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- Subtitles by explosiveskull
- 2
- 00:04:09,939 --> 00:04:11,274
- Is she not answering?
- 3
- 00:04:12,041 --> 00:04:12,943
- No.
- 4
- 00:04:16,046 --> 00:04:18,114
- - Thank you.
- - You're welcome.
- 5
- 00:04:25,355 --> 00:04:26,521
- - Here you go.
- - Thanks.
- 6
- 00:04:26,523 --> 00:04:27,825
- You're welcome.
- 7
- 00:04:31,393 --> 00:04:32,696
- Emma.
- 8
- 00:04:34,163 --> 00:04:35,231
- Emma, Emma.
- 9
- 00:04:39,468 --> 00:04:40,804
- Come on.
- 10
- 00:04:45,208 --> 00:04:47,712
- You haven't packed anything.
- 11
- 00:04:48,145 --> 00:04:49,146
- Come on.
- 12
- 00:04:54,518 --> 00:04:56,153
- - Okay.
- - All right.
- 13
- 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:57,922
- Where's your suitcase?
- 14
- 00:04:58,220 --> 00:04:59,122
- Here.
- 15
- 00:05:11,501 --> 00:05:12,770
- Whoa.
- 16
- 00:05:14,403 --> 00:05:17,074
- Oh. Ruth.
- 17
- 00:05:21,410 --> 00:05:23,179
- Okeydokey.
- 18
- 00:05:23,879 --> 00:05:25,081
- Sweetheart.
- 19
- 00:05:29,451 --> 00:05:31,221
- Goddamn it!
- 20
- 00:05:33,889 --> 00:05:35,024
- Ruth!
- 21
- 00:05:47,170 --> 00:05:48,372
- Oh, God.
- 22
- 00:05:51,908 --> 00:05:53,177
- Shit.
- 23
- 00:05:55,511 --> 00:05:56,913
- Yeah. Hey, Dad.
- 24
- 00:06:02,518 --> 00:06:05,185
- Oh, man. All right, all right.
- 25
- 00:06:05,187 --> 00:06:07,390
- I'll be there. Yeah, nothing.
- 26
- 00:06:13,929 --> 00:06:15,165
- Shit.
- 27
- 00:06:44,393 --> 00:06:45,963
- Nicky?
- 28
- 00:06:47,129 --> 00:06:48,965
- What do you mean she's gone?
- 29
- 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:08,415
- <i>From our local Doppler radar
- blizzard warning still in effect...</i>
- 30
- 00:07:08,417 --> 00:07:10,018
- Come on!
- 31
- 00:07:10,020 --> 00:07:11,519
- - Fuck you!
- - That's not nice.
- 32
- 00:07:11,521 --> 00:07:13,288
- <i>...bringing snowfalls highest</i>
- 33
- 00:07:13,290 --> 00:07:15,656
- <i>in Lake, Cook,
- and DuPage county.</i>
- 34
- 00:07:15,658 --> 00:07:17,994
- <i>Expect up to 11 inches there...</i>
- 35
- 00:07:19,528 --> 00:07:22,999
- Emma, put that out.
- Come on, he's here.
- 36
- 00:07:23,465 --> 00:07:25,168
- Yo, dickheads.
- 37
- 00:07:25,602 --> 00:07:26,971
- Come on.
- 38
- 00:07:27,237 --> 00:07:28,205
- Hi.
- 39
- 00:07:29,439 --> 00:07:31,175
- Got your $10 coffee.
- 40
- 00:07:31,540 --> 00:07:33,376
- - Hi. Thank you.
- - Hi. Yeah, yeah.
- 41
- 00:07:33,977 --> 00:07:35,576
- Come on, hon. Come on.
- 42
- 00:07:35,578 --> 00:07:37,381
- - Need help?
- - No.
- 43
- 00:07:39,182 --> 00:07:42,552
- - No Eddie, huh?
- - No, he had to work. Where's dad?
- 44
- 00:07:43,420 --> 00:07:46,286
- He's looking for her. He's looking
- everywhere, every single place
- 45
- 00:07:46,288 --> 00:07:47,957
- she's ever been in her life.
- 46
- 00:07:48,391 --> 00:07:50,425
- - Did you check the hospitals?
- - Yeah.
- 47
- 00:07:50,427 --> 00:07:53,528
- Yeah, we checked the hospitals,
- St. Giles, Rotary Club,
- 48
- 00:07:53,530 --> 00:07:56,030
- we even went by the nursing home
- in case she thought
- 49
- 00:07:56,032 --> 00:07:57,101
- she was still working there.
- 50
- 00:07:58,268 --> 00:08:00,938
- - Did you call the police?
- - Of course we called the police.
- 51
- 00:08:03,305 --> 00:08:05,139
- - Do they have Dad's number?
- - Yeah.
- 52
- 00:08:05,141 --> 00:08:06,110
- Yeah, they've Dad's number,
- 53
- 00:08:07,110 --> 00:08:08,375
- they've got my number,
- your number, your number.
- 54
- 00:08:08,377 --> 00:08:11,247
- And they've got Marion-Down-The-Hall's
- number. The condo.
- 55
- 00:08:13,249 --> 00:08:16,220
- He's going out of his mind,
- Bitty. He's white as a ghost.
- 56
- 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:20,090
- When he called me, I thought he
- was having another heart attack.
- 57
- 00:08:20,723 --> 00:08:22,456
- I knew this was gonna happen.
- 58
- 00:08:22,458 --> 00:08:24,624
- Yeah. I've been tellin' him
- for years, "You gotta figure out
- 59
- 00:08:24,626 --> 00:08:28,062
- what you wanna do with Mom when the time
- comes because we all know it's coming.
- 60
- 00:08:28,064 --> 00:08:29,663
- We all know
- how this thing works."
- 61
- 00:08:29,665 --> 00:08:31,298
- - It's hard on him.
- - Yeah.
- 62
- 00:08:31,300 --> 00:08:32,734
- Well, you know what's
- gonna be hard for him?
- 63
- 00:08:32,736 --> 00:08:34,302
- When she turns up next week
- 64
- 00:08:34,304 --> 00:08:36,339
- in a goddamn block of ice.
- 65
- 00:08:37,339 --> 00:08:40,008
- It's over. She is not staying
- in that condo anymore.
- 66
- 00:08:40,010 --> 00:08:43,080
- She's going to a place,
- and he's gonna have to let her.
- 67
- 00:08:44,747 --> 00:08:49,583
- And if I hear one goddamn peep
- about frickin' Florida,
- 68
- 00:08:49,585 --> 00:08:51,421
- so help me God.
- 69
- 00:08:52,622 --> 00:08:53,623
- What happened to quitting?
- 70
- 00:08:54,123 --> 00:08:56,960
- Life, Bitty.
- Life happened to quitting.
- 71
- 00:08:57,359 --> 00:08:59,394
- You can't smoke in here,
- I'm chemically sensitive.
- 72
- 00:08:59,396 --> 00:09:01,361
- - You're who?
- - Chemically sensitive.
- 73
- 00:09:01,363 --> 00:09:04,565
- What kind of California
- bullshit is that?
- 74
- 00:09:06,636 --> 00:09:08,237
- That's your ringer?
- 75
- 00:09:08,505 --> 00:09:09,473
- For Dad it is.
- 76
- 00:09:11,507 --> 00:09:13,109
- Hey, Pop.
- 77
- 00:09:20,416 --> 00:09:21,384
- Dad.
- 78
- 00:09:23,085 --> 00:09:25,121
- I told you not to call her.
- 79
- 00:09:25,387 --> 00:09:28,655
- Bitty, it's Christmas. You oughta
- be home with your husband.
- 80
- 00:09:28,657 --> 00:09:31,661
- - Is she all right?
- - She's swell, she's fine.
- 81
- 00:09:32,495 --> 00:09:34,562
- - Hiya, sweets.
- - Hi, Gramps, you okay?
- 82
- 00:09:34,564 --> 00:09:36,132
- Yes, thank you.
- 83
- 00:09:36,399 --> 00:09:38,001
- Oh. Nicholas.
- 84
- 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,302
- Damn it, I knew that you'd start
- smoking again with that bar.
- 85
- 00:09:41,304 --> 00:09:43,504
- Dad, are you all right? Have they
- checked your blood pressure?
- 86
- 00:09:43,506 --> 00:09:45,539
- - I'm fine.
- - What'd the doctor say?
- 87
- 00:09:45,541 --> 00:09:48,375
- - He hasn't been in yet.
- - Then how do you know she's fine?
- 88
- 00:09:48,377 --> 00:09:51,814
- Because she's fine. Go take a
- look at her, down that hall.
- 89
- 00:09:55,684 --> 00:09:56,619
- What?
- 90
- 00:10:11,834 --> 00:10:13,237
- Mom.
- 91
- 00:10:14,603 --> 00:10:16,169
- Is that my baby?
- 92
- 00:10:16,171 --> 00:10:17,707
- - Yeah.
- - Oh!
- 93
- 00:10:18,241 --> 00:10:20,707
- I'm so happy to see you.
- 94
- 00:10:20,709 --> 00:10:22,311
- - You too.
- - You all right, Mom?
- 95
- 00:10:23,179 --> 00:10:24,445
- Oh, that's my baby, too.
- 96
- 00:10:24,447 --> 00:10:25,582
- Yeah.
- 97
- 00:10:26,181 --> 00:10:28,151
- Oh!
- 98
- 00:10:28,818 --> 00:10:30,650
- - Honey!
- - Hi, Grandma.
- 99
- 00:10:30,652 --> 00:10:32,687
- - Listen, do you need some money?
- - No.
- 100
- 00:10:32,689 --> 00:10:34,121
- Let me get you some money.
- 101
- 00:10:34,123 --> 00:10:35,822
- - See she's fine.
- - Where's my purse?
- 102
- 00:10:35,824 --> 00:10:37,859
- - You don't need your purse, Ruth.
- - Yes, I do, you turkey.
- 103
- 00:10:37,861 --> 00:10:40,230
- - Sit down.
- - Where the heck was she?
- 104
- 00:10:40,729 --> 00:10:42,763
- - Aurora.
- - Aurora?
- 105
- 00:10:42,765 --> 00:10:43,766
- She got on the commuter.
- 106
- 00:10:44,333 --> 00:10:45,732
- Rode the damn thing
- back and forth
- 107
- 00:10:45,734 --> 00:10:48,336
- until the conductor
- finally screwed his eyeballs in.
- 108
- 00:10:48,338 --> 00:10:50,574
- - Did she really?
- - Where did she get on at?
- 109
- 00:10:51,406 --> 00:10:53,109
- - Berwyn.
- - Hmm.
- 110
- 00:10:53,476 --> 00:10:56,376
- She walked to Berwyn
- in a snowstorm?
- 111
- 00:10:56,378 --> 00:10:57,912
- She's fine, Nicholas.
- 112
- 00:10:57,914 --> 00:10:59,746
- She doesn't look fine to me.
- 113
- 00:10:59,748 --> 00:11:01,883
- - She's fine, Mom.
- - She's fine, Ruth.
- 114
- 00:11:01,885 --> 00:11:03,087
- Excuse you,
- 115
- 00:11:03,419 --> 00:11:05,686
- I was in geriatrics
- for 30 years,
- 116
- 00:11:05,688 --> 00:11:07,091
- thank you very much.
- 117
- 00:11:07,357 --> 00:11:08,492
- Where's your diamond?
- 118
- 00:11:08,857 --> 00:11:11,491
- Oh, um, I forgot to put it on.
- 119
- 00:11:11,493 --> 00:11:12,695
- What do you mean, you forgot?
- 120
- 00:11:12,929 --> 00:11:14,461
- - She doesn't wear it.
- - Yes, I do.
- 121
- 00:11:14,463 --> 00:11:16,864
- - I take it off for work.
- - How come?
- 122
- 00:11:16,866 --> 00:11:20,136
- Because I have my hands
- in raw poultry all day. Ow, Mom.
- 123
- 00:11:20,370 --> 00:11:22,673
- - That hurts.
- - Did you guys go to mass last night?
- 124
- 00:11:22,905 --> 00:11:26,506
- No, I... We were gonna go today.
- 125
- 00:11:26,508 --> 00:11:28,311
- - We were?
- - Yeah.
- 126
- 00:11:28,611 --> 00:11:29,644
- You were?
- 127
- 00:11:29,646 --> 00:11:31,180
- Mm-hmm. Yes.
- 128
- 00:11:31,414 --> 00:11:33,650
- - Come in.
- - Are we ready for a pelvic exam?
- 129
- 00:11:34,784 --> 00:11:36,183
- Pelvic exam?
- 130
- 00:11:36,185 --> 00:11:37,420
- That's my baby.
- 131
- 00:11:38,420 --> 00:11:39,455
- Hmm?
- 132
- 00:11:40,390 --> 00:11:42,822
- Now they are safer
- in memory care,
- 133
- 00:11:42,824 --> 00:11:44,660
- they also typically improve.
- 134
- 00:11:46,261 --> 00:11:49,532
- Some of them feel more at home among
- their peers than with their own family.
- 135
- 00:11:50,232 --> 00:11:52,268
- As strange as that sounds.
- 136
- 00:11:54,404 --> 00:11:57,638
- Look, the reason I did
- a pelvic exam is because
- 137
- 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,640
- during wandering episodes,
- women are often assaulted.
- 138
- 00:12:00,642 --> 00:12:01,677
- Sexually.
- 139
- 00:12:02,511 --> 00:12:04,412
- I didn't see
- evidence of that today
- 140
- 00:12:04,414 --> 00:12:08,218
- but I'd be very concerned
- about her getting out again.
- 141
- 00:12:09,452 --> 00:12:10,420
- Dad.
- 142
- 00:12:12,921 --> 00:12:14,724
- - Hey, Dad.
- - What?
- 143
- 00:12:16,693 --> 00:12:18,426
- I'm on the street.
- 144
- 00:12:18,428 --> 00:12:20,461
- So go then.
- Ruth. Come on, honey.
- 145
- 00:12:20,463 --> 00:12:22,498
- No, I'll take her with me.
- 146
- 00:12:23,699 --> 00:12:24,798
- Come on.
- 147
- 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:26,170
- I'll go.
- 148
- 00:12:27,270 --> 00:12:29,236
- - Bye.
- - Am I going with you?
- 149
- 00:12:29,238 --> 00:12:30,439
- Yeah.
- 150
- 00:12:36,612 --> 00:12:38,712
- Goddamn hospitals.
- 151
- 00:12:38,714 --> 00:12:41,651
- Goddamn teenage doctors.
- 152
- 00:12:52,895 --> 00:12:54,463
- What happened to the Camry?
- 153
- 00:12:54,697 --> 00:12:58,468
- I'm 75 years old, Bitty.
- Fuck the Camry.
- 154
- 00:13:00,703 --> 00:13:01,771
- Let's go.
- 155
- 00:13:08,611 --> 00:13:10,043
- It's a convertible.
- 156
- 00:13:10,045 --> 00:13:11,949
- What about putting the top up?
- 157
- 00:13:12,348 --> 00:13:13,617
- I gotta fix that.
- 158
- 00:13:14,550 --> 00:13:17,221
- This is a rocket, watch out.
- 159
- 00:13:18,288 --> 00:13:19,623
- Like that?
- 160
- 00:13:36,572 --> 00:13:37,641
- Hey.
- 161
- 00:13:38,808 --> 00:13:40,307
- I got your lo mein.
- 162
- 00:13:40,309 --> 00:13:41,509
- - Oh, yeah?
- - Where's your mother?
- 163
- 00:13:41,511 --> 00:13:43,043
- She's in the back with Emma.
- 164
- 00:13:43,045 --> 00:13:44,348
- All right.
- 165
- 00:13:46,582 --> 00:13:48,652
- Hey, come here.
- 166
- 00:13:50,620 --> 00:13:52,919
- - Come here. Come here.
- - What?
- 167
- 00:13:52,921 --> 00:13:54,457
- What? What's the matter?
- 168
- 00:13:55,058 --> 00:13:56,793
- - She hit on me.
- - Who?
- 169
- 00:13:58,026 --> 00:13:58,958
- Not Emma.
- 170
- 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:00,396
- - Mom?
- - Yeah.
- 171
- 00:14:00,663 --> 00:14:02,866
- Yeah she put her hand
- on my knee, and she was...
- 172
- 00:14:03,900 --> 00:14:06,803
- looking at me like she wanted to...
- She hit on me.
