who was in the wrong here?

lemur - Today at 4:32 PM
so, I got drunk & beaned, and spam
such is the story so far
I can understand getting muted for spamming
that's reasonable
the problem for me lies with it suddenly being something different, almost an unholy sin when your favorite anime character is involved
now you haven't really done anything as far as adminning the server is concerned in a long time, aside from changing holiday colors
if you ask me, we have more than a couple members that could be the owner of the server that would be entirely neutral, on EVERYONE's side
toji.ko
rokkat
we could probably go on more on that subject
keeping the current admins, which would keep each other in check
and who would be kept in check by the almighty neutral toji.ko (my personnell favorite)
linkuu - Today at 4:35 PM
if being stripped of your right to post blacked images of renge is really such a problem to you, then you can go somewhere else
it's as simple as that
lemur - Today at 4:35 PM
no, it really isn't
because it isn't just about that image specifically
it's about you using your power in the wrong way
what problem do you have with the argument I just proposed?
linkuu - Today at 4:35 PM
this is a place I have been in for a very long time and I'm not going to tolerate you constantly posting that shit and ruining it for me
lemur - Today at 4:36 PM
I'm not going to post blacked renge
even if you didn't have the power to ban me
I can make that a personal agreement with you
but consider what I've proposed
that's just the thing; we can have personal boundaries and agreements without raw power being used
and I believe the system I just proposed would do just that
linkuu - Today at 4:39 PM
why would I trust you to respect those boundaries when you've done this so many times
I think raw power is the right solution here
I don't need anybody to keep me in check
I don't know why you think I'd be interested in this at all
lemur - Today at 4:41 PM
not even willing to give it a try, huh?
it's not like we've ever sat down and had that agreement before, and I broke that trust
and if it turned out the way you seem to think it would, the neutral party that takes over would either
a. take appropriate action against me
b. reinstate you
linkuu - Today at 4:44 PM
I have zero interest in giving up ownership because you have a problem with how I moderate
I don't know why you think I'd even take the chance
we've never had an agreement but you're fully aware of the implications of posting that shit, just like everyone else, which is why they don't do it
I'm not interested in talking about moderation changes with you but if you want to come back to the server you can
lemur - Today at 4:45 PM
yeah, you haven't said anything about why what I proposed is a bad thing
you just hate the idea of not having the most power
not having complete control
linkuu - Today at 4:46 PM
sure
that's correct
lemur - Today at 4:46 PM
that's all that needs to be said then