Have you been {loving|liking|enjoying} {a man|a guy|a male} more than you {love|like|enjoy} yourself? {Giving|Providing|Offering} him your attention and care to the point where you are tired and {burnt out|stressed out}? Then you feel {disappointed|dissatisfied} when he {doesn't|does not} do what you {expect|anticipate} him to? If so, you {probably|most likely} {have|have actually} not been {giving|providing|offering} enough to yourself and making the relationship with yourself {more important|more crucial|more vital} than any relationship with {a man|a guy|a male}. Follow these 3 self {loving|caring} {rules|guidelines} to make yourself the most {important|essential|crucial} {person|individual} in your life.

Self {loving|caring} {rule|guideline} # 1: Put your {happiness|joy} {first|initially}

{Women|Ladies|Females} in relationships {often|frequently|typically} {want to|wish to} please their {man|guy|male}. To make him feel {satisfied|pleased} in the relationship, they can {go out|head out} of their {way|method} to be {nurturing|supporting} and {giving in|giving up} the relationship. Driving {across|throughout} town, {cooking|preparing} {a three|a 3} course meal and baking cookies are {just|simply} {some of|a few of} {the things|the important things} you would do to make him {happy|pleased|delighted}. You even make sacrifices to accommodate his {plans|strategies} and {needs|requirements}. {Sometimes|In some cases|Often}, {happiness|joy} {is in|remains in} the {giving|providing|offering}. {But|However} are you {giving|providing|offering} him more than you {give to|offer to|provide to} yourself, {thus|therefore|hence} feeling {tired|exhausted|worn out} and resentful?

{Remember|Keep in mind} to {always|constantly} put your own {happiness|joy} {first|initially}, {especially|particularly|specifically} when you {are in love with|love} {a man|a guy|a male}. By doing things that make yourself {happy|pleased|delighted}, you {become|end up being} {energized|stimulated} and able to {give|provide|offer} more of yourself to him. In {fact|truth|reality}, {men|guys|males} {prefer|choose} to be around {women|ladies|females} who are {joyful|cheerful|happy} and {fun|enjoyable}. Putting your {happiness|joy} {first|initially} {means|implies|indicates|suggests} {knowing|understanding} what makes you feel {good|great|excellent} {and then|and after that} {deciding|choosing} your actions {based on|based upon} that. Compromise if you {must|should|need to} in the relationship, {but|however} {never|never ever} do something that would make you feel {unhappy|dissatisfied} or resentful in any {way|method}.

Self {loving|caring} {rule|guideline} # 2: Accept who you are as {an individual|a person}

Couples {spend|invest} {a lot of|a great deal of} time doing things together, so it {becomes|ends up being} {harder|more difficult} to {identify|determine|recognize} themselves as {individuals|people}. It is {especially|particularly|specifically} {easy|simple} for {women|ladies|females} to forget who they are as they can be {very|extremely|really} accommodating.

{Take time|Take some time|Require time} to {understand|comprehend} and accept yourself as {an amazing|an incredible|a remarkable|a fantastic}, {beautiful|gorgeous|stunning|lovely}, {intelligent|smart}, {creative|innovative|imaginative} and {smart|wise|clever} {individual|person}. {Knowing|Understanding} yourself {intimately|totally|thoroughly} {helps|assists} you to make {decisions|choices} that bring {happiness|joy} and {joy|delight|happiness|pleasure} to your life. {Despite|In spite of|Regardless of} any {flaws|defects}, {fears|worries} and {challenges|difficulties|obstacles} in life, you {are worth|deserve} {loving|caring}. {Learn|Discover|Find out} how to {overcome|conquer} your {personal|individual} {obstacles|challenges|barriers} and lead a more {fulfilling|satisfying} life that you were {meant|implied|indicated|suggested} to live. Self awareness is the {key|essential|crucial} to {acceptance|approval} and {loving|caring} yourself {more and more|increasingly more|a growing number of}.

Self {loving|caring} {rule|guideline} # 3: Keep {learning from|gaining from} your experiences

{Loving|Caring} yourself and putting your {needs|requirements} and {happiness|joy} {first|very first} isn't {always|constantly} {easy|simple}. It takes practice and {continuous|constant} {learning|knowing} from {past|previous} unloving behaviours. You {know|understand} you {have|have actually} not {engaged in|participated in|taken part in} self {loving|caring} behaviour when your {decision|choice} or action {leads to|results in|causes} you feeling less than {fully|completely|totally} {satisfied|pleased}. When this {happens|occurs|takes place}, it is {easy|simple} to {get into|enter into|enter} a pattern of self pity and blame. Pity and self blame {don't|do not} {change|alter} {reality|truth}. In {fact|truth|reality}, they {only|just} make things {worse|even worse} by making you feel {lousy|poor}. {However|Nevertheless}, these patterns can be {changed|altered} and you can {choose|select|pick} to {learn from|gain from} your {mistakes|errors} and make {new|brand-new} {decisions|choices} to {love|like|enjoy} yourself from now on. {Over time|In time|Gradually|With time}, you will {get better|improve} at {placing|putting|positioning} your {needs|requirements} and {happiness|joy} {first|initially}.

These {simple|easy|basic} {tips|suggestions|ideas|pointers} are {easy|simple} to follow, {but|however} it takes practice if you {really|truly|actually} {want to|wish to} get {good at|proficient at} {loving|caring} yourself more than {a man|a guy|a male}. It is {an ongoing|a continuous} {process|procedure} to treat yourself {lovingly|adoringly} and with {respect|regard}.

If you can {love|like|enjoy} your {man|guy|male}, {pet|animal|family pet} and {home|house} unconditionally, why can't you do the {same|exact same|very same} {for yourself|on your own}?

{Make the decision|Decide} now to {love|like|enjoy} yourself more than {a man|a guy|a male}. No longer feel {disappointed|dissatisfied} or resentful towards him. You will {enjoy|delight in|take pleasure in} being the most {important|essential|crucial} {person|individual} in your life, feeling more {joyful|cheerful|happy} and energetic throughout the day.