- 173
- 00:14:07,804 --> 00:14:08,704
- What'd you do?
- 174
- 00:14:09,838 --> 00:14:12,907
- I just kept calling her Mom.
- 175
- 00:14:12,909 --> 00:14:15,809
- I said thanks, Mom.
- It's nice to see you, too, Mom.
- 176
- 00:14:15,811 --> 00:14:17,947
- I'm really glad
- you birthed me, Mom.
- 177
- 00:14:20,949 --> 00:14:24,688
- - You're laughing. Don't laugh, you asshole.
- - I'm sorry.
- 178
- 00:14:25,021 --> 00:14:26,887
- No, I'm fucking traumatized.
- 179
- 00:14:26,889 --> 00:14:28,825
- - Your face.
- - My face?
- 180
- 00:14:33,096 --> 00:14:35,299
- It's not funny.
- 181
- 00:14:39,135 --> 00:14:40,069
- Hey.
- 182
- 00:14:41,103 --> 00:14:42,838
- You want to go for a drive
- with Uncle Nicky and me?
- 183
- 00:14:43,606 --> 00:14:46,543
- No. Uncle Nicky is a dick.
- 184
- 00:14:46,742 --> 00:14:48,944
- No he is not. Don't say that.
- 185
- 00:14:49,712 --> 00:14:51,881
- Did you fill out your
- new dorm application?
- 186
- 00:14:52,381 --> 00:14:53,449
- Yeah.
- 187
- 00:14:53,982 --> 00:14:55,319
- You did?
- 188
- 00:14:55,650 --> 00:14:56,553
- Yes.
- 189
- 00:14:56,953 --> 00:14:57,853
- All right. Well...
- 190
- 00:14:58,954 --> 00:15:00,790
- are you sure you're gonna be
- okay here by yourself?
- 191
- 00:15:03,693 --> 00:15:04,795
- Okay.
- 192
- 00:15:05,862 --> 00:15:08,428
- - Well, I have my cell.
- - Oh, really, you do?
- 193
- 00:15:08,430 --> 00:15:10,499
- Great, I'll call you.
- We'll have a chat.
- 194
- 00:15:15,570 --> 00:15:17,440
- Don't...
- 195
- 00:15:19,141 --> 00:15:22,475
- Don't let those guys
- catch you with all of this.
- 196
- 00:15:27,983 --> 00:15:29,685
- Let's go, dickie-doodle.
- 197
- 00:15:34,857 --> 00:15:37,557
- - So Jimmy Laciak, remember him?
- - Yup.
- 198
- 00:15:37,559 --> 00:15:39,592
- He sits on the board
- of what's considered
- 199
- 00:15:39,594 --> 00:15:42,365
- to be the best memory care place
- in Chicago.
- 200
- 00:15:42,564 --> 00:15:44,030
- They got a waiting list
- a mile long,
- 201
- 00:15:44,032 --> 00:15:46,769
- but he says he can get
- Mom in there February one.
- 202
- 00:15:47,002 --> 00:15:50,937
- And then a little two bedroom on the
- same campus for dad by the 15th.
- 203
- 00:15:50,939 --> 00:15:52,673
- They can't be together?
- 204
- 00:15:52,675 --> 00:15:54,908
- Memory care's lock down,
- dementia only.
- 205
- 00:15:54,910 --> 00:15:57,848
- It's a bunch of loons. He'd be tearing
- his hair out in there anyway.
- 206
- 00:15:58,514 --> 00:16:01,749
- But his spot in assisted
- living's like 50 yards away.
- 207
- 00:16:01,751 --> 00:16:03,551
- He can go visit her
- whenever he wants.
- 208
- 00:16:03,553 --> 00:16:05,655
- What if he doesn't want
- assisted living?
- 209
- 00:16:06,923 --> 00:16:10,025
- Well, Daddy doesn't always
- get what Daddy wants.
- 210
- 00:16:11,059 --> 00:16:15,663
- It's not daycare, Bit. They
- don't wipe his ass. It's nice.
- 211
- 00:16:15,665 --> 00:16:18,635
- You know, they do his laundry,
- give him a meal plan,
- 212
- 00:16:19,001 --> 00:16:22,439
- and if he gets a chest pain, all
- he gotta do is press a button.
- 213
- 00:16:23,005 --> 00:16:25,605
- What about a live-in person?
- 214
- 00:16:25,607 --> 00:16:26,941
- Insurance doesn't cover it.
- 215
- 00:16:26,943 --> 00:16:28,509
- It doesn't cover
- memory care either.
- 216
- 00:16:28,511 --> 00:16:30,076
- Well, it covers some of it
- 217
- 00:16:30,078 --> 00:16:31,211
- and then he sells the condo.
- 218
- 00:16:31,213 --> 00:16:32,613
- He's not gonna sell the condo.
- 219
- 00:16:32,615 --> 00:16:33,884
- What's he gonna do
- take it with him?
- 220
- 00:16:34,550 --> 00:16:35,684
- Oh.
- 221
- 00:16:36,618 --> 00:16:39,220
- Oh, my God! Is that you?
- Are you Nick?
- 222
- 00:16:39,222 --> 00:16:42,255
- Oh, no. That's the other owner.
- His name's Nick, too.
- 223
- 00:16:42,257 --> 00:16:43,859
- Well...
- 224
- 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,793
- Of course it's me,
- you dingleberry.
- 225
- 00:16:46,795 --> 00:16:49,965
- Well, how am I supposed
- to know, you never told me.
- 226
- 00:16:50,500 --> 00:16:51,568
- Yeah.
- 227
- 00:16:56,506 --> 00:16:57,904
- Wow.
- 228
- 00:16:57,906 --> 00:17:00,707
- - Yeah.
- - Oh, my God. It's gorgeous.
- 229
- 00:17:00,709 --> 00:17:03,543
- Yeah. See?
- It's not some shitty dive.
- 230
- 00:17:03,545 --> 00:17:05,549
- Who said it was a shitty dive?
- 231
- 00:17:06,147 --> 00:17:09,618
- - Well, has he been here?
- - Of course he hasn't been here.
- 232
- 00:17:09,952 --> 00:17:10,987
- Did you invite him?
- 233
- 00:17:11,287 --> 00:17:12,956
- I shouldn't have to invite him.
- 234
- 00:17:20,128 --> 00:17:21,595
- Somebody's living here.
- 235
- 00:17:21,597 --> 00:17:23,596
- You're one sharp cookie, Bit.
- 236
- 00:17:23,598 --> 00:17:24,731
- Who?
- 237
- 00:17:24,733 --> 00:17:26,267
- The other owner.
- 238
- 00:17:26,269 --> 00:17:27,734
- You're living here?
- 239
- 00:17:27,736 --> 00:17:29,538
- - Yeah.
- - What about Rachel?
- 240
- 00:17:31,773 --> 00:17:32,708
- Shh!
- 241
- 00:17:33,242 --> 00:17:34,810
- What do you mean, "shh"?
- 242
- 00:17:36,244 --> 00:17:37,713
- What do you wanna drink?
- 243
- 00:17:39,915 --> 00:17:43,086
- Come on, loosen up.
- It's the holidays.
- 244
- 00:17:45,620 --> 00:17:46,720
- Norbert's Manhattan.
- 245
- 00:17:46,722 --> 00:17:48,154
- - That's it.
- - That's it.
- 246
- 00:17:48,156 --> 00:17:49,259
- Good choice.
- 247
- 00:17:50,693 --> 00:17:54,931
- This is going to be the best Manhattan
- you ever have in your life.
- 248
- 00:17:55,731 --> 00:17:57,200
- You'll shit your pants.
- 249
- 00:17:58,267 --> 00:18:01,769
- This is... I just love that
- you used Dad's farm up here.
- 250
- 00:18:01,771 --> 00:18:03,237
- Yeah, if you
- look very closely,
- 251
- 00:18:03,239 --> 00:18:05,675
- you'll notice that it's
- freezing fucking cold.
- 252
- 00:18:08,210 --> 00:18:12,848
- - Emma, she's a real peach these days.
- - Yeah.
- 253
- 00:18:13,648 --> 00:18:14,950
- I think she hates me.
- 254
- 00:18:15,216 --> 00:18:19,655
- - For what?
- - I don't know. She doesn't talk to me.
- 255
- 00:18:20,790 --> 00:18:22,122
- Maybe she's pregnant.
- 256
- 00:18:22,124 --> 00:18:26,359
- Oh, God. No, please. God.
- 257
- 00:18:26,361 --> 00:18:27,795
- You never know.
- 258
- 00:18:27,797 --> 00:18:29,732
- That's unimaginable.
- 259
- 00:18:30,665 --> 00:18:32,900
- - All right.
- - Thank you.
- 260
- 00:18:32,902 --> 00:18:34,069
- Mm-hmm.
- 261
- 00:18:40,076 --> 00:18:41,044
- Shit.
- 262
- 00:18:41,376 --> 00:18:42,779
- What?
- 263
- 00:18:43,346 --> 00:18:44,644
- In my pants.
- 264
- 00:18:46,816 --> 00:18:47,983
- That was quick.
- 265
- 00:18:48,783 --> 00:18:52,088
- Yeah, that thing's won an award.
- 266
- 00:18:52,687 --> 00:18:54,823
- - Mmm.
- - An award.
- 267
- 00:18:57,092 --> 00:18:58,561
- What happened with Rachel?
- 268
- 00:18:59,095 --> 00:19:00,564
- Oh, who knows.
- 269
- 00:19:02,331 --> 00:19:05,965
- All of a sudden, she's bursting into tears
- over a hamburger 'cause I haven't proposed.
- 270
- 00:19:05,967 --> 00:19:08,203
- She's been waiting for you
- to wanna marry her, dummy.
- 271
- 00:19:08,671 --> 00:19:10,574
- Nobody wants to ask
- to be proposed to.
- 272
- 00:19:10,873 --> 00:19:11,875
- You gotta be intuitive.
- 273
- 00:19:12,809 --> 00:19:15,578
- - You know, it's like Eddie, right?
- - Mm-hmm.
- 274
- 00:19:16,078 --> 00:19:19,214
- I'm constantly telling him
- that chefs hate kitchen gadgets,
- 275
- 00:19:19,915 --> 00:19:22,115
- but what does he put
- under the tree every year?
- 276
- 00:19:22,117 --> 00:19:24,020
- I think, that's cause
- you open it and go,
- 277
- 00:19:24,386 --> 00:19:26,053
- "Wow! A coconut roaster!
- 278
- 00:19:26,055 --> 00:19:29,056
- Oh, my God. Thank you.
- I love it so much!"
- 279
- 00:19:29,058 --> 00:19:32,162
- - What am I supposed to say?
- - "No thanks, where's the receipt?"
- 280
- 00:19:32,994 --> 00:19:34,862
- - I can't say that.
- - Why not?
- 281
- 00:19:34,864 --> 00:19:36,199
- Because, I don't...
- 282
- 00:19:37,465 --> 00:19:38,699
- you know, I don't wanna make him
- feel bad in front of the girls.
- 283
- 00:19:38,701 --> 00:19:41,067
- - It's just annoying.
- - That's just what the world needs,
- 284
- 00:19:41,069 --> 00:19:43,369
- two more women who don't
- tell you what's really going on.
- 285
- 00:19:43,371 --> 00:19:44,740
- Two more Rachels.
- 286
- 00:19:46,975 --> 00:19:48,712
- She told you what's going on.
- 287
- 00:19:50,413 --> 00:19:52,781
- Go over there
- and bring her flowers.
- 288
- 00:19:54,015 --> 00:19:57,620
- She's trying to get full custody
- of her kid now, so...
- 289
- 00:19:58,053 --> 00:19:58,988
- So?
- 290
- 00:19:59,387 --> 00:20:02,091
- What? I'm gonna be a parent?
- 291
- 00:20:02,857 --> 00:20:04,991
- - Why not? Yeah.
- - Why not?
- 292
- 00:20:04,993 --> 00:20:07,297
- Bitty, you got any idea
- what I got goin' on here?
- 293
- 00:20:08,431 --> 00:20:12,900
- I got my life savings dumped into this
- place, and I barely make payroll.
- 294
- 00:20:12,902 --> 00:20:14,804
- I got the fire department,
- the health department
- 295
- 00:20:16,405 --> 00:20:18,774
- double, triple fining me for shit I
- didn't even know I wasn't supposed to do.
- 296
- 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,144
- My barback
- is stealing my tips,
- 297
- 00:20:21,409 --> 00:20:22,344
- and then...
- 298
- 00:20:23,378 --> 00:20:26,081
- I get to pick up
- Mom and Pop's prescriptions,
- 299
- 00:20:26,315 --> 00:20:28,918
- pick up their dry cleaning.
- Take them to church.
- 300
- 00:20:32,754 --> 00:20:33,889
- Here.
- 301
- 00:20:35,090 --> 00:20:36,789
- I filled out all the paperwork.
- 302
- 00:20:36,791 --> 00:20:37,961
- All he's gotta do is sign it.
- 303
- 00:20:38,728 --> 00:20:40,797
- - The Reminisce Neighborhood?
- - Yeah.
- 304
- 00:20:41,097 --> 00:20:42,932
- They're all called
- shit like that.
- 305
- 00:20:47,368 --> 00:20:49,204
- Here, put this in your purse.
- 306
- 00:20:54,976 --> 00:20:56,845
- You got your big girl pants on?
- 307
- 00:20:58,146 --> 00:21:00,817
- - What?
- - Just don't get how you get.
- 308
- 00:21:01,317 --> 00:21:04,921
- - What do you mean, how I get? Don't get how you get.
- - How do I get?
- 309
- 00:21:05,253 --> 00:21:07,386
- You can't even tell him
- you're not a Catholic anymore.
- 310
- 00:21:07,388 --> 00:21:09,222
- What's he gonna do,
- perform an exorcism?
- 311
- 00:21:09,224 --> 00:21:11,357
- That's because I'm tired
- of the third degree.
- 312
- 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:14,396
- Yeah, you know what you do when
- Dad gives you the third degree?
- 313
- 00:21:15,063 --> 00:21:17,199
- Yeah. See, that's how you get.
- 314
- 00:21:20,368 --> 00:21:21,838
- All right.
- 315
- 00:21:23,772 --> 00:21:25,140
- So disgusting.
- 316
- 00:21:31,312 --> 00:21:32,848
- Hi, Dad.
- 317
- 00:21:34,316 --> 00:21:36,249
- - You smell like an ashtray, Nicholas.
- - Yeah,
- 318
- 00:21:36,251 --> 00:21:37,984
- it took you four
- heart attacks to quit.
- 319
- 00:21:37,986 --> 00:21:40,921
- Yeah, Rachel probably wants
- to throttle you.
- 320
- 00:21:40,923 --> 00:21:42,291
- - They broke up.
- - Ah.
- 321
- 00:21:43,058 --> 00:21:44,327
- - Just being honest.
- - Mmm.
- 322
- 00:21:44,827 --> 00:21:45,795
- I don't blame her.
- 323
- 00:21:46,127 --> 00:21:47,928
- Been on and off
- since high school,
- 324
- 00:21:47,930 --> 00:21:49,128
- shit or get off the pot.
- 325
- 00:21:49,130 --> 00:21:51,198
- Oh, gee, Dad, that's romantic.
- 326
- 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,236
- - You know what your problem is?
- - Dad.
- 327
- 00:21:53,868 --> 00:21:55,536
- You're waiting for some feeling.
- 328
- 00:21:55,538 --> 00:21:57,371
- There's no bells and whistles.
- 329
- 00:21:57,373 --> 00:22:01,407
- You pick somebody you can stand,
- and you make a commitment.
- 330
- 00:22:01,409 --> 00:22:03,410
- - Dad.
- - Have her meet us at church tomorrow.
- 331
- 00:22:03,412 --> 00:22:06,316
- Marion-Down-The-Hall's
- coming over with a corned beef.
- 332
- 00:22:07,249 --> 00:22:08,918
- - Dad.
- - What?
- 333
- 00:22:10,819 --> 00:22:12,288
- We need to talk about Mom.
- 334
- 00:22:13,021 --> 00:22:15,489
- Goddamn
- teaching hospital.
- 335
- 00:22:15,491 --> 00:22:18,357
- That little girl should never have
- been left anywhere near your mother.
- 336
- 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:22,298
- - What little girl?
- - The teenager pretending to be a doctor.
- 337
- 00:22:22,498 --> 00:22:24,434
- Your mother is doing fine.
