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LittyKittyToday at 3:41 PM
Do we still have a problem between us? I just feel like there's still passive-aggressiveness
KalikoToday at 3:42 PM
I was wondering the same thing.
I personally never had a problem with you.
LittyKittyToday at 3:46 PM
Well it seemed like you were trying to stay something specific with me when you asked me that question at truth or dare and the situation with the bow today
KalikoToday at 3:47 PM
Oh, the truth or dare was honestly just a random question because I couldn't come up with anything.
Didn't really mean anything by it.
The bow thing...well, that was all you.
It did come off as somewhat antagonistic.
LittyKittyToday at 3:56 PM
I mean you could view it that way but I was asking primarily because you already thought and knew it was for Vala so I was like what was the point?
But its been weird between us since that day
KalikoToday at 3:57 PM
Since what day?
LittyKittyToday at 3:59 PM
The day Tamon and John joined
KalikoToday at 4:00 PM
Not sure what you mean. We've barely interacted.
LittyKittyToday at 4:00 PM
Exactly since the day that Lune broke Vala's trust and everything went south. It was that day
KalikoToday at 4:01 PM
Since I was basically branded a slut?
LittyKittyToday at 4:05 PM
It was your words and actions and whats wrong with being a slut? I poked at you like everyone does with each other in the clan. It only started to sound 'aggressive' when you kept denying it when evidence spoke against you.
KalikoToday at 4:05 PM
It was a sensitive subject.
Vala never talked to me the same way after that.
LittyKittyToday at 4:06 PM
Because you broke her trust
KalikoToday at 4:06 PM
How did I do that?
LittyKittyToday at 4:07 PM
You need to ask Vala that personally because Im not her and wont repeat her words she told me. If you honestly want to repair your friendship with her then I'd talk to her
KalikoToday at 4:08 PM
Right.
LittyKittyToday at 4:10 PM
But I dont have a problem with you trying to fuck everything. It doesnt affect me but the excuses did.
KalikoToday at 4:11 PM
It was unfounded.
The fact that I was getting attention from everyone doesn't mean I was fucking them.
LittyKittyToday at 4:12 PM
You were getting attention because you were giving attention. Also like you stated previous that day "I played a Virgin for a long time. I deserve this" and "What did you expect when Talon started recruiting all these men" which referred to erp
So it wasnt unfounded. It was us making a guess on your words and actions
KalikoToday at 4:14 PM
True, I said all that, but I didn't actually do anything.
I don't see why you care so much either.
LittyKittyToday at 4:16 PM
We don't care. At least I didn't. What I cared about were the excuses making us seem like we were slut shaming you when you could have just been like "Yea so what? You mad I get more dick than you" or "I havent fucked everyone in the clan...yet" etc. If I wanted to I could have said way worse but I had no reason to.
KalikoToday at 4:17 PM
And that's fine, but you said it in front of Vala.
That just made things worse.
LittyKittyToday at 4:17 PM
Nah I didnt. Me and her were already talking about it in whispers
So me saying anything didnt do anything. She was already pissed off.
KalikoToday at 4:18 PM
And you're wondering why I feel antagonized.
LittyKittyToday at 4:18 PM
and if you had cared wouldnt you have just talked to her? Saying it was all a misunderstanding and that Nao was stupid
Im not wondering why you felt antagonized because I already knew after you barely talked to us after or came to Vala when she was hurt.
KalikoToday at 4:20 PM
She made it clear she wanted nothing to do with me.
And you're wrong.
I did try talking to her.
Before and after.
She kept telling me everything was fine.
LittyKittyToday at 4:21 PM
You tried talking to her before and after? So what do you think you did wrong that day and before?
KalikoToday at 4:21 PM
You tell me.
LittyKittyToday at 4:24 PM
Okay so correct me if Im wrong. Lune and Vala were moving into a relationship correct? With the exception of Lune having to entertain guests if asked?
KalikoToday at 4:28 PM
Depends on what you mean by relationship.
They got to know each other in her room that night.
LittyKittyToday at 4:32 PM
Okay did you or did you not message Vala oocly to ask if threesomes were against her trust or whatever it was?
KalikoToday at 4:32 PM
KalikoLast Sunday at 6:51 AM
I have to ask. Is she leaving because you yourself would rather not be involved in a three-way, or because of her IC reasons?
Vaika ShizukuLast Sunday at 6:52 AM
I dont mind three ways.. but I'm just tired.. and you two feel like you would have more fun with me
Besides.. she wouldnt be ready.. for anything like that..
KalikoLast Sunday at 6:53 AM
Okay, I understand. I just feel bad about leaving you out of the interaction, merely on an RP level.
Vaika ShizukuLast Sunday at 6:54 AM
It's fine.
KalikoLast Sunday at 6:54 AM
I COULD ditch him and have Lune spend the night with her instead....
