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- 11:27 Gumiho That comment hurt more than you can imagine just because I had already brushed so many others off
- 11:27 Gumiho And then the kicker came when you
- 11:27 Gumiho you were the one that violated Brian's trust
- 11:27 Gumiho and yet you were pre accusing me of doing so
- 11:27 Gumiho like wtf
- 11:27 SandwichChef I was mostly a sexist joke, though it was at your expense
- 11:27 Gumiho it was a combination of little comments that I had brushed off
- 11:28 SandwichChef But there are a lot of problems here
- 11:28 Gumiho that all of a sudden just made me decide to stop
- 11:28 Gumiho because what if you kept it up
- 11:28 SandwichChef "Decide to stop"
- 11:28 Gumiho Contrary to popular opinion, I do have feelings
- 11:28 SandwichChef That's inhuman, monstrous behaviour
- 11:28 Gumiho and they do get hurt
- 11:28 SandwichChef Feelings prevent one from "deciding to stop"
- 11:28 Gumiho although it takes much longer for that to happen
- 11:28 Gumiho than for a regular person
- 11:29 SandwichChef To me, "deciding to stop" sound like sociopathy or madness. But I have faith that you're not like that, and I'm willing to overlook it.
- 11:29 Gumiho I decided to stop being hurt
- 11:29 Gumiho by someone that had already hurt me a lot
- 11:29 Gumiho and that kept doing it
- 11:29 SandwichChef Considering it was never my intention to hurt you, that's the only correct course of action
- 11:29 Gumiho disregarding whether it hurt or not
- 11:29 SandwichChef You should never have been hurt in the first place
- 11:30 Gumiho that's how it seemed to me
- 11:30 SandwichChef But if you have to turn your back on someone who means you no harm to "avoid being hurt" what is that but selfish or lazy?
- 11:30 SandwichChef We could've talked things out in a peaceful manner
- 11:30 SandwichChef Instead you overreacted and ran
- 11:30 SandwichChef And now, many moons after the fact, I finally understand why you did what you did, and I'm grateful
- 11:31 Gumiho you keep saying you meant me no harm
- 11:31 Gumiho but that's not how I see it
- 11:32 SandwichChef You're wrong, then
- 11:32 SandwichChef I'm not a liar, and you can ask any of my other friends
- 11:32 SandwichChef You could even ask Decanter
- 11:32 SandwichChef Surely you can believe him
- 11:32 Gumiho I mean come on Josh, every time we hung out
- 11:32 Gumiho instead of actually hanging out
- 11:32 Gumiho you were riddled with jealousy
- 11:32 SandwichChef I'm over that, though
- 11:32 Gumiho over Decanter speaking to me more
- 11:32 Gumiho and I felt bad
- 11:32 SandwichChef I'm not even concerned with him like that anymore
- 11:32 Gumiho and hurt
- 11:32 SandwichChef I moved on
- 11:32 Gumiho and I just wanted to hang out
- 11:33 SandwichChef It's not that I didn't like you, I just loved him way too much
- 11:33 Gumiho But that's not how it looked
- 11:33 SandwichChef And now that part of my life is over.
- 11:33 Gumiho don't you get it
- 11:33 SandwichChef That's the truth, and you have my word
- 11:33 Gumiho it looked like the more you loved Decanter
- 11:33 Gumiho the more you hated me
- 11:33 Gumiho and how was I supposed to feel?
- 11:33 SandwichChef I didn't ever really hate you
- 11:33 SandwichChef I swear to you
- 11:34 Gumiho and it all was just too much with those last two comments
- 11:34 SandwichChef I really didn't have anything personal against you, you were just an innocent bystander.