- 338
- 00:22:24,834 --> 00:22:27,134
- So, wandering off in the middle
- of the night's doing fine?
- 339
- 00:22:27,136 --> 00:22:31,070
- Well, I gave her too much
- scotch, which I never do,
- 340
- 00:22:31,072 --> 00:22:34,040
- but it was Christmas Eve
- so I said, "What the hell."
- 341
- 00:22:34,042 --> 00:22:35,909
- So, what, she walked off
- 'cause she was drunk?
- 342
- 00:22:35,911 --> 00:22:38,578
- She can't drink hardly at all
- with the medication she's taking.
- 343
- 00:22:38,580 --> 00:22:43,317
- No, Dad, she walked off because
- that's what happens with stage six.
- 344
- 00:22:43,319 --> 00:22:47,019
- Those stages are horseshit,
- everybody's brain is different...
- 345
- 00:22:47,021 --> 00:22:48,555
- - Goddammit.
- - ...and everybody knows it.
- 346
- 00:22:48,557 --> 00:22:51,290
- - Everybody except the doctor?
- - She was not a doctor.
- 347
- 00:22:51,292 --> 00:22:55,497
- Okay, all right.
- So, we'll get a second opinion.
- 348
- 00:22:55,964 --> 00:22:59,399
- I got an appointment next week with
- her geriatrician down in Florida.
- 349
- 00:22:59,401 --> 00:23:03,303
- Oh, my God.
- Dad, you cannot go to Florida!
- 350
- 00:23:03,305 --> 00:23:06,606
- - You're gonna wake Mom.
- - We are too going to Florida.
- 351
- 00:23:06,608 --> 00:23:08,977
- I already put down a deposit.
- 352
- 00:23:09,944 --> 00:23:11,280
- Dad, listen.
- 353
- 00:23:11,946 --> 00:23:13,512
- There's this place
- that Nicky found,
- 354
- 00:23:13,514 --> 00:23:15,414
- and it looks like it
- could be a really...
- 355
- 00:23:15,416 --> 00:23:18,120
- I am not putting your mother
- in a nursing home.
- 356
- 00:23:18,486 --> 00:23:21,054
- She spent 30 years
- working in nursing homes.
- 357
- 00:23:21,056 --> 00:23:23,257
- They're horrible,
- and I'm not doing it to her.
- 358
- 00:23:23,259 --> 00:23:26,660
- Dad, It's not
- a nursing home, all right?
- 359
- 00:23:26,662 --> 00:23:29,128
- - It's Reminisce Neighborhood.
- - What?
- 360
- 00:23:29,130 --> 00:23:30,499
- Reminisce Neighborhood.
- 361
- 00:23:31,165 --> 00:23:34,102
- Yeah, it's great.
- They got Mass twice a week,
- 362
- 00:23:34,302 --> 00:23:37,203
- a restaurant, art classes,
- a Jacuzzi.
- 363
- 00:23:37,205 --> 00:23:38,107
- Jacuzzi?
- 364
- 00:23:39,374 --> 00:23:41,173
- Your mother can't swim. What do you want?
- To drown her?
- 365
- 00:23:41,175 --> 00:23:43,277
- You cannot drown in a Jacuzzi.
- 366
- 00:23:43,279 --> 00:23:45,011
- She's terrified
- of water Nicholas.
- 367
- 00:23:45,013 --> 00:23:46,512
- Yeah, she used to be
- terrified of Berwyn,
- 368
- 00:23:46,514 --> 00:23:48,649
- now she's walking around
- down there in her nightie.
- 369
- 00:23:48,651 --> 00:23:50,854
- Yeah.
- 370
- 00:23:51,086 --> 00:23:53,953
- Now there's a two bedroom
- right next door,
- 371
- 00:23:53,955 --> 00:23:56,455
- 50 yards away in assisted living
- for you, okay.
- 372
- 00:23:56,457 --> 00:23:59,061
- Are you out of your mind?
- 373
- 00:23:59,294 --> 00:24:01,528
- Bitty feels the same way, right.
- 374
- 00:24:01,530 --> 00:24:04,434
- How the hell do you know what
- Bitty feels, how do you know?
- 375
- 00:24:07,202 --> 00:24:07,971
- Dad, I...
- 376
- 00:24:08,972 --> 00:24:11,907
- I think this is a solution
- worth considering.
- 377
- 00:24:14,242 --> 00:24:18,181
- Well, I've been thinking
- about this for eight years
- 378
- 00:24:18,947 --> 00:24:20,382
- and the answer is no.
- 379
- 00:24:21,783 --> 00:24:24,953
- Thank you for your suggestion.
- Merry Christmas. I'm going to bed.
- 380
- 00:24:29,157 --> 00:24:32,558
- - I tried.
- - She wandered off in the middle of a fucking snowstorm.
- 381
- 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:35,898
- Doesn't snow in Florida.
- 382
- 00:24:37,165 --> 00:24:38,501
- And mind your language.
- 383
- 00:24:45,540 --> 00:24:48,377
- Strong, real strong.
- 384
- 00:25:04,193 --> 00:25:05,528
- I'm not going to force him.
- 385
- 00:25:09,030 --> 00:25:11,501
- You know why she
- wound up in Aurora?
- 386
- 00:25:14,336 --> 00:25:16,673
- 'Cause that liner used
- to run to Amboy.
- 387
- 00:25:17,205 --> 00:25:19,442
- Her dad worked that train.
- 388
- 00:25:21,476 --> 00:25:23,211
- She was trying to go home.
- 389
- 00:25:26,181 --> 00:25:28,318
- She thinks she's still
- a little girl,
- 390
- 00:25:29,283 --> 00:25:31,954
- and she thinks her parents
- are worried sick about her.
- 391
- 00:25:34,356 --> 00:25:37,193
- And all she wants to do is
- get home to her poor mother.
- 392
- 00:25:38,059 --> 00:25:40,363
- She can't figure out
- why she's stuck here,
- 393
- 00:25:40,762 --> 00:25:43,366
- all alone, with some
- strange, old dude.
- 394
- 00:25:51,572 --> 00:25:54,476
- What the hell do you think
- power of attorney is for?
- 395
- 00:26:00,348 --> 00:26:01,483
- Goodnight.
- 396
- 00:26:34,750 --> 00:26:36,386
- I thought you went to bed.
- 397
- 00:26:36,617 --> 00:26:39,254
- I did. I got back up.
- 398
- 00:26:41,790 --> 00:26:43,192
- Nice tree.
- 399
- 00:26:43,826 --> 00:26:45,361
- Your mother likes the pictures.
- 400
- 00:26:46,627 --> 00:26:49,165
- She did something with the
- ornaments, so I got creative.
- 401
- 00:26:49,565 --> 00:26:51,434
- Come on, I'll let
- you win a game.
- 402
- 00:26:53,367 --> 00:26:55,167
- You're not too tired?
- 403
- 00:26:55,169 --> 00:26:57,439
- For my daughter
- who never visits?
- 404
- 00:27:06,714 --> 00:27:09,215
- Emma said she got kicked out
- of her dorm.
- 405
- 00:27:09,217 --> 00:27:10,719
- - What's that all about?
- - Yeah.
- 406
- 00:27:11,486 --> 00:27:14,456
- Yeah. She got caught drinking,
- so stupid.
- 407
- 00:27:15,424 --> 00:27:17,193
- But you know
- what her problem is?
- 408
- 00:27:17,492 --> 00:27:20,096
- She's negative.
- She doesn't get any exercise.
- 409
- 00:27:20,462 --> 00:27:22,732
- Oh. Her problem is
- she's not a student.
- 410
- 00:27:23,264 --> 00:27:27,203
- College is a waste of time, waste
- of money if you're not a student.
- 411
- 00:27:29,370 --> 00:27:30,839
- She's gotta get a degree.
- 412
- 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,472
- No, she doesn't have
- to get a degree.
- 413
- 00:27:33,474 --> 00:27:37,079
- She'll figure it out.
- Look at you, you figured it out.
- 414
- 00:27:40,616 --> 00:27:42,218
- Why can't you sleep?
- 415
- 00:27:43,284 --> 00:27:44,619
- Why can't you sleep?
- 416
- 00:27:45,186 --> 00:27:46,388
- I can sleep.
- 417
- 00:27:50,459 --> 00:27:53,362
- I'm sorry. I ought
- to be here more often.
- 418
- 00:27:54,896 --> 00:27:56,398
- You're here plenty.
- 419
- 00:27:57,499 --> 00:27:59,499
- You got family, you got girls,
- 420
- 00:27:59,501 --> 00:28:01,535
- you got a husband,
- you got a job.
- 421
- 00:28:01,537 --> 00:28:04,273
- You live halfway across
- the country for Chrissake.
- 422
- 00:28:04,705 --> 00:28:05,640
- We're fine.
- 423
- 00:28:05,941 --> 00:28:07,641
- Marion-Down-The-Hall's helpful.
- 424
- 00:28:07,643 --> 00:28:11,547
- She takes mom
- on poker night and whatnot.
- 425
- 00:28:13,514 --> 00:28:16,916
- The two of them,
- a couple of peas in a pod.
- 426
- 00:28:16,918 --> 00:28:18,852
- Both battier than hell.
- 427
- 00:28:18,854 --> 00:28:21,557
- You take great care of her.
- 428
- 00:28:21,924 --> 00:28:23,757
- But it's gotta be hard on you.
- 429
- 00:28:23,759 --> 00:28:25,261
- Oh, Honey.
- 430
- 00:28:25,927 --> 00:28:28,463
- Your mother was always
- a pain in the ass.
- 431
- 00:28:29,630 --> 00:28:32,332
- Gettin' her Irish up,
- stompin' around,
- 432
- 00:28:32,334 --> 00:28:35,605
- all red in the face
- over God knows what.
- 433
- 00:28:36,972 --> 00:28:39,407
- There's no bells
- and whistles, Bit.
- 434
- 00:28:40,375 --> 00:28:42,545
- Love is commitment.
- 435
- 00:28:45,681 --> 00:28:46,716
- Better or worse,
- 436
- 00:28:48,216 --> 00:28:49,684
- sickness and health,
- 437
- 00:28:50,219 --> 00:28:53,723
- death do you part.
- That is the promise.
- 438
- 00:28:56,290 --> 00:28:58,226
- She's gonna get worse, Dad.
- 439
- 00:29:01,296 --> 00:29:03,266
- She's gonna forget everything.
- 440
- 00:29:11,706 --> 00:29:13,309
- She's my girl, Bit.
- 441
- 00:29:14,742 --> 00:29:17,280
- You can't take
- my girl away from me.
- 442
- 00:29:22,451 --> 00:29:24,420
- Shut the lights
- when you're done.
- 443
- 00:29:40,534 --> 00:29:46,373
- <i>♪ Joy to the world
- The Lord has come ♪</i>
- 444
- 00:29:46,375 --> 00:29:52,479
- <i>♪ Let Earth receive her King ♪</i>
- 445
- 00:29:52,481 --> 00:29:58,617
- <i>♪ Let every heart
- Prepare Him room ♪</i>
- 446
- 00:29:58,619 --> 00:30:00,553
- <i>♪ And Heaven and nature sing ♪</i>
- 447
- 00:30:00,555 --> 00:30:02,388
- What's that?
- Is it raining in here.
- 448
- 00:30:02,390 --> 00:30:04,891
- <i>♪ And Heaven and nature sing ♪</i>
- 449
- 00:30:04,893 --> 00:30:07,826
- <i>♪ And Heaven ♪</i>
- 450
- 00:30:07,828 --> 00:30:08,830
- What?
- 451
- 00:30:15,503 --> 00:30:16,871
- - Take care of yourself.
- - Thank you.
- 452
- 00:30:17,371 --> 00:30:18,974
- - Thanks, Father.
- - Yeah, you're welcome.
- 453
- 00:30:19,407 --> 00:30:21,843
- - Marion.
- - Beautiful homily, Father.
- 454
- 00:30:26,682 --> 00:30:27,783
- Bitty Everhardt?
- 455
- 00:30:29,451 --> 00:30:30,620
- It's Gerry.
- 456
- 00:30:31,919 --> 00:30:33,355
- Hoffsteader.
- 457
- 00:30:34,489 --> 00:30:37,260
- - Dommie's little brother, yeah.
- - Oh, yeah.
- 458
- 00:30:38,059 --> 00:30:41,060
- - Hey, I'm sorry about your mom.
- - Oh, thanks.
- 459
- 00:30:41,062 --> 00:30:42,530
- Get your sister.
- 460
- 00:30:44,499 --> 00:30:45,800
- You look great.
- 461
- 00:30:46,335 --> 00:30:47,703
- Uh, construction.
- 462
- 00:30:48,537 --> 00:30:49,639
- Yeah, I took over for Dad.
- 463
- 00:30:49,937 --> 00:30:51,640
- Bitty!
- 464
- 00:30:52,808 --> 00:30:53,809
- Hey, Nick.
- 465
- 00:30:54,076 --> 00:30:55,478
- Hey Ger.
- 466
- 00:30:55,711 --> 00:30:58,614
- - We gotta go.
- - Bye.
- 467
- 00:31:02,017 --> 00:31:03,682
- Grandma drank the Holy Water.
- 468
- 00:31:03,684 --> 00:31:05,553
- Well...
- 469
- 00:31:05,986 --> 00:31:07,555
- Well, at least she's hydrated.
- 470
- 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:13,727
- God will forgive me.
- 471
- 00:31:13,729 --> 00:31:14,963
- - I'll see ya.
- - See ya, Ger.
- 472
- 00:31:15,664 --> 00:31:16,962
- - Who was that?
- - Nice to see you.
- 473
- 00:31:16,964 --> 00:31:18,431
- Gerry Hoff-sniffer.
- 474
- 00:31:18,433 --> 00:31:20,532
- - Don't call him that.
- - He used to beat off
- 475
- 00:31:20,534 --> 00:31:21,800
- sniffing his sister's
- Barbie dolls.
- 476
- 00:31:21,802 --> 00:31:23,470
- - Says who?
- - Says Dommie.
- 477
- 00:31:23,472 --> 00:31:25,571
- - Where's my purse?
- - I have it, Gram.
- 478
- 00:31:25,573 --> 00:31:27,640
- He used to be so tubby
- in junior high.
- 479
- 00:31:27,642 --> 00:31:30,576
- - So were you.
- - Yeah. Old Big Butt Bitty.
- 480
- 00:31:30,578 --> 00:31:33,581
- - Nicky.
- - Does somebody have my purse?
- 481
- 00:31:34,014 --> 00:31:35,615
- I have it, Gram.
- 482
- 00:31:36,984 --> 00:31:38,951
- Well, I'm gonna get my purse.
- 483
- 00:31:38,953 --> 00:31:40,487
- So I said, "Margie,
- 484
- 00:31:40,489 --> 00:31:42,489
- Margie, honey he's a toddler.
- 485
- 00:31:42,491 --> 00:31:44,057
- Of course he likes pancakes."
- 486
- 00:31:44,059 --> 00:31:46,395
- - What do you got, Dad?
- - Who doesn't like pancakes?
- 487
- 00:31:47,028 --> 00:31:49,729
- - I got the obituaries.
- - Bridget, you're so skinny.
- 488
- 00:31:49,731 --> 00:31:51,530
- - Why you reading obituaries?
- - I'm not in them.
- 489
- 00:31:51,532 --> 00:31:52,999
- Come on, cheer up.
- Well, yeah.
- 490
- 00:31:53,001 --> 00:31:53,969
- I guess that's something.
- 491
- 00:31:54,970 --> 00:31:56,469
- Thinner, honey.
- Here, just a little thinner.
- 492
- 00:31:57,905 --> 00:31:58,907
- Fine, you do it.
- 493
- 00:31:59,907 --> 00:32:01,409
- Come on. What's going on?
- 494
- 00:32:03,744 --> 00:32:04,646
- Come on.
- 495
- 00:32:05,813 --> 00:32:06,813
- I hungry.
- 496
- 00:32:06,815 --> 00:32:08,013
- This the age where it starts.
- 497
- 00:32:08,015 --> 00:32:09,451
- It's all about control.
- 498
- 00:32:10,418 --> 00:32:13,685
- Oh, beautiful.
- Thank you, Emma.
- 499
- 00:32:24,532 --> 00:32:27,634
- Bless us, O Lord, for these thy
- gifts which we are about to receive
- 500
- 00:32:27,636 --> 00:32:29,602
- from thy bounty
- through Christ our Lord, amen.
