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BroinChrist4Gospel: Acts 11:26 And when he had found him, he brought him unto Antioch. And it came
BroinChrist4Gospel: to pass, that a whole year they assembled themselves with the church, and taught
BroinChrist4Gospel: Woops....that was supposed to go in Pulse...lool
CaptainGabrieleStoro: hhey broin !! :) im so glad u spare some time
CaptainGabrieleStoro: i had sent u an inbox did u ever receive it ?
BroinChrist4Gospel: How are you doing this fine New Year's eve?
CaptainGabrieleStoro: im amazing as always ^^
BroinChrist4Gospel: I'm not seeing anything....and yes you are :-)
CaptainGabrieleStoro: ill repost it here
BroinChrist4Gospel: ok cool
CaptainGabrieleStoro: they were true vows from the heart for the commitment of the charas . so them being intimate would be apart of the vow for a women to her husband ? and if yes, then what is the right way to go about it being done
CaptainGabrieleStoro: ok the previous responce was ur let me get it
CaptainGabrieleStoro: I suppose that would depend on the two who marry.  Were the vows part of a role play...as part of a character in a play, or was real emotion, real committment intended in the vows.  What is the intent of the heart?  God can see in to everyone's heart and can discern truth from lie with ease....
CaptainGabrieleStoro: fp- i forgot some of my own responce
CaptainGabrieleStoro: we told each other that we would be faithful to each other here unless we meet some one real then in that event real always comes first
CaptainGabrieleStoro: there
BroinChrist4Gospel: Well....a promise to be faithful in IMVU is not the same as RL, from my view.  What does your heart tell you?
CaptainGabrieleStoro: oh well lol its not my heart its more like the lord doesnt want me here  and i reason my way here . I guess the thing that was holding me here was my marriage because i thought i needed to be faithful to him because of the vows we took
CaptainGabrieleStoro: that is why i pester u so much
CaptainGabrieleStoro: lol
BroinChrist4Gospel: If there is a conflict between what you feel the Lord wants for you, and what is happening here you should always be obedient to the Lord in all things.  If you were really married in God's eyes do you think the Holy Spirit would lead you to break that vow?
BroinChrist4Gospel: You don't pester me at all...I just pray that I'm giving you good, biblical, Holy Spirit-led advice.
CaptainGabrieleStoro: yeah ,, and thats has been the battle of me trying to understand this but i had no one to ask that understood the bases of the question
CaptainGabrieleStoro: the only people that come close to understanding me are the ones who play video games
BroinChrist4Gospel: You may feel differently, but to me RP is  nothing different than performing a play or making a movie in a sense...there is a plot, a theme, and characters that are played...there isn't any real emotion or committment, just a role to be acted out.   The problem is many people often cross that line from acting to real emotion and committment....and that is always where the trouble starts....I know i've made that mistake a time or two myself.
CaptainGabrieleStoro: and they said the lord told them to do moderations
CaptainGabrieleStoro: yes and i am a very strict rper but i found the problem for me and him came when it was time to be intimate and i felt and still do bothered by that
BroinChrist4Gospel: The Lord will never tell anyone to do anything contrary to Scripture....ever...
CaptainGabrieleStoro: like see i have our baby on the way and for me i dont want to have sex anymore ..but for him its like a fantasy ...and i have spoken to him in real so i know its not me he wants but something happens when he plugs into this game
BroinChrist4Gospel: Yup...the Lust of the Flesh, the Lust of the eyes, and the pride of life.....that is what fantasies often tend to be....they are never of God.  We are only yo think upon Him....if we are led to desire lustful things it likely is of our sinful flesh coupled with antics of Satan's demons...
CaptainGabrieleStoro: yes so thats when i confirmed it wasnt me  it was him.. but he < was causing me to sin/ stumble and at the time i was being delievered from masterbation so this is aweful
CaptainGabrieleStoro: i decided to take a break from here after i spoke with a minister friend, i did 2 weeks and came back and i saw things clearer and i feel better but it wasnt long of being back that he wanted to be with me again and i felt unclean inside ..like a dirtyiesness
CaptainGabrieleStoro: he doesnt lead me to do righteous things... worldly fleshful things
BroinChrist4Gospel: It feels good for the moment, but can have awful consequences...consider the consequences Daved suffered with his sin over Bathsheba or Solomom and his many wives........
CaptainGabrieleStoro: so i have remained away and i hope.... because i want to tell him myself but i dont like hurting people feelings.... but perhaps he will leave me v..v i know this is aweful but i am trying to get freefrom this game and the only tie i have here is him
BroinChrist4Gospel: That is why I changed my name and left for a long while...and whi my only usual activity is on pulse....I stumbled too many times here.....one temptaion would pass and another would arise....like most men sexual attraction is my weakness and has been my downfall too many times...
CaptainGabrieleStoro: yeah its my fault to i cant lie, when the issue came up for marriage i rushed dour wedding and even created this rp against what my coinscious was telling me
CaptainGabrieleStoro: oh if i could go back
CaptainGabrieleStoro: i suppose its my punishment
BroinChrist4Gospel: You can't go back, but you can repent, you can ask Jesus to forgive you and He will...and you can walk away from that temptation....
CaptainGabrieleStoro: if i left this acct today and made a new one i would be free i would feel like a bird again, i know whats wrong -sighs- i know what i need to do buts its hard ... but once i do it there will be no reason to be here
BroinChrist4Gospel: Sex is the #1 IMVU commodity .......just look at all the rooms that are dedicated to sex in one way or another....sometimes subtle, often times very blatant....that is why many of my pulse posts address that....I know how powerful sexual lust is....and how easily it corrupts...
CaptainGabrieleStoro: yeah u are right for sure
CaptainGabrieleStoro: they are the rooms always full this transgendering women as men and vice ... sexual immorality
CaptainGabrieleStoro: everywhere and they just feed it repeatly
BroinChrist4Gospel: It is possible to find modest IMVU attire for men and women...but it takes some patience and persistence to fine.....most developers know sex sells and create things to sell
CaptainGabrieleStoro: yes ! i seached for a long time and found one that is modest rythulian
BroinChrist4Gospel: Me...I stick to my formal kilt....lol
CaptainGabrieleStoro: this is rythulain
BroinChrist4Gospel: That's nice...a very cool look...and very modest at the same time....
CaptainGabrieleStoro: mhm :)
CaptainGabrieleStoro: i gifted everyine in my kingdom outfits
CaptainGabrieleStoro: lol
CaptainGabrieleStoro: to stop that half naked crap
BroinChrist4Gospel: lol....excellent....
CaptainGabrieleStoro: but thank you broin u have with the Rauch saved me and shown me what i need to do ... and given me courage to do it
BroinChrist4Gospel: The fellow you are with will find another fantasy girl to enjoy...there are thousands of them out there willing to supply that need, you should be more worried about your own situation and relationship with Christ.
CaptainGabrieleStoro: yes
CaptainGabrieleStoro: you are right my friend
CaptainGabrieleStoro: thank you for this
BroinChrist4Gospel: Keep yoour faith in Christ and follow what He intended for you...not always easy...but always what you should do.
CaptainGabrieleStoro: amen
BroinChrist4Gospel: You are welcome...and remember you don't have to wait to hear from me, God's advice is always a prayer away....
CaptainGabrieleStoro: yeah i have been praying about it lol but the father is patient with me i asked him to let me talk to u
CaptainGabrieleStoro: and he did
CaptainGabrieleStoro: and now im finally ready
CaptainGabrieleStoro: :D
BroinChrist4Gospel: Good.  God bless you my friend...and have a Happy New Year!
CaptainGabrieleStoro: same to u :)