But I'm not sure she's ready for that either. >.>
Vaika ShizukuLast Sunday at 6:55 AM
No no. You're fine.
LittyKittyToday at 4:35 PM
So you were trying to push for ERP
KalikoToday at 4:36 PM
We were all naked in the bath. I wanted to make sure she was fine with it.
If the guy decided to get frisky.
LittyKittyToday at 4:42 PM
Just because someone decides something doesnt mean anyone has to go along with it. I understand this is an (E)RP server but there can be a lot of rp before having erp. So even if Toman was like "Yea lets fuck" you both could have said no thank you.
So where you were at fault is for asking the question. We can all tell Vala is somewhat of a prude towards sex and naked-ness in general. Do you honestly think she would have a three-way with a man she barely knows? Or a girl she's just getting to closer to?
KalikoToday at 4:43 PM
Oh, so asking ooc if someone is alright with something is actually the wrong move?
News to me.
LittyKittyToday at 4:45 PM
Asking someone a question because you genuinely dont know is alright but you know Vala. Longer than I have and I can tell, without asking, that she wouldn't be down.
KalikoToday at 4:45 PM
How do I know her longer than you have?
You two were here before I came along.
LittyKittyToday at 4:46 PM
What? I heard about you before I joined so you were here before me
That's why you two had a room upstairs in the bath house and I had nothing but a box
KalikoToday at 4:46 PM
I joined and stopped playing for a while. I barely interacted with anyone.
LittyKittyToday at 4:48 PM
Okay then. So you came back a day later than me. So? She interacts in Clan all the time and her words reflects her character all the time. Even says stuff about her character. Doesnt like being touched. Is shy around people because she was alone for so long. Etc.
And you got to know more about her that day when you rped with her that i dont even know
KalikoToday at 4:49 PM
So, just like that I'm supposed to do everything differently just for her? First of all, I had no idea she expected exclusivity, otherwise I would have had something to say about it.
There was no agreement or talk about any kind of relationship.
She just assumed I knew what she was thinking and would act accordingly.
LittyKittyToday at 4:58 PM
How is that acting differently for her? If you know the general idea of someones character then you shouldn't have a problem. This wasnt some intense kink shit with fire or branding. It was a three-way. Her character wouldn't do that with a dude she barely knows and a girl she's just beginning to know. Plus didnt you say "I hope Vala understands Lune job is to cater to customers. If she cant handle that I would hate to break her heart"
So isnt that right there telling you understood she meant exclusive?
KalikoToday at 4:59 PM
Not necessarily.
It means I wish she would have told me.
And I thought there wasn't a problem.
I don't know what you're trying to get out of this conversation.
If neither of you is fine with how I play, that's your opinion and I don't intend to change it. I'm done caring.
You either accept me as I am or you don't.
LittyKittyToday at 5:05 PM
What don't you get? I dont care how you play. I dont care if dont change. Just own up to your words and actions. Im telling you how it is and how you dont look at the situation from others point of view before asking or doing something.
So conversation is done with no progress. I'm fine living with the passive aggressiveness.
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
KalikoToday at 5:06 PM
You say own up to it as if I owed anyone an explanation.
It's a game. I come here to have fun. I'm not going to treat it as if I were treading through a mine field.
LittyKittyToday at 5:07 PM
Ya dont but you're making yourself do it
KalikoToday at 5:07 PM
People need to keep their IC issues IC.
LittyKittyToday at 5:08 PM
Yea and Nao has. You dont owe anyone an explanation but you making excuses doesnt help anyone. Just hurts you.
KalikoToday at 5:09 PM
Excuses for what?
I'm just trying to explain my point of view.
Which you clearly are not willing to accept.
LittyKittyToday at 5:10 PM
You're not explaining your point of view. You were answering my questions. If you want to explain it go right ahead
KalikoToday at 5:10 PM
Jesus.
It's like tossing more wood into the fire with you.
LittyKittyToday at 5:14 PM
I could say the same to you. You havent been explaining your side at all. You've been answering for yourself whenever I asked a question or stated something. Like excuses on top of excuses. If you actually want to say your side, your FULL side, then I am willing to listen as there are two sides to each story.
KalikoToday at 5:15 PM
What do I need to say to get you to leave me alone? That I'm a slut? You were right all along and I was unwilling to admit it. I'll fuck everyone in the server given the chance.
LittyKittyToday at 5:17 PM
Hold up? To leave you alone? Girl you could have said at ANY time in this whole conversation "Ya know what? Im done with this" and left the situation. No one is making you do anything. What is up with this victim mentality you have?
KalikoToday at 5:17 PM
And there you go again.
LittyKittyToday at 5:18 PM
Because you're trying to blame me for something. You literally just stated Im harassing you. You think Im just gonna let you do that and not defend myself?
KalikoToday at 5:20 PM
Good lord. It's just endless drama with you.