- 501
- 00:32:29,604 --> 00:32:31,507
- Amen.
- 502
- 00:32:32,107 --> 00:32:34,140
- So, Emma, you got a boyfriend?
- 503
- 00:32:34,142 --> 00:32:35,845
- She's got several actually.
- 504
- 00:32:36,077 --> 00:32:37,509
- Cool it, Nicky.
- 505
- 00:32:37,511 --> 00:32:39,045
- Just as easy to love a rich one
- 506
- 00:32:39,047 --> 00:32:40,480
- as a poor one, Squeaks.
- 507
- 00:32:40,482 --> 00:32:42,080
- No bells and whistles.
- 508
- 00:32:42,082 --> 00:32:45,050
- You know my Frankie
- died 17 years ago
- 509
- 00:32:45,052 --> 00:32:46,421
- and I never remarried,
- 510
- 00:32:47,489 --> 00:32:49,692
- although I had plenty
- of chances, and you know why?
- 511
- 00:32:49,925 --> 00:32:52,694
- Hand to God,
- 'cause Frankie never left.
- 512
- 00:32:52,927 --> 00:32:55,194
- Every single night
- he's right there next to me.
- 513
- 00:32:55,196 --> 00:32:57,463
- - Yeah. That's right.
- - Hand to God.
- 514
- 00:32:57,465 --> 00:33:00,767
- He's out there, and when he
- finds you, you watch out,
- 515
- 00:33:00,769 --> 00:33:02,738
- he's never gonna let you go.
- 516
- 00:33:05,607 --> 00:33:07,807
- So I said to Margie,
- "That kid's gonna be
- 517
- 00:33:07,809 --> 00:33:10,112
- big as house
- if you don't watch it."
- 518
- 00:33:10,611 --> 00:33:13,880
- But you know Margie.
- Oh, no. Mmm. Not a peep.
- 519
- 00:33:13,882 --> 00:33:15,818
- You know,
- I'm going to have a baby.
- 520
- 00:33:17,786 --> 00:33:20,823
- Kid's gonna wind up
- with diabetes.
- 521
- 00:33:21,121 --> 00:33:24,025
- Mmm. Mmm. Delicious.
- 522
- 00:33:24,826 --> 00:33:25,861
- So tender.
- 523
- 00:33:29,063 --> 00:33:30,730
- - What? What?
- - Nothing.
- 524
- 00:33:30,732 --> 00:33:32,632
- - What's matter with you two?
- - That's great news, Mom.
- 525
- 00:33:32,634 --> 00:33:33,999
- Yeah. Right?
- 526
- 00:33:34,001 --> 00:33:35,101
- Did you know this, Dad?
- 527
- 00:33:35,103 --> 00:33:36,502
- - I heard.
- - Did you know?
- 528
- 00:33:36,504 --> 00:33:38,104
- We saved all your
- old baby clothes.
- 529
- 00:33:38,106 --> 00:33:39,842
- Great. Number three.
- 530
- 00:33:52,854 --> 00:33:53,989
- Here.
- 531
- 00:33:54,688 --> 00:33:55,857
- There you go.
- 532
- 00:33:56,691 --> 00:33:59,694
- - Here.
- - Why did I get on that train?
- 533
- 00:34:02,129 --> 00:34:03,598
- I live here.
- 534
- 00:34:04,232 --> 00:34:08,470
- Oh, God. I don't know
- what's the matter with me.
- 535
- 00:34:10,972 --> 00:34:13,008
- Oh, yes. Yes I do.
- 536
- 00:34:16,310 --> 00:34:19,013
- Should I be in a home,
- do you think?
- 537
- 00:34:20,281 --> 00:34:21,617
- What do you think?
- 538
- 00:34:22,584 --> 00:34:25,521
- I don't know. I don't know.
- 539
- 00:34:32,026 --> 00:34:33,761
- Night, Mama.
- 540
- 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:41,669
- Goodnight.
- 541
- 00:35:01,890 --> 00:35:03,723
- <i>How's everything going there?</i>
- 542
- 00:35:03,725 --> 00:35:06,028
- Terrible.
- Dad won't even consider it.
- 543
- 00:35:06,660 --> 00:35:10,064
- <i>Well, I don't blame him. Nobody wants
- to be alone for the rest of their life.</i>
- 544
- 00:35:12,267 --> 00:35:13,535
- <i>Hello?</i>
- 545
- 00:35:14,336 --> 00:35:16,671
- - <i>Hello?</i>
- - I'm sorry, I'm here.
- 546
- 00:35:16,972 --> 00:35:19,339
- <i>So, hey.
- What's going on with Emma?</i>
- 547
- 00:35:19,341 --> 00:35:22,211
- Nothing, you know.
- She's fine.
- 548
- 00:35:23,211 --> 00:35:25,814
- <i>Well, you know she didn't
- register for next semester.</i>
- 549
- 00:35:26,180 --> 00:35:29,281
- - What?
- - <i>Her advisor called me this morning</i>
- 550
- 00:35:29,283 --> 00:35:30,818
- <i>saying she wasn't coming back.</i>
- 551
- 00:35:31,318 --> 00:35:33,688
- All right, you're gonna
- love this next move.
- 552
- 00:35:34,321 --> 00:35:36,791
- - I think I'm going to raise you one candy.
- - Gross, get a fork.
- 553
- 00:35:37,258 --> 00:35:39,595
- One, two, three.
- 554
- 00:35:39,794 --> 00:35:43,962
- - Huh. Not bad.
- - Not bad. Yeah.
- 555
- 00:35:43,964 --> 00:35:46,702
- Oh, your grandma and I used
- to take a lot of road trips.
- 556
- 00:35:47,102 --> 00:35:50,870
- She loves road trips. This time we're
- going straight down to Florida,
- 557
- 00:35:50,872 --> 00:35:52,671
- then we're going
- across the country,
- 558
- 00:35:52,673 --> 00:35:54,642
- be up by you in time
- for Mary's wedding.
- 559
- 00:35:55,377 --> 00:35:56,645
- What?
- 560
- 00:35:58,046 --> 00:36:00,712
- - What are you, Thelma and Louise?
- - Shh. You're going to wake mom.
- 561
- 00:36:00,714 --> 00:36:03,915
- She does great in Florida,
- Nicholas, every year she's better.
- 562
- 00:36:03,917 --> 00:36:05,685
- - No, she isn't.
- - Yes.
- 563
- 00:36:05,687 --> 00:36:06,953
- - No.
- - How do you know?
- 564
- 00:36:06,955 --> 00:36:08,254
- Because that's
- not how it works.
- 565
- 00:36:08,256 --> 00:36:10,055
- How it works is she gets worse.
- 566
- 00:36:10,057 --> 00:36:12,258
- No matter where you take her,
- every year she gets worse.
- 567
- 00:36:12,260 --> 00:36:13,426
- - Okay?
- - Who?
- 568
- 00:36:13,428 --> 00:36:14,797
- - Who, honey?
- - Nobody, Mom.
- 569
- 00:36:15,129 --> 00:36:16,763
- - Nobody, Mom.
- - Nobody, sweetheart.
- 570
- 00:36:16,765 --> 00:36:17,964
- Why don't you go back to bed?
- 571
- 00:36:17,966 --> 00:36:19,966
- No. I don't wanna go to bed.
- 572
- 00:36:19,968 --> 00:36:22,267
- - I want to stay here.
- - I'll take you, Grandma. Come on.
- 573
- 00:36:22,269 --> 00:36:23,336
- - Come.
- - No, hold on.
- 574
- 00:36:23,338 --> 00:36:24,872
- - Why?
- - Come, come.
- 575
- 00:36:30,444 --> 00:36:31,877
- - Who's that?
- - Nick.
- 576
- 00:36:31,879 --> 00:36:33,046
- - Nicky.
- - Oh, what is that?
- 577
- 00:36:33,048 --> 00:36:34,279
- Do you know who that is?
- 578
- 00:36:34,281 --> 00:36:35,984
- Of course she does.
- 579
- 00:36:36,785 --> 00:36:38,821
- You know who I am, sweetheart.
- 580
- 00:36:40,821 --> 00:36:42,624
- He's my boyfriend.
- 581
- 00:36:43,425 --> 00:36:45,258
- - See?
- - What do you mean see?
- 582
- 00:36:45,260 --> 00:36:47,225
- You're her boyfriend?
- Is that what you are?
- 583
- 00:36:47,227 --> 00:36:49,761
- - Well, he's not, not her boyfriend.
- - No, he isn't!
- 584
- 00:36:49,763 --> 00:36:51,163
- - Well, he kinda is.
- - No.
- 585
- 00:36:51,165 --> 00:36:53,700
- - Who?
- - He is not. Emma, for Chrissake.
- 586
- 00:36:53,702 --> 00:36:55,133
- Yes, he is, Nicky!
- 587
- 00:36:55,135 --> 00:36:58,738
- - She knows who I am.
- - Who are you talking about?
- 588
- 00:36:58,740 --> 00:37:00,138
- You, sweetheart.
- 589
- 00:37:00,140 --> 00:37:02,140
- - Dad.
- - He's your husband, Grandma.
- 590
- 00:37:02,142 --> 00:37:04,711
- - Don't tell her, damn it.
- - She knows I'm her husband.
- 591
- 00:37:04,713 --> 00:37:05,944
- I know I'm his husband.
- 592
- 00:37:05,946 --> 00:37:08,314
- - You're my husband!
- - No, you don't, Mom.
- 593
- 00:37:08,316 --> 00:37:09,881
- - I do.
- - Yes, she does.
- 594
- 00:37:09,883 --> 00:37:11,283
- - Now you're telling her.
- - No, I'm not.
- 595
- 00:37:11,285 --> 00:37:12,250
- Yes, you are!
- 596
- 00:37:12,252 --> 00:37:13,785
- You just told her
- 597
- 00:37:13,787 --> 00:37:15,721
- that she didn't know
- I was her husband.
- 598
- 00:37:15,723 --> 00:37:16,988
- Because she doesn't!
- 599
- 00:37:16,990 --> 00:37:19,325
- She just told you she did!
- 600
- 00:37:19,327 --> 00:37:21,060
- Because Emma told her!
- 601
- 00:37:21,062 --> 00:37:22,897
- Answer the phone somebody.
- 602
- 00:37:23,198 --> 00:37:25,834
- - I'm getting it.
- - Thanks, honey. Answer that.
- 603
- 00:37:26,501 --> 00:37:28,000
- - I mean, she's...
- - Hello?
- 604
- 00:37:28,002 --> 00:37:31,303
- she's flipping
- people off in church, Dad.
- 605
- 00:37:31,305 --> 00:37:34,108
- - She's drinking the holy water.
- - So?
- 606
- 00:37:34,475 --> 00:37:38,012
- What do you mean so? You're the one...
- Oh, Goddamn it.
- 607
- 00:37:38,312 --> 00:37:40,312
- - You're a kid for Chrissake.
- - Hey, come on.
- 608
- 00:37:40,314 --> 00:37:42,948
- - Calm down.
- - This damn thing doesn't work.
- 609
- 00:37:42,950 --> 00:37:45,984
- You said you'd fix it
- a hundred times, you turkey.
- 610
- 00:37:45,986 --> 00:37:47,923
- It's not working.
- 611
- 00:37:48,490 --> 00:37:49,857
- - Grandma.
- - What?
- 612
- 00:37:50,959 --> 00:37:52,361
- It's a stapler.
- 613
- 00:37:52,827 --> 00:37:53,896
- It's a staple.
- 614
- 00:37:54,495 --> 00:37:55,963
- A stapler.
- 615
- 00:38:07,242 --> 00:38:09,508
- What the hell
- am I doing with this?
- 616
- 00:38:13,180 --> 00:38:14,282
- Oh, God.
- 617
- 00:38:16,316 --> 00:38:18,119
- Yeah, yuk it up.
- 618
- 00:38:19,086 --> 00:38:24,225
- It really is pretty hilarious,
- life's just one big riot.
- 619
- 00:38:31,533 --> 00:38:37,139
- Just ship me out. Put me on a canoe
- and ship me out to the ice float.
- 620
- 00:38:41,810 --> 00:38:43,011
- Shit.
- 621
- 00:38:44,879 --> 00:38:46,348
- - Hey.
- - What?
- 622
- 00:38:46,914 --> 00:38:48,548
- Hey, come back. Come here.
- 623
- 00:38:48,550 --> 00:38:50,017
- No.
- 624
- 00:38:51,285 --> 00:38:53,021
- You know what?
- Let me ask you something.
- 625
- 00:38:54,522 --> 00:38:57,359
- What'd you fly all
- the way out here for? Why?
- 626
- 00:38:58,091 --> 00:38:59,558
- Because Mom was missing.
- 627
- 00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,863
- No, because I asked you to.
- 628
- 00:39:03,064 --> 00:39:05,298
- Isn't that right?
- I asked you to.
- 629
- 00:39:05,300 --> 00:39:08,470
- I never do that, okay.
- But I need some help.
- 630
- 00:39:09,236 --> 00:39:11,904
- - I'm working on it, Nicky.
- - There's no time to work on it.
- 631
- 00:39:11,906 --> 00:39:14,473
- Jimmy Laciak is holding these spots.
- That's a big ass deal,
- 632
- 00:39:14,475 --> 00:39:17,112
- and he was supposed to have
- the paperwork two days ago.
- 633
- 00:39:18,245 --> 00:39:20,379
- - Okay.
- - You just rip the Band-Aid off
- 634
- 00:39:20,381 --> 00:39:23,886
- and say, "Guess what, we're
- coming in with moving boxes."
- 635
- 00:39:24,318 --> 00:39:25,219
- Okay.
- 636
- 00:40:03,457 --> 00:40:04,926
- Emma.
- 637
- 00:40:05,325 --> 00:40:06,828
- Emma.
- 638
- 00:40:08,196 --> 00:40:09,097
- What?
- 639
- 00:40:09,464 --> 00:40:10,432
- Come for a run with me.
- 640
- 00:40:11,298 --> 00:40:13,432
- You'll feel great afterward,
- I'm telling you...
- 641
- 00:40:49,169 --> 00:40:52,206
- <i>I'm casting my vote for you.</i>
- 642
- 00:40:57,312 --> 00:40:59,145
- Well, there's my baby!
- 643
- 00:40:59,147 --> 00:41:00,712
- No, sit down.
- 644
- 00:41:00,714 --> 00:41:02,348
- You've got dye all over you.
- 645
- 00:41:02,350 --> 00:41:04,549
- Drink your protein drink,
- sweetheart.
- 646
- 00:41:04,551 --> 00:41:07,289
- Meet my boyfriend, Mr. Bossy.
- 647
- 00:41:08,488 --> 00:41:11,057
- - Do you need anything, honey?
- - No thanks. I'm fine, Mom.
- 648
- 00:41:11,059 --> 00:41:13,692
- She doesn't need anything.
- Drink your protein drink.
- 649
- 00:41:13,694 --> 00:41:15,296
- My protein... Ugh.
- 650
- 00:41:17,097 --> 00:41:20,098
- Oh, come on. It's just
- like a chocolate malt.
- 651
- 00:41:20,100 --> 00:41:23,472
- Oh, yeah. You wouldn't know a chocolate
- malt if it bit you in the hiney.
- 652
- 00:41:24,138 --> 00:41:26,441
- Because I was a fountain girl.
- 653
- 00:41:26,707 --> 00:41:29,310
- I was a good fountain girl.
- 654
- 00:41:30,577 --> 00:41:31,676
- In...
- 655
- 00:41:31,678 --> 00:41:33,314
- - Amboy.
- - Amboy, yeah.
- 656
- 00:41:34,448 --> 00:41:35,316
- My...
- 657
- 00:41:36,383 --> 00:41:40,185
- My father, consequently,
- works on the trains,
- 658
- 00:41:40,187 --> 00:41:43,122
- - and he's a...
- - Engineer.
- 659
- 00:41:43,124 --> 00:41:45,290
- An engineer, that's right,
- 660
- 00:41:45,292 --> 00:41:47,325
- and he was an engineer
- and he would get off the train
- 661
- 00:41:47,327 --> 00:41:50,331
- and he would bring me
- chocolate malts.
- 662
- 00:41:51,631 --> 00:41:53,232
- Yeah.
- 663
- 00:41:53,234 --> 00:41:56,569
- Oh, boy. Because I was sick.
- Yeah, I had...
- 664
- 00:41:56,571 --> 00:41:57,602
- You had Polio.