- 11:34 SandwichChef Also stop speaking in the past tense
- 11:34 SandwichChef We're in the present now
- 11:34 Gumiho I was like he hates me and wants me gone
- 11:34 Gumiho then I just granted your wish
- 11:34 SandwichChef I never hated you or wanted you gone, you were foolish enough to convince yourself of that
- 11:34 SandwichChef If I wanted you gone, I would've told you myself in earnest
- 11:36 Gumiho well your words led me to believe otherwise
- 11:36 Gumiho and that last sexist comment
- 11:36 SandwichChef Your interpretation of my words led you to believe otherwise
- 11:36 SandwichChef Not my words
- 11:36 Gumiho was just the last
- 11:36 SandwichChef There's a siginificant difference
- 11:37 Gumiho If you're willing to be a friend
- 11:37 Gumiho then be one
- 11:37 Gumiho and I will reciprocate
- 11:38 Gumiho it's a simple as that
- 11:38 SandwichChef Very well, you have my word that I'll do my part as a friend.
- 11:39 SandwichChef Again, I apologize for accidentally hurting you, until today I had no idea how badly you'd been hurt because you never really explained it to me as such. Communication is the key, honestly.
- 11:39 SandwichChef And I forgive you for turning your back on me, I understand that from your perspective it was the reasonable thing to do, and I'm not bitter about it at all
- 11:39 SandwichChef I'm not bitter about that, and I'm not bitter about Decanter. I'm also not bitter about jdstroy
- 11:40 SandwichChef I'm bitter that people exclude me from EVERYTHING, because they think I am bitter
- 11:40 SandwichChef I've grown immensely as a person these past few months
- 11:40 SandwichChef I only pray that my friends (including you) can see the fruits of my labour
- 11:40 Gumiho I have your word? No more doubts, and jealousy?
- 11:40 SandwichChef A tiny bit of doubts are normal for everyone, lol. But definitely no more jealousy
- 11:41 SandwichChef Even if I do doubt you though, just a tiny bit, you'll have the benefit of the doubt
- 11:41 SandwichChef This is my promise
- 11:41 SandwichChef Besides, I have a gf now. I don't have be a third wheel anymore. Double-dates are a possible thing
- 11:42 SandwichChef Or even triple-dates
- 11:44 Gumiho What if in the future (not that I wish it) you don't have a gf anymore? You sure you won't revert?
- 11:44 SandwichChef Yes
- 11:45 SandwichChef I stopped being jealous and bitter long before that
- 11:45 SandwichChef It was immediately after I had a heart to heart with Decanter telling him that I was disenchanted with him, and explaining what I meant by history repeating itself
- 11:45 SandwichChef Also, seeing Dennis in person for the last time kind of really closed that chapter of my life
- 11:45 SandwichChef Reading his letters from prison further exacerbated that
- 11:46 SandwichChef That part of my life is over, and now that I'm done with childish things, I need to bury them away
- 11:47 SandwichChef All I really wanted was a close friend that I could have like an intimate friendship with. Not really a boyfriend, I don't think. What I was in love with was a replacement for Dennis.
- 11:47 SandwichChef I was so single-mindedly fixated on that, that it had a deleterious effect on me
- 11:47 SandwichChef Once I became cognizant of that, I did what I had to do to move on
- 11:48 SandwichChef Besides, I have a lot of close friends who can give me that every once in a while. Brian, Decanter, my mate Foster, Anas, etc.
- 11:48 Gumiho I think the problem lies in that you seek that one perfect friendship maybe
- 11:48 SandwichChef Well, I gave up on that
- 11:48 Gumiho when all of them offer you something good and different
- 11:48 SandwichChef Like I said, once I recognized the pattern, I moved on from it
- 11:48 SandwichChef I just had to become aware. That awareness was my salvation
- 11:48 Gumiho Decanter can't be it by himself, or Brian or JD
- 11:49 SandwichChef I know
- 11:49 SandwichChef Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, as do I
- 11:49 Gumiho Did you realize that Dennis wasn't it either?
