Why I can't go out looking like I want and have some guy not grab my ass? 10 September, Dezerter's (Polish punkrock band) concert. I came, I had a great time. Great, until somebody did not come up to pick up my dress and grab my ass. This is not the first such situation and I am not going to keep silent about it. Motherfucker, you had no right to do this. You did not have the right to violate my body. Is it fun for you?  Now let every one of my tear of pissing, shame and a sense of agony fall on you with triple suffering. You did not have the right to ridicule me this way. None of you, for all those years since I was 12, had no right to do so. Regardless of the text "cool tits", harassment or not the notion of "no" in the intimate situation. It took me many years to talk about it loudly. People often laughed at my participation in feminist activities. These people have no idea what I went through, and I still go through - me or my other friends when we decide to go out in the evenings and often even during the day. When we hear degrading comments that are "compliments". When we have to wonder whether we look, we move and present "safe" accordingly, so as not to expose the attack. Sounds like oppressive Muslim culture? Not my dear, it's my everyday life in this country. And I already have enough of it. At the moment in which I write it, I cry from powerlessness. Someone will say "nothing new" while giving consent to such behavior. Sorry, for me it's inconceivable, as you can say "no wonder, you're a good ass" and go against it indifferently. I look so and so, my body can be desecrated? This should be a rhetorical question. Unfortunately for some people it is not. Why am I writing this on Facebook? Because many girls, women, my friends do not know they have the right to talk about it. Many have no courage. The Internet is currently the best medium. This is my manifesto. My sister was shaving her hair just because she was not just a piece of meat, less attractive to men, and able to finally get away from it. My friend was taken to a stranger's apartment, and when she did not meet his sick imagination, he himself complied with her will, but she had no strength and courage to do anything about it. I know who it is, but the man goes unpunished. These are just two stories among dozens of my surroundings. Self-evasion or escape is not a solution. Remember that nothing can justify violating your body. You can not keep quiet about it. It's not you who should be ashamed. I set myself, think what you want. I know I'm doing good and the rest of the sick opinions are not interested in me. Such behavior is abnormal and should be aborted. Speak close, report where you can, and how you are alone - do not be afraid to use force.