- 665
- 00:41:57,604 --> 00:42:00,141
- Polio. Yeah, I had Polio.
- 666
- 00:42:00,441 --> 00:42:05,611
- And then that's all I did all day
- was drink those chocolate malts,
- 667
- 00:42:05,613 --> 00:42:07,779
- and consequently I...
- 668
- 00:42:07,781 --> 00:42:09,216
- - Got fat.
- - Fat!
- 669
- 00:42:09,649 --> 00:42:11,252
- - Dad.
- - What?
- 670
- 00:42:11,752 --> 00:42:13,084
- She wasn't fat.
- 671
- 00:42:13,086 --> 00:42:14,088
- She was very fat.
- 672
- 00:42:14,354 --> 00:42:17,258
- Yeah, I was very, very fat.
- 673
- 00:42:17,792 --> 00:42:20,362
- And then I was a housewife,
- 674
- 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:24,263
- - You were not.
- - No, you were a career woman, Ruth.
- 675
- 00:42:24,265 --> 00:42:28,136
- You were two-time
- Administrator of the Year.
- 676
- 00:42:29,037 --> 00:42:30,305
- Holy shit.
- 677
- 00:42:31,638 --> 00:42:33,207
- I knew that.
- 678
- 00:42:36,077 --> 00:42:37,479
- How do you two know each other?
- 679
- 00:42:39,546 --> 00:42:42,117
- She's our daughter,
- for Chrissake, Ruth.
- 680
- 00:42:45,586 --> 00:42:47,189
- I'm gonna get my purse.
- 681
- 00:42:49,624 --> 00:42:51,122
- Don't touch anything.
- 682
- 00:42:51,124 --> 00:42:52,792
- I'm not gonna touch anything.
- 683
- 00:42:52,794 --> 00:42:54,396
- I'm getting my purse.
- 684
- 00:42:57,330 --> 00:42:59,468
- We're going to Edna's
- for dinner tonight.
- 685
- 00:43:02,269 --> 00:43:03,771
- You feel like doing me a favor?
- 686
- 00:43:04,805 --> 00:43:07,138
- Here give me your hand.
- 687
- 00:43:07,140 --> 00:43:08,510
- - It's your turn.
- - Wait.
- 688
- 00:43:08,810 --> 00:43:10,542
- In here?
- 689
- 00:43:10,544 --> 00:43:12,278
- Rub that in your hair.
- 690
- 00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,448
- Yeah. There you go.
- 691
- 00:43:15,615 --> 00:43:17,716
- Don't get soap
- in your eyes, Mom.
- 692
- 00:43:17,718 --> 00:43:19,250
- Close your eyes.
- 693
- 00:43:19,252 --> 00:43:22,457
- You're so nice
- to do this for me.
- 694
- 00:43:23,191 --> 00:43:24,559
- You did it for me.
- 695
- 00:43:25,792 --> 00:43:28,694
- - Yeah. I did, didn't I?
- - Yeah.
- 696
- 00:43:28,696 --> 00:43:31,366
- Oh, God.
- 697
- 00:43:32,566 --> 00:43:37,569
- Nicky hated the bath.
- He would kick and scream.
- 698
- 00:43:37,571 --> 00:43:40,408
- Ah! Then I said,
- "Oh, to hell with it."
- 699
- 00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,476
- I just let him be dirty.
- 700
- 00:43:42,877 --> 00:43:45,047
- But you were a good girl.
- 701
- 00:43:48,548 --> 00:43:50,651
- I should've been
- a better mother.
- 702
- 00:43:52,586 --> 00:43:54,121
- You are a great mom.
- 703
- 00:43:59,727 --> 00:44:01,727
- Do I need to wash my hair?
- 704
- 00:44:01,729 --> 00:44:03,229
- No, you already did,
- you're done.
- 705
- 00:44:03,231 --> 00:44:04,729
- Wash your who-who.
- 706
- 00:44:04,731 --> 00:44:06,100
- Who-who.
- 707
- 00:44:06,734 --> 00:44:10,472
- Well, you got a cute
- little tushie.
- 708
- 00:44:11,671 --> 00:44:13,207
- Where's... give me that.
- 709
- 00:44:16,743 --> 00:44:18,379
- Do you have a boyfriend?
- 710
- 00:44:19,747 --> 00:44:21,283
- I have a husband.
- 711
- 00:44:23,618 --> 00:44:25,087
- Are you happy?
- 712
- 00:44:27,854 --> 00:44:29,223
- I'm lonely.
- 713
- 00:44:32,426 --> 00:44:34,129
- Do I need to wash my hair?
- 714
- 00:44:34,495 --> 00:44:37,696
- No, here.
- Mom, rinse your who-who.
- 715
- 00:44:37,698 --> 00:44:39,367
- - My who-who.
- - Yeah.
- 716
- 00:44:48,276 --> 00:44:50,145
- Oh, I don't
- wanna upset her.
- 717
- 00:44:50,377 --> 00:44:52,343
- - Who?
- - Whoever's shoes those are.
- 718
- 00:44:52,345 --> 00:44:53,779
- Those are your shoes, Mom. Here.
- 719
- 00:44:53,781 --> 00:44:55,480
- They are not. I...
- 720
- 00:44:55,482 --> 00:44:58,185
- Those are the ugliest things
- I've seen in my life.
- 721
- 00:44:58,653 --> 00:45:01,352
- Come on, Mom. Put your shoes on.
- Marion is waiting for you.
- 722
- 00:45:01,354 --> 00:45:02,787
- Marion. I'm going with you?
- 723
- 00:45:02,789 --> 00:45:04,656
- Yeah. Hey, doll.
- 724
- 00:45:04,658 --> 00:45:05,794
- Good. Hi.
- 725
- 00:45:06,394 --> 00:45:08,761
- Get the folder.
- Get the folder.
- 726
- 00:45:08,763 --> 00:45:10,531
- Just let me get dressed.
- 727
- 00:45:20,941 --> 00:45:23,611
- Did you go into my computer
- and log into my school account?
- 728
- 00:45:26,214 --> 00:45:26,948
- Somebody did.
- 729
- 00:45:27,582 --> 00:45:29,348
- Somebody went in
- and signed me up
- 730
- 00:45:29,350 --> 00:45:31,486
- for a bunch of random
- classes. That wasn't you?
- 731
- 00:45:31,752 --> 00:45:32,687
- No.
- 732
- 00:45:33,955 --> 00:45:35,257
- Liar.
- 733
- 00:45:37,624 --> 00:45:38,592
- How does it feel?
- 734
- 00:45:39,693 --> 00:45:42,396
- You lied to me about filling
- out your dorm application.
- 735
- 00:45:42,796 --> 00:45:44,696
- Because I didn't
- want you on me. Okay?
- 736
- 00:45:44,698 --> 00:45:47,601
- I didn't feel like dealing
- with your crazy hovering.
- 737
- 00:45:48,568 --> 00:45:49,771
- Were you ever going to do it?
- 738
- 00:45:51,839 --> 00:45:52,805
- Huh?
- 739
- 00:45:52,807 --> 00:45:54,509
- - Yes.
- - When?
- 740
- 00:45:56,711 --> 00:45:58,847
- When I decided whether
- or not I was going back.
- 741
- 00:45:59,446 --> 00:46:00,745
- - Okay?
- - Where's the...
- 742
- 00:46:00,747 --> 00:46:02,615
- Doesn't anybody know
- how to knock?
- 743
- 00:46:02,617 --> 00:46:04,450
- - Do you mind?
- - Hey, I'm not looking. Where's the folder?
- 744
- 00:46:04,452 --> 00:46:06,187
- - Nick. Why would you do that?
- - Come on.
- 745
- 00:46:06,386 --> 00:46:09,323
- - Would you get out here, Bitty. Damn it.
- - Just give me a minute!
- 746
- 00:46:09,723 --> 00:46:10,624
- God.
- 747
- 00:46:11,959 --> 00:46:14,328
- I am a grown up, okay?
- 748
- 00:46:14,861 --> 00:46:17,662
- God, you make me feel like
- there's something wrong with me.
- 749
- 00:46:17,664 --> 00:46:19,733
- - There's nothing wrong with you.
- - Yeah, I know.
- 750
- 00:46:22,937 --> 00:46:26,272
- I would have given anything
- to go to college, Emma.
- 751
- 00:46:26,274 --> 00:46:27,305
- I know.
- 752
- 00:46:27,307 --> 00:46:29,210
- You have no perspective.
- 753
- 00:46:29,709 --> 00:46:32,213
- You have no idea
- how lucky you are.
- 754
- 00:46:34,814 --> 00:46:36,784
- Do you think I'm trying
- to hate school?
- 755
- 00:46:37,017 --> 00:46:39,484
- You think I don't want to get
- out of bed in the morning?
- 756
- 00:46:39,486 --> 00:46:44,022
- That I like lying there feeling like
- a piece of shit for blowing it,
- 757
- 00:46:44,024 --> 00:46:45,559
- for wasting Dad's money?
- 758
- 00:46:46,026 --> 00:46:48,493
- Laying there thinking about
- how much you wanted to go
- 759
- 00:46:48,495 --> 00:46:51,863
- until I wanna throw myself out the
- window because I can't take it,
- 760
- 00:46:51,865 --> 00:46:53,634
- you think that's fun for me?
- 761
- 00:46:53,934 --> 00:46:56,338
- Honey. Why didn't you tell me?
- 762
- 00:46:58,205 --> 00:46:59,370
- 'Cause you would just try
- to get me to go
- 763
- 00:46:59,372 --> 00:47:00,774
- on one of your stupid runs.
- 764
- 00:47:01,475 --> 00:47:03,511
- Like you're not a fucking mess.
- 765
- 00:47:04,312 --> 00:47:05,647
- I am not a mess.
- 766
- 00:47:08,515 --> 00:47:11,917
- This is ridiculous, Dad. Come
- on, This is silly. I know it's hard,
- 767
- 00:47:11,919 --> 00:47:16,992
- but I'm begging you, okay? This is
- the best memory care in Chicago!
- 768
- 00:47:17,390 --> 00:47:18,792
- Let me tell you something,
- 769
- 00:47:19,459 --> 00:47:21,593
- those pictures on
- the tree in there,
- 770
- 00:47:21,595 --> 00:47:23,395
- tell her how
- she takes her coffee,
- 771
- 00:47:23,397 --> 00:47:25,064
- how many ice cubes
- she likes in her scotch.
- 772
- 00:47:25,066 --> 00:47:26,468
- That's memory care.
- 773
- 00:47:27,635 --> 00:47:29,600
- I was there for every memory
- she made in last 60 years,
- 774
- 00:47:29,602 --> 00:47:32,604
- and if I wasn't there, I heard
- about it at least 37 times,
- 775
- 00:47:32,606 --> 00:47:35,542
- so I am the best
- memory care in Chicago!
- 776
- 00:47:35,843 --> 00:47:37,542
- I bathe her, I feed her,
- 777
- 00:47:37,544 --> 00:47:39,712
- I give her her pills,
- I wipe her ass
- 778
- 00:47:39,714 --> 00:47:42,348
- and I do it a hell
- of a lot better than some aide,
- 779
- 00:47:42,350 --> 00:47:43,816
- who does not give
- one goddamn hoot
- 780
- 00:47:43,818 --> 00:47:46,287
- about over who she spent
- 60 years becoming!
- 781
- 00:47:46,687 --> 00:47:48,354
- Put some clothes on, we're late.
- 782
- 00:47:48,356 --> 00:47:49,888
- And get rid of that thing.
- 783
- 00:47:49,890 --> 00:47:52,661
- I don't want your
- mother to see it. Goddamn it!
- 784
- 00:47:56,097 --> 00:47:58,464
- You couldn't have
- waited one minute, Nick?
- 785
- 00:47:58,466 --> 00:48:02,133
- Couldn't wait? Couldn't wait? What!
- What the fuck am I even doing?
- 786
- 00:48:03,504 --> 00:48:05,006
- Ah, Jesus.
- 787
- 00:48:05,606 --> 00:48:07,075
- What's the matter with you, huh?
- 788
- 00:48:07,707 --> 00:48:10,311
- - It's sad!
- - It's sad, Nicky, God!
- 789
- 00:48:15,615 --> 00:48:16,850
- Hey, hey, hey.
- 790
- 00:48:17,450 --> 00:48:18,619
- Calm down.
- 791
- 00:48:18,852 --> 00:48:21,419
- Just what are you,
- dead inside?
- 792
- 00:48:21,421 --> 00:48:22,490
- Almost.
- 793
- 00:48:24,557 --> 00:48:27,859
- I don't want to go
- to Edna's. I hate Edna.
- 794
- 00:48:27,861 --> 00:48:30,162
- All she ever does is talk about
- her stupid hip replacement.
- 795
- 00:48:30,164 --> 00:48:31,700
- Well then don't go.
- 796
- 00:48:35,935 --> 00:48:37,504
- Wanna stay with me?
- 797
- 00:48:38,004 --> 00:48:39,707
- - No.
- - Come on.
- 798
- 00:48:42,510 --> 00:48:44,845
- I'll just tell Dad
- you got menopause.
- 799
- 00:49:30,825 --> 00:49:33,428
- Hi. Is this
- Hoffsteader Construction?
- 800
- 00:49:33,928 --> 00:49:38,566
- Oh, yeah. Is this Gerry?
- Hi, it's Bitty.
- 801
- 00:49:38,798 --> 00:49:43,405
- Yeah. Hi. Hi, yeah, listen...
- 802
- 00:49:43,771 --> 00:49:47,408
- You guys don't happen
- to do locks, do you?
- 803
- 00:50:41,028 --> 00:50:42,163
- Shit.
- 804
- 00:50:43,129 --> 00:50:45,296
- I was thinking about a lock
- with the key,
- 805
- 00:50:45,298 --> 00:50:47,265
- but with the key
- on the inside, you know?
- 806
- 00:50:47,267 --> 00:50:49,968
- Yeah, yeah, all right. So,
- you know, you lock the door,
- 807
- 00:50:49,970 --> 00:50:51,270
- - hide the key from her.
- - Yeah, exactly.
- 808
- 00:50:51,272 --> 00:50:53,138
- Got it. It's smart. Uh...
- 809
- 00:50:53,140 --> 00:50:55,540
- Okay, yeah. Do you want this,
- back door, too?
- 810
- 00:50:55,542 --> 00:50:56,741
- - Yes, that would be great.
- - Okay.
- 811
- 00:50:56,743 --> 00:50:58,877
- If you have time,
- I don't want...
- 812
- 00:50:58,879 --> 00:51:01,583
- I got, for you,
- all the time in the world.
- 813
- 00:51:01,948 --> 00:51:04,818
- Uh, I mean, it's not
- gonna take all day.
- 814
- 00:51:05,553 --> 00:51:08,020
- - Okay.
- - It'll be like, about half hour.
- 815
- 00:51:08,022 --> 00:51:09,557
- - Okay.
- - Each.
- 816
- 00:51:10,323 --> 00:51:12,124
- - Um...
- - So, yeah.
- 817
- 00:51:12,126 --> 00:51:14,560
- Hey, do you want a...
- There's a sandwich...
- 818
- 00:51:14,562 --> 00:51:17,162
- There's corned beef from
- Marion-Down-The-Hall.
- 819
- 00:51:17,164 --> 00:51:18,964
- There's a lot of leftovers,
- 820
- 00:51:18,966 --> 00:51:21,169
- and I don't know,
- coffee or something.
- 821
- 00:51:22,202 --> 00:51:25,736
- - Yes.
- - Okay. Great. I'll just... I'll get it.
- 822
- 00:51:27,575 --> 00:51:31,078
- He's a fantastic guy.
- He really...
- 823
- 00:51:32,046 --> 00:51:33,181
- He really is.
- 824
- 00:51:33,948 --> 00:51:36,518
- It's just, you know.
- He's a checklist guy.
- 825
- 00:51:37,084 --> 00:51:39,584
- College, check.
- Corporate law, check.
- 826
- 00:51:39,586 --> 00:51:40,919
- Wife, kids, check, check, check.
- 827
- 00:51:40,921 --> 00:51:44,658
- Which is fine,
- you know, but I'm not.
- 828
- 00:51:45,091 --> 00:51:49,060
- And so, I'm sorry. I shouldn't
- be telling you all this stuff,
- 829
- 00:51:49,062 --> 00:51:50,328
- I just don't...
- 830
- 00:51:50,330 --> 00:51:52,897
- I don't... What is...
- What's...