- 11:49 SandwichChef Yeah
- 11:50 SandwichChef He's gonna be my brother until the day we die, but our friendship had a lot of flaws and us living together as we did was a mistake
- 11:50 SandwichChef We both harmed each other irreperably
- 11:50 SandwichChef But I forgive him, and he forgives me
- 11:50 SandwichChef That's what true friendship is, tbh
- 11:50 SandwichChef Anyways--
- 11:51 SandwichChef You may not realize it. But you've done a great thing for me today. I'm really grateful that you reached out to me, and I'm really grateful that we were able to bury the hatchet.
- 11:51 SandwichChef Thank you for that. From the bottom of my heart
- 11:51 SandwichChef You may not think I cared for you, but your absence really hurt me a lot
- 11:51 SandwichChef I was always worried, and always remorseful
- 11:54 SandwichChef Sometimes I express my worry and remorse in a questionable manner though, lol. That's why communication is important.
- 12:01 Gumiho Heh no kidding.
- 12:02 Gumiho I can't say I will immediately be back to normal, I was hurt and will probably be guarded for some time. Just show me you're my friend and I will reciprocate your sentiments.
- 12:02 Gumiho I'm easy to please.
- 12:02 SandwichChef So long as we just talk and hang out as normal, you'll immediately see an improvement, I think
- 12:03 SandwichChef For starters, you should friend me on Facebook, and tell jdstroy to like he said he would
- 12:03 SandwichChef Drove 600 miles, gave him a ride to the airport, and a nigga can't even get a friend request
- 12:03 SandwichChef smh
- 12:03 Gumiho ???
- 12:03 SandwichChef I was in Tomball/Houston
- 12:04 Gumiho I completely missed the last part
- 12:04 Gumiho okay?
- 12:04 Gumiho tell jd to like what?
- 12:04 SandwichChef Oh, what don't you get?
- 12:04 SandwichChef To give me a friend request on Facebook
- 12:04 Gumiho ahhh
- 12:04 Gumiho okay sorry
- 12:04 SandwichChef His rule is that he only friends friends he's met in person
- 12:04 SandwichChef And now we've met in person
- 12:04 Gumiho I forgot my glasses at home and I'm struggling with my sunglasses
- 12:05 SandwichChef Ah, lol. To be honest though, that sentence was pretty ambiguous
- 12:05 SandwichChef Looked like it was missing a verb
- 12:05 Gumiho which are also prescription but the field of vision is dark af
- 12:06 Gumiho Well JD does the fuck he wants to do
- 12:06 Gumiho but I'll put in a word
- 12:06 SandwichChef Honestly, I haven't bothered him about it myself yet
- 12:06 SandwichChef So I could just do that
- 12:07 SandwichChef It just came to mind because now you both owe my friend requests, so it was apropos
- 12:07 Gumiho on another note
- 12:07 Gumiho why you wanna rename your channel?
- 12:07 SandwichChef That was a joke at your expense actually.
- 12:07 SandwichChef Because you're a fox, but not #foxears
- 12:07 SandwichChef That's why JD said "#outfoxed" I think
- 12:08 SandwichChef Because the fox went out and never came back
- 12:08 Gumiho ha
- 12:08 Gumiho that's actually funny
- 12:08 SandwichChef Things involving me often are
- 12:09 Gumiho erm sure
- 12:09 SandwichChef Like I said earlier, it's a matter of perspective
- 12:09 Gumiho lol
- 12:09 SandwichChef As humans, we often see/hear what we want to, rather than what we ought to.
- 12:09 Gumiho okay dude
- 12:09 SandwichChef Our feelings, biases, and experiences colour or perception
- 12:09 SandwichChef *our perception
- 12:10 Gumiho stop driving the point home
- 12:10 SandwichChef That sounds a little guilty to me
- 12:10 SandwichChef lol
- 12:12 Gumiho Not guilty
- 12:12 Gumiho but we just talked about it
- 12:12 Gumiho and we put it behind
- 12:13 Gumiho okay I'm off to lunch and to get my regular glasses because these are giving me a headache
- 12:13 Gumiho brb laters
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