
- and she prayed and loved me
- unconditionally.
- 1344
- 01:48:21,581 --> 01:48:24,875
- It was through her example
- that I came to Christ.
- 1345
- 01:48:27,462 --> 01:48:29,087
- Mom did this?
- 1346
- 01:48:29,589 --> 01:48:31,173
- She's such a blessing to me.
- 1347
- 01:48:31,758 --> 01:48:34,218
- And she's grown so much.
- 1348
- 01:48:34,552 --> 01:48:37,095
- I love her with all my heart.
- 1349
- 01:48:40,391 --> 01:48:42,059
- Dad, I ...
- 1350
- 01:48:43,478 --> 01:48:46,438
- I have treated her so wrong.
- 1351
- 01:48:46,773 --> 01:48:50,359
- Caleb, she deserves your respect.
- 1352
- 01:49:18,513 --> 01:49:21,139
- Mom. Mom, I'm so sorry.
- 1353
- 01:49:22,809 --> 01:49:25,769
- Mom, I didn't know. I didn't know.
- 1354
- 01:49:25,937 --> 01:49:29,106
- It's all right, son.
- It's okay. It's all right.
- 1355
- 01:49:32,402 --> 01:49:34,403
- Mom, please forgive me.
- 1356
- 01:49:34,570 --> 01:49:36,655
- I do, Caleb. You're forgiven.
- 1357
- 01:49:36,823 --> 01:49:38,991
- I love you.
- 1358
- 01:49:39,867 --> 01:49:41,910
- I love you too, Mom.
- 1359
- 01:49:42,078 --> 01:49:44,246
- I love you so much.
- 1360
- 01:49:47,000 --> 01:49:49,501
- I love you, Caleb.
- 1361
- 01:49:58,594 --> 01:50:01,680
- We've gathered here today
- to celebrate the reaffirmation of vows ...
- 1362
- 01:50:01,848 --> 01:50:03,140
- with Caleb and Catherine.
- 1363
- 01:50:03,308 --> 01:50:06,685
- This may be the second time they've
- made a commitment to this marriage ...
- 1364
- 01:50:06,853 --> 01:50:11,648
- it is the first time they've done so on
- a foundation of faith in Jesus Christ.
- 1365
- 01:50:11,816 --> 01:50:13,775
- "It is the desire
- of Caleb and Catherine ...
- 1366
- 01:50:13,985 --> 01:50:16,528
- to establish their vows
- from this point on ...
- 1367
- 01:50:16,696 --> 01:50:19,406
- as a covenant and not a contract.
- 1368
- 01:50:19,574 --> 01:50:22,701
- For marriage is a sacred institution
- established by God ...
- 1369
- 01:50:22,869 --> 01:50:26,038
- and one that is meant to last
- for life."
- 1370
- 01:50:30,376 --> 01:50:33,712
- "Caleb, in the presence of God
- and these witnesses ...
- 1371
- 01:50:33,880 --> 01:50:37,090
- do you come today
- to freely and unconditionally commit ...
- 1372
- 01:50:37,258 --> 01:50:39,801
- to this covenant marriage
- to Catherine?"
- 1373
- 01:50:40,428 --> 01:50:41,970
- I do.
- 1374
- 01:50:42,555 --> 01:50:47,059
- "And, Catherine, do you come today
- to freely and unconditionally commit ...
- 1375
- 01:50:47,226 --> 01:50:49,770
- to this covenant marriage
- to Caleb?"
- 1376
- 01:50:49,937 --> 01:50:51,521
- I do.
- 1377
- 01:50:51,689 --> 01:50:52,731
- With all my heart.
- 1378
- 01:50:53,983 --> 01:50:55,484
- Genesis 2:24 says:
- 1379
- 01:50:55,651 --> 01:50:58,570
- For this reason, a man shall leave
- his father and mother ...
- 1380
- 01:50:58,738 --> 01:51:03,742
- and shall be joined to his wife,
- and the two shall become one flesh.
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