- 831
- 00:51:52,899 --> 00:51:54,001
- Here.
- 832
- 00:52:01,774 --> 00:52:04,676
- I mean, I was 20
- when we got married.
- 833
- 00:52:04,678 --> 00:52:06,214
- - Good God.
- - Yeah.
- 834
- 00:52:06,946 --> 00:52:10,084
- Oh, my... That's Emma's age.
- 835
- 00:52:10,751 --> 00:52:13,021
- - Yeah.
- - And she can barely tie her shoes.
- 836
- 00:52:14,220 --> 00:52:15,556
- And Mary.
- 837
- 00:52:15,823 --> 00:52:18,189
- Mary at 20, she thought
- she was a lesbian.
- 838
- 00:52:18,191 --> 00:52:22,093
- Now she's out in Sacramento
- with her fiancé.
- 839
- 00:52:22,095 --> 00:52:23,564
- Hey, you want...
- 840
- 00:52:24,330 --> 00:52:26,064
- - Want a cigarette?
- - Absolutely.
- 841
- 00:52:26,066 --> 00:52:28,236
- Oh, God. I haven't had
- a cigarette in like 20 years.
- 842
- 00:52:28,635 --> 00:52:30,037
- - These are my daughter's.
- - Thank you.
- 843
- 00:52:30,336 --> 00:52:33,640
- - I don't really drink either.
- - Don't jack 'em.
- 844
- 00:52:37,711 --> 00:52:39,111
- You really don't smoke.
- 845
- 00:52:39,113 --> 00:52:40,245
- Oh. I'm sorry.
- 846
- 00:52:40,247 --> 00:52:41,716
- Mm-hmm.
- 847
- 00:52:44,718 --> 00:52:45,920
- That's a trick.
- 848
- 00:52:47,720 --> 00:52:50,857
- - Mmm. Here. Yeah.
- - Thank you.
- 849
- 00:52:54,894 --> 00:52:57,598
- You know, everyone thinks
- being alone is so bad.
- 850
- 00:52:58,131 --> 00:53:01,668
- So... lonely. Mmm.
- 851
- 00:53:03,403 --> 00:53:05,005
- You know what's lonely?
- 852
- 00:53:06,205 --> 00:53:09,142
- Lying awake in the middle of the
- night thinking, "This is it.
- 853
- 00:53:09,977 --> 00:53:13,011
- This is the rest of my life,
- this is as good as it gets."
- 854
- 00:53:13,013 --> 00:53:15,147
- And then looking over at
- the man you've been married to
- 855
- 00:53:15,149 --> 00:53:19,721
- for the last 20 years and
- thinking, he must be awake, too.
- 856
- 00:53:20,053 --> 00:53:20,821
- Right?
- 857
- 00:53:21,622 --> 00:53:24,258
- He must be feeling
- the same way I am.
- 858
- 00:53:24,758 --> 00:53:28,830
- But looking over at him to see
- him sleeping like a baby?
- 859
- 00:53:29,729 --> 00:53:32,766
- That. That is lonely.
- 860
- 00:53:36,035 --> 00:53:36,937
- Yeah.
- 861
- 00:53:46,312 --> 00:53:47,347
- I get it.
- 862
- 00:53:47,781 --> 00:53:50,118
- - I'm divorced, too.
- - Oh. Um...
- 863
- 00:53:50,783 --> 00:53:52,854
- - I'm sorry. Listen I'm...
- - God you smell good.
- 864
- 00:53:53,754 --> 00:53:55,656
- You always fucking
- smell so good.
- 865
- 00:53:56,156 --> 00:53:57,191
- What? Oh.
- 866
- 00:53:58,091 --> 00:53:59,491
- - Wait, I'm sorry.
- - Hey, Ger!
- 867
- 00:53:59,493 --> 00:54:01,663
- What? Oh!
- 868
- 00:54:03,097 --> 00:54:04,031
- Whoops.
- 869
- 00:54:05,298 --> 00:54:06,865
- - 'Sup, Nick.
- - Hey.
- 870
- 00:54:06,867 --> 00:54:08,403
- What happened with Edna?
- 871
- 00:54:08,836 --> 00:54:10,671
- - She died.
- - What?
- 872
- 00:54:10,970 --> 00:54:12,873
- Yeah. She died this morning.
- 873
- 00:54:14,006 --> 00:54:16,341
- Nah, I'm just screwing with you.
- She's in the hospital.
- 874
- 00:54:16,343 --> 00:54:19,944
- Did you change the locks? Everybody's
- standing at the front door.
- 875
- 00:54:19,946 --> 00:54:21,178
- You should let them in.
- 876
- 00:54:21,180 --> 00:54:22,684
- Oh, shit.
- 877
- 00:54:23,149 --> 00:54:24,251
- Yup.
- 878
- 00:54:29,323 --> 00:54:33,060
- Shit. I'm just gonna get the door.
- 879
- 00:54:40,133 --> 00:54:42,834
- Hi. I'm sorry. I couldn't
- hear you, I had music on.
- 880
- 00:54:42,836 --> 00:54:45,006
- - The heck's going on in here?
- - Sorry, Dad.
- 881
- 00:54:45,972 --> 00:54:47,471
- - Smoking in here?
- - No.
- 882
- 00:54:47,473 --> 00:54:49,943
- - Are you my baby?
- - Smoking in my house?
- 883
- 00:54:50,943 --> 00:54:52,877
- - You are too smoking in my house.
- - No, I'm not, Dad.
- 884
- 00:54:52,879 --> 00:54:55,383
- - I am so happy to see you.
- - Oh, you, too.
- 885
- 00:54:56,115 --> 00:54:57,482
- What the heck are you wearing?
- 886
- 00:54:57,484 --> 00:54:59,153
- - Who?
- - Oh, I...
- 887
- 00:54:59,787 --> 00:55:01,051
- Is that your mother's
- good blouse?
- 888
- 00:55:01,053 --> 00:55:02,386
- - I got hot.
- - Whose mother?
- 889
- 00:55:02,388 --> 00:55:03,821
- I only had that sweater.
- You know? Hi, honey.
- 890
- 00:55:03,823 --> 00:55:05,256
- I just got it dry cleaned.
- 891
- 00:55:05,258 --> 00:55:07,394
- Who's that? Who is that?
- 892
- 00:55:07,827 --> 00:55:08,826
- - Who?
- - Who's who?
- 893
- 00:55:08,828 --> 00:55:09,763
- This.
- 894
- 00:55:10,897 --> 00:55:13,767
- That's Gerry Hoffsteader.
- Remember, Dad? From Mass.
- 895
- 00:55:14,001 --> 00:55:15,836
- Nice to see you again,
- Mr. Everhardt.
- 896
- 00:55:16,403 --> 00:55:19,837
- Dad, it's Gerry. Hoffsteader.
- He's a construction guy.
- 897
- 00:55:19,839 --> 00:55:23,475
- He did... Did you see the Hoffsteader
- Construction truck outside?
- 898
- 00:55:23,477 --> 00:55:28,382
- He's a construction guy. We haven't seen
- each other since, I don't know, like...
- 899
- 00:55:28,981 --> 00:55:30,549
- - Was it junior high? Right?
- - Yeah, junior high.
- 900
- 00:55:30,551 --> 00:55:33,852
- Yeah. Well except for Mass where
- you saw him. Where we all...
- 901
- 00:55:36,022 --> 00:55:37,888
- - What is so funny?
- - You're wearing Mom's blouse.
- 902
- 00:55:37,890 --> 00:55:40,058
- - We were just hanging out...
- - That's sexy.
- 903
- 00:55:40,060 --> 00:55:41,493
- ...after he put the locks in.
- 904
- 00:55:41,495 --> 00:55:43,395
- Hey, you know Dad
- just got that dry cleaned.
- 905
- 00:55:43,397 --> 00:55:45,162
- ...which is why I called him,
- was to put in locks
- 906
- 00:55:45,164 --> 00:55:47,031
- like they have
- at the Reminisce community.
- 907
- 00:55:47,033 --> 00:55:48,200
- No, it's a neighborhood.
- 908
- 00:55:48,202 --> 00:55:50,435
- So when you put that in,
- you know,
- 909
- 00:55:50,437 --> 00:55:52,169
- you lock it and you put the key,
- 910
- 00:55:52,171 --> 00:55:53,939
- you hide the key and that
- way she can't get out.
- 911
- 00:55:53,941 --> 00:55:56,010
- And then you guys can stay.
- 912
- 00:55:56,577 --> 00:55:58,042
- - What?
- - For now.
- 913
- 00:55:58,044 --> 00:56:00,178
- Well, as long as you
- don't go to Florida.
- 914
- 00:56:00,180 --> 00:56:03,415
- I know, you're the husband!
- 915
- 00:56:03,417 --> 00:56:05,584
- - Good, good.
- - No.
- 916
- 00:56:05,586 --> 00:56:07,084
- That's not...
- 917
- 00:56:07,086 --> 00:56:08,319
- Look everybody,
- look who I found.
- 918
- 00:56:08,321 --> 00:56:09,587
- - That's not the husband, Ruth.
- - Jesus.
- 919
- 00:56:09,589 --> 00:56:10,888
- That's not going to fix it.
- 920
- 00:56:10,890 --> 00:56:11,990
- Is he staying for dinner?
- 921
- 00:56:11,992 --> 00:56:13,058
- - Emma...
- - That's fine.
- 922
- 00:56:13,060 --> 00:56:14,426
- Yeah, I need to get going.
- 923
- 00:56:14,428 --> 00:56:17,028
- Hey, Gerry, thank you
- for your service.
- 924
- 00:56:17,030 --> 00:56:18,529
- Thanks for the service, Gerry.
- 925
- 00:56:18,531 --> 00:56:19,865
- Nice going.
- 926
- 00:56:19,867 --> 00:56:20,868
- I feel a lot safer now.
- 927
- 00:56:21,834 --> 00:56:22,933
- - Who was smoking in the house?
- - Emma!
- 928
- 00:56:22,935 --> 00:56:24,236
- Was it you?
- 929
- 00:56:24,238 --> 00:56:26,270
- No, Dad. I just
- came home with you.
- 930
- 00:56:26,272 --> 00:56:28,540
- - Emma.
- - Somebody was smoking in the house.
- 931
- 00:56:28,542 --> 00:56:31,575
- - Who was it? The guy?
- - Emma.
- 932
- 00:56:31,577 --> 00:56:33,814
- Or Princess Charming over there?
- 933
- 00:56:35,481 --> 00:56:37,184
- What do I owe you?
- 934
- 00:56:39,519 --> 00:56:41,022
- So you're not divorced.
- 935
- 00:56:42,356 --> 00:56:43,825
- No.
- 936
- 00:56:48,528 --> 00:56:50,131
- Five hundred, please.
- 937
- 00:56:54,167 --> 00:56:55,837
- Includes materials.
- 938
- 00:56:58,238 --> 00:57:00,408
- - It's Gerry with a G.
- - Yeah.
- 939
- 00:57:02,975 --> 00:57:04,211
- Thank you.
- 940
- 00:57:19,059 --> 00:57:21,062
- - Chemically sensitive, huh?
- - Shut up.
- 941
- 00:57:21,528 --> 00:57:24,428
- - Let me in, I'm freezing.
- - That's a nice bra, is that Ma's, too?
- 942
- 00:57:24,430 --> 00:57:26,131
- - Let me in.
- - No.
- 943
- 00:57:26,133 --> 00:57:28,002
- They can stay?
- 944
- 00:57:28,568 --> 00:57:32,002
- Hey! They can stay?
- 945
- 00:57:32,004 --> 00:57:33,540
- Yeah. For now.
- 946
- 00:57:34,140 --> 00:57:35,506
- When did you come up with that?
- 947
- 00:57:35,508 --> 00:57:37,341
- For now. God.
- 948
- 00:57:37,343 --> 00:57:38,211
- What?
- 949
- 00:57:39,011 --> 00:57:42,082
- Hey! Who the hell
- do you think you are, huh?
- 950
- 00:57:42,950 --> 00:57:44,482
- Queen Bitty,
- ladies and gentlemen,
- 951
- 00:57:44,484 --> 00:57:48,890
- she comes to town, spends three
- days, three fucking days,
- 952
- 00:57:49,289 --> 00:57:52,323
- throws in a lock,
- problem solved, what a genius!
- 953
- 00:57:52,325 --> 00:57:54,459
- Oh, boy! Why didn't
- I think of that?
- 954
- 00:57:54,461 --> 00:57:56,160
- Who do you think you are?
- 955
- 00:57:56,162 --> 00:57:57,562
- I'm not off the plane
- ten minutes
- 956
- 00:57:57,564 --> 00:57:59,397
- and you're telling me
- what I have to do
- 957
- 00:57:59,399 --> 00:58:00,732
- before I had a chance
- to evaluate the situation.
- 958
- 00:58:00,734 --> 00:58:02,036
- Who am I? Who am I?
- 959
- 00:58:02,301 --> 00:58:05,203
- I'm the one who's here. Okay?
- 960
- 00:58:05,205 --> 00:58:07,504
- - I'm the one who gets the call...
- - God, get out of my face.
- 961
- 00:58:07,506 --> 00:58:11,176
- ...in the middle of the night. I'm the
- one with the geriatrician on speed dial
- 962
- 00:58:11,178 --> 00:58:14,044
- The fact that you
- got power of attorney
- 963
- 00:58:14,046 --> 00:58:19,386
- is the biggest, stinkiest pile of
- favoritist bullshit I ever heard.
- 964
- 00:58:19,653 --> 00:58:21,187
- Damn it.
- 965
- 00:58:21,555 --> 00:58:22,990
- Hey.
- 966
- 00:58:25,691 --> 00:58:27,928
- You don't even know
- the code, that's funny.
- 967
- 00:58:28,428 --> 00:58:30,995
- - Fuck.
- - Hey, why don't we get Gerry back here?
- 968
- 00:58:30,997 --> 00:58:33,598
- He can change the locks, and
- then I'll take Emma to the mall
- 969
- 00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:35,136
- and you two can go at it.
- 970
- 00:58:36,303 --> 00:58:38,336
- - You know why I got power of attorney?
- - Why?
- 971
- 00:58:38,338 --> 00:58:42,741
- Because you're an asshole, that's why.
- You are an asshole.
- 972
- 00:58:42,743 --> 00:58:44,478
- Uh-uh.
- 973
- 00:58:45,345 --> 00:58:48,982
- You got power of attorney
- 'cause you're a chicken shit.
- 974
- 00:58:49,682 --> 00:58:51,117
- He knew you'd never use it.
- 975
- 00:58:52,285 --> 00:58:53,752
- You been letting him tell you
- what to do your whole life.
- 976
- 00:58:53,754 --> 00:58:55,522
- - I have not.
- - Oh, yeah?
- 977
- 00:58:56,455 --> 00:58:59,059
- Let me ask you something.
- Why did you marry Eddie?
- 978
- 00:59:00,794 --> 00:59:03,164
- Because I didn't know
- who I was. Okay?
- 979
- 00:59:03,763 --> 00:59:07,298
- And Mom had her big career,
- and I was the housekeeper.
- 980
- 00:59:07,300 --> 00:59:09,100
- - Oh, my goodness.
- - Who do you think
- 981
- 00:59:09,102 --> 00:59:12,506
- got food on the table, huh?
- Who ironed your...
- 982
- 00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:15,673
- - Fenwick shirts?
- - Who put a gun to your head?
- 983
- 00:59:15,675 --> 00:59:20,578
- Somebody had to do it. Somebody had to
- fucking do it Nick, and I was the girl.
- 984
- 00:59:20,580 --> 00:59:24,518
- No, Bitty, you're not a victim, all right?
- You're not a martyr.
- 985
- 00:59:24,718 --> 00:59:28,386
- Nobody forced you to obey, okay?
- You got to grow up
- 986
- 00:59:28,388 --> 00:59:31,192
- and don't be so terrified.
- Stop being a liar.
- 987
- 00:59:31,490 --> 00:59:33,792
- - I am not a liar.
- - You've been lying for so long
- 988
- 00:59:33,794 --> 00:59:36,326
- that you don't even know the
- difference between the truth,
- 989
- 00:59:36,328 --> 00:59:39,033
- and what you want everybody
- to think is the truth.
- 990
- 00:59:41,834 --> 00:59:43,301
- Our parents live here.
- 991
- 00:59:43,303 --> 00:59:44,605
- She doesn't know the code.
- 992
- 00:59:44,838 --> 00:59:47,404
- You ought to visit them
- once in a while.
- 993
- 00:59:47,406 --> 00:59:49,573
- - Who are you, the guilt monger?
- - Nicky.
- 994
- 00:59:49,575 --> 00:59:54,115
- I know you. You're the one who
- smokes so close to my rosebushes.
- 995
- 00:59:54,414 --> 00:59:56,548
- Go sit on your rosebushes.
- 996
- 00:59:56,550 --> 00:59:58,316
- Nicky. I'm so sorry.
- 997
- 00:59:58,318 --> 01:00:00,553
- For what?
- What are you sorry for?
- 998
- 01:00:02,089 --> 01:00:03,520
- - Shut up.
- - Shame on him.
- 999
- 01:00:03,522 --> 01:00:05,126
- - I'm so sorry.
- - It was rude.
- 1000
- 01:00:05,691 --> 01:00:07,527
- I can't believe this. So rude.
- 1001
- 01:00:07,827 --> 01:00:09,593
- At least I don't
- bulldoze people.
- 1002
- 01:00:09,595 --> 01:00:12,096
- I'm not some bully telling
- everyone what to do,
- 1003
- 01:00:12,098 --> 01:00:14,432
- saying, "You, you, you, let me
- tell you what's wrong with you
- 1004
- 01:00:14,434 --> 01:00:16,037
- so you never see
- what's wrong with me!"
- 1005
- 01:00:16,435 --> 01:00:18,837
- At least I don't blame Mom
- and Dad for all my bullshit.
- 1006
- 01:00:18,839 --> 01:00:22,874
- Excuse me? Didn't you just blame them for
- your entire shitty 20-year marriage?
- 1007
- 01:00:22,876 --> 01:00:25,745
- At least I had the guts to try,
- 1008
- 01:00:26,379 --> 01:00:29,583
- to try to love somebody,
- to let somebody love me.
- 1009
- 01:00:30,316 --> 01:00:31,850
- At least I have something.
- 1010
- 01:00:31,852 --> 01:00:33,750
- Oh, I got plenty, honey,
- believe me.
- 1011
- 01:00:33,752 --> 01:00:35,189
- - Yeah.
- - Mm-hmm.
- 1012
- 01:00:35,589 --> 01:00:37,091
- You got a bar.
- 1013
- 01:00:38,191 --> 01:00:40,327
- Get in the house.
- 1014
- 01:00:43,463 --> 01:00:45,332
- I can hear you
- all the way down the hall.
- 1015
- 01:00:45,765 --> 01:00:47,167
- Why don't you tell me the truth?
- 1016
- 01:00:47,434 --> 01:00:49,202
- Why did you give Bit
- the power of attorney?
- 1017
- 01:00:49,502 --> 01:00:52,372
- Because you're a hothead
- like your mother.
- 1018
- 01:00:52,638 --> 01:00:55,742
- No, no, no.
- No, it's because you're selfish.
- 1019
- 01:00:56,475 --> 01:00:58,412
- You know why they get better
- in memory care?
- 1020
- 01:00:58,845 --> 01:01:01,912
- Because they don't have people
- in their face all the time
- 1021
- 01:01:01,914 --> 01:01:05,149
- saying, "Don't forget me,
- please don't forget me,
- 1022
- 01:01:05,151 --> 01:01:06,386
- you're losing your mind."
- 1023
- 01:01:07,453 --> 01:01:09,354
- The one blessing of this disease
- 1024
- 01:01:09,356 --> 01:01:11,189
- is that they don't remember
- that they don't remember.
- 1025
- 01:01:11,191 --> 01:01:12,557
- Until you go and tell them.
- 1026
- 01:01:12,559 --> 01:01:14,292
- You think you're
- a doctor or something?
- 1027
- 01:01:14,294 --> 01:01:15,926
- - What the hell do you know?
- - Oh, my God.
- 1028
- 01:01:15,928 --> 01:01:17,595
- You're a goddamn bartender...
- 1029
- 01:01:17,597 --> 01:01:19,430
- - I'm a bar...
- - ...who almost graduated from college.
- 1030
- 01:01:19,432 --> 01:01:22,102
- - Almost.
- - I'm a bar owner, Dad.
- 1031
- 01:01:22,334 --> 01:01:26,240
- - You tend the bar?
- - I own the bar. I own it.
- 1032
- 01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:28,640
- - You tend it or not?
- - Yeah. Yeah.
- 1033
- 01:01:28,642 --> 01:01:33,912
- - I tend it! I tend the bar that I own.
- - You're a bartender.
- 1034
- 01:01:33,914 --> 01:01:37,348
- Okay? I know it's a real bummer,
- 1035
- 01:01:37,350 --> 01:01:38,783
- I hear you loud and clear, Pop,
- 1036
- 01:01:38,785 --> 01:01:40,785
- it's a real shit deal
- you have to admit that
- 1037
- 01:01:40,787 --> 01:01:42,287
- to your fucking poker players.
- 1038
- 01:01:42,289 --> 01:01:44,354
- - Watch your language.
- - Watch my language?
- 1039
- 01:01:44,356 --> 01:01:46,259
- - Yes.
- - All right.
- 1040
- 01:01:48,827 --> 01:01:50,296
- You know what?
- 1041
- 01:01:51,497 --> 01:01:53,501
- She hit on me the other night.
- 1042
- 01:01:54,801 --> 01:01:56,437
- Yeah, Mom.
- 1043
- 01:01:57,937 --> 01:02:02,242
- She hit on me. I had to sit there and
- explain to her that I was her son.
- 1044
- 01:02:02,876 --> 01:02:05,379
- You should have seen
- the look on her face.
- 1045
- 01:02:15,589 --> 01:02:19,527
- I'm done. They're all yours, Bit.
- Godspeed.
- 1046
- 01:03:16,850 --> 01:03:19,386
- There's a man in my bed.
- 1047
- 01:03:21,687 --> 01:03:22,689
- It's Dad.
- 1048
- 01:03:24,790 --> 01:03:26,727
- I sleep with our dad?
- 1049
- 01:03:29,361 --> 01:03:30,630
- Yeah.
- 1050
- 01:03:31,897 --> 01:03:33,267
- Oh.
- 1051
- 01:03:53,952 --> 01:03:55,722
- Stay in bed, honey.
- 1052
- 01:03:57,089 --> 01:03:58,725
- You're a turkey.
- 1053
- 01:04:00,426 --> 01:04:03,430
- Mmm. You're a turkey.
- 1054
- 01:04:38,430 --> 01:04:42,669
- <i>Hi, um, your
- father just called me.</i>
- 1055
- 01:04:43,435 --> 01:04:47,874
- <i>He said you're coming home tonight?
- Give me a call.</i>
- 1056
- 01:04:57,117 --> 01:04:58,718
- Is that my baby?
- 1057
- 01:05:10,729 --> 01:05:11,995
- I don't want it.
- 1058
- 01:05:11,997 --> 01:05:12,965
- It's coffee.
- 1059
- 01:05:13,533 --> 01:05:15,732
- I don't want it!
- 1060
- 01:05:15,734 --> 01:05:18,636
- - Of course you want it. Have it.
- - I am a grown-up!
- 1061
- 01:05:18,638 --> 01:05:21,004
- If I don't want the coffee,
- I don't want the coffee!
- 1062
- 01:05:21,006 --> 01:05:22,642
- All right.
- 1063
- 01:05:24,611 --> 01:05:25,746
- What did you tell him?
- 1064
- 01:05:26,044 --> 01:05:27,447
- Who?
- 1065
- 01:05:28,147 --> 01:05:29,749
- - Nobody, sweetheart.
- - It's okay, Mom.
- 1066
- 01:05:30,582 --> 01:05:31,918
- Go watch <i>Popeye,</i> honey.
- 1067
- 01:05:33,352 --> 01:05:36,154
- I told him I bought you plane tickets
- and to pick you up at the airport.
- 1068
- 01:05:36,156 --> 01:05:37,758
- That's what I told him.
- 1069
- 01:05:38,624 --> 01:05:41,060
- Floozin' around with some
- construction bozo.
- 1070
- 01:05:41,593 --> 01:05:43,127
- I don't even know who you are!
- 1071
- 01:05:43,129 --> 01:05:46,533
- He put locks in,
- and you're welcome by the way.
- 1072
- 01:05:47,100 --> 01:05:48,902
- What am I,
- some kind of horse's ass?
- 1073
- 01:05:49,968 --> 01:05:52,770
- Eddie is as much a son to me
- as your brother is.
- 1074
- 01:05:52,772 --> 01:05:54,839
- You know, I think you like
- Eddie more than you like me,
- 1075
- 01:05:54,841 --> 01:05:56,774
- or my brother for that matter.
- 1076
- 01:05:56,776 --> 01:05:59,780
- For Chrissake, Bitty, what
- kind of thing is that to say?
- 1077
- 01:06:00,446 --> 01:06:02,782
- Get dressed.
- We're leaving in an hour.
- 1078
- 01:06:18,798 --> 01:06:21,499
- All my life you've been telling
- me there's no bells and whistles.
- 1079
- 01:06:21,501 --> 01:06:22,533
- There's no bells and whistles.
- 1080
- 01:06:22,535 --> 01:06:23,667
- There isn't.
- 1081
- 01:06:23,669 --> 01:06:24,937
- How can you say that?
- 1082
- 01:06:25,772 --> 01:06:28,008
- You have more bells
- and whistles than anybody.
- 1083
- 01:06:28,540 --> 01:06:32,646
- I mean, she's losing her mind and
- you still can't live without her.
- 1084
- 01:06:33,479 --> 01:06:34,712
- Didn't you want that for me?
- 1085
- 01:06:34,714 --> 01:06:36,513
- Of course I wanted that for you,
- 1086
- 01:06:36,515 --> 01:06:37,848
- that's all I want for you.
- 1087
- 01:06:37,850 --> 01:06:39,952
- Why do you think
- I'm sending you home?
- 1088
- 01:06:41,488 --> 01:06:42,252
- Dad.
- 1089
- 01:06:42,254 --> 01:06:43,523
- Bit.
- 1090
- 01:06:43,957 --> 01:06:48,095
- Love is commitment,
- you work at it.
- 1091
- 01:06:48,660 --> 01:06:51,962
- Go home to your husband and ask yourself
- why you married him in the first place.
- 1092
- 01:06:51,964 --> 01:06:54,232
- I married him because you
- told me I couldn't do better.
- 1093
- 01:06:54,234 --> 01:06:57,069
- You couldn't!
- Eddie is a home run!
- 1094
- 01:06:57,569 --> 01:06:59,636
- Your wedding was
- the best day of my life,
- 1095
- 01:06:59,638 --> 01:07:03,709
- walking you down the aisle to a man
- who I thought might deserve you.
- 1096
- 01:07:05,711 --> 01:07:07,544
- You know what your problem is?
- 1097
- 01:07:07,546 --> 01:07:08,481
- California!
- 1098
- 01:07:08,814 --> 01:07:11,249
- That's what.
- Everybody out there,
- 1099
- 01:07:11,251 --> 01:07:15,622
- flowin' in the wind, reinventing.
- What the heck is that?
- 1100
- 01:07:15,921 --> 01:07:21,191
- You are who you are. I am a
- father, a husband, a Catholic.
- 1101
- 01:07:21,193 --> 01:07:24,160
- I know it because I am it.
- I never had to think about it.
- 1102
- 01:07:24,162 --> 01:07:29,669
- But there is no reason to be unhappy
- with a perfectly good marriage.
- 1103
- 01:07:32,671 --> 01:07:34,607
- I don't have what you have.
- 1104
- 01:07:35,073 --> 01:07:35,907
- Yes, you do.
- 1105
- 01:07:37,010 --> 01:07:39,646
- Don't you think
- we had rough periods?
- 1106
- 01:07:40,914 --> 01:07:42,812
- You ought to go talk
- to a priest!
- 1107
- 01:07:42,814 --> 01:07:44,517
- I'm not a Catholic anymore.
- 1108
- 01:07:45,051 --> 01:07:47,754
- Well, there's your problem
- right there.
- 1109
- 01:07:48,021 --> 01:07:49,490
- How do you know?
- 1110
- 01:07:49,888 --> 01:07:53,260
- How do you always know
- what my problem is?
- 1111
- 01:07:53,926 --> 01:07:56,160
- Do I do that to you?
- Did I march in here and say,
- 1112
- 01:07:56,162 --> 01:07:58,631
- "She's going in a home, if you don't
- like it, go talk to a priest?"
- 1113
- 01:07:59,031 --> 01:08:01,232
- I listened to you, Dad.
- I asked you what you wanted
- 1114
- 01:08:01,234 --> 01:08:03,868
- and I fought like hell to get it
- for you because you matter to me.
- 1115
- 01:08:03,870 --> 01:08:08,642
- What you want matters to me.
- Why don't I matter to you?
- 1116
- 01:08:11,877 --> 01:08:13,877
- Mom was a feminist,
- for Chrissake.
- 1117
- 01:08:13,879 --> 01:08:16,749
- Why didn't anyone ever
- ask me what I wanted?
- 1118
- 01:08:18,318 --> 01:08:21,855
- Honey. We did ask you
- what you wanted.
- 1119
- 01:08:22,154 --> 01:08:24,857
- You said you couldn't
- wait to be a mother.
- 1120
- 01:08:29,796 --> 01:08:30,963
- Is Grandma in here?
- 1121
- 01:08:31,196 --> 01:08:33,699
- - No.
- - Oh, shit.
- 1122
- 01:08:34,232 --> 01:08:35,535
- What?
- 1123
- 01:08:39,038 --> 01:08:41,675
- Oh, Goddamn it!
- 1124
- 01:08:43,141 --> 01:08:44,778
- Damn it!
- 1125
- 01:08:46,812 --> 01:08:48,781
- Maybe she's upstairs.
- I'll go check.
- 1126
- 01:08:49,649 --> 01:08:50,816
- Ruth!
- 1127
- 01:08:54,654 --> 01:08:55,955
- Ruth!
- 1128
- 01:09:00,392 --> 01:09:01,761
- Mom!
- 1129
- 01:09:02,227 --> 01:09:03,163
- I got her.
- 1130
- 01:09:04,230 --> 01:09:05,598
- She's at Marion's.
- 1131
- 01:09:09,235 --> 01:09:10,137
- Dad!
- 1132
- 01:09:12,372 --> 01:09:14,106
- Dad!
- 1133
- 01:09:14,774 --> 01:09:16,840
- Dad. Are you okay?
- 1134
- 01:09:16,842 --> 01:09:18,945
- Is it your heart? Dad?
- 1135
- 01:09:32,124 --> 01:09:34,194
- Come on. Come on.
- 1136
- 01:09:39,332 --> 01:09:40,867
- Okay.
- 1137
- 01:09:49,976 --> 01:09:51,044
- I'll stay.
- 1138
- 01:09:53,145 --> 01:09:54,714
- I'll stay and help.
- 1139
- 01:10:29,082 --> 01:10:32,883
- So, I'll come back at the end
- of the month to help you get moved.
- 1140
- 01:10:32,885 --> 01:10:35,452
- Thank you, Bitty.
- You bet. We'll be fine.
- 1141
- 01:10:35,454 --> 01:10:36,920
- Am I going with you?
- 1142
- 01:10:36,922 --> 01:10:39,859
- You're coming out here
- to give me a hug.
- 1143
- 01:10:41,060 --> 01:10:42,062
- Ah.
- 1144
- 01:10:43,361 --> 01:10:44,929
- Where should we...
- 1145
- 01:10:44,931 --> 01:10:47,100
- Here. What's wrong?
- 1146
- 01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:49,903
- I'm going to see you
- in a couple weeks.
- 1147
- 01:10:50,269 --> 01:10:52,004
- I won't be here.
- 1148
- 01:10:52,204 --> 01:10:54,207
- Yeah? Where are you going?
- 1149
- 01:10:56,109 --> 01:10:58,945
- I expect my mother
- will want me back by then.
- 1150
- 01:10:59,979 --> 01:11:02,716
- Yeah? Don't you think?
- 1151
- 01:11:04,182 --> 01:11:06,052
- Hop in, Ruth, it's cold.
- 1152
- 01:11:10,890 --> 01:11:12,225
- Here, here's your seatbelt.
- 1153
- 01:11:13,092 --> 01:11:16,329
- My shoes don't match my purse.
- 1154
- 01:11:16,796 --> 01:11:17,897
- Love you, Bit.
- 1155
- 01:11:18,498 --> 01:11:19,833
- Love you, Dad.
