I'll use an analogy here, which is flawed but also useful: "Leaving your car unlocked is asking for it to be stolen". Yes, you were the victim, and yes, you didn't deliberately "ask" for the car to be stolen, but you do have some responsibility in the matter. Had the car not been unlocked it may not have been stolen. You're still the victim, but protecting yourself is important.

Regarding biological inequalities, they cannot be changed but the legal and social ones can. Right now however we're on the fast track to male oppression. Socially "maleness" is becoming taboo, the same way that "femaleness" was in past decades. Free Speech is becoming more and more suppressed, especially for men. Men don't even want to marry anymore because women are always favored in legal matters and 3/4ths of divorces are initiated by women (a statistic which can be verified through google). Men have very little power in relationships, as women once did, and it's hurting our society.

All this could be helped if not for the RadFems/MRAs politicizing every little thing and playing the genders against each other. My disgust is not with the message, but the undertone and the people who are using it for their own hate-filled agendas.