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- label monika_debate:
- m 2a "Back in my debate club days, I learned a whole lot about arguing..."
- m "The problem with arguing is that each person sees their opinion as the superior one."
- m "That's kind of stating the obvious, but it affects the way they try to get their point across."
- m 2b "Let's say you really like a certain movie, right?"
- m "If someone comes along and tells you the movie sucks, because it did X and Y wrong..."
- m "Doesn't that make you feel kind of personally attacked?"
- m 4a "It's because by saying that, it's like they're implying that you have bad taste."
- m "And once emotions enter the picture, it's almost guaranteed that both people will be left sour."
- m 4b "But it's all about language!"
- m "If you make everything as subjective-sounding as possible, then people will listen to you without feeling attacked."
- m "You could say 'I'm personally not a fan of it' and 'I felt that I'd like it more if it did X and Y'...things like that."
- m 3a "It even works when you're citing facts about things."
- m "If you say 'I read on this website that it works like this'..."
- m "Or if you admit that you're not an expert on it..."
- m "Then it's much more like you're putting your knowledge on the table, rather than forcing it onto them."
- m 3j "If you put in an active effort to keep the discussion mutual and level, they usually follow suit."
- m "Then, you can share your opinions without anyone getting upset just from a disagreement."
- m 2b "Plus, people will start seeing you as open-minded and a good listener!"
- m "It's a win-win, you know?"
- m 2k "...Well, I guess that would be Monika's Debate Tip of the Day!"
- m 1e "Ahaha! That sounds a little silly. Thanks for listening, though."
- return
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