- 1156
- 01:11:21,100 --> 01:11:22,235
- Bye, Mom.
- 1157
- 01:11:28,775 --> 01:11:30,243
- So, how was it?
- 1158
- 01:11:33,178 --> 01:11:34,213
- Fine.
- 1159
- 01:11:36,248 --> 01:11:37,416
- Hmm.
- 1160
- 01:11:38,717 --> 01:11:42,855
- And your dad's all set? He's
- got all the paperwork signed?
- 1161
- 01:11:44,156 --> 01:11:45,124
- Yeah.
- 1162
- 01:11:46,425 --> 01:11:47,994
- Mom moves in the first.
- 1163
- 01:11:48,561 --> 01:11:49,996
- Good.
- 1164
- 01:11:52,899 --> 01:11:54,999
- Nick's got to be happy,
- 1165
- 01:11:55,001 --> 01:11:57,904
- being right for the first time
- in his life.
- 1166
- 01:11:58,303 --> 01:11:59,739
- Poor guy.
- 1167
- 01:12:03,242 --> 01:12:04,410
- Did you, um...
- 1168
- 01:12:05,011 --> 01:12:07,047
- You register for classes?
- 1169
- 01:12:08,146 --> 01:12:09,315
- Mm-hmm.
- 1170
- 01:12:09,882 --> 01:12:12,352
- Good. Good.
- 1171
- 01:12:44,316 --> 01:12:46,584
- - What are you doing?
- - Just let me.
- 1172
- 01:13:05,570 --> 01:13:06,939
- I'm sorry.
- 1173
- 01:13:10,075 --> 01:13:13,212
- I just look at you
- and all I see is my baby.
- 1174
- 01:13:17,216 --> 01:13:18,251
- I know.
- 1175
- 01:13:24,123 --> 01:13:26,393
- You don't have to go back
- if you don't want.
- 1176
- 01:13:31,631 --> 01:13:33,266
- I can't stay here, Mom.
- 1177
- 01:13:37,637 --> 01:13:39,072
- I know.
- 1178
- 01:14:11,369 --> 01:14:13,038
- Do a Manhattan?
- 1179
- 01:14:14,239 --> 01:14:15,207
- Yeah.
- 1180
- 01:15:49,068 --> 01:15:51,404
- Damn good Manhattan, Nicholas.
- 1181
- 01:16:05,217 --> 01:16:08,054
- Is it, is it Christmas?
- 1182
- 01:16:08,654 --> 01:16:10,254
- You got drunk at Christmas.
- 1183
- 01:16:10,256 --> 01:16:14,293
- - I did not.
- - Yes you did. Grab those presents...
- 1184
- 01:16:15,127 --> 01:16:17,530
- - and come on over.
- - Oh!
- 1185
- 01:16:18,263 --> 01:16:20,165
- - Here.
- - Yes.
- 1186
- 01:16:21,266 --> 01:16:22,601
- There you go.
- 1187
- 01:16:23,302 --> 01:16:27,537
- And now we, we'll have Christmas.
- I'll go first?
- 1188
- 01:16:27,539 --> 01:16:28,574
- Yeah.
- 1189
- 01:16:29,575 --> 01:16:32,311
- - Uh, what could this be?
- - Who gave that to you?
- 1190
- 01:16:32,845 --> 01:16:34,446
- You did, you turkey.
- 1191
- 01:16:35,780 --> 01:16:37,716
- - Yeah, all right.
- - I...
- 1192
- 01:16:38,217 --> 01:16:40,020
- - There it is.
- - I'll help.
- 1193
- 01:16:40,285 --> 01:16:41,751
- - I'll help, too.
- - There we go.
- 1194
- 01:16:41,753 --> 01:16:43,252
- I...
- 1195
- 01:16:43,254 --> 01:16:45,592
- There we are,
- you're good at that.
- 1196
- 01:16:45,857 --> 01:16:47,691
- - Look what it is!
- - Oh!
- 1197
- 01:16:47,693 --> 01:16:49,225
- - Macadamias.
- - You like those.
- 1198
- 01:16:49,227 --> 01:16:52,261
- - My favorite kind, too.
- - Yeah.
- 1199
- 01:16:52,263 --> 01:16:54,566
- Thank you, honey.
- Thank you.
- 1200
- 01:16:57,168 --> 01:16:59,405
- Okay, all right,
- you're next.
- 1201
- 01:17:01,473 --> 01:17:03,506
- - Here.
- - It's from you.
- 1202
- 01:17:03,508 --> 01:17:04,577
- Yes, it is.
- 1203
- 01:17:08,646 --> 01:17:10,050
- There you go.
- 1204
- 01:17:10,716 --> 01:17:12,352
- Okay, open it up.
- 1205
- 01:17:13,252 --> 01:17:14,486
- Go ahead.
- 1206
- 01:17:16,187 --> 01:17:18,658
- Oh!
- 1207
- 01:17:21,860 --> 01:17:23,462
- Oh.
- 1208
- 01:17:24,730 --> 01:17:27,634
- And I want you
- to look inside because
- 1209
- 01:17:28,434 --> 01:17:30,102
- there's something here.
- 1210
- 01:17:33,204 --> 01:17:34,606
- You know who that is?
- 1211
- 01:17:40,678 --> 01:17:44,180
- Oh, yes. It's you and me.
- 1212
- 01:17:44,182 --> 01:17:47,753
- It's you and me. So...
- 1213
- 01:17:48,354 --> 01:17:51,356
- in the new place,
- when you forget,
- 1214
- 01:17:51,690 --> 01:17:55,227
- just look at it.
- 1215
- 01:17:56,529 --> 01:17:57,564
- All right?
- 1216
- 01:18:03,369 --> 01:18:05,368
- I'm so sorry, Bertie.
- 1217
- 01:18:05,370 --> 01:18:11,308
- Oh, sweet baby, don't...
- don't worry about it.
- 1218
- 01:18:13,546 --> 01:18:18,318
- Don't worry a bit.
- Don't. I'm fine.
- 1219
- 01:18:20,519 --> 01:18:22,122
- I'm fine.
- 1220
- 01:18:26,824 --> 01:18:28,193
- Hey.
- 1221
- 01:18:33,332 --> 01:18:34,734
- Who is Gerry Hoffsteader?
- 1222
- 01:18:36,936 --> 01:18:38,371
- Who?
- 1223
- 01:18:39,605 --> 01:18:42,839
- You didn't write him
- a check for 500 bucks?
- 1224
- 01:18:42,841 --> 01:18:45,509
- Oh, yes.
- He's a construction guy.
- 1225
- 01:18:45,511 --> 01:18:49,682
- He did, um... he put locks
- in my parents' place.
- 1226
- 01:18:51,417 --> 01:18:54,283
- What, he change every lock
- in the whole building?
- 1227
- 01:18:54,285 --> 01:18:59,626
- I know. He was... It was
- expensive. I'm sorry.
- 1228
- 01:19:01,793 --> 01:19:03,695
- I got you a little something.
- 1229
- 01:19:13,739 --> 01:19:15,208
- Thank you.
- 1230
- 01:19:26,752 --> 01:19:28,488
- Oh. Um...
- 1231
- 01:19:30,588 --> 01:19:32,658
- I think you got this
- for me before.
- 1232
- 01:19:33,659 --> 01:19:36,596
- No, no, I... they said
- that one's different.
- 1233
- 01:19:37,329 --> 01:19:38,531
- Open it.
- 1234
- 01:20:06,859 --> 01:20:08,093
- Thank you.
- 1235
- 01:20:11,963 --> 01:20:13,830
- I thought
- if I upgraded the diamond,
- 1236
- 01:20:13,832 --> 01:20:18,771
- you would stop leaving it with the
- pennies in the car.
- 1237
- 01:23:27,559 --> 01:23:28,761
- Shit.
- 1238
- 01:23:32,263 --> 01:23:33,598
- Hello?
- 1239
- 01:23:37,970 --> 01:23:38,870
- Yeah.
- 1240
- 01:23:50,114 --> 01:23:51,583
- Nicky?
- 1241
- 01:23:55,887 --> 01:23:56,752
- Oh.
- 1242
- 01:24:55,113 --> 01:24:58,717
- This looks like a wake.
- Is this... Is this a wake?
- 1243
- 01:25:01,052 --> 01:25:04,022
- Yeah, that's what...
- that's what I thought it was.
- 1244
- 01:25:09,628 --> 01:25:12,932
- And I think that maybe...
- Excuse me.
- 1245
- 01:25:19,770 --> 01:25:23,041
- Hey. How we doing?
- 1246
- 01:25:26,211 --> 01:25:27,810
- Should we take her home?
- 1247
- 01:25:27,812 --> 01:25:30,716
- - Do you want to go?
- - No. I...
- 1248
- 01:25:32,985 --> 01:25:39,592
- I cannot figure out, for the life
- of me, whose... whose wake is it.
- 1249
- 01:25:42,093 --> 01:25:43,828
- I can't.
- 1250
- 01:25:49,301 --> 01:25:50,703
- "Norbert."
- 1251
- 01:26:03,382 --> 01:26:05,184
- How could I have forgotten that?
- 1252
- 01:26:22,034 --> 01:26:23,636
- Oh.
- 1253
- 01:26:24,436 --> 01:26:27,940
- Pretty. What's the matter?
- 1254
- 01:26:35,212 --> 01:26:40,719
- My dad grew up on a farm
- in a small town called Amboy.
- 1255
- 01:26:41,218 --> 01:26:46,324
- He met Ruth O'Shea
- at an ice cream social
- 1256
- 01:26:47,025 --> 01:26:50,363
- and had a thing for her
- ever since.
- 1257
- 01:26:50,796 --> 01:26:53,699
- Even though she wouldn't
- give him the time of day.
- 1258
- 01:26:54,900 --> 01:26:58,167
- After high school,
- he went off to Korea
- 1259
- 01:26:58,169 --> 01:27:02,104
- and when he took leave
- and came home,
- 1260
- 01:27:02,106 --> 01:27:05,942
- his mom told him that poor
- Ruthie O'Shea had gotten polio
- 1261
- 01:27:05,944 --> 01:27:08,848
- and hadn't been
- out of bed for six months.
- 1262
- 01:27:09,480 --> 01:27:13,818
- So, he marched over there
- and picked her up
- 1263
- 01:27:14,418 --> 01:27:19,057
- right out of bed.
- And carried her in his arms.
- 1264
- 01:27:19,824 --> 01:27:21,760
- - To the movies.
- - To the movies.
- 1265
- 01:27:22,793 --> 01:27:23,995
- To the movies.
- 1266
- 01:27:32,404 --> 01:27:33,939
- <i>He never let her go.</i>
- 1267
- 01:27:38,909 --> 01:27:40,410
- <i>He couldn't
- live without her.</i>
- 1268
- 01:29:11,436 --> 01:29:13,339
- This was the perfect time.
- 1269
- 01:29:15,873 --> 01:29:17,309
- Any later...
- 1270
- 01:29:18,877 --> 01:29:20,780
- I'd have forgotten him.
- 1271
- 01:29:23,214 --> 01:29:26,785
- Any earlier,
- I'd have missed him too much.
- 1272
- 01:29:28,285 --> 01:29:30,189
- Right now is perfect.
- 1273
- 01:29:32,156 --> 01:29:34,894
- I'll hardly ever know
- the difference.
- 1274
- 01:30:03,488 --> 01:30:05,087
- You hate the car.
- 1275
- 01:30:05,089 --> 01:30:07,226
- All right. That's horseshit.
- I don't hate the car.
- 1276
- 01:30:12,596 --> 01:30:15,400
- I mean, how the hell would you
- even get it to California?
- 1277
- 01:30:15,633 --> 01:30:17,235
- I'm going to drive it.
- 1278
- 01:30:17,968 --> 01:30:19,337
- With Mom.
- 1279
- 01:30:22,673 --> 01:30:25,010
- What?
- 1280
- 01:30:28,012 --> 01:30:29,247
- It's my turn.
- 1281
- 01:30:30,515 --> 01:30:32,514
- I found a great place near me.
- 1282
- 01:30:32,516 --> 01:30:35,386
- It's hard, Bit. It's really,
- really hard, you know?
- 1283
- 01:30:37,422 --> 01:30:41,093
- It's harder than having your
- hands in raw poultry all day.
- 1284
- 01:30:42,159 --> 01:30:45,196
- I know. That's why it's my turn.
- 1285
- 01:30:50,068 --> 01:30:52,303
- Well, I hope you have AAA.
- 1286
- 01:31:12,556 --> 01:31:16,158
- I was a fountain girl
- all my life.
- 1287
- 01:31:16,160 --> 01:31:19,364
- My father would bring me
- chocolate malts.
- 1288
- 01:31:20,332 --> 01:31:21,499
- Yum.
- 1289
- 01:31:24,601 --> 01:31:26,335
- I had polio.
- 1290
- 01:31:26,337 --> 01:31:27,269
- Yeah.
- 1291
- 01:31:27,271 --> 01:31:31,443
- And consequently, I got...
- 1292
- 01:31:32,209 --> 01:31:34,346
- - Fat?
- - Fat! Yeah!
- 1293
- 01:31:35,180 --> 01:31:36,915
- Who lives here?
- 1294
- 01:31:37,414 --> 01:31:38,516
- You.
- 1295
- 01:31:41,052 --> 01:31:42,288
- Look at that.
- 1296
- 01:31:47,659 --> 01:31:53,933
- Who's missing? Somebody's missing.
- Somebody's missing.
- 1297
- 01:31:59,169 --> 01:32:00,471
- Look at this.
- 1298
- 01:32:05,142 --> 01:32:07,078
- That's my boyfriend.
- 1299
- 01:32:08,613 --> 01:32:12,415
- He's at home. He's waiting.
- He's waiting for me.
- 1300
- 01:32:12,417 --> 01:32:16,387
- He's always hanging around. That turkey.
- 1301
- 01:32:17,521 --> 01:32:19,091
- You got a boyfriend?
- 1302
- 01:32:20,525 --> 01:32:21,460
- No.
- 1303
- 01:32:24,529 --> 01:32:26,098
- Well, he's out there.
- 1304
- 01:32:27,399 --> 01:32:28,334
- You watch out.
- 1305
- 01:32:29,367 --> 01:32:33,571
- Once he's found you,
- he's never gonna let you go.
- 1306
- 01:32:37,409 --> 01:32:40,076
- - Oh, yeah.
- - You follow that sign.
- 1307
- 01:32:40,078 --> 01:32:42,377
- They were pretty.
- Do you see how they light up?
- 1308
- 01:32:42,379 --> 01:32:44,246
- - Yeah.
- - Different looking.
- 1309
- 01:32:44,248 --> 01:32:48,251
- Where are we? Where are we going?
- Where's my purse?
- 1310
- 01:32:48,253 --> 01:32:49,588
- I have your purse.
- 1311
- 01:32:50,187 --> 01:32:51,323
- I have it.
- 1312
- 01:32:59,064 --> 01:33:01,300
- - Love you.
- - Love you.
- 1313
- 01:33:03,267 --> 01:33:05,535
- Oh, is that my baby?
- 1314
- 01:33:05,537 --> 01:33:07,172
- Hi, Ms. Ruth.
- 1315
- 01:33:11,275 --> 01:33:13,276
- Do you have a boyfriend?
- 1316
- 01:33:13,278 --> 01:33:14,713
- Mine, mine, mine...
- 1317
- 01:33:15,579 --> 01:33:18,714
- Oh, look at that
- little one.
- 1318
- 01:33:18,716 --> 01:33:22,151
- - Hi, baby.
- - Waiting for the bus. It's coming.
- 1319
- 01:33:22,153 --> 01:33:24,687
- - Almost home.
- - Yeah. You look great.
- 1320
- 01:33:24,689 --> 01:33:25,790
- You too.
- 1321
- 01:33:26,824 --> 01:33:31,160
- She's so nice. I used to go
- to school with her.
- 1322
- 01:33:31,162 --> 01:33:32,428
- You know what?
- 1323
- 01:33:32,430 --> 01:33:34,796
- I think if your
- boyfriend comes in
- 1324
- 01:33:34,798 --> 01:33:37,099
- when my boyfriend comes in,
- 1325
- 01:33:37,101 --> 01:33:40,702
- we could have fun. We could have a party.
- What do you think?
- 1326
- 01:33:40,704 --> 01:33:42,240
- Hello.
- 1327
- 01:34:39,313 --> 01:34